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I've taken a couple of providers out for dinner and drinks but only after
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I fucked them.  

But even a lame old fart such as I can get a civvy date if all I want to do is talk. There's gotta be someone at your gym, your work, your temple, your book club or your local farmer's market that you can ask out without  committing to laying out a grand or more.  I would save P4P for when I want to get my rocks off.  

Still,  it's your money and you should spend it as you see fit.  All the opinions in the  world don't matter as much as what you think and want  and need.
Posted By: prepkid
I know this is divided. Those who woI uld NEVER take an escort to dinner vs. those who frequently do so.  
   
 I am in a situation where my desire to just spend the night having long conversations over dinner and drinks outweighs my mere horny desires. Sure "playtime" is fun and exciting, but I am experimenting here a little bit, just to see how things go.  
   
 Ok I admit.. Loneliness > Horny-ness. (But don't we all...) What I am looking for is true "companionship" instead of just hard sex. Had a few good runs lately, so I am not as horny as a pug trying to doggie style an iRobot vacuum. Even if it's a pretentious night, I would enjoy hours of flirtations and eye-fucking, so to say... Why not give it a try? - I think to myself. At the end of the night, I always have my trusted friend, my right hand. LOL.  
   
 What I am worried the most is if chemistry (clicking) does not work out instantly. It would just continue to be a long disappointing night. I am not sure. Those who oppose to the whole dinner/drinks say at the end of the day, when you go home, you will be disappointed (total utility/per hour spent with the provider).  
   
 Logistics - If you are not planning on sex in the first place, where do you meet? At the restaurant? Would you say providers would be open-minded to talk about special rate in this scenario? Say I would like to spent 5 hrs on dinner/drinks, should I still pay $1,200 (waaaat).  
   
 Would love to hear if any of you guys had good or bad experiences. Perhaps some advice you could share? Thanks in advance!

I know this is divided. Those who would NEVER take an escort to dinner vs. those who frequently do so.

I am in a situation where my desire to just spend the night having long conversations over dinner and drinks outweighs my mere horny desires. Sure "playtime" is fun and exciting, but I am experimenting here a little bit, just to see how things go.  

Ok I admit.. Loneliness > Horny-ness. (But don't we all...) What I am looking for is true "companionship" instead of just hard sex. Had a few good runs lately, so I am not as horny as a pug trying to doggie style an iRobot vacuum. Even if it's a pretentious night, I would enjoy hours of flirtations and eye-fucking, so to say... Why not give it a try? - I think to myself. At the end of the night, I always have my trusted friend, my right hand. LOL.

What I am worried the most is if chemistry (clicking) does not work out instantly. It would just continue to be a long disappointing night. I am not sure. Those who oppose to the whole dinner/drinks say at the end of the day, when you go home, you will be disappointed (total utility/per hour spent with the provider).

Logistics - If you are not planning on sex in the first place, where do you meet? At the restaurant? Would you say providers would be open-minded to talk about special rate in this scenario? Say I would like to spent 5 hrs on dinner/drinks, should I still pay $1,200 (waaaat).

Would love to hear if any of you guys had good or bad experiences. Perhaps some advice you could share? Thanks in advance!

Whether or not you have sex.  Most gals will probably not give you a big discount.  Especially since now you want them to act like they care about you and be interesting.  (Have you seen what good actresses make these days?)

You will probably have no small number of takers for the proposal, but if the gal is a courtesan who is accustomed to this sort of thing (and good at it) I doubt you will find it any cheaper than making the two backed beast.

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If we were TER wouldn't exist as it wouldn't matter how well she fucked and sucked.

Now SOME people are only seeking companionship, and wherever there is a market, there is someone waiting to fill it.

MANY women will be willing to do this type of thing, and there is no reason to pay hooker rates for non hooker services. First off, there are many actual hookers that will do these kind of dates at a reduced rate, but secondly there are tons of women who will do these kind of dates who would never dream of doing actual P4P.

She fucks and sucks as well as her reviews suggest.  Whether you have sex with her or not is up to you really.  As far as there being women who will do a "date" the way the OP described for less money, judging from the responses I will admit that I am wrong, but you still are "renting" time by the hour/date for time (see that word) and her companionship (meaning whatever the fuck you contract her to do with or for you).  Now if that "companionship" is a platonic dinner date it is no less a "companionship" than a wild GFE/PSE fuck and suck session.  Companionship can mean many things to many people.

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NO, I am every bit as confident that when I pay a hooker I am going to get laid as I am that when I go to a restaurant I am going to get fed. Please save that bullshit about "this is NOT an offer of prostitution, time and companionship ONLY" for someone who hasn't been doing this for decades. It's bullshit created by someone who watched a couple of episodes of Law and Order and decided he/she was now a lawyer.

There are MANY women who would be thrilled to get paid even a hundred bucks an hour to be wined and dined, not necessarily hookers used to five times that amount for their "time", but plenty of other women would be thrilled. AND as you can see, there are plenty of hookers more than happy to discount their rates for "non sex" dates.

Yes, "companionship" means many things to many people, but it also carries very different price tags.

We are all fully aware of what this biz is, and what we are paying for - so we don't need to pretend here on TER and potentially confuse newbies!  I mean, we don't have abbreviations like, WOAAI (went out and ate Italian), or TALDATC (took a lovely drive along the coast) now do we lol!  Also, if this magically became legal tomorrow, that phony little disclaimer would instantly be gone too!

Id be happy to chat via PM ;)

Dinner dates are fun for sure. Nothing like stimulating conversation over a great meal, before and after. xx

 

Posted By: prepkid
I know this is divided. Those who would NEVER take an escort to dinner vs. those who frequently do so.  
   
 I am in a situation where my desire to just spend the night having long conversations over dinner and drinks outweighs my mere horny desires. Sure "playtime" is fun and exciting, but I am experimenting here a little bit, just to see how things go.  
   
 Ok I admit.. Loneliness > Horny-ness. (But don't we all...) What I am looking for is true "companionship" instead of just hard sex. Had a few good runs lately, so I am not as horny as a pug trying to doggie style an iRobot vacuum. Even if it's a pretentious night, I would enjoy hours of flirtations and eye-fucking, so to say... Why not give it a try? - I think to myself. At the end of the night, I always have my trusted friend, my right hand. LOL.  
   
 What I am worried the most is if chemistry (clicking) does not work out instantly. It would just continue to be a long disappointing night. I am not sure. Those who oppose to the whole dinner/drinks say at the end of the day, when you go home, you will be disappointed (total utility/per hour spent with the provider).  
   
 Logistics - If you are not planning on sex in the first place, where do you meet? At the restaurant? Would you say providers would be open-minded to talk about special rate in this scenario? Say I would like to spent 5 hrs on dinner/drinks, should I still pay $1,200 (waaaat).  
   
 Would love to hear if any of you guys had good or bad experiences. Perhaps some advice you could share? Thanks in advance!

I guess you want to be given the wrong information about this. HA!!!

