Send me a PM and I can help guide you in who to see and who to stay away from 
Came to escape the Seattle rain and dark and read about the great fbsm providers here. Saw Lindsey yesterday and enjoyed the time with her. Several of the ladies with the top reviews require references for fbsm. It has been several years since I was active in the hobby in Seattle and evidently those references don't count even though the providers are still active. Know of any other fbsm providers who would take me based on Lindsey's reference?
This is applicable to every new friend when they want to meet with me:
Most ladies who use references as screening require recent references - as in within the last 6 months to a year or so depending. Why? Maybe the guys are using an old reference because ladies they have visited with recently might not OK for whatever reason. Sadly, people can change from being a model date to being someone with an agenda of some kind that is not positive toward me.
I require references to be reviewed here on TER. Why? Because I trust the tools TER supplies for me to verify someone is 1.) a legit provider and 2.) if reviewed and credible they are someone I can confirm isn't verifying the gent just to either hurt/rob/sting/etc me as well as someone I can contact after should something not be rite with the date so they know not to OK the guy in future.
That being said maybe there is another provider who can meet with you using other screening method(s) - as in not using a provider reference. Check the current ads or maybe someone will post here. Be prepared to give your real info: Name, work, phone, email - and be prepared that she may discreetly contact your business to verify you are a real person. Good luck and enjoy sunny San Diego!
Namaste
GK
Goldie, thanks for your reply. I get, and respect, your need for screening. In fact, having careful providers is for my benefit as well as theirs. I also appreciate the graciousness of your reply to my inquiry when I contacted you. I hope I will have the chance to see someone else here based on Lindsey's recommendation and who knows, maybe in the future we can connect. Your reviews are amazing and it would be fun to meet you in flesh.
Most ladies who use references as screening require recent references - as in within the last 6 months to a year or so depending. Why? Maybe the guys are using an old reference because ladies they have visited with recently might not OK for whatever reason. Sadly, people can change from being a model date to being someone with an agenda of some kind that is not positive toward me.
I require references to be reviewed here on TER. Why? Because I trust the tools TER supplies for me to verify someone is 1.) a legit provider and 2.) if reviewed and credible they are someone I can confirm isn't verifying the gent just to either hurt/rob/sting/etc me as well as someone I can contact after should something not be rite with the date so they know not to OK the guy in future.
That being said maybe there is another provider who can meet with you using other screening method(s) - as in not using a provider reference. Check the current ads or maybe someone will post here. Be prepared to give your real info: Name, work, phone, email - and be prepared that she may discreetly contact your business to verify you are a real person. Good luck and enjoy sunny San Diego!
Namaste
GK
Send me a PM and I can help guide you in who to see and who to stay away from
Joe, really appreciate your help. Would value your counsel.
Trust the reviews, not the opinion of one reviewer. Just my two cents.
Big +1 to that Bic54, especially when the "reviewer" finds it necessary to use an alias even in a plain vanilla thread such as this, which simply seeks some basic 411.
The numbers aren't what matters (except to the ladies usually).
Really, so he is supposed to trust the recommendations of the guy hiding behind an alias with zero reviews and a history of harassing board members? Please look at the history of his posts on this board before believing a word he says. #AEJ has zero stability or credibility here. Move on to a trusted board members post.