and I get it. We all have those moments of insecurity. I simply accept them for what they are, find another way to interpret things that works better for me, and move on. It's not about not having those thoughts, it's about not letting them get me down or dominate my thinking.
As you say, there are some things we simply don't know and can't control. Better to accept the unknown in a way that is forwarding for me (and for the gal!) and simply live in the tangible moment. I want to be 100% present.Providers, how many appointments do you actually have in a given day? Is a low volume provider 1 a day or more? How about a high volume provider, typically how many in a day?
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Girls typically do 8-12 appointments a day depending on the mix of 30min vs 60min appointments. Got this info from the girls and know its true.
8 to 12?
Sounds like "high" volume to me.....
In a post a few threads ago, swimtrekr said he could spot the lower volume prostitutes. I asked him how he did this and I see he hasnt responded as yet. I hope he does becuase I dont think anyone wants to see a girl who is f**king that many guys.
Putting the mental image of that many dicks in a day out of your mind, as long as she gives you her best and you can't tell you were john number 23 for the week, does it really fucking matter how many guys she fucks?
I dated an agency girl a while back who while she didn't see 10+ guys a day, she did see maybe six guys on a busy day, even so she had "plenty" of gas left in the tank for me. Never once can I remember a day where she was too tired from work to take care of me.
OTOH I dated an AMP girl for a while several years ago who most likely did get up to that 10 a day threshold as she worked very long hours, I have to confess that while she was a very nice girl, and I grew to care for her quite a bit, all that fucking ruined her personal sex life, as she had nothing left for me after doing that much fucking at work. Every woman has a different sex drive. Some women are worn out after one or two guys, I have met others who feel that they perform better after they "warm up" with their first couple of customers of the day. Go figure. lol
But I think i could tell if i was the 11th or 12th guy that day that a prostitute saw. Maybe not is what your point is? And maybe like you say, it is mental. The thought of all those d***s being in front of me is a turnoff. And do you think the women that are giving their definition, and using numbers, as to what is and what is not low volume, are also putting in their the boyfriend or boyfriends they are f**cking that they arent charging?
Lastly can swimtrekr, or anybody really, know for sure who is low volume. He seems to think he can determine it but you dont think you can. I am agreement with you on this. Unless the girl tells you, there is no way to know. Thanks.
I've been her first, middle, and last of the day and she's just as amazing every time. She would not be an ATF were it otherwise. So yes, if I can't tell it's irrelevant. She showers off other guys just like I shower off other providers.
The terms you used are highly subjective. One person may think of "low volume" as no more than one per day, while others see it as no more than a few per week. And then at what point does it become "high volume"? Is there no Medium in there? 
You may want to define these terms solely for this exercise by listing the per-day numbers you consider to be Low & High.
I don't label myself as any "volume" whatsoever, because on many days where I'm available, I have no dates. Or perhaps I've booked a few, only to have all but one cancel. A whole week can go by where I only have one gentleman caller.
Then all of a sudden, you're all beating a path to my door and I may have a few dates by lunchtime........and then nothing again for days afterwards.
So on some days I am "low volume" but then others I would have to claim "high volume"..... does that average out to a "medium volume"? LMAO!
It's nice work if you can get it...... 
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I think a lady is hi volume if you are getting that feeling of being pushed out the door. And sure enough as u R walking down the hallway you pass a dude. Eyes looking down. Envelope in hand. Looking up slightly to check room numbers.
I am sure this happens but I have to shake my head when it does.
I've worked for agencies, and they never gave out my room # till I'd "checked out"... meaning my visitor was gone AND I was ready for the next to come on up.
Now that I'm independent, I do not give out the room # until my guest has arrived and I'm more than ready to welcome him.
But even the best planning cannot account for the whims of fate and @**holes: I had a recent guest who I had to practically push out the door when he'd overstayed by more than 30 minutes, on top of having been 30 minutes late in the first place! Aaaaargh! And I'm just waiting for the less-than-stellar review as he was definitely not pleased that I wanted him to leave.
So instead of having an hour between each date, my second caller had to wait for me to freshen up before I gave him my room #. I was extremely embarrassed, and uncomfortable. Luckily, he was a complete gentleman and we had a wonderful time!