Ummm for some of us, and not a lot, we do have social date rates... A lot of the time, social dates may not work for most because there is always or just about always the request for more. I have social rates and they are way lower than my other rates and take into account time out and doing something "social".

Your search may result better if you are into a mature provider and one that is not soley money driven.
May not be your ideal of the pick of the litter, but you are looking for just a companionship connection, not to say someone smoking hot or attractive can't deliver that at a reasonable rate, but again if it is true "companionship" you seek, a lot of ladies can get more money doing other things. Another way I would suggest is contact a lady that interests you, pay her minimal meeting rate, then discuss your companionship needs and see if she is comfortable customizing a package just for you. This may be similar to a SB/SD relationship, so expectations would need to be discussed.  

Wish you the best of luck with your quest and taking the guys advice. Geez! LOL!!!

...have ultimately been a satisying experience that met their needs.  Ladies can't answer that question, which is why we come to TER In the first place!

And pay full price to watch someone eat and not be genuinely interested in you. Hey no sweat off my back. I was offering the OP possible solutions and ways around someone raping his wallet because he just wanted to spend "time" but if my input is not appreciated due to the fact I have a vagina so be it. You guys like playing with each other too much anyways.  

Back to my regularly scheduled position as a fuck toy with no opinion... Lmao!

I am just taking all the opinions here. Great to hear from guys and gals alike!

Posted By: SexyJaye7
And pay full price to watch someone eat and not be genuinely interested in you. Hey no sweat off my back. I was offering the OP possible solutions and ways around someone raping his wallet because he just wanted to spend "time" but if my input is not appreciated due to the fact I have a vagina so be it. You guys like playing with each other too much anyways.  
   
 Back to my regularly scheduled position as a fuck toy with no opinion... Lmao!

...that guys could have valuable input on this!  That is what I was responding to Jaye.  My reply had nothing to do with the business side of things.  I'm glad you offer good deals, and normally enjoy your posts.  But again, other guys (or yes, client ladies too!) are best able to answer the question about satisfaction.

I personally have never requested that type of "service" from a provider, but a few have asked to meet me for dinner or drinks prior to a date to see if we were compatible. Those encounters were very enjoyable on their own merits, but since I was in for the full experience, it was like a foreplay before the main event. But to each her/his own

If the former, then any number of gals would be more than happy to take you money for dinner, drinks, and staring into your eyes.  You might get some consideration on the rate, especially if this becomes a regular thing, but don't count on it.  Don't even think of developing a SO relationship from this, however.

If the latter, then go out and do things in places where you can meet gals.  Dance classes, book clubs, church functions (Yes, they do work!), and if all else fails, the neighborhood bar.

It's slow and fraught with problems, but you can't argue with price, at first, anyways.

This is borderline. Why not try a dating site...Plenty of Fish or Match or something. To pay someone a grand for dinner and conversation, unless it's pocket lint (and it doesn't sound like it if you're even mentioning it), that seems like the wrong investment.

I guarantee you'll be disappointed, in some way, in the end. If you have a great time (because she faked it the entire time and you bought it), then what? You got another grand for date two? And why are you going for date two anyway? Because you had great conversation?? Where's that headed? If it's ultimately just to bone her....seems like you could have just fit that into date one. That's the whole point of this.  

Ultimately you need to decide if fucking someone you 'like' is worth an investment for the price of two dates...because that's what this strategy will cost you. And if you're literally just looking to take someone out for dinner to stimulate your mind and/or get your 'game' back, I'd seriously consider a dating site. It's the same thing, without the sticker shock. (Pics, profiles, background..)

Have you yourself 'tried' any of those ridiculous so-called dating sites you are putting him onto? Hmmm I wonder.  

I did. It  took less than six months of bullshit for me to join this world. Simple as that.  

'Those' gentlemen you speak of are only looking to 'bone' a woman from word one no different than you. They just don't want to pay for it. Clearly NOT PK. And please, don't even mention dinner. That's non-existent. 99.9% of guys there think pussy is owed to them with whatever 'twisted' reason they've conjured up in their wonderfully 'twisted' minds. Who are you kidding. Could you imagine if they actually buckled up like a real man and treated a woman to a god damn steak without expecting anything in return...whoa, I'd personally fall off my chair with steak on fork lol.  

PK is in the right place to explore what he's looking for minus the bullshit of that world that is present on both sides of the equation... for both men and women. My ass is here for that very reason. End of story.  
 

xx kisses

Don't get me started Mr. T lol. You will lose this debate by a landslide I'm afraid and I'm fired up today lol. I certainly didn't expect him to get the warm and fuzzy reaction from the guys who post here on the GD board, that's for sure, and I sure hope PK didn't as well. I'll look forward to speaking to him in 'real' time off the boards with those who actually play in the world he seeks, not from those who clearly don't ;)  

Btw, did you know 1+1=3

Bring it...............Ima waitin'.....

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The BS on the dating sites is a big reason I'm over here now as well.  The mind games and mixed messages are greatly reduced in this world.  

If the man wants to explore paid companionship without physical expectations, I say go for it!  (And look me up if you're in the DC/NoVa area.  I enjoy good conversation.)

Warmly,

*Maureen*

That's the reason. We also hobby to step up out of our league. In this case, wayyy out of league, for me personally. Anyhow, I will hit you up next time I am in NoVa. I used to live in fairfax county while back.

Posted By: RedHetaera
The BS on the dating sites is a big reason I'm over here now as well.  The mind games and mixed messages are greatly reduced in this world.    
   
 If the man wants to explore paid companionship without physical expectations, I say go for it!  (And look me up if you're in the DC/NoVa area.  I enjoy good conversation.)  
   
 Warmly,  
   
 *Maureen*

Thank you =) Though let it be noted that I am a sapiosexual; if you can talk intelligently about assorted things, you'll have my unfeigned attention.

Warmly,

*Maureen

From the one on the receiving end of the cash transaction...

I read these in reverse order, so I'm responding to this out of order..

And this is my response to you Taylor, to this specific post.  

Everything you say here is from a woman's perspective. The OP isn't a woman. And he isn't asking "where can I scam a better deal for free , easy sex? "

Should I assume the guy is sincere when he says he just wants the company of a female for dinner? I thought I could. If not, then the whole premise of his post is silly. "Hey, should I set up a date with an escort for 5 hours just for dinner and conversation..but really intending to have sex because I'm a guy pig like all guys"? If that's what I should have read between the lines....I guess on some level, you're right. He's not going to get what he wants unless he pays for it....so why go through the bs of a dating site if he justs wants sex. "True dat" as the hoodrats say.

 
Why you're 'here' and not using dating sites, or I think that's what you're saying...is unusual to me. You mean you were looking for male companionship and decided to just become an escort instead? So your point is that dating sites are bad because guys just want to fuck you, so why not just skip the bs, get paid in the process and who needs the relationship part anyway? Is that the gist? Hey, that's a winning formula..I can't, and won't, argue that logic. I'm just not sure it fits why a guy shouldn't try it versus paying an escort. Your reasons are specific to the woman's perspective.

