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Ouch "How have you survived this long in this business? "confused_smile
Blowing Chunks 702 reads
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By hanging on to a rope, maybe?  

:D

I've read some of the negative reviews including my own. I know their are several lies in mine so I know they're must be in the others as well. Gental men understand if you are drunk, high and disrespectful you will not have fun. We are human ,we get tired. We are not robots. Please treat us with kindness and respect. We provide you with a service. Being mean and saying the worst things you can think up are wrong. Tell the whole truth stop lying. Saying things that are hurtful shows what kind of a man you really are and I'm astonded that others dont see that when they read what you write. If your unhappy when your with a lady tell her, if she's like me she will try and correct it. I am very up front and will let you know if your behavior is unexceptable. I will tell you when I dont like something, do the same for me. Tell the truth when you write a review and if you have a critism, write it like an adult and be constuctive. There is never a reason to be mean and childish. My negative reviews sound like a something a 13 yr old boy would write because his parents told him he couldnt have candy.

Your reviews are all pretty lousy.  And over a two year period as well.

Seems that the only common denominator in there is you.

How have you survived this long in this business?

Posted By: fd58935
I've read some of the negative reviews including my own. I know their are several lies in mine so I know they're must be in the others as well. Gental men understand if you are drunk, high and disrespectful you will not have fun. We are human ,we get tired. We are not robots. Please treat us with kindness and respect. We provide you with a service. Being mean and saying the worst things you can think up are wrong. Tell the whole truth stop lying. Saying things that are hurtful shows what kind of a man you really are and I'm astonded that others dont see that when they read what you write. If your unhappy when your with a lady tell her, if she's like me she will try and correct it. I am very up front and will let you know if your behavior is unexceptable. I will tell you when I dont like something, do the same for me. Tell the truth when you write a review and if you have a critism, write it like an adult and be constuctive. There is never a reason to be mean and childish. My negative reviews sound like a something a 13 yr old boy would write because his parents told him he couldnt have candy.

I'd say the positive reviews that aren't accurate outweigh the negative reviews that aren't accurate by about 30 to 1.

If you have been doing this a while, then you already know that reviews are for the benefit of the clients, and any benefit we receive from them are secondary.  

I view reviews as "fishing stories"; I don't acknowledge them, respond to them, and I don't give them much credence, for the reasons that you mentioned  Many of them are quite fibbish, in both positive and negative ways.  The sum of my gentlemen friends greatly outnumbers my reviews.  If someone were to offer an inaccurate review, the rest of the gentlemen who have actually spent time with me would consider him an idiot, and that fellas word would then be horse-dookie.  It is known that many offer reviews for other reasons than helping their community brethren (ie free VIP).  Good guys know better and can read between those lines.

If you have a good client base, who are happy and keep coming back, you can ignore the "liars". You can even ask your happy client base to offer reviews, rather than depending on first-timers.

However, there's a couple of things you also mention which you might want to consider:
*If a gentleman is drunk, high, or disrespectful, send him on his way. Not all money is good money. You are a companion, not a babysitter.
*If YOU are tired and are not on your A-game, don't accept appointments.  We are entertainers and that takes a certain amount of mental and physical energy. Budget your energy wisely. Indeed, you are not a robot, don't push yourself like one.
*Adjust your screening to weed out guys with shitty attitudes.  If you ask the right questions, they will reveal themselves before you ever have to share air or space with them. Those guys are NEVER satisfied, and not worth the cosmetics expended on them.

best of luc

I'm fairly new here, so maybe I'm missing something, but from my perspective there is nothing at all to be gained by giving a less than accurate review, especially if it's not a positive review.  If my experience with the provider is in line with other reviews it's easy to write an honest assessment.  When my experience differs from the norm, before I write anything I try to see if something I did might have been the problem.  I think a long time before I actually write anything, and what I write is pretty carefully worded to not be mean or petty.  I am positive where it's warranted but honest if there was something that wasn't right.   If the overall experience was as expected, than I will likely not mention at all anything that may have been a little less than 'perfect' but that ultimately had no bearing on the visit.