So, he was actually donating for a block of time, not a period of time.
I've never been late, so was unaware that is how it works. I'm glad it doesn't work the other way, I've had a few ladies arrive well past when we had scheduled. Luckily it hasn't been an issue yet.
You could have told him while he was still on his way, though he may have canceled or asked to reschedule.
Probably not a big issue in most cases, but maybe you should put it on your website. Something like the clock starts at appointment time, don't be late!! /s
But even the best planning cannot account for the whims of fate and @**holes: I had a recent guest who I had to practically push out the door when he'd overstayed by more than 30 minutes, on top of having been 30 minutes late in the first place! Aaaaargh! And I'm just waiting for the less-than-stellar review as he was definitely not pleased that I wanted him to leave.
So instead of having an hour between each date, my second caller had to wait for me to freshen up before I gave him my room #. I was extremely embarrassed, and uncomfortable. Luckily, he was a complete gentleman and we had a wonderful time!
I've never been late, so was unaware that is how it works. I'm glad it doesn't work the other way, I've had a few ladies arrive well past when we had scheduled. Luckily it hasn't been an issue yet.
You could have told him while he was still on his way, though he may have canceled or asked to reschedule.
Probably not a big issue in most cases, but maybe you should put it on your website. Something like the clock starts at appointment time, don't be late!! /s
But even the best planning cannot account for the whims of fate and @**holes: I had a recent guest who I had to practically push out the door when he'd overstayed by more than 30 minutes, on top of having been 30 minutes late in the first place! Aaaaargh! And I'm just waiting for the less-than-stellar review as he was definitely not pleased that I wanted him to leave.
So instead of having an hour between each date, my second caller had to wait for me to freshen up before I gave him my room #. I was extremely embarrassed, and uncomfortable. Luckily, he was a complete gentleman and we had a wonderful time!
Yes, a reservation IS for a period of time... 60 minutes, in this case. As I wrote earlier, he overstayed by more than 30 minutes. Meaning he was with me for over 90 minutes total after having only reserved (and paid) for just 60
Yes, the volume question has definitely surpassed the old dick dize, no AA, and where should I cum threads. 
Funny thing about this one is the OP expects the ladies to PM him their answers! I bet his inbox is overflowing!
If she has one of these, she's high volume.
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Lol. Anyone who plays knows its subjective. As GaG detailed both ends of the spectrum. There was a great Indy lady I saw more than 10 years ago that was amazing. I always booked her last appointment and we would routinely nap in between. I never stayed under 2 hours even though I made the effort to respect her time. She initiated the extra action and kept me there. I did make sure to tip her well. Her passion and energy was astounding during sessions.
I asked the same Question on another board. 2 men said they didn't care what we did before or after. That is was a state of bliss to not care.
For me, i rather have a few long term happy returning gents.. I keep it steady, safe and I get to enjoy myself as well.
This way I don't get jaded, and continue to offer great service. If I schedule a fs date, I might do a fbsm. but not every day!!! Quality sure has its benefits..
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It's none of my damn business what my date has done earlier in her day, or what she plans on doing after our date together.
What is my business, is that she's reasonably on time, I get my full time regardless of whether she is on time, or not. That she delivers as promised, makes me feel like for the 2 to 3 hours we are together that she wants to be there (whether or not it's true). That she rocks my world. That she is honest with me, if she doesn't want me to return the favors, she tells me. That she's kind and courteous, when it's time to be, and a slut when it's time to be.
To quote Metalica "nothing else matters". Yeah, that's right I listen to Metalica, and you'd never guess it if you met me in public.
One of the many reasons I admire providers, is that they don't have to sell out "who" they are to "public" IRL. I do, and have, but it's made me a comfortable living and I get to be myself with some very lovely ladies, for very short bursts of time.
It really is a simple arrangement, and fucking perfect if you were to ask me.
and yes I would agree that "two a day tops" is low volume, but to a woman that sees "two a week, tops" you might be considered high volume to her.