Anyway..good talk good talk.

 

 

Posted By: _Taylor_
Have you yourself 'tried' any of those ridiculous so-called dating sites you are putting him onto? Hmmm I wonder.  
   
 I did. It  took less than six months of bullshit for me to join this world. Simple as that.  
   
 'Those' gentlemen you speak of are only looking to 'bone' a woman from word one no different than you. They just don't want to pay for it. Clearly NOT PK. And please, don't even mention dinner. That's non-existent. 99.9% of guys there think pussy is owed to them with whatever 'twisted' reason they've conjured up in their wonderfully 'twisted' minds. Who are you kidding. Could you imagine if they actually buckled up like a real man and treated a woman to a god damn steak without expecting anything in return...whoa, I'd personally fall off my chair with steak on fork lol.  
   
 PK is in the right place to explore what he's looking for minus the bullshit of that world that is present on both sides of the equation... for both men and women. My ass is here for that very reason. End of story.    
   
   
 xx kisses  
   
 Don't get me started Mr. T lol. You will lose this debate by a landslide I'm afraid and I'm fired up today lol. I certainly didn't expect him to get the warm and fuzzy reaction from the guys who post here on the GD board, that's for sure, and I sure hope PK didn't as well. I'll look forward to speaking to him in 'real' time off the boards with those who actually play in the world he seeks, not from those who clearly don't ;)  
   
 Btw, did you know 1+1=3  
   
 Bring it...............Ima waitin'.....

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You know I adore you. However, you can't even 'comprehend' the notion of taking a woman out to dinner in this world. So....I'm afraid this conversation is indeed over.  

xx T

I adore you too. Literally.

But, what do you mean, in 'this world'? Escort world? Or..the real world? The only thing I personally can't comprehend is paying someone to go out for dinner. And just dinner. Help me out here...I want to know what you're thinking

'That' camp. So you'll fit in just fine here lol But 'we' won't be meeting anytime soon I'm afraid. Good luck to you Mr T. I have a feeling you're gonna need it lol. There's only ever one world when discussing 'this world'........

And no, you can't handle what I'm thinking...:)

Good night, sleep tight, don't let the board boys bite lol

T xx

Posted By: MrTwister
I adore you too. Literally.  
   
 But, what do you mean, in 'this world'? Escort world? Or..the real world? The only thing I personally can't comprehend is paying someone to go out for dinner. And just dinner. Help me out here...I want to know what you're thinking.  
   
 
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I'm just SO crushed by this news Taylor! What WILL I do now?!?! My life officially has no purpose...woe IS me

Have you considered trying the SB route?  I notice some providers here offer non-exclusive SB arrangements.  You could also try a SB hookup site, but you're talking big bucks there.

Good luck.  I'm sure you'll find what you want.

Makes you happy. In the past with certain ladies many different arrangements can be made. LTR can offer many varied options. Generally you won't find it written in a review or on her website, it really depends on her needs and the chemistry and connection.Lunch or dinner dates are always very stimulating and build anticipation and passion.
  Many mature and UTR ladies who are established are more inclined, however I did enjoy many clock free adventures with a twenty something who was far more mature than her years.
  Keep in mind in the long run, they knew they were being taken care of in kind...

Posted By: prepkid
I know this is divided. Those who would NEVER take an escort to dinner vs. those who frequently do so.  
   
 I am in a situation where my desire to just spend the night having long conversations over dinner and drinks outweighs my mere horny desires. Sure "playtime" is fun and exciting, but I am experimenting here a little bit, just to see how things go.  
   
 Ok I admit.. Loneliness > Horny-ness. (But don't we all...) What I am looking for is true "companionship" instead of just hard sex. Had a few good runs lately, so I am not as horny as a pug trying to doggie style an iRobot vacuum. Even if it's a pretentious night, I would enjoy hours of flirtations and eye-fucking, so to say... Why not give it a try? - I think to myself. At the end of the night, I always have my trusted friend, my right hand. LOL.  
   
 What I am worried the most is if chemistry (clicking) does not work out instantly. It would just continue to be a long disappointing night. I am not sure. Those who oppose to the whole dinner/drinks say at the end of the day, when you go home, you will be disappointed (total utility/per hour spent with the provider).  
   
 Logistics - If you are not planning on sex in the first place, where do you meet? At the restaurant? Would you say providers would be open-minded to talk about special rate in this scenario? Say I would like to spent 5 hrs on dinner/drinks, should I still pay $1,200 (waaaat).  
   
 Would love to hear if any of you guys had good or bad experiences. Perhaps some advice you could share? Thanks in advance!
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I read a post like this with incredulity. Seriously, every one is different...blah blah blah....but paying someone for a warmup? Good lord people. I just don't get it. Sorry. Here's a stack of 100's so I can TALK to you ? That is weird to me. And the comment that there are certain women willing to do this makes me laugh. Ya think!??!  

Very blurry approach to P4P. One I don't understand in the least

(which is clearly evident) then don't comment. Seems simple enough to me. There are plenty of players who play with eyes wide open here and understand it all too well.  

My recommendation? Maybe it's time for that eye exam....  

Just sayin' Mr. T.  

xx kisses  

Posted By: MrTwister
I read a post like this with incredulity. Seriously, every one is different...blah blah blah....but paying someone for a warmup? Good lord people. I just don't get it. Sorry. Here's a stack of 100's so I can TALK to you ? That is weird to me. And the comment that there are certain women willing to do this makes me laugh. Ya think!??!  
   
 Very blurry approach to P4P. One I don't understand in the least.  
   
   
 

Obviously I don't understand it when I admit as much. I don't think that disqualifies me from having an opinion on it. I don't understand what it's like to be a black person, since I'm white, but that doesn't mean I don't, or can't, have an opinion on racism (to make a comparison).

And my opinion is simply that there are less expensive, and easier ways, of meeting strange women to simply talk and have dinner/lunch. And you get to see a picture of them and email and learn about them through a computer, just like an escort...without paying the exhorbitant price difference. Maybe the OP, or anyone else for that matter, hasn't consider how similar they are, without the dissimilar cost.

But thanks for the advice taylor!!  

Eye exam forthcoming.....

Posted By: _Taylor_
(which is clearly evident) then don't comment. Seems simple enough to me. There are plenty of players who play with eyes wide open here and understand it all too well.  
   
 My recommendation? Maybe it's time for that eye exam....  
   
 Just sayin' Mr. T.  
   
 xx kisses  
   
Posted By: MrTwister
I read a post like this with incredulity. Seriously, every one is different...blah blah blah....but paying someone for a warmup? Good lord people. I just don't get it. Sorry. Here's a stack of 100's so I can TALK to you ? That is weird to me. And the comment that there are certain women willing to do this makes me laugh. Ya think!??!    
     
  Very blurry approach to P4P. One I don't understand in the least.  
     
     
 

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He wants some guarantee that an attractive girl will sit there, drink with him, gaze into his eyes, and flirt with him for 5 hours straight. And he doesn't necessarily want or need to see her again.  

