Dont become like others we've seen where they start stalking ladies and such.  Maybe she's getting out, maybe she's cutting back.  Maybe she thinks you're a nasty meat Popsicle.  No offense, just sayin.  There are plenty of other great ladies out there who'll be willing to take her place Im sure.  Dont take it personally just chalk it up to great memories.  GL to you.

She was becoming too attached to you and the lines were becoming blurred? She had to end it for her sake?

Or maybe you were sending out the signs of too much attachment an snot realizing it.  She could have thought you were becoming more attached than she was prepared to give?

But truthfully, I would write her asking her in a polite way, so your mind is at ease

Don't perpetuate it.  She owes you no explanation.  It happens, so just move on.  She could have any of the issues other posters above guessed at, or none of them.  In any case, if you contact her again she may make something up to soothe you or she may simply not respond.
Let it go.

And you are either not being totally honest with us or yourself.

Come on. There must have been SOMETHING that went down. Did you suffocate her with tons of communication? Have an argument? An awkward moment that never existed before?  

If you REALLY have no idea, I cant see why a simple, short email asking her why would be an issue.  

Just make it apparent to her you know your professional relationship with her is over so she doesn't think you are trying to "win her back" so to speak. Tell her you would like to know so you don't have the same transgression with the next girl and thank her for her help.

But do NOT expect an answer back and NEVER hit her up again if she doesn't reply.

Thanks for the feedback.  Just to let you all know, I did send her I note thanking her for the great times we had.  She has given me nothing but great reviews and references as well.  So I suppose the times are changing...appreciate the words to live by.

Listen, I'm a girl.  I admit to avoiding/delaying conflict and hurt feelings rather than just telling the truth.  

It's not mature and it winds up being confusing but sometimes it tough to explain to a client that sees us on a regular basis that it's not working out anymore.  So we just say, "You are great!  Thanks for seeing me!"  Then at some point it's like I can't do this anymore.  so that's why she wants to part in good graces now even though she said can't wait to see you again.

Sometimes the first 1-2 dates are perfectly fine but after you keep seeing someone repeatedly, their little quirk or whatever starts getting to you, then you keep seeing them but start the dread it more and more, and then you just can't see that person again.

So please don't press her for the reason.  She won't tell you the truth anyway so just tell her "I don't understand but I respect your decision and feel free to reach out anytime if you want to keep in touch.

told her all men take advantage.
More likely she is feeling constrained, controlled or restricted by you.
It's always abut the Benjamins remember that first and foremost and
try not to mix this unreal or fantasy world with real life.

we like change too here

Sometimes things lose their luster after time, no matter how grandiose they may seem. But I wouldn't read into it too much. Pick up your bruised ego and move onto someone who'll make you feel like a champ again. Seems like a pretty simple solution to me.  

Good luck to you and smile. It's the first day of Spring today  

T xx

You were probably too clingy.

Back in my past life, I had a regular cancel an overnight on me at the last minute (I was actually already at the restaurant at which we were supposed to meet). It was a real issue for me because I had made space for him instead of a two-day engagement with someone new because he was a regular. He had a good reason, and said he'd be back in town again to arrange the same engagement soon. He offered to send me some compensation as a cancellation fee, which I agreed to accept, but then he never followed up. Several months later he emailed to ask me to join him for dinner with another provider (an acquaintance of mine) he'd flown into my city with whom he was having an overnight. Seriously? I don't think so. So I said I was unavailable, but thanked him for the thought. And then I never wrote to him again. He tried several times after that to communicate with me, but I was just offended enough to not wish to engage with him again. And in all his communication, he not once brought up that incident. And then I retired. And he tried one last time to correspond even after I left, but I still never responded. I was done. When you're done, you're done.

I have done it too...

well when its getting too close i feel like i dont want to see him again. its getting weird with time i like to keep it professional

Thanks for all your thoughts on this. And in complete reflection, as a number of you pointed out- I stepped over that client boundary and was looking for more than I should have from her as an escort.  Lesson learned.  This was entirely my own fault, and she offered a truly classy out.

One-No matter how many times you've seen your atf, things will always end.  

Two-In this life your dealing with so many falsehoods, even if a lady gave you the courtesy of a reason, would it be true?  

Three-There are a million reasons why a lady, or gentleman for that matter, chooses not to see someone again. Sometimes the other person finds out why (if believable), but most times no. But that's specifically why we're all here. So we can come and go as we please without any explanations.  

Four-If two people stop seeing each other here, there are usually other ladies and gentlemen to step up and take their place. It's funny how that works out.

Seriously. Unless we all had copies of the case file complete with witness statements, video surveillance footage and wiretap transcripts what on Earth could anyone here possibly offer by way of insight. Should we tell you what to say on your next job interview as well?  

I feel that lots of girls, and some boys as well, who grow up in families learn a value of pleading people and develop skills to do that. Maybe some who get good at pleasing people become pros just like some people who are good at carrying a tune become singers. If that's sort of close to how it is, P4P ladies might have a different way of looking at dissolving their business relationships. If they no longer feel like pleasing you, they stop and easily move on without much of a thought.

I would guess that most males tend to think about dissolving relationships more than women do. We might remain friends with someone for a long time after we're bored with them simply because we can't think of a good enough reason to stop being their friend. Women who are steeped in people-pleasing might see no point in that. If that's the case, they'll have no second thoughts at all about walking away from someone who they are tired of pleasing.

She's acting true to the nature of her ilk, IMO, and you are having trouble understanding it in concrete terms because you are being true to the nature of your ilk. This is just one of those hazards that come with growing up in our current civilization.

Of course, I also feel that growing up in a family teaches a kid many very valuable things.

It must mean she had a jealous boyfriend.hear about you one two many times.or she started to develop unwanted feelings

She was being polite to you but she is prob just being professional you are prob getting a bit too heavy for her and she would rather you not waste your money looking for intense long term she cant give you.  Be happy she isn't horrid and rips you off giving you false hope.