In some ways that makes a lot of sense. Less pounding or wear and tear on the VJ. She said she was all natural so the condom was her only defense against your swimmers. If your swimmers land on her face, it's the equivalent of a failed amphibious assault. They all died on the beach. It's a major turn on for guys and they end doing all the "hard" work of extraction. Everybody wins.
My reviews have the info.....how often, if ever, has any client ever really told a provider, even one he knows quite well, what he would really like to do, knowing full well that it would very likely cross her boundaries by a mile.
As a serial fantasizer, I often lie awake at nights with a boner thinking about the things I'd love to do, but rarely do I ever breath a word of it lest the gal freak out.
The one time I recall many years ago I asked a gal whom I knew very well, and whom I knew was a semen-phobic to let me come on her face. After some time she agreed to allow it but insisted on a staggering fee, which I agreed to. That was the only time we ever did it but I can still remember the experience clear as a bell over 20 years later. Suffice it to say, she is still pretty semen-averse.
Anyone else have experience with this, from both sides of the fence?
I'd be interested to hear how any providers deal with requests that are "one (or more) step(s) beyond."
who wanted to suck another man's cock. I arranged for a male escort to join us during our session and we were off to the races. It was his fantasy and who am I to deny that.
Suffice it to say, I think my client went beyond his own boundary because I never heard from him again (or he just likes sucking cock better than pussy lol) or he was repulsed enough and was embarrassed to see me again. I'll never know.
I don't usually get much opportunity to dish about such things, so I will grab onto this slightly-relevant topic in order to share!
So a gentleman and I had been going at it trying to finish up round two, and he decided to "handle" it himself while watching me do the same: I'm laying on the bed face-up, while he is standing at the end of the bed (by my feet) doing his thing....
He's a-strokin' and I'm rubbing and writhing and moaning... he tells me he's about to come so I lean up on my elbows to watch.... SPLAT!!! A glob hit me directly in my eye. Couldn't have been more perfect if that had been the goal.
I was stunned but recovered quickly enough and started stumbling, one-eyed (I guess you could say I was COCK-EYED lol) towards my purse and then the bathroom... as soon as he realized what had happened,(it was an outcall) he got some saline and contact lens solution out for me so I could remove & clean my lens, and rinse out my eye.
He apologized, I laughed it off and went on my merry way.
But then a day or two later my eye turned bright pink... then red.. and really, really gross. It became very painful, very quickly.
I had to go to the ER finally and they took care of me (turned out I should have tossed that contact lens) but before I left one of the nurses informed me that they knew what must have caused the infection!
Which explained why the dr and everyone else had been smirking while he wrote my prescriptions and advised me to "keep foreign fluids out of the eyes"!!! I wonder how he knew the guy was foreign?! Bah-BUM-bum!!
LMAO!
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at least he didn't kick you in the shin and make it an angry pirate
Nothing like a hot woman dressed as a nurse with matching heels. I also like crazy shit like a brunette in a black vampire costume with the fangs and cape. I noticed most providers start to balk at stuff like this. So, I am left to dressing up Rosie Palm with my imagination. What can I say, I like trick or treat all year long, not just at Halloween.
I have also done things like having a provider mush up a banana with their barefeet, and then have me lick the mess off their feet and from between their toes. By the way, she said the banana felt just awesome on her feet. I have a serious foot fetish and enjoy a variety of ways to spice that up. Problem with a lot of fetish type stuff, most providers will not combine it with PSE. The few that will, usually have a very expensive fee to go with it. So, again its Rosie Palm and my imagination to the rescue.
Seems out of the ordinary interests carry an out of the ordinary price and a special provider to pull it off. Makes those few times that I have had a chance to play like this very memorable.
..what really turns me on. I don't think it is odd or nasty but not everyone does it and I admit to at first being hesitant to ask. One escort I asked was very lackluster and when I offered some guidance she freaked out and said "How about you give me $100 and we end it right now". When setting up an appt I give the escort my TER handle and ask her to read my most recent reviews in order to see what I freak over. I have had good luck recently but part of the luck is man made, ie, doing my research.
I go BBFSCIP with my ATF You can't fufill a fantasy any better than that.
That being said, semen on the face or in my mouth is pretty clearly listed as a hard limit of mine. I don't like it at all.
On the other hand, I dont mind being bruised or marked during impact play as long as its below the neck.
I'm open to lots of fantasies, and my boundaries are mutable depending on the scene and client.
