My advice would be to not to seek her out and find someone else. If it really is her, she's doing this for untold reasons and the last thing she expects is to encounter someone she personally knows.
Okay. This is a question for the ladiies. One of our babysitters appears to be in the business now. She is European, been in the US for 6 years. She last babysat for us about eight months ago. She is not our usual nanny and was never our full-time nanny. Mid 20s and very sexy. Gorgeous legs and ass. And yes I certainly noticed when she would come over to watch our kids when we would go out for a date. Of course I thought about it. Now my dilemma, she has not watched our kids for eight months and we have not had any contact with her since then. I have not hobbied for probably six months or so. But I was thinking about finding someone recently. I looked up an agency that I formerly used. And there's a picture of a new girl, gorgeous, who is 90% I'm sure our former babysitter. Seriously a striking resemblance.
I am not in your community. I am posting this from another large citiy in the US so as not to alarm anyone. Question, ladies how would she feel if I showed up as a client. As I said she works for an agency that would be doing the verification, which they already know me so it would be very light and she probably would not know I was coming for a date.
Is this super. Creepy, Or super erotic. I know how I think about it super erotic. However this is clearly not something I would want to come back to my home. I don't think we will be using her as a babysitter in the future. Or I would not even consider this. We have nannies and other people now in simply haven't called her since last year.
As I said she is a new provider. Should I give her a month or so into this to see if she continues. Then would it be okay. Would she be more comfortable about her situation at that point. Or am I a sicko and should stay clear away from the situation. Or is this clearly about fantasy and Could I try it out. Oh and if it matters I'm 40. I'm asking the ladies for your feedback on this. Guys I think I know what your answer would be right. You are rooting for me like it's an ncaa final four game
I am not in your community. I am posting this from another large citiy in the US so as not to alarm anyone. Question, ladies how would she feel if I showed up as a client. As I said she works for an agency that would be doing the verification, which they already know me so it would be very light and she probably would not know I was coming for a date.
Is this super. Creepy, Or super erotic. I know how I think about it super erotic. However this is clearly not something I would want to come back to my home. I don't think we will be using her as a babysitter in the future. Or I would not even consider this. We have nannies and other people now in simply haven't called her since last year.
As I said she is a new provider. Should I give her a month or so into this to see if she continues. Then would it be okay. Would she be more comfortable about her situation at that point. Or am I a sicko and should stay clear away from the situation. Or is this clearly about fantasy and Could I try it out. Oh and if it matters I'm 40. I'm asking the ladies for your feedback on this. Guys I think I know what your answer would be right. You are rooting for me like it's an ncaa final four game!
I suggest that you stay away like the plague. Why screw up a good family life -- there are plenty of others. The fact that you ask the question says you have some doubts; think with your big head.
My advice would be to not to seek her out and find someone else. If it really is her, she's doing this for untold reasons and the last thing she expects is to encounter someone she personally knows.
She knows quite a bit about your personal life
You run a huge risk seeking her out should she not appreciate such
Likely she knows your wife as well as your children, where you live and many more intimate details about your life. That's a lot of potential ammunition should she feel motivated to mess with your life.
Not to say she would but I personally would be more discrete that to book someone who used to be employed by me.
She probably wanted you all along so nows your chance. She has just as much to loose so dont worry about it
She's in BUSINESS, you are a client. So there might be a little awkwardness, big deal!
And she could have been hot for you as well, and may be very happy to see you.
Your appearance at her incall crib would put you and her in a position to not just out each other on the sunny side, but would leave both of you open to a sort of blackmail. Why does this idea excite you? There are no doubt women running ads that you find more attractive. Hope she doesn't chat with her girlfriends about their clients and hears one of then drop your name. Probably that would give her a good laugh. But...when you think about it, she probably senses that you're the type to fuck around already. Pros are pretty good at picking up on things like that.