I am a free member, but for you to imply that I'll post a bunch of bullshit just to gain more free time is absurd.  Why would anyone post a bad review after a good time, just to get another 15 days of free membership.  And ultimately, the only people who would know whether or not a review was accurate would be the two people involved.  Your gentlemen friends  have no idea what transpired, and if they assume otherwise, then maybe someone else is full of horse-dookie.

The reviews are far more than fishing stories, at least to me.  If you read them carefully it's pretty easy to find the realistic ones, even if they appear to be outliers, and then base your decisions accordingly.

Posted By: NoelleSmth
If you have been doing this a while, then you already know that reviews are for the benefit of the clients, and any benefit we receive from them are secondary.    
   
 I view reviews as "fishing stories"; I don't acknowledge them, respond to them, and I don't give them much credence, for the reasons that you mentioned  Many of them are quite fibbish, in both positive and negative ways.  The sum of my gentlemen friends greatly outnumbers my reviews.  If someone were to offer an inaccurate review, the rest of the gentlemen who have actually spent time with me would consider him an idiot, and that fellas word would then be horse-dookie.  It is known that many offer reviews for other reasons than helping their community brethren (ie free VIP).  Good guys know better and can read between those lines.  
   
 If you have a good client base, who are happy and keep coming back, you can ignore the "liars". You can even ask your happy client base to offer reviews, rather than depending on first-timers.  
   
 However, there's a couple of things you also mention which you might want to consider:  
 *If a gentleman is drunk, high, or disrespectful, send him on his way. Not all money is good money. You are a companion, not a babysitter.  
 *If YOU are tired and are not on your A-game, don't accept appointments.  We are entertainers and that takes a certain amount of mental and physical energy. Budget your energy wisely. Indeed, you are not a robot, don't push yourself like one.  
 *Adjust your screening to weed out guys with shitty attitudes.  If you ask the right questions, they will reveal themselves before you ever have to share air or space with them. Those guys are NEVER satisfied, and not worth the cosmetics expended on them.  
   
 best of luck  
 
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Sweetie these were men I ask to leave because they were drunk and one was high. They were mad because in their eyes I wasted their time, when in fact they wasted mine

Thanks for the tips I do make the guys leave that are high or drunk. Sometimes you can not tell over the phone. I have no problem making any of them leave by force if I have to, I have a very large clientel list that I see on a regular basis, some I have had for many years. But my point was that the men on this site need to grow up and act like men. I do stop when I'm tired for the most part, But sometimes I get a little greedy love to shoe shop! I was talking about these creeps that think you can blow them for an hour without stopping. I like to give my guys what they pay for but I am not a robot or a blow up doll

but the first 3 reviews are acceptable with no red flags.  But the latest 3 are consistantly poor.  Each has valid complaints.  Insulting these gentlemen for speaking their mind...  and gently at that...  does not do you credit.  You are not going to like what I have to say.

2 complaints of Dogs in the bed.  Well, were the dogs there or not?  
I've had this one and I don't see her anymore.   It's up to you to figure out how to keep the dogs out of the play area.  I won't compete with her dogs for her attention, please wash after your dogs has licked your face...  Please put a clean cover on the bed, I don't want to go home with dog hair all over me.  Get a crate or doggie bed or something...  you can fix this.  Keep your own clean bedspread.  

Complaints of not likeing to be touched a certain way, lack of enthusiams, not adequately clean.  Maybe he was too rough but Gees, get ready, get in the mood, warm yourself up if necessary.  If you are not in the mood, please don't book appointments.  

2 complaints Heavier / old pictures.   Gals always use their better pictures but try to give a fair representation.  Frankly, I find great preformance makes any gal look better

I put my dogs in the livingroom and close my door no they were not in the bedroom. my pics are not old. The oldest one is maybe 6 mo.. My room is kept spotless will will not see dirt anywhere.My bed is kept clean and wahed and so are my dogs come and see for yourself. As for lack of enthusiams have you considered that maybe the guy in question was an ass. That guy was also on meth and was ask to leave. I did not catch that fact right away. untill I caught him using in my bathroom. I am very clean also I take several showers a day. I do not like being touched in a rough manner which I feel I have that right. I feel a woman should be touched the way she likes to make things enjoyable for both

How about attaching a link where GaG claims to be an "expert and comedian".

That'll give you something to do aside from wallowing in your GaG vendetta.  It must really suck to be you.
 

Posted By: mistertiger
he is a self proclaimed expert and comedian.  

Posted By: Dr Who revived
How about attaching a link where GaG claims to be an "expert and comedian".  
   
 That'll give you something to do aside from wallowing in your GaG vendetta.  It must really suck to be you.  
   
   
Posted By: mistertiger
he is a self proclaimed expert and comedian.  

Or we could throw in Johny and biggie and possibly create a Black Hole of such denseness it could suck in all of TER.

I did get rushed once, and didn't review that.
I should have.

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Posted By: fd58935
I've read some of the negative reviews including my own. I know their are several lies in mine so I know they're must be in the others as well. Gental men understand if you are drunk, high and disrespectful you will not have fun. We are human ,we get tired. We are not robots. Please treat us with kindness and respect. We provide you with a service. Being mean and saying the worst things you can think up are wrong. Tell the whole truth stop lying. Saying things that are hurtful shows what kind of a man you really are and I'm astonded that others dont see that when they read what you write. If your unhappy when your with a lady tell her, if she's like me she will try and correct it. I am very up front and will let you know if your behavior is unexceptable. I will tell you when I dont like something, do the same for me. Tell the truth when you write a review and if you have a critism, write it like an adult and be constuctive. There is never a reason to be mean and childish. My negative reviews sound like a something a 13 yr old boy would write because his parents told him he couldnt have candy.

Stickythong461 reads

Perhaps others will learn from your experience and be better prepared for when the body and looks go.

Your body and looks have left the building so in order to get what you feel you deserve in the way of female companionship, you buy it. And if a hooker is 65 and still getting paid, what business is it of yours?

So when's the next meeting of the OTHONTC?

Signed,

Founding member of the MHB club

Stickythong424 reads

I just come here for the drama. My brain is what I use to make a living. I haven't used the body since my football, I was a punter, eligibility ran out in college.  Yes I received a BA and an MBA because of my right leg.I also knew when to give that up and get a real job.

OTHHBH is a tough one. I hope ladies prepare for the day when the party is over.

Did you ever play with Tiddles?   He claims to have been a linebacker who planted tight ends.  But I think what he planted in them was not his helmet.

I guess you're still looking at those pics you took back in 1975 with Hustler.  And even then it was for the "ugly women" edition.

Sheesh...I made some nice suggestions up top, but I assumed you weren't smoking crack when you read them.

I won't make that mistake again  ;)

Posted By: fd58935
My body and looks havent gone have yours?

Stickythong345 reads

together. Then you can reconsider that statement.

Posted By: fd58935
My body and looks havent gone have yours?

Posted By: Stickythong
 
 together. Then you can reconsider that statement.  
Posted By: fd58935
My body and looks havent gone have yours?
I feel the need to point out that one may have nothing to do with the other.  That is, as both "body" and "looks" were mentioned they seem to be separate.. which can be interpreted as: Looks = Facial attractiveness; Body = overall appeal of the body below the neck.  

So.... one can be very attractive above the neck but completely incapable of running at all, let alone a half-marathon.
And in that same vein, not all marathoners (or half-marathoners) are appealing from the neck up.  Being fit and capable of running a half-marathon does not mean that a person has an attractive face.

 
Ok.. butting back out of this train-wreck thread.... lol

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Posted By: fd58935
My body and looks havent gone have yours?
 
WOW!  Apparently your eyesight has left you long ago.

One i had was because I wouldn't return any emotional feelings he was looking for in the booking. Of course others don't then know the  other side of the story and why they are then so bitter and nasty. You hope others can read that something happened comparing them with your other reviews. He didn't  understand the concept of going to see a working girl he was looking for proper passion on an emotional level. Wouldn't even Mind if it was one of my independent gents who i see as an independent and charge more and they get a more refined service he came on the cheap as well through an i call i did some touring with for half an hour quick wham Bam service  and expected that.

I totally get what your saying. I hate the ones that come cheap they seem to want the most service and get pissed when they only get what they pay for.

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