Wow! The discomfort of having to "worry" about all the things that could go wrong when you're trying to have a good time. How can you get or keep an erection with all that negativity swirling around your head? Get it...head. LOL The best way to enjoy the hobby is to find a girl, or two, that you can trust and stick with them.
Ruth XEscortFLIX dot com
I've only had a few bad girls since doing this the last few years and only one I felt truly ripped me off, but now I want to be aware of the common scams and what to look for. The ones I've read about (and they may not actually be scams but misunderstandings) are:
- escort agency bait and switch
- take the money and run "need to pay the driver" excuse
- take the money and say it's only to show up or do some minimal thing
- agree to "girlfriend experience" then only do certain things
- agree to any type of body rub then set heavy restrictions
The last one said I should have negotiated EXACTLY what I wanted as well as the price and time, which is impossible over the phone or until she's arrived and we're convinced each other is legit.
Can someone give me more details on what I should look out for and how to best handle things before I hand her the money? Some girls are OK taking money later (I guess based on how she feels about you) but some demand it beforehand no matter what and when that happens I will now find out if she's legitimate and negotiate every thing I want and make sure we're at an understanding, because I'm not sure how to handle it after she's taken my money.
I really haven't had a bad session or been ripped off. Read the reviews and pick and choose well reviewed girls with more than a few reviews. Or at the very least a review from an established reviewer. It will cost more probably but great sessions are better than average ones or getting ripped off. I look at it this way, if I get a cheaper donation stolen once out of every 4 or 5 appointments it covers the cost of a better reviewed lady. Not to mention the other risks associated with someone who is unprofessional. Don't think that someone without ethics, who upsells, uses fake pics, provides poor service or rips people off won't use everything they can to avoid prosecution. Including giving out your information or setting up a sting. Not saying it wouldn't or can't happen with any escort but just more likely with ones already misleading you.
For me the rewards outweigh the cost of paying for highly reviewed women.
To answer your original question- read reviews, use google image search, back channel her reviewers if you want (they may tell you things not in their review) and avoid the newest posters on BP until they actually have reviews. All of these will help you avoid LE as well. If a lady talks about specific acts and money before meeting unless she has a long list of reviews and a great history I won't even consider seeing her.
Good luck and hope this helps.
- escort agency bait and switch
- take the money and run "need to pay the driver" excuse
- take the money and say it's only to show up or do some minimal thing
- agree to "girlfriend experience" then only do certain things
- agree to any type of body rub then set heavy restrictions
The last one said I should have negotiated EXACTLY what I wanted as well as the price and time, which is impossible over the phone or until she's arrived and we're convinced each other is legit.
Can someone give me more details on what I should look out for and how to best handle things before I hand her the money? Some girls are OK taking money later (I guess based on how she feels about you) but some demand it beforehand no matter what and when that happens I will now find out if she's legitimate and negotiate every thing I want and make sure we're at an understanding, because I'm not sure how to handle it after she's taken my money.
the few times I saw a BP girl.
Learned my lesson, if she isn't well reviewed in here I don't bother with BP women, plain and simple.
I've seen a number of agency women, and I've never experienced a bait and switch with an agency.
I once met a lady who was fatter than the venus of willendorf despite "verified" pics that showed her as a lissome lass. Rolls of fat. Same face, just outdated.
for strategic reasons I should not. But here are some relevant facts: Her Appearance is consistently rated between 7 and 9. Her reviews go back many years. I saw no reviews referring to her putting on weight. BUT: her last review was in fall of last year......... BTW the same pics are on her P411.
You wont regret meeting ladies from p411, date check, eros and here.
So go read Ter reviews of the ladies coming from there before setting up a date.
You ca also ask for fetish or domination session first see if she knows what she is doing.
Gfe session is easy to do compared with domination or fetish in which usually a role play is involved. Provider's creativity and imagination matter as it keep it exciting, entertaining and unpredictable!
Thanks for this list, this is very helpful.
I've only read a few reviews that were similar to what this girl did to me, but the way she was talking it made me think she was just a very high-priced escort that guys did pay a lot of money for; she just didn't look THAT good and wasn't THAT interesting.
After having read these (and previous reviews I've read), I just can't think of a way I can't get screwed (in a bad way) if the girl is really looking to do it; when she was there saying "Oh I only do this and it will be way more to do more and you're not getting any money back no matter what", I thought of a few things I could do that would probably have made things worse especially considering she had a driver there. I can imagine more than a few scenarios where your last resorts would likely make things worse and all it takes is the girl taking your money (no matter what you agreed to beforehand) and refusing service.
This experience is making me think of abandoning the hobby altogether, regardless of all the nice women I've met.
Wow! The discomfort of having to "worry" about all the things that could go wrong when you're trying to have a good time. How can you get or keep an erection with all that negativity swirling around your head? Get it...head. LOL The best way to enjoy the hobby is to find a girl, or two, that you can trust and stick with them.
Ruth X
EscortFLIX dot com
Well, maybe you're not understanding, but everything was perfectly fine until she took the money. So it didn't matter whether I was worried, it matters that I got ripped off. So actually I should have been so worried that I didn't even call her.
I posted the list because I have read similar stories of what happened to me and wanted to try to get more information and solidify what to look for and whether there has been common things figured out by these ladies that they are using that also would help me better spot and avoid the situations. It's as simple as that. If you think I'm sitting here thinking about all the bad things that can happen, well I don't do it to the point that I can't get hard, that ridiculous, and it's not about the negativity, it's trying to protect myself from getting ripped off and have a good time.
So really, you're the one that's being unnecessarily negative here, and I'd rather hear constructive information than just tearing down, which this girl already did to me far too much already. Please just keep any negativity to yourself.
My post ended with some SOLID advice. I'm not a newbie and I've avoided getting ripped off for over a decade but you can ignore the advice and chastise ME if you must.
If you insist on TOFTT, then there are things to look for. Experience in this game, lots of commin sense, and thinking with the right head are most important in avoiding scams.
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