I'm just guessing here, but he probably doesn't want the stress/hassle of going through the whole rigamarole of pre-date vetting and correspondence to meet with someone who might not be into him, or who decides she wants to go to bed before 11PM.

You mean avoiding the pre-date rigamarole that you have to go through when finding an escort? The vetting, the verification, the review process, the correspondence....and the date ending at EXACTLY the agreed upon time that you go through with an escort? Yeah, I see how different they are. Not.

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And civvies can always run off, saying "Sorry, I don't think this is going to work," or "OMG!! I just forgot I left dinner on the stove." Or, they can roll their eyes and look at their nails the whole time.  

There are no guarantees he'll be happy either way he goes (civvie or p4P), but at least he knows what he wants, and he's taking the steps that most suit *him* to procure it.  

If I wanted the same thing, and was willing to pay for it (I'm not...the last thing I want is more dates), I'd hire a male escort rather than take my chances on match.com. Much less muss and fuss.  

I'd rather scrub the kitchen floor I mentioned, than (for the purpose of one single date) go back and forth over getting-to-know-you emails w/20 guys and maybe meet one, who might bore me to death and be engrossed in planning our future wedding by the time apps arrive (that has happened)

OMG..all he wants is a few hours companionship! You are turning this into way more than the premise of the post. He didn't say he wanted to find a gf.

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who looks for a 'few hours companionship' on a dating site? Most seem to be trying to find a partner, or a hookup...usually, something other than a five-hour dinner date, lol.  

That's more appropriate for this venue (completely NSA, the two parties go their separate ways after all is said and done), which was exactly my point.

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Yes, this world is privy to many differentiating opinions from anyone who roams this earth. But differentiating opinions do bring about many colorful debates. Don't they? Or what's the point.  

But let's get something straight lol. I don't ever give advice. I offer a different point of view. Everyone here is grown up enough (I hope anyway) to take from it what they do, or don't. Nothing more. Either way, makes no difference to me lol.  

 
xx kisses

Do keep me posted on your score, Mr. T lol I am curious  

I would recommend to please, by all means, go ahead and join one of those sites then. (ya know, since you back that in your corner openly). Do keep me appraised (and everyone else here) on how "meeting strange women" goes in that other world minus the exorbitant prices the ladies of this world charge. And please come back and review it for us. I am even more curious about that score lol. Looking forward to it. Don't keep me waiting too long

I'm not honestly not sure what you're getting at...like what are you comparing a dating site to in the context of taking a woman out to dinner just to talk and be with an attractive woman? An escort is better? Because...why? Let's first agree not to debate one is less expensive, considerably, than the other. Fair?

So let's assume I'm a normal looking guy with decent social skills. And let's also assume I'm single and looking for simple female companionship...not sex, just a nice dinner out and conversation. The very pretext of the OP, as I first read it, not taking into consideration he might not have the looks, or the confidence, to meet women in more traditional ways, ie not paying to have someone as a companion. So, if those are the basic assumptions about looks and confidence...then I have a choice of how I will find a dinner companion. I could either seek one out through a dating service, ie Match or whatever...and look at pictures of women, read their profiles, and sort of see if there's anyone I like. No different than finding an escort....not so far anyway. Then I contact her, probably through email or the internal messaging system...also not unlike an escort. Then after some exchanges, we make a date. Right? So far they're pretty similar.  

Once we meet, the game is still the same. Except for the money.  I have no clue, in either case, what she is going to be like in real person. There may be chemistry, there may not. She might be conversational, she might not. That's true whether she is an escort or we arranged it through a dating site? Fair so far?  

Assuming she's conversational and we get along...there's some degree of chemistry...I'm getting what I want: companionship with a woman I met online, based on an online marketing of who she was..looks and attitude. Again, to this point, no different. But at the end two checks show up. One for her, one for the restaurant. I can walk away and never talk to her again, same as escort.  

What are you suggesting happens through a dating site process that is so different than the escort process? Other than the money? The escort's guaranteeing you'll have a good time? Ummm....you can't guarantee that. The only thing you can guarantee is there won't be a rejection in the same way as there would be through a dating site. But there could be rejection, in some form or another there anyway. Not every escort you contact reaches back out to you...or is nice a flirty about it.

The premise isn't what's a better way to find a girlfriend? The way I read it was: I'm lonely and I want to have dinner with a woman....should I pay an escort? I say why waste your money if you don't have to. There's a reasonably close approximation of the process of finding women, who you don't know, online, with pictures and profiles, to the escort world....in dating sites. Now, as I said..if you know, realistically, that you can't match up with the type of woman out there that you'd LIKE to spend a dinner date with, either for reasons of looks or confidence, or otherwise....then the escort route is a perfectly reasonable way to go. No argument there

There are sites that are dedicated to renting a friend  LOL

Frankly the circular argument by some of the gals here is preposterous.  To claim that an escort is going to be friendly because she is paid has some merit.  However, when a person is seeking that "hot" looking gal...many here blur or hide their faces.  And to trust the corrupt review system to suggest that someone here will be "arm candy" is moronic.

At least through the "rent a friend" type of sites someone seeking that can expect to exchange a real pic...so that they know what each other looks like.

If anyone wants to pay anyone for dinner...they've got much bigger problems than just deciding "which way to go".  

I guess the OP's point is that he has NO social skills..NO friends...NO life.  Yeah...maybe he should stick to paying someone to pretend to be his friend  LOL

Posted By: MrTwister
I'm not honestly not sure what you're getting at...like what are you comparing a dating site to in the context of taking a woman out to dinner just to talk and be with an attractive woman? An escort is better? Because...why? Let's first agree not to debate one is less expensive, considerably, than the other. Fair?  
   
 So let's assume I'm a normal looking guy with decent social skills. And let's also assume I'm single and looking for simple female companionship...not sex, just a nice dinner out and conversation. The very pretext of the OP, as I first read it, not taking into consideration he might not have the looks, or the confidence, to meet women in more traditional ways, ie not paying to have someone as a companion. So, if those are the basic assumptions about looks and confidence...then I have a choice of how I will find a dinner companion. I could either seek one out through a dating service, ie Match or whatever...and look at pictures of women, read their profiles, and sort of see if there's anyone I like. No different than finding an escort....not so far anyway. Then I contact her, probably through email or the internal messaging system...also not unlike an escort. Then after some exchanges, we make a date. Right? So far they're pretty similar.  
   
 Once we meet, the game is still the same. Except for the money.  I have no clue, in either case, what she is going to be like in real person. There may be chemistry, there may not. She might be conversational, she might not. That's true whether she is an escort or we arranged it through a dating site? Fair so far?  
   
 Assuming she's conversational and we get along...there's some degree of chemistry...I'm getting what I want: companionship with a woman I met online, based on an online marketing of who she was..looks and attitude. Again, to this point, no different. But at the end two checks show up. One for her, one for the restaurant. I can walk away and never talk to her again, same as escort.  
   
 What are you suggesting happens through a dating site process that is so different than the escort process? Other than the money? The escort's guaranteeing you'll have a good time? Ummm....you can't guarantee that. The only thing you can guarantee is there won't be a rejection in the same way as there would be through a dating site. But there could be rejection, in some form or another there anyway. Not every escort you contact reaches back out to you...or is nice a flirty about it.  
   
 The premise isn't what's a better way to find a girlfriend? The way I read it was: I'm lonely and I want to have dinner with a woman....should I pay an escort? I say why waste your money if you don't have to. There's a reasonably close approximation of the process of finding women, who you don't know, online, with pictures and profiles, to the escort world....in dating sites. Now, as I said..if you know, realistically, that you can't match up with the type of woman out there that you'd LIKE to spend a dinner date with, either for reasons of looks or confidence, or otherwise....then the escort route is a perfectly reasonable way to go. No argument there.  
   
   
   
 

that's a skimmer I'm afraid. I'm incapable of reading all of that. Don't take this so seriously handsome. But I see it's gotten under your skin a teeny tiny bit. I would hate to do that ;)

Kiss me cutie, that's easier, no?

I'm a lover, not a fighter ;)

xx T

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VOO-doo719 reads

we should just drop everything we're doing (schoolwork, real work), find a babysitter for kids, cancel all plans, make excuses to friends/boyfriend/family/coworkers? Then we should drive to wherever he wants to meet (might be 1 hour + travel time) and spend an entire evening flirting with him and making him feel like a king for 5 hours (geez...what time am I even getting home?)...for free?  

I think I might have a kitchen floor to scrub that night.

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If you're not a hooker? yeah...the idea is he finds you on a dating site....you email, maybe talk on the phone...and arrange a date. And all he pays for is the cost of the dinner for you....like regular folk. The only plausible explanation to me is...I'm extremely lacking in self confidence...and/or not a good looking guy...and I would like to be in the company of a really good looking woman...who would never go on a date with me in real life, even through a dating service. So, in order to fulfill THAT innocent fantasy...being with a great looking woman...it will cost XXX. That I get. If that's his situation, ok...understood

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Except that, a lot of good-looking, self-assured guys do ask girls on paid social (or mixed social and playtime) dates.  

For a guy who wants to flirt and share a meal, without going through the hassle of setting up a 'real' date (or, maybe, he is married)...why not book a lady who has a vested interest in giving him a pleasurable evening?

Because it costs a fucking grand to do it??? The guy mentioned the price....and was wondering if he could barter her down...to make it affordable based on his notion of what that's 'worth'.  Seems like the cost is an issue. And he is wondering if it's worth it....ie soliciting opinions....I say TALKING to a woman and paying for the privilege of doing so...if you have any game or confidence...is a weird waste of money. Just because you're an escort doesn't guarantee you are going to trip his trigger...on a intellectual level. The guy wants dinner and conversation, remember? You can't tickle his cock with your big toe under the table....that's cheating

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It's a proven, time-honored, efficient way of planning a date, and he's at least guaranteed a partner who's happy to be there...besides, it's what he *wants* to do. Whether it's a waste of time or money for you, is irrelevant...HE sees value in it.  

If you think that's inexplicable, you should hear about some of the other stuff guys want to pay us for!! For instance, I got an email requesting that I jump on a stomach for an hour. LOL.  

Moral of the story is: his money, his date, his fantasy. And, it's her time (that she could spend doing other things) she is spending solely to make HIM happy, so she should be compensated in some way.

Next thing we know, guys are going to start being outraged that we demand money for sex. LOL.

I take exception to the notion that it's a guarantee of what he wants. That's my biggest point of contention. It's not. Like IRL, escorts can't guarantee chemistry or fulfilling expectations. On paper, yes. IRL..not.

VOO-doo709 reads

He isn't guaranteed a fulfilling experience, no matter what route he takes. BUT, with p4p, he is at least guaranteed that the girl will stick around and flirt with him for the entire date.

You are in LaLa Land I'm afraid LOL. Why in the fuck do you think there are so many escorts in the world????

Why??? Because most women simply wake up.  

Voo-Doo is correct here. We have better things to do with our time. Trust me. Even if it means scrubbing floors lol. That's friggin hilarious.  

xx

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Escorts chiming in about whether a guy should pay for a dinner date is comical. Like you're gonna say 'no'??!?!

Yeah, I got it taylor....there's a place for escorts....umm...I'm a guilty user of the system.  

I personally would not turn to one for the mere purpose of dinner and conversation. Might that change? Sure!! Might I at some point in my pathetic little life think that's an awesome way to get a few hours with a babe? Hell yeah! But now. It seems odd to me. Can I appreciate why some might ? Sure. I have just enough pea in my pea brain to fathom that.

I will simply close  by saying that the process of making  a date with an escort....one you SEEM to like on all of the levels you want...is not as easy as you and VooDoo make it seem. Also the reason TER exists. There's a shit ton of ferreting out that goes on..and THEN you have to go through the verification process. It's a hassle...in it's own ways. Some similar, some not, to what the dating service experience is probably like.

For someone who is "just giving an opinion"...you sure want to be make sure I know yours is RIGHT!! (and mine wrong!!).

It's just a protection reply....someone wants to pay someone something that never should be paid for.

And yep..I said "never"!

When someone has stooped to the level of having to pay someone to pretend to be their friend over dinner/drinks...that person needs some serious help.

Unfortunately there are far too many with no self-esteem who pay women here to have a drink with them.  The OP is simply another one of them.

Oh..and Taylor wasn't offering her opinion...she claimed that on an earlier post  LOL

Posted By: MrTwister
Escorts chiming in about whether a guy should pay for a dinner date is comical. Like you're gonna say 'no'??!?!  
   
 Yeah, I got it taylor....there's a place for escorts....umm...I'm a guilty user of the system.  
   
 I personally would not turn to one for the mere purpose of dinner and conversation. Might that change? Sure!! Might I at some point in my pathetic little life think that's an awesome way to get a few hours with a babe? Hell yeah! But now. It seems odd to me. Can I appreciate why some might ? Sure. I have just enough pea in my pea brain to fathom that.  
   
 I will simply close  by saying that the process of making  a date with an escort....one you SEEM to like on all of the levels you want...is not as easy as you and VooDoo make it seem. Also the reason TER exists. There's a shit ton of ferreting out that goes on..and THEN you have to go through the verification process. It's a hassle...in it's own ways. Some similar, some not, to what the dating service experience is probably like.  
   
 For someone who is "just giving an opinion"...you sure want to be make sure I know yours is RIGHT!! (and mine wrong!!).

Who's "they're" lol. Are you speaking in absolutes again Who boy.  

I would bank on it, you've had quite a few drinks with p4p "gals" here in your lifetime and not ALL OTC, no matter how much you claim to.  

So....that begs me to ask the question...does that mean you "lack in self-esteem" yourself?

Well now, that'd be an interesting twist of events, wouldn't it. ;)

xx luv ya

But since you're too lazy to do a search..."they're" suggests posters on this thread.  Had it been an absolute it would have been ALL of the hookers in the entire universe.  That would be an absolute  LOL

And yes...my self-esteem is lacking.  I guess I should see if someone wants to have lunch with me and I'll pay them to do so.  But can it wait till I have some time to enjoy it?  Been a tad busy over the past month or so...and likely will be for another month or so.

Yes...my having self-esteem issues would be a very interesting "twist of events".  ;)

Oh...and don't bank on my having ever paid (or will ever pay) anyone to have drinks/lunch/dinner.  That just isn't a smart bankable move  LOL   I wouldn't have charged you either...but you were a chicken to drive out to the 'burbs.  Oh well...your loss!

Posted By: _Taylor_
Who's "they're" lol. Are you speaking in absolutes again Who boy.  
   
 I would bank on it, you've had quite a few drinks with p4p "gals" here in your lifetime and not ALL OTC, no matter how much you claim to.  
   
 So....that begs me to ask the question...does that mean you "lack in self-esteem" yourself?  
   
 Well now, that'd be an interesting twist of events, wouldn't it. ;)  
   
 xx luv ya

Me thinks you got the wrong chica like Mr Grant here lol  

This has nothing to do with chicken .... but hot dogs? Lol

Clearly it wouldn't have been a "smart bankable move" for me to take time out of my day to drive to you now would it lol. I don't like lunch that much. I pick all day lol. Plus should the menu have been a bit more appetizing (hot dogs and beer? I mean really, its no wonder lol) perhaps that wouldve excited me a bit more lol. I don't do casings or fast food. You should read my post to GAG...I believe it pertains to john's just like you. I like to be excited to meet anybody here or its just a no go for me I'm afraid lol. My pussy does the driving here  lol ;)

Who knows maybe another trip to Chicago is in the works for spring. I think you know by now anything is possible with a woman like me.......sooooooo at least make it exciting and bankable and then I'll consider the effort, but not a minute sooner  ;)  

I did have a fabulous time there minus the Who Meet and Greet .....great, great city.

T xx

But I do believe on my way out of town...I did drive right by you. I did wave, didn't you see me?  ;

know or understand women very well Mr. T. It's ok, you're not alone by any means lol.  

I think there's ALOT about "escorts" you don't understand LOL. Let's start with .... we are women with a vagina, yes hahahaha.  

Ok lesson #2 will come a bit later after you simmer down a bit there hotstuff. Ouch, a feisty male version of me. Could be hott?  

Are we meeting anytime soon then?

xx T (luv ya) ;)

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We are! It's only a matter of how one defines 'soon'.  

;

Either dig around for someone who specifically lists that option, or ask about it (but don't mention sex, just ask if her if she offers a different rate to accompany you to dinner/movie/show/etc. only). Ladies who already list a varied assortment of service offerings will more likely be open to your request.

that make easier for both of us.  
regardless... I am offering only time and companionship. :

Trying to test the water here and get some perspectives that I am missing. Keep them coming please

GaGambler815 reads

You are neither a preppie nor a kid. Simply a board troll, I did give you a straight answer in the interest of furthering conversation, but you are in fact the first Prepkid old enough to be an AARP member. Give us a fucking break.

But keep trolling if you so choose. We have to talk about something I suppose, and your drivel is a slight improvement over the dumb OPs from yesterday.

Posted By: GaGambler
You are neither a preppie nor a kid. Simply a board troll, I did give you a straight answer in the interest of furthering conversation, but you are in fact the first Prepkid old enough to be an AARP member. Give us a fucking break.

But keep trolling if you so choose. We have to talk about something I suppose, and your drivel is a slight improvement over the dumb OPs from yesterday.

GaGambler814 reads

I am hardly the only person here who knows that you are full of shit. I just feel the board deserves to know before investing a lot of energy in answering your OP.

VOO-doo847 reads

actually do have social rates posted. Or a meet & greet rate for shy new clients. You could see if she'd be willing to extend to a dinner date with appropriate compensation.  

Some girls might not bother putting social rates on their sites, because they are not the norm (my personal average is one every 2-3 years). But she might be willing to offer social rates, if you ask...depending on her schedule and other obligations.

For instance, a few years back I had a stretch of time where I was purely a provider. My farthest date was a half hour away. I would have welcomed something like you're suggesting, so long as I was paid at least a little. My attitude to discounted social time was like, well, I can sit in my apartment and eat take-out by myself, or I can experience a new restaurant with some dude, and garner some extra bucks, and maybe a new client.  

As I moved farther away, and became more invested in my civvie life - classes, work, relationships, and extracirricular passions - and actually gained some real-world responsibilities, this became untenable. Now it would be like 'Yooooo want waaasat?? Drive all the way to wherever, and spend an entire evening for basically my one-hour rate? Waaaaaaaat??' I have the feeling that most women with kids, school, and/or jobs would feel the same way, but you never know.

As long as it works for her time and money-wise, I don't see why you wouldn't be able to find somebody

One review in three years, three years ago and coinciding with your first post, of an agency girl with pages and pages of them. And weren't you trolling for kink advice not too long ago?

Run along now, before your dad catches you using the computer to visit naughty sites.

So let's see...you were maybe 18 when you wrote that post (in 2012)...makes you around 21 now  LOL

And there aren't enough girls in that college you were (are) going to?

How's the Asia trip?  Are you back in the States yet?

I see you've garnered some interest from the "older" hookers here...lucky you  ;)     I'm sure they have an ability to converse with 21 y/o's on a variety of topics.  And you will love chatting about the 70's and 80's...it'll be a history lesson for you  LOL

Posted By: prepkid
I know this is divided. Those who would NEVER take an escort to dinner vs. those who frequently do so.  
   
 I am in a situation where my desire to just spend the night having long conversations over dinner and drinks outweighs my mere horny desires. Sure "playtime" is fun and exciting, but I am experimenting here a little bit, just to see how things go.  
   
 Ok I admit.. Loneliness > Horny-ness. (But don't we all...) What I am looking for is true "companionship" instead of just hard sex. Had a few good runs lately, so I am not as horny as a pug trying to doggie style an iRobot vacuum. Even if it's a pretentious night, I would enjoy hours of flirtations and eye-fucking, so to say... Why not give it a try? - I think to myself. At the end of the night, I always have my trusted friend, my right hand. LOL.  
   
 What I am worried the most is if chemistry (clicking) does not work out instantly. It would just continue to be a long disappointing night. I am not sure. Those who oppose to the whole dinner/drinks say at the end of the day, when you go home, you will be disappointed (total utility/per hour spent with the provider).  
   
 Logistics - If you are not planning on sex in the first place, where do you meet? At the restaurant? Would you say providers would be open-minded to talk about special rate in this scenario? Say I would like to spent 5 hrs on dinner/drinks, should I still pay $1,200 (waaaat).  
   
 Would love to hear if any of you guys had good or bad experiences. Perhaps some advice you could share? Thanks in advance!

Posted By: Dr Who revived
I see you've garnered some interest from the "older" hookers here...lucky you  ;)     I'm sure they have an ability to converse with 21 y/o's on a variety of topics.  And you will love chatting about the 70's and 80's...it'll be a history lesson for you  LOL  
 
LOL. He is lucky. Much better to hear from the "older" hookers than the "elderly" johns. Good lord.

Just sayin' ;)

xx kisses

But since you have some time on your hands...go and read some of his "old" nonsense.

I suspect he would prefer to chat about the good old days...back in the 50's and 60's.

You should PM him...it'll be fun  LOL

Posted By: _Taylor_
Posted By: Dr Who revived
I see you've garnered some interest from the "older" hookers here...lucky you  ;)     I'm sure they have an ability to converse with 21 y/o's on a variety of topics.  And you will love chatting about the 70's and 80's...it'll be a history lesson for you  LOL  
   
   
 LOL. He is lucky. Much better to hear from the "older" hookers than the "elderly" johns. Good lord.  
   
 Just sayin' ;)  
   
 xx kisses

You? LOL  

You are a troll as far as I'm concerned just as much as he is. You only 'pop up' when you feel like it. Isn't that what trolls do lol. I believe him over you I'm afraid lol in any event.  

His nonsense may be common sense to someone else who hasn't been on here for a cows age. You're just a bit jaded at this point Dr. Who. Speaking of time, isn't it time for 'your' handle change yet? lol

As far as time is concerned on my end, its blizzarding out today and everyone is staying in. While it is beautiful out, yes, I have all the time in the world today. Why? Ya wanna play?

xx kisses

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I really stopped caring about them while back. I forgot how to use the block feature.

Posted By: _Taylor_
You? LOL  
   
 You are a troll as far as I'm concerned just as much as he is. You only 'pop up' when you feel like it. Isn't that what trolls do lol. I believe him over you I'm afraid lol in any event.  
   
 His nonsense may be common sense to someone else who hasn't been on here for a cows age. You're just a bit jaded at this point Dr. Who. Speaking of time, isn't it time for 'your' handle change yet? lol  
   
 As far as time is concerned on my end, its blizzarding out today and everyone is staying in. While it is beautiful out, yes, I have all the time in the world today. Why? Ya wanna play?  
   
 xx kisses

-- Modified on 3/5/2015 10:57:29 AM

Of course you forgot how to use the "ignore" button.

No girls at your college

My goodness. Leave him be.  

Not all here can be the STUD you apparently are LOL. I would know if you weren't too chicken to meet me haha.  

bak bak bak bak bak lol

xx kisses

Posted By: Dr Who revived
Of course you forgot how to use the "ignore" button.  
   
 No girls at your college?  
   
 

Can I put you back on my 'list?' xoxo

Oh I'm sure you're on your knees sobbing away lol.

NOT lol

Cut it.  

xoxo crap doesn't work on a woman like me lol.  

;)

T

Was flatline supposed to mean something?

Posted By: _Taylor_
Cut it.  
   
 xoxo crap doesn't work on a woman like me lol.  
   
 ;)  
   
 T

Notta I'm afraid lol  

I post when I feel like it being entertained, just like you. However, there is one BIG difference...

Women who ''CHOOSE' to actually post as part of this insane asylum don't sit here with their finger in their belly buttons pulling out a piece of lint from 1965, waiting for their posts to post. Believe it or not, we can actually shovel the driveway, build a snowman, fuck a client, make dinner, pay the bills, start a blog and post on TER in the same amount of time you post a one liner to our original post lol.  

We multitask instead of staring at the screen hahahahahaha. I am funny, huh.  

I don't know, does ___________ mean something to you????  

;)

xx

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See...there you go again with those nasty "absolutes"  LOL

Most of the women here don't have driveways...let alone would shovel them if they did.  And based on your argument above...some women would rather just "talk" with a john, and not fuck him/her.  I would say that most people can make dinner (in my case I don't...but I do know how to call and make a reservation).  And sure, most adults pay bills too.  Why would you want to start a blog?  That's just nonsense.

Sorry I haven't been more attentive to your screams for attention...but I have been a tad busier than normal.

Sorry  :(

Posted By: _Taylor_
Notta I'm afraid lol  
   
 I post when I feel like it being entertained, just like you. However, there is one BIG difference...  
   
 Women who ''CHOOSE' to actually post as part of this insane asylum don't sit here with their finger in their belly buttons pulling out a piece of lint from 1965, waiting for their posts to post. Believe it or not, we can actually shovel the driveway, build a snowman, fuck a client, make dinner, pay the bills, start a blog and post on TER in the same amount of time you post a one liner to our original post lol.  
   
 We multitask instead of staring at the screen hahahahahaha. I am funny, huh.  
   
 I don't know, does ___________ mean something to you????  
   
 ;)  
   
 xx

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Sorry it was to deep for you. I know you analyze every lil wordy lol. I'll be careful next time. I promise :)

But now I'm crushed...screaming for attn? From you? Anybody? Just because I'm posting on the GD board? Ummm hardly. Wrong chica again lol. I just like to write when the mood strikes and have a lil fun on here from time to time. Is that against the rules now too? Lol Have you ever seen me post my link anywhere I wasn't required to... I think not lol. To bad I can't write reviews...they sure would be entertaining. TER would love me ;)

Geezk!!!!!! You boys are never, EVER happy.  

I'll go crawl back into my lil hole now. Perhaps you'd be so kind and feed me a hot dog through that hole every now and then :)

T xx

Xoxo

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nope lol. May work on 114 other women, but not this chica my friend lol.  

xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

I believe your bed has been made ;)

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Can't I have another shot? Pretty Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee???? I promise you won't regret it....................xoxo

GaGambler775 reads

and I bet you he would even give you a discount off of his normal rates.

I would even be willing to meet you, and all it would cost you is the price of a few drinks, but I warn you, I don't drink the cheap stuff.

As for preppie, his game was old before you even got here, and he's even too lazy to rebrand himself.

Has that cow bitten his tongue again? LOL

Anyhow, that is an interesting choice of words... "willing" to meet me. Haha, no thanks, don't do "me" any favors LOL. I'm good, but that is very sweet nonetheless.  

While you warn me you may not drink the cheap stuff, I warn you, I don't meet the cheap johns. So take that for what it is. In any event, thank you, I'll tuck it away.......far, far away.

xx

read his one review. I think you'll find it, um, interesting to say the least.

I'd give the civvie guys a chance at buying me that steak again lol.  

No thanks. I'm a big girl who is capable of making her own conclusions of people without shitting, eating and breathing the reviews here. Why don't you give it a shot, unless you need TER to hold your hand too. Good lordie.  

xx

I certainly wouldn't want to be judged by my first few...or any, for that matter. No, it's the review itself I find highly suspect...awful lot of kink for an 18 yo's first time out. And if the review is bs, well...

Just my opinion, of course.

I will take that as a compliment. I can be.. well.. kinky.

