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I ask this as a result from a reply to a post I made earlier, and it just made me think...where do I fit in as a hobbyist...or do I even count.

So guys....how many sessions a month and about how much do you spend (including tips).

personally...1 or 2 a month and 300-600/month.

But what the hell, you can't take it with you.  

Posted By: scb19
I ask this as a result from a reply to a post I made earlier, and it just made me think...where do I fit in as a hobbyist...or do I even count.  
   
 So guys....how many sessions a month and about how much do you spend (including tips).  
   
 personally...1 or 2 a month and 300-600/month.

capt._obvious732 reads

once and other months I can have enough free time for two encounters.  Mix in a DD every few months with a certain favorite lady, and the monthly expenditure will go up significantly.

icebear606 reads

Posted By: scb19
I ask this as a result from a reply to a post I made earlier, and it just made me think...where do I fit in as a hobbyist...or do I even count.  
   
 So guys....how many sessions a month and about how much do you spend (including tips).  
   
 personally...1 or 2 a month and 300-600/month.
Typically about 700 euro a month (about 800 US?), that's between 6-10 sessions. Or maybe that's just what I want to keep telling myself.

Last week I spent about 1500 euro (1700 US?), for a total of 18 fucks. Also includes gas and food/drink/wellness spa.

It's kind of a different story if you monger in Germany's FKK clubs.

GaGambler666 reads

while I rarely try to see 18 women a week anymore. well at least I don't do so "often" anymore. lol I do like to get laid at least once a day. In the states, even at the relative bargain of $300 for an hour session, anyone can do the math and see that it certainly adds up over the course of a year.

Now when I am in other countries, most frequently Costa Rica, or other countries in Latin America, that cost per hour drops significantly, but then of course I usually see more than one woman a day, so I suppose the number is still a substantial one. lol

What I am sure of is that IMO, it's money well spent, and even if I blow six figures on year, it's still cheaper than another marriage/divorce.

bonordonor510 reads

After I read icebear's post, I started to reply thinking I was replying GAG. Then I realized it was some other big dick guy. All of a sudden, on "Que", GAG replies! This looks like a battle of who has the biggest dick/wallet on this fuck board! I'm going to sit back and enjoy the show! LMFAO

GaGambler654 reads

and if there is nothing wrong with "wanting to" why should there be anything wrong with succeeding?

89Springer588 reads

you're the only guy I know who gets laid at least once every day. An ex-friend was obsessed with sex, but your drive is unusual. Without a doubt, there's tons of guys like you. You give Bill Clinton inspiration. ;)

GaGambler623 reads

and maybe a quarter of what it was when I was young. Now my ability to act on my drive, that's an entirely different matter. lol

Too funny, so many guys got married thinking they would get to have all the sex they wanted, and here it is 30 years later and divorced guys like me get laid ten times as often as anyone of these married guys, without all the bullshit that goes along with it.

Think of it this way, for about the cost of even one kid in a decent college, I can fuck a different hottie EVERY SINGLE DAY. lol

It's not really a matter of my appetite being so large, or my wallet being so large. It's all a matter of the choices we make in life. I won't ever have the pleasure of watching my son or daughter graduating from Harvard, but I am willing to make that trade. lol

Typically about 2 two-hour dates a month, just as an average.  Some months 0 (not many recently), some with as many as 3 or 4.  I mix in some AMP fun occasionally too for variety.

about 15% of my net income for this

... and then I go spend the rest of my money foolishly

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Once a month at 300 -400.  Rarely twice a month and even more rarely once every two months for a 2 hour.  Generally 3-400 is all I can safely skim from the household accounts without the SO finding out.

I don't have a regulat schedule of seeing providers, so I have no regular budget either. I have seen several ladies in a week to none for months (or even years) The amount spent is from 0 a year to 20K a year. (which is way more than I should spend based on my income)

Nothing is more important than the hobby. Rather than sit on the couch watching TV in the evening, get a second job. If your SO is not working, hand her the want ads. The money she contributes to the household frees up more money to hobby. There are plenty of after-school jobs, so your kids should be working as well. Not only will it teach them responsibility, but every dollar they earn is another dollar to hobby. And forget about college. A good trade school is a fraction of the cost. They’ll learn a marketable skill and free up thousands of dollars for the hobby.

Most major cities have great public transportation, so you should sell your car. It’s good for the environment, and the savings on gas, insurance and car payments means more money to hobby.

And don’t buy in to the 401(k) myth. The only thing saving for retirement will get you is the fanciest wheelchair in the nursing home. A much better strategy is to spend that money now.

Repeat after me: Spend…Spend…Spend

bonordonor579 reads

but I own my house, free & clear. What can I do?

nom_de_plume558 reads

But if you were serious... a home equity line of credit or a reverse mortgage will let you tap that equity for more important pursuits.  I'm sure rrasha would agree.

since she does not always answer posts to her here, I'll just say I believe she would tell you to take out a reverse mortgage or a home equity line of credit. And do it today!

Did you know "the hobby" in Spanish is "la mania?"  And "hobbyist" is "aficionado?"  I am quite an aficionado of your buttocks.

THIS HAS GOT TO BE THE POST OF THE YEAR!  LOVE IT.......

I'm selling everything tomorrow and making an appt!!!

Posted By: rrasha88
Nothing is more important than the hobby. Rather than sit on the couch watching TV in the evening, get a second job. If your SO is not working, hand her the want ads. The money she contributes to the household frees up more money to hobby. There are plenty of after-school jobs, so your kids should be working as well. Not only will it teach them responsibility, but every dollar they earn is another dollar to hobby. And forget about college. A good trade school is a fraction of the cost. They’ll learn a marketable skill and free up thousands of dollars for the hobby.  
   
 Most major cities have great public transportation, so you should sell your car. It’s good for the environment, and the savings on gas, insurance and car payments means more money to hobby.  
   
 And don’t buy in to the 401(k) myth. The only thing saving for retirement will get you is the fanciest wheelchair in the nursing home. A much better strategy is to spend that money now.  
   
 Repeat after me: Spend…Spend…Spend…  
 

MLCSolved475 reads

But, have made a point of not keeping track of $ spent on hobby.
On average, probably about $2700 for 2-3 multihour/month.  
Last month was a big one with a one week splurge of about $3500.  

Plan to cut down to strict 2/month for a while, which will be $1500-2400.

djddla706 reads

A couple atfs have moved
coasts and a couple regulars are literally
toasted. A few others have changed their  
lifestyles and preferences or disappeared.  
The few I see more than 5 visits will see
me again if they don't get lazy or become
outright greedy. Getting boring.

But I'd do the girl's dream date. No sex, and he gets to listen to me yak the entire time.

Lol lol

I actually think I'd love to purchase the company of a few ladies in this biz I've got a "girl crush" on. There are a few ladies who I would love to pick their minds and talk to them about their marketing tips, their life stories and do so much more...under the sheets of course.

If only I was a wealth girl :)

Sitara Devi

I had the pleasure of doing a double recently with a lady I'm totally homo for. I've got a double scheduled another lady I have a girl crush on too. There's one more lady on the list that I'm hoping I'll get to be with before I move out of Atlanta, but we'll see how that goes.

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