This work sometimes happens to be a space for me to indulge in fantasies that I wouldn't be able to indulge in with my civvie partners due to their limits. Clients who enjoy more extreme things find me, which makes me really happy. A lot of times i do wish i could push clients to explore more taboo things, but being respectful of limits is really important on both sides. It just makes me appreciate those clients with limits that match my fantasies all the more.
In some ways that makes a lot of sense. Less pounding or wear and tear on the VJ. She said she was all natural so the condom was her only defense against your swimmers. If your swimmers land on her face, it's the equivalent of a failed amphibious assault. They all died on the beach. It's a major turn on for guys and they end doing all the "hard" work of extraction. Everybody wins.
My reviews have the info.....
If the request is more surface, like the spooge on the face, I would charge like a wounded bull for the act as I hate it and find it degrading to me, however the pain/discomfort factor is very low (eyes shut of course).
However if the request was more intrusive to my body say Greek, choking, slapping etc, a VERY firm no
There are some BCD fantasies I have no problem providing - surface fantasies, as you put it. For instance, edging, role play, doubles, and countless other things. Some light BDSM (I'm not really hard-core, tho), too. It can be fun.
Some guys take the fantasy thing way too far, though, and lose sight of the fact that this is a paid service from someone who is an actual human being. YES, we're here to humor a guy...to an extent.
I'm hesitant to be someone's emotional fantasy, as well. For instance: on the surface, there's absolutely nothing wrong with hand-holding in public. If it makes the client feel a certain way, then cool...in principle. However, I've found that when the client NEEDS to imbue the session with a certain emotional tenor, there are usually problems further along down the road. So I increasingly find myself getting kind of weirded out when called upon to be be someone's 'fantasy'.
I'd much rather be someone's 'provider'....not a fantasy date, or fantasy woman. To do something with a client he's always wanted to do, or really likes...that's cool, so long as it's something I'm comfortable with.
Hi I'm London By the way.....
You have a very Excellent Point, US as Providers,Escorts,Play mates, Strippers and etc. Are here to Provide you guys with Your Fantasy not just Any fantasy. Something you don't get at home or Elsewhere. I personally tailor each Experience to that individual. Unfortunately some providers fall short many times. I do what I Can for my clients, the longer I see a client the more flexible I become to Request with no extra charge. Over time me and my clients develope some type of relationship. Which makes a more intimate encounter then the last.
My ATF for the last 5 months has me really pushing my boundaries,things i never even thought i would do,its really been fun and i do not think she knows what No means...anything i have mentioned has been handled..
I don't think there are many of us that will be offended or judge your requests, so IMO its always worth asking.
I have one client that calls me before every appointment to discuss his fantasy for the day. So far I haven't said no to anything. I obviously have my limits, but the more often we see each other the more inclined I am to accommodate you, with no extra charges.
Some 15 years ago, I had a favorite whom I met at an MP, then we started seeing each other regularly at hotels for a little over a year. It was kink-light: She wore a large silver crucifix that she liked to bang me in the face with while she did cowgirl on top of me. Being Jewish, this really was a turn-on. (Each your heart out Inicky.)
So, one day I'm on top and my regular finish was to take off the cover and come on her gorgeous pencil eraser nipples, natural Bs, but I decided what the hell, and asked to come on her face.
Well sir, I might as well have asked to piss on her mom's grave. She pushed me off of her, tossed on her clothes, and marched out the door without a word. That was the last I ever saw or heard of her.
Since then, I've been understandably gun shy.
I have one gal who was always telling me that this is a crazy business. One gal's vanilla can be another's cyanide.
Case in point: Tomorrow, I'll be seeing about the sweetest waif of a provider you can imagine, but she is strictly FBSM/tantra, clothed, no mutual touching, and certainly no FS. Her boundaries are such that she won't even let me pay her to have a meal with me, much less spend the night*. But she has one rule I must obey: I MUST come on her face to finish. So twist my arm gal.
Go figure.
But things like long lost lovers or doing my employees bride to be before her wedding day, simple stuff like that, are things that are difficult to pull a provider into even though no boundaries are crossed. One reason why I'm taking some time to abstain from seeing providers.
When providers ask what I want them to wear, I laugh..
I usually say "birthday suit" or "emperors' new clothes"
What I really want is to have the room open and the provider on the bed naked or meet me at the door naked.
I thought I had one provider willing. She said she would leave the door open, but she was on the bed wrapped in a towel.
Oh, well...
So long as the client's request is within my limits (not necessarily my preferences, just my professional limits) I am happy to oblige.
I've had things well beyond my limits be requested of me before (by regulars) and it does make me a bit nervous around them, at least for an uneventful date or two. But I've also tried new things with some clients I trusted, so it really depends on the specific request and the dynamic I have with the guy.
