Time flies way too fast for anything less than 2 hours most often than not and you are barely getting out the word 'hello', hey let's 'play' lol. I don't blame some ladies for offering a 2 hour minimum if that's not their speed, I know I do when I travel especially. And while I do offer a 1 hour at times, I think maybe twice overall in my personal career here did I ever actually entertain a *1 hour* and not a minute after. If he or I left when that clock struck 12 on the mark, it was only because we either had to be somewhere in real time and there was an 'understanding' beforehand lol. And to me, I fully knew going in that'd be a downright 'quickie' in my book lol.
To all you quickie boys....take it S....L....O....W LOL I bet you'll like it more 2 hours flies by........ xx kisse
Does anyone who's -- shall we say -- a bit older, have a problem with 2-hour minimums? There are a number of ladies I'd like to see who will not do anything less than 2 hours. The problem is that I'm now a one shot guy, and as much as I often enjoy the chit chat, etc, 2 hours usually involves a LOT of downtime. It's not so much a question of cost, but rather cost/enjoyment.
I'll post the usual disclaimers: 1) Yes, I know there are plenty of ladies out there who don't have 2 hour min. 2) Yes, anyone is entitled to charge whatever the market will bear. 3) yes, this is all probably just bitching!
Still, if anyone has thoughts, advice, etc, let me know.
Gives me time to relax and I can usually get a second chance. Don't always climax twice but I can continue playing. It all comes down to what you can afford.
I also have a bit of a problem getting two shots off, so I enjoy fooling around for most of the session and leave just enough time at the end for some cuddling and shower.
Yes, I'm spending your money to make this happen so it's easy to say it. But you might be surprised how different an evening can be with such a common goal. Being brought to the edge but not over it (edging) can result in an amazing orgasm at the end, and some women really enjoy taking you on such a ride. You still only get the one pop, but what a pop it is
Even if I've already met the provider, I still like time to get comfortable with her. I don't go non-stop, so I like a little time between activity just to cuddle and feel. It also takes me a long time to reach orgasm, so an hour may not be enough unless we get right down to business.
I'm most comfortable with three hours, unless I find I'm not attracted to the provider.
Hit the breaks and spend more time on the foreplay/roleplay/cosplay, mutual massage and the buildup to whatever gets you off. Edge play can be fantastic - where she takes you to the brink and then stops, cool off for a few minutes and then start again, repeat. You can fuck for a while and then stop and take a break before you finish, or just slow-fuck.
And here I thought it was just the young and/or dumb guys who determined their satisfaction from the quantity of orgasms had
I am older and in the same situation. I don't do 2 hours with NEW ladies...you never know, you might not care for them (or vice versa) after just 15 minutes. Anyway, I will do 2 hours with a few very special ladies, especially if I have to make a long (couple hours) trip to see them.. With them its more about the experience with them than just sex. I genuinely care for them and enjoy their company.
So I guess the bottom line is, if you don't enjoy her company that much then don't.
... and I like to start with a 1 hour date to see how things go. Lately I've been doing mostly 90 minute repeat sessions. So while I enjoy 2+ hour sessions, even with only one pop (we always find other fun stuff to do), I guess a 2-hour minimum would be a deal-breaker for me. Fortunately for me, that's very uncommon for providers in my area.
I've always had a 2 hr minimum. A few times while touring, I've tried the one hour thing but the guys always stayed for 2-3 hours and I felt taken advantage of.
Anyway, 2 hours is NOT a lot of time and I've never twiddled my thumbs nor sensed that any client was bored. There are things to do during the downtime and they often involve wine, bath, massage, talking, building a rapport, etc. But different strokes for different folks and if you feel uncomfortable with 2 hrs, you could always ask the girl if she'd make an exception for you. The worst that can happen is she says no!
In my experience, when I've done my homework in advance, 2 hours FLY by... it's only when I haven't done my homework when 2 hours seem terribly slow. Frankly, until recently I typically scheduled 3 or 4 hour minimums... but I guess 2 hours is typically plenty at my advancing age. Though, when I'm out of town with no risk of running into neighbors or co-workers, it's still typically 3 hours to overnight for me... as I like dinner and time out on the town.
BTW, I like how you mentioned a bath -- this seems to be typical when I'm overseas but a missing ingredient here in the US, and that's a damn shame!
Way too much intimate time. I start with one hour dates, 90 minutes sometimes, and then if we hit it off I go to 90 minutes and sometimes 2 hours.
I am almost into my sixth decade and while I can go for a while usually (for better and worse), a two hour date inevitably involves an hour or more of conversation. I like talking okay, but tend to prefer more substantial conversation over chatter (in fact, chatter can drive me nuts). On top of that, my experience with new ladies is that 2/3 of the time an hour seems too long, so, yeah, a 2 hour minimum is almost always a deal breaker for me.
Almost, because if she is friends with other people I know it can give me some level of comfort that she will be interesting or at least challenging enough to make the two hours seem like something less than slow torture.
Anyway, the point is that an hour or so is a tryst - meeting a new person for some fun, then kissing goodbye, while two hours is hanging out with someone. And I generally avoid having to hang out with anyone I do not know.
Time flies way too fast for anything less than 2 hours most often than not and you are barely getting out the word 'hello', hey let's 'play' lol. I don't blame some ladies for offering a 2 hour minimum if that's not their speed, I know I do when I travel especially. And while I do offer a 1 hour at times, I think maybe twice overall in my personal career here did I ever actually entertain a *1 hour* and not a minute after. If he or I left when that clock struck 12 on the mark, it was only because we either had to be somewhere in real time and there was an 'understanding' beforehand lol. And to me, I fully knew going in that'd be a downright 'quickie' in my book lol.
To all you quickie boys....take it S....L....O....W LOL
are you telling me a 'life story' comes out in 2 hours including Play?????? No way Jose lol, not in my book. You boys aren't playing right lol. If you take this SLLLOOOWWW no matter what age you are, then 2 hours should be fine for play only lol. I have a 90 minute tomorrow cause that's all I have time for and he'll get a 'hello' and if he's lucky a 'how are ya' LOL, let's get to it mister LOL. And I bet, he'll want to go over
In my world I have many friends that I can enjoy conversation with. I never have to pay someone to spend time with me to enjoy a show, or conversation.
I come here to meet women who sell their vaginas for a price.
Ummm, I don't believe I'm the one complicating things here. There really is no need to spell anything out. I know all too well what goes on here on a daily basis. I'm a big girl ya know
But I do think you are still missing something with what I wrote. So I would read it once more and then get back to me. If not, I bid you adieu and I hope you enjoy the vaginas you buy for a solid price here LOL. I certainly hope you are getting a bang for your dollar and keeping that mouth mighty closