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YMMV it is, absolutely correct.
HarryWotton 11 Reviews 317 reads
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We all know the problems with the review system, it is subjective and putting numbers on a person is kind of ridiculous.    Some ladies put YMMV on their websites and I would say that whether it is expressly referred to or not, all of us guys should understand that YMMV is the way this is going to work.     As much as some guys contend that it is all about money, money, money, the reality is that sure, it is a job, but given the task there is a huge chemistry component.  Sometimes chemistry is there, sometimes it is not.    Sometimes a lady may have bad day and sometimes we may have a bad day.  

The way that I think about it is that if I see a lot of reviews knocking a lady for the same thing, then there is probably an issue, but if there is one or a couple out of many, I ascribe the low scores to YMMV.  Honestly, my biggest worry is with the providers that have nothing but 9s and 10s, I find it hard to believe that they never have an off day or that they got along perfectly well with every single one of the guys who reviewed them for 5, 6, 7 years.    Funny, but a bad review here or there tells me that there is no management of scores going on and it gives me a certain level of confidence - yeah, I know, sounds crazy...

Dimensional8001277 reads

Recently, I have been looking the reviews that sticks out for providers, the LOWEST score ones!  

A lot of reviews I see high scores, including plenty of 10/10 reviews. I have found myself skeptical of amazing experience these high review painted.

Instead of those reviews, I found the ones with rock bottom scores looks give an accurate honest view of visit. Those clients that gave low score seem be actually fair and not cover up any of negatives.

These days I just skip straight to reading lowest review and weight that negative one more heavily than 10/10 I see flying around.

just to make sure he doesn't low ball every provider. If he gives good 8s and 9s, but say 6s just for one gal, i would like to read up the actual review.

More often than not, such low ball reviews end up being my own experience. Surprise!

Posted By: Dimensional800
Recently, I have been looking the reviews that sticks out for providers, the LOWEST score ones!  
   
 A lot of reviews I see high scores, including plenty of 10/10 reviews. I have found myself skeptical of amazing experience these high review painted.  
   
 Instead of those reviews, I found the ones with rock bottom scores looks give an accurate honest view of visit. Those clients that gave low score seem be actually fair and not cover up any of negatives.  
   
 These days I just skip straight to reading lowest review and weight that negative one more heavily than 10/10 I see flying around.

Yes, I do look for and read the reviews with the lowest scores, but also read that reviewers other reviews to see if he tends to give lower appearance and performance scores across the board.  I do the same thing with the 10/10 reviews.  Check out the reviewers other reviews to see if he gives everyone 10/10

Both when they are high or low compared to her overall reviews. The reviewer of these reviews always needs to be checked out. And of course the numbers can be meaningless.  

Posted By: Dimensional800
Recently, I have been looking the reviews that sticks out for providers, the LOWEST score ones!  
   
 A lot of reviews I see high scores, including plenty of 10/10 reviews. I have found myself skeptical of amazing experience these high review painted.  
   
 Instead of those reviews, I found the ones with rock bottom scores looks give an accurate honest view of visit. Those clients that gave low score seem be actually fair and not cover up any of negatives.  
   
 These days I just skip straight to reading lowest review and weight that negative one more heavily than 10/10 I see flying around.
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asking about her via pms.... or pm the reviewers directly.

There are a few 10/10's that have been called out on bad behavior on some of the boards, where the guys didn't review her for various reasons. I know of one gal on the east coast who gets called out on alot of BS and she has almost all 9's and 10's. If you read the numerous guys' posts, you would steer clear of her. Of course, if you read her own posts.... you'd run anyways.

Posted By: Dimensional800
Recently, I have been looking the reviews that sticks out for providers, the LOWEST score ones!  
   
 A lot of reviews I see high scores, including plenty of 10/10 reviews. I have found myself skeptical of amazing experience these high review painted.  
   
 Instead of those reviews, I found the ones with rock bottom scores looks give an accurate honest view of visit. Those clients that gave low score seem be actually fair and not cover up any of negatives.  
   
 These days I just skip straight to reading lowest review and weight that negative one more heavily than 10/10 I see flying around.

But you have to also take into account the other reviews by that person.  If his reviews are consistently lower than everyone else's then maybe you should put LESS weight on that review.  We all know that review numbers are only a small part of the review.  For example an 8/8 review when the lady gives a great BBBJ is not very relevant to me as BJ's arent really my thing.  I like them, of course but maybe that reviewer didnt realize that sex with said provider is only so-so as he only did the BBBJ part.  You need to see what she does and if that sounds like a good fit for you.  Some guys give low reviews because she wasnt his type, he doesnt like heavier girls, or older looking ladies, or smaller breasts etc.  It all comes down to what do YOU like and does she offer it.  Everyone's different and there are no guarantees.  So to answer the question, yes I look at the low reviews, BUT you have to read over them carefully to see WHY they were low, then make a decision.

That's just ridiculous IMO. Don't get me wrong there is no way to justify ANY score on this site, high or low as it's all personal interpretation. But to base anything on your skepticism of high scores is silly. Just because a low score was given doesn't mean a gent was being the most honest. Low scores are given all the time by guys who have 'agendas'. That's why you have to take reviews and scoring for nothing more than what they are. Simply take the average and go from there, sounds like a plan to me.  

Good luck to you, happy scoring.  

T xx

Btw, skepticism breeds skepticism.