But my main market is NYC, where, no matter how outrageous the fantasy...there is someone willing to do it. So generally, I'd prefer that, if something is WAY beyond my ken...that he'd seek out someone else for that particular thing, rather than even bring it up with me.
But, it totally depends upon the client, the relationship/trust we have built, and the specific act requested. To my NYC sensibilities, COF is pretty tame.
I was once sent a video of an excerpt of an HOURS-long session where a girl was tied down, repeatedly sprayed w/cum, violently fucked, slapped, and whipped...THAT guy went on my DNS list. But some girls would be OK with it. I told him he needed to find a sub
I think a big theme underneath what we are discussing is the shame that men often feel in revealing their deepest, darkest most shadowy sexual fantasies for the fear of having women point critical and shaming fingers at them. We live in a society where it is very difficult for men to find a safe space to open up and be brutally honest about their innermost sexual demons and most women are not equipped to hold man's true desires in a way that provides these men with a safe outlet to unleash their sexual fantasies. One of the many reasons I enjoy my craft as a Courtesan is because most of the time I adore men and really love being a place for them to share whatever is really going on in their sexual psychology. Even if some parts of their fantasy go unexplored with me, at least they can open up and this is part of the healing equation where men in our world are aching to be heard, understood and fully seen by the feminine.
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Although I've never had a double, I do have a fantasy that I consider to be very hot and I most likely won't ever get to experience, but here goes.
First of all I've had a vasectomy for 17 yrs now.
My fantasy consists of a threesome and bbfs and it ends with me cumming inside one of the ladies and the other sucking it out of her pussy. Alternate ending would be just as I'm about to cum the other lady which is licking the pussy and my cock as we fuck pulls my cock out of the pussy just as I'm about to cum and finishes me in her mouth.
in NYC who'd be happy to humor fantasy #1. Of course, 'swim at your own risk' lol.
For ending #2, that's similarly obtainable, and can also be accomplished with condoms...
I'm in Atlanta, not NY
#2 - easy and fairly common in a doubles session.
#1 - not impossible to find, but not recommended (obviously).
Completely aware of that, that's why I said it probably wouldn't ever happen. I'm very clean and DDD free and prefer to stay that way.
A while back, I developed an unreasonably trusting professional relationship with a provider. From the beginning, due to intense chemistry and perfectly aligned sexual appetites, nothing was off limits between us. Nothing. All my deepest fantasies were explored, quite enthusiastically on both ends. That's just how we got down. But our very last session was a gift. I asked her to design a 2-hour date doing whatever *she* wanted, and that I'd consent to any sexual act she requested involving the two of us. She had a week to plot her own paid fantasy fuck fest with me. No rules except one: She was Boss.
She dominated me completely. Blindfolded me, whipped me, pushed my head over the edge of the bed and smothered my face with her vag, tied my hands back and rode me raw with abandon, and then jumped up from CG to my chest and squired across my throat and face. She slapped, spanked and basically manhandled me, all the while forbidding me orgasm. I was her little bitch. And I liked it. That was just the first 40 minutes.
It was the only time I've been in a technically "violent" session; only time I was 100% submissive to a woman (without an agenda); and one of only 2-3 times I witnessed a provider, unveiled completely as a woman (not a role player), and, well, unleashed. It was beautiful.
So, uh, yeah. It happens
I like to finish in the gals mouth, as long as she is willing to give a BBBJ I will usually ask whether it be a civie encounter or P4P. The best is when a gal just does it with out having to be asked. I can't say I've ever seen a woman take severe offense to the request.
...but first my fantasy (however impossible it seems now) is to have sex with a willing woman in utter weightlessness, like the astronauts in space—if ever it has truly been done by those that have been sent up there? But then again, I’d be just as happy to experience weightlessness in space alone. Other than that, the COF wouldn't much work out anyway and to wonder, after the release, what new shape and expression the semen would take in a weightless environment—all that goo-like-sticky just floating around. Eeeeeeuuuoooooh!
... but unless one is very naive it's nothing more than marketing and there's very, very little chance that it was said in sincerity.
It has the same meaning when a provider says she's "the best" or "best experience" etc...
Put it another way when they refer to "our" fantasies they want to mean the fantasy of being with a young and pretty woman and that's it.
Yes it IS that plain vanilla. I'm pretty sure 90% of the men's fantasies out there just won't fly.
Yes, I have some specific fantasies, and when I want one fulfilled, I know exactly who to call. But over the years, I've found it to be way more fun to just let things play out with each individual lady. It doesn't matter if it's a first session, or a thirtieth. I can't tell you how many times I've been surprised, and shocked about the discoveries I've made. I'm always discovering that I like things that I didn't think I'd like. I could give you a hundred different examples, but let me just talk about a recent session. I've described parts of it in another section of TER.