It's all in the eye of the beholder, there is no right or wrong answer. except I think we would all have to agree that 10 a day is DEFINITELY high volume. lol
about is the lady gives me 100% of her attention for the time we are together. I could care less if I am #1 (and maybe only) for the day or number . . . .
Why buy used when new will do!! I do care and would prefer to be first. No other reason than cleanliness. At least enough time for the foam to settle on the money maker. "Next"
We are not changing anything just discussing cuz we have nothing better to do.
that the number is between zero and fifty (in most cases).
Don't you feel better now?
Seriously... I understand not wanting to be merely a number to her. By the same logic, do we reduce her to merely a number? That number has absolutely zero use to anyone.
If you want to be the only client of the day, simply book the day with her. Problem solved; or is it?
I get that logic. I subscribe to it.
But what if your date said she was running late. Does it cross your mind she is late because she is / was with someone else? Then isn't there any part of you that wonders if you're going to run into GaG's creampie? Or she's still going to have the last date on her mind when she sees you? Compare you ? etc? I mean...hey...if you're all robot when you do this, then cool.
But , for me, just being honest...for a split second that might bother me. As soon as she warms up to me...who cares, I agree. But again, for that split second...there's things to make you think. And if she isn't 100% there or there's something missing, that's an easy thing to blame.
I don't know. It's complicated. I guess it's a risk, like many others you take in this activity...and you just sort of accept them all in the same bundle.
and I get it. We all have those moments of insecurity. I simply accept them for what they are, find another way to interpret things that works better for me, and move on. It's not about not having those thoughts, it's about not letting them get me down or dominate my thinking.
As you say, there are some things we simply don't know and can't control. Better to accept the unknown in a way that is forwarding for me (and for the gal!) and simply live in the tangible moment. I want to be 100% present.
One for every hour of the day lol
Unless of course, Johny books that damn double. That could throw me off my average, especially since it takes him so long to Come Already
xx kisses
(in all seriousness Skyr1, thats a secret and it differs every month...must be the moon or something)
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Because there will never be a concrete answer.
Even if the women told the truth, would you guys believe it?
As some of the other girls have said, it's also cyclical.
To use my situation as an example... if someone asks me how many dates I have on average, I say about 2 a week.
That's not the truth, though.
I travel a lot. I work in another country and have business travel here. I am in NY two or three sections of time per month. There are some months where I will see someone every day for 5 days in a row and then three weeks later another 1-5 people.
Sometimes I'll see 3 people a week for two weeks and no one for 4 weeks.
I have another job and I see people for an extended amount of time. So if when in NYC, I see two people in two consecutive days, it means I literally have NO time to myself for those two days. That's high volume for me. Contrastly, I was just in LA for a few days and I saw one person a day for 4 days. That would be insane for me in NY, but I had lots of free time before or after, so it felt low volume.
Every women is high volume AND low volume. Depending on her both her personal schedule and work schedule.
Since there will never be a definitive answer, this question will continue to get asked ad nauseam. You guys do like your answers and your stats. The answer to this question simply can't be quantified.
Kiss me,
Kate
10 or 12 sounds like too many for my preference. Just a mental thing or is it.
I once say a lady that was new to town. We met at a hotel for a two hour session. it was awesome. Plenty of attention and there seemed no clock watching and no lack of energy. As she got popular she set up one day per week that she rented a room and did incall. Other than that she traveled a lot and did OC locally. The next time I saw her, she was pacing the wear and tear on the money maker. "Wow, let's go easy". The appointment ended exactly on time. I knew this would be the last visit for me. As I went down the elevator and got to the bottom floor there was a guys standing there looking out of place and weirdly nervous....looking at his go phone. I stayed on and went back up and surprise he got off on the floor I had just left. Just sayin.....
Higher charging ladies probably see less people in most normal cities (LV is NOT normal). Simple because there are less people that will pay a grand for an hour or two of time!! Some of these ladies I have known and they make last minute plans for me, don't seem to have as many time constraints, etc
If you are getting what you want what does it matter? It shouldn't matter, but it's a mental thing. I liken it to a toilet seat..........would you go in the men's room at Wrigley field. Would you go in and sit your ass down on one in the 9th inning? Me neither.