Yes I agree, I dont even think taking the average is 'fair' just have to know what works for you and does she do it.  Like I said there are no guarantees.  But a low score to me doesnt hold more or less weight than any other review.  Theres usually some factor thats there which is why the score is low anyway (not all the time but usually)  Room messy, not compatible blah blah blah.  Take it with a grain of salt.

Posted By: _Taylor_
That's just ridiculous IMO. Don't get me wrong there is no way to justify ANY score on this site, high or low as it's all personal interpretation. But to base anything on your skepticism of high scores is silly. Just because a low score was given doesn't mean a gent was being the most honest. Low scores are given all the time by guys who have 'agendas'. That's why you have to take reviews and scoring for nothing more than what they are. Simply take the average and go from there, sounds like a plan to me.  
   
 Good luck to you, happy scoring.  
   
 T xx  
   
 Btw, skepticism breeds skepticism.

just go by scores alone.

Scores, including averages, give me an idea of where to look.  The details in the reviews lead me to who to contact.

And I'm very glad you said it, as you put it far more eloquently than I would have done.  :-)

I can only speak to my own "low scores": most of them are from people whose "type" is something different from what I am, or from a client who had somehow conceived that I am/was something different than I claim/present myself to be.  
 Some are just from stingy-scorers.  Or a combination of the above.

One review from many years ago basically, but in not so many words, called me a butterface.  Should readers take that as the truth?  Or can beauty really be in the eye of the beholder?

When it comes to opinions/scores on looks, it's all personal preference and not much weight should be given to that... in my personal opinion, of course. ;-)  LOL!

 
Performance scores?  How can performance NOT be YMMV?  We providers are generally not in the style of a short-order cook, serving up the same fare to each and every person.   There are so many variables that I won't even get into it, and the experienced hobbyists SHOULD be aware of that and keep it firmly in mind when reading ANY review, positive or negative.

 
So much for not speaking up, huh??  LOL!

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with 93 reviews in your corner, I certainly wouldn't sweat it if I were you. Obviously you're doing something right ;)

Anyhow , it's always my pleasure pointing out publicly what many are thinking silently ;)

Good luck and smile it's spring (even though it's snowing...again LOL)

T xx

Btw, NOONE is 'perfect' here. NOONE, no matter how many 10/10's are dished out....remember that. Perfection doesn't exist except for what people conjure up in their imagination.

We all know the problems with the review system, it is subjective and putting numbers on a person is kind of ridiculous.    Some ladies put YMMV on their websites and I would say that whether it is expressly referred to or not, all of us guys should understand that YMMV is the way this is going to work.     As much as some guys contend that it is all about money, money, money, the reality is that sure, it is a job, but given the task there is a huge chemistry component.  Sometimes chemistry is there, sometimes it is not.    Sometimes a lady may have bad day and sometimes we may have a bad day.  

The way that I think about it is that if I see a lot of reviews knocking a lady for the same thing, then there is probably an issue, but if there is one or a couple out of many, I ascribe the low scores to YMMV.  Honestly, my biggest worry is with the providers that have nothing but 9s and 10s, I find it hard to believe that they never have an off day or that they got along perfectly well with every single one of the guys who reviewed them for 5, 6, 7 years.    Funny, but a bad review here or there tells me that there is no management of scores going on and it gives me a certain level of confidence - yeah, I know, sounds crazy...

to figure out why it was given.  In many cases, lower scores are also accompanied by a glowing description and the reviewer is simply taking the TER scoring system seriously.  In which case I'm not going to hold that against the girl.
And, as others have said, you also need to look at the reviewer's other scores as well as those of her other reviewers.  Not to mention back-channeling.  It's called doing your homework.

My last review I was given a 6 but he described a 9-10 experience. I don't know if he put down all that is offered and that affected the score... It's ok, I only want to see people who can read vs just looking at the scores anyway. I am still scratching my head at that one.

Posted By: inicky46
to figure out why it was given.  In many cases, lower scores are also accompanied by a glowing description and the reviewer is simply taking the TER scoring system seriously.  In which case I'm not going to hold that against the girl.  
 And, as others have said, you also need to look at the reviewer's other scores as well as those of her other reviewers.  Not to mention back-channeling.  It's called doing your homework.

people are going to think you have a hard on for me or something. I'd recommend not doing so if I were you. That could clearly ruin your godly reputation  ;)

Yours truly,  

Taylor Steele xoxoxoxox

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do the opposite of what Minnie suggests and you'll be fine.  It's called counter-intuitive.

Hmm, still sittin at 61 huh...what's wrong buddy, feeling the review blues? I sure hope you're not being counter-productive...gosh not on this men's review site. Good gracious, that would be preposterous.

Anyway, don't you think your 'Minnie' fascination is a bit old and over-used by now? Clearly you're capable of coming up with something a lil more creative Nick. I'm sure of it. Please don't disappoint me now. I don't like to be disappointed.

 

Posted By: inicky46
do the opposite of what Minnie suggests and you'll be fine.  It's called counter-intuitive.


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And I will keep flogging the Minnie thing for as long as you keep swinging for the fences and missing.  That is about predictable as the first day of spring.
Oh, and please "stay the fuck away from me."  And GaGa, too.

I do. I tend to read all of the reviews, not just the scores. For instance there is a girl I was thinking of seeing tomorrow. ..but reading her reviews I find out that while her performance is great, her pics are fake and she has a bit of an odor problem (mentioned in 3 out of her 4 reviews). I might "meet and greet" w her and do a lineup but im reserving a session until I see some "not stinky" revuews.

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