This happened to be a first session, and I didn't know what to expect. When I'm not trying to fulfill a specific fantasy, I always go in with an open mind, and let things flow. We were sharing a glass of wine, when all of a sudden, the wine wasn't going down the hatch, but on many different body parts. I've never had wine licked, and sucked off my cock before. Then she put the wine on the base of my cock, and went all the way down to lick it. Man was that intense. She was also a dirty talker. Pretty soon she had me going to. I can't believe I said the things that I said, but the nastier I got, the more she got turned on. In all the years I've been hobbying, I've never been in a situation that was so wet. Her wetness, my wetness (but not in the eye), and the wine. Plus, all of this wildness just happened spontaneously. We started on the couch, fell on the floor and continued, and finally ended up on the bed. When I went in, I had no idea any of that was going to happen. It just did. But now that fantasy is in my head. And yes, I'm returning to see her very soon.
... turned out it was a giant turn-on for one of my favorite providers. On our first date, she literally begged me to COF and then rub it into her face and chest. That was a first for me and it was ok, but the fact the provider loved it made it a lot of fun, just watching her reaction.
As others have said of themselves, my sexual fantasies are pretty tame. I've had no problem finding a willing provider for anything I've dreamed up to date. But it's fun thinking up new (for me) activities and experiencing them with an enthusiastic partner. I have a couple of fantasies in mind to bring to life during my next date. 
As long as you pay her enough money and it's within her personal limits.
I don't advertise it because many men who want such things get too graphic in our correspondence for my comfort. However, I'm quite happy to discuss these things in person with established friends, and have had some really hot scenes. I'm not into pain or humiliation for either party, though. I do love T&D.
I have had a couple guys write about incest fantasies, which are just not my thing, so I've declined.
A time ago, a gal did tell me that she wouldn't know what I wanted if I didn't ask. That makes a lot of sense and I've never forgotten it.
Recently, I was seeing someone for about five months--at least once or twice a month for several hours each time. I didn't have VIP so I really didn't know all of the details about her, other than we had a good connection and wonderful times together.
Things progressed and finally I asked her about CIM. Since I didn't know how she felt about that or what she would say, I had no idea how she would react. But the result was pretty awesome and it's now been over a year and more ideas have happened and many more are still to come.
Small steps can take you a long long way given enough time.
As a serial fantasizer, I often lie awake at nights with a boner thinking about the things I'd love to do, but rarely do I ever breath a word of it lest the gal freak out.
The one time I recall many years ago I asked a gal whom I knew very well, and whom I knew was a semen-phobic to let me come on her face. After some time she agreed to allow it but insisted on a staggering fee, which I agreed to. That was the only time we ever did it but I can still remember the experience clear as a bell over 20 years later. Suffice it to say, she is still pretty semen-averse.
Anyone else have experience with this, from both sides of the fence?
I'd be interested to hear how any providers deal with requests that are "one (or more) step(s) beyond."
I have no issues with men who want to cross boundaries, only because I love fetishes and crossing boundaries. I love trying new things and honestly plain vanilla sex all the time is boring and I like to mix things up. So I welcome gentlemen who want to push their limits and I like it when guys are honest with me.
If you read my website you will see that my personality is very open and honest and so men can always feel comfortable telling me what their fantasy is. I don't have very many hard limits - The only fetish I will not do however is any type of scat play lol. Other than that I have given men golden showers, I love cum in mouth and on face - but then again I love giving head and all components of it. I have also dominated men - I however am not submissive and cannot play that role for some reason so I am not a switch.
I have tried a lot of different things and I do like to push things in the bedroom if a man wants to do that. I also love men who are submissive or into foot fetish, pussy/ass worship, etc. Most men I do see tend to be plain vanilla, but I wonder how many of them are just too embarrassed to let me know what they are really into?
I do know that when I tell a guy he can cum in my mouth or on my face he usually gets very excited because few women really like that - well the only place I do not like cum is in my eye lol
I have done a lot of role play, handcuffed guys while I edged them and I am into a lot of kink and fun stuff. Sex should be fun and exciting! I welcome men who want to tell me what their fantasy is and make it fun for them! This business is about pleasing the client and making sure they have an amazing time. Many of them are not getting this kink at home and seek out providers who are into things beyond plain vanilla. Obviously seeking out the right provider is key.
I think clients should let their provider know what they want and what their fantasies are - worst case scenario is they say no. But you never know when they will be open to it
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