Posted By: Arovet
I certainly wouldn't want to be judged by my first few...or any, for that matter. No, it's the review itself I find highly suspect...awful lot of kink for an 18 yo's first time out. And if the review is bs, well...  
   
 Just my opinion, of course.

and it's possible that a provider in her mid/late 30s would be more than happy to pee on an 18 year old man-boy and give him a hickey. Strains credulity, though.

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virtually all the money wagered except Tardy's has gone on the "over"

Do you think that maybe I set the line too low? lol

I'll leave it to others to opine on whether he's yanking it in his mom's basement or his own.

is DEFF much more into kink and exploring other things than anyone of the older generations. That shouldn't be a shock to you lol. Isn't that why the older guys here seek out the much younger girl??? Besides the obvious of course. And maybe why the older ladies seek out younger guys?? Go figure I guess lol.  

Chemistry is chemistry however. You can't put a # on it in most cases.  

xx

says your scale is a lil off on this one lol. He's most deff not one'of'em that's for sure and mine is usually pretty accurate.  

To each his own here I suppose.  

xx

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I fucked them.  

But even a lame old fart such as I can get a civvy date if all I want to do is talk. There's gotta be someone at your gym, your work, your temple, your book club or your local farmer's market that you can ask out without  committing to laying out a grand or more.  I would save P4P for when I want to get my rocks off.  

Still,  it's your money and you should spend it as you see fit.  All the opinions in the  world don't matter as much as what you think and want  and need.

Posted By: prepkid
I know this is divided. Those who woI uld NEVER take an escort to dinner vs. those who frequently do so.  
   
 I am in a situation where my desire to just spend the night having long conversations over dinner and drinks outweighs my mere horny desires. Sure "playtime" is fun and exciting, but I am experimenting here a little bit, just to see how things go.  
   
 Ok I admit.. Loneliness > Horny-ness. (But don't we all...) What I am looking for is true "companionship" instead of just hard sex. Had a few good runs lately, so I am not as horny as a pug trying to doggie style an iRobot vacuum. Even if it's a pretentious night, I would enjoy hours of flirtations and eye-fucking, so to say... Why not give it a try? - I think to myself. At the end of the night, I always have my trusted friend, my right hand. LOL.  
   
 What I am worried the most is if chemistry (clicking) does not work out instantly. It would just continue to be a long disappointing night. I am not sure. Those who oppose to the whole dinner/drinks say at the end of the day, when you go home, you will be disappointed (total utility/per hour spent with the provider).  
   
 Logistics - If you are not planning on sex in the first place, where do you meet? At the restaurant? Would you say providers would be open-minded to talk about special rate in this scenario? Say I would like to spent 5 hrs on dinner/drinks, should I still pay $1,200 (waaaat).  
   
 Would love to hear if any of you guys had good or bad experiences. Perhaps some advice you could share? Thanks in advance!

its a service we are providing and no your trying get more !!! when it ever enough !!

amazing alley

Posted By: prepkid
I know this is divided. Those who would NEVER take an escort to dinner vs. those who frequently do so.  
   
 I am in a situation where my desire to just spend the night having long conversations over dinner and drinks outweighs my mere horny desires. Sure "playtime" is fun and exciting, but I am experimenting here a little bit, just to see how things go.  
   
 Ok I admit.. Loneliness > Horny-ness. (But don't we all...) What I am looking for is true "companionship" instead of just hard sex. Had a few good runs lately, so I am not as horny as a pug trying to doggie style an iRobot vacuum. Even if it's a pretentious night, I would enjoy hours of flirtations and eye-fucking, so to say... Why not give it a try? - I think to myself. At the end of the night, I always have my trusted friend, my right hand. LOL.  
   
 What I am worried the most is if chemistry (clicking) does not work out instantly. It would just continue to be a long disappointing night. I am not sure. Those who oppose to the whole dinner/drinks say at the end of the day, when you go home, you will be disappointed (total utility/per hour spent with the provider).  
   
 Logistics - If you are not planning on sex in the first place, where do you meet? At the restaurant? Would you say providers would be open-minded to talk about special rate in this scenario? Say I would like to spent 5 hrs on dinner/drinks, should I still pay $1,200 (waaaat).  
   
 Would love to hear if any of you guys had good or bad experiences. Perhaps some advice you could share? Thanks in advance!

Id say talk to her and get a feeling. From the first minute on the phone you can tell if you will click or not. Most girls love to go to just dinner and drinks, it's stress free, fun and relaxing. I'd say meet at the restaurant. I don't know about other providers but I would be open to a special rate for just dinner and drinks and I know a few of my girlfriends have.

For legal reasons, for reasons of personal safety, and for reasons of personal enjoyment, the only way I will see someone new is with a dinner date.

I typically book a two hour engagement, preceded by a nice dinner - I offer some premium over their normal two hour rate - and, of course, I pick up the tab for the dinner.

Responses to this offer have ranged from bizarre -  to polite rejection - to enthusiastic acceptance. More than half the time, the ladies (I am interested in) accept. And yes, the acceptance rate is higher with more mature providers.

When we click - its been great. If there's no chemistry, I suppose I reserve the right to terminate the evening after dinner - but she still gets paid (that only seems right - but its only happened twice in five years).

This is a fun world. Pursue it however you are comfortable ,,, and never let anyone tell you that you're doing it wrong

Sometimes all is not as it seems

Sometimes all is "exactly" as it seems.  

Of course he's here hahahaha. Good Lordie.

Speaking of another BB...tis funny that lil Clammy Clam disappeared all the sudden lol. He must have gotten caught and somebody must have put him out of his grammatical misery and enjoyed him for supper. Poor lil thing lol  

T xx
 

Posted By: Dr Who revived
Sometimes all is not as it seems

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Posted By: prepkid
I know this is divided. Those who would NEVER take an escort to dinner vs. those who frequently do so.  
   
 I am in a situation where my desire to just spend the night having long conversations over dinner and drinks outweighs my mere horny desires. Sure "playtime" is fun and exciting, but I am experimenting here a little bit, just to see how things go.  
   
 Ok I admit.. Loneliness > Horny-ness. (But don't we all...) What I am looking for is true "companionship" instead of just hard sex. Had a few good runs lately, so I am not as horny as a pug trying to doggie style an iRobot vacuum. Even if it's a pretentious night, I would enjoy hours of flirtations and eye-fucking, so to say... Why not give it a try? - I think to myself. At the end of the night, I always have my trusted friend, my right hand. LOL.  
   
 What I am worried the most is if chemistry (clicking) does not work out instantly. It would just continue to be a long disappointing night. I am not sure. Those who oppose to the whole dinner/drinks say at the end of the day, when you go home, you will be disappointed (total utility/per hour spent with the provider).  
   
 Logistics - If you are not planning on sex in the first place, where do you meet? At the restaurant? Would you say providers would be open-minded to talk about special rate in this scenario? Say I would like to spent 5 hrs on dinner/drinks, should I still pay $1,200 (waaaat).  
   
 Would love to hear if any of you guys had good or bad experiences. Perhaps some advice you could share? Thanks in advance!

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