In the imortal words of Rodney King: "Can't we all just get along?"
I remember reading all those posts back in Dec. & I agree with most of them. But TMAN is also providing information. Yes I do read his posts as well as TER & others, just to get as much information as possable. Maybe TMAN made a mistake asking for discounted or free sessions or maybe he's trying to get free sessions. Either way all a provider has to say is NO.
I've been comming to this discussion group for a few months now & I can't belive how people cut down other people. I've met some wonderful ladies (Rub, Erika...) & I've met a few that we just didn't get along, but I'm not gonna jump in here and cut them down. We're all here to have a great time and hopefully make a few new friends.
Sorry about the long post.
Thanks,
Vampy
Hi to all my provider & hobbyist friends. Hope to hear from you all soon.
Have you stopped the review for a free or discounted session yet?
In the imortal words of Rodney King: "Can't we all just get along?"
I remember reading all those posts back in Dec. & I agree with most of them. But TMAN is also providing information. Yes I do read his posts as well as TER & others, just to get as much information as possable. Maybe TMAN made a mistake asking for discounted or free sessions or maybe he's trying to get free sessions. Either way all a provider has to say is NO.
I've been comming to this discussion group for a few months now & I can't belive how people cut down other people. I've met some wonderful ladies (Rub, Erika...) & I've met a few that we just didn't get along, but I'm not gonna jump in here and cut them down. We're all here to have a great time and hopefully make a few new friends.
Sorry about the long post.
Thanks,
Vampy
The problem is he has bartered reviews for discounts or freebies. Both he and the girls have admitted it on this board. That makes ALL of his reviews suspect--how can it not?
Certainly TMAN may provide helpful information in his newsletter, but when he starts to post reviews, alarm bells go off in my head immediately.
Plus, have you noticed the quantity of his reviews lately? They're all of the girls on the TMAN newsletter--looks like a publicity stunt for his newsletter to me.
Yes, we should try to be civil and get along, but there are issues of integrity and honesty that should not be forgotten.
If TMAN would quit posting reviews, he just might gain more of the community's respect.
to trust a review for more than that on a public forum is just asking for disappointment. YMMV and all that aside public reviews are just that public, and no one likes burning bridges (myself included so i never post a poor public review)
It is a bleak truth but then i never look for anything other than the bare minimum.
its the first session that quickly decides for me if there will be another....not a review
The issue of TMAN soliciting for free/discounted services in trade for reviews was a problem for many from the start and he was told that many times. The main concern for most was the credibility of a review that was done in exchange for free or discounted services. That was something that was up to each person to decide for themselves so it was no big deal in the long run.
The big problem that TMAN created and perpetuated for himself with most was that he couldn't seem to get that 'no' means 'NO'. You say that 'all a provider has to say is NO' but that wasn't the case. He would make contact with the providers asking them for free sessions for reviews and, even when they would politely say no, he wouldn't drop it. He was told and told again from a variety of people to stop. He pushed the issue and now he has nobody to blame but himself for the fact that a lot of people think very little of him and to some he's an irritant. (I'm being polite.)
It's simple, if you want to get respect you have to give respect and he just couldn't do that.
Thank you IkneadU, I was not aware of the underhanding that went on. Then I agree with all you ladies. All I was trying to say was, there is too much negative things said about people on here. In my expirences, the way to make someone who is acting stupid or is an irritant is to ignore them & hopefully they will go away. And if not, that's what the room moderators are here for.
I think I better shut my mouth now before I'm on the "bad list". LOL
Vampy
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to get on the "bad list" with this group. You're just too darned nice! LOL
Since we all know what Tony does why sweat it? He wants free sessions. I am sure no other guys out there want free sessions. Not me for sure.
So if we all know than just look at his reviews as a commercial. The funny part is I pay for sessions and still post reviews. Something wrong here not sure what.
The big problem with Tony "T man" was not only did he keep hounding girls for free sessions in exchange for reviews, but when some of his post members called him on it he immediately dropped them from his post. His only comment was it's his business and no one else's.
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You need to make it up to badpuppy for your poor treatment of him. Not a good way to handle a dispute. Lets see you step up to the plate and make it right.
While we are at it Tony you need to send out some I am sorrys to a lot of girls with some flowers.
Lets see TMan turn into a respected and trusted member of our community.
All I wanted to do was say hello. If someone want to bring up past behavior that is their decision not mine. I was just saying hello. Is there a crime just doing that? I was not asking for anything nor was I harrasing anyone for anything. I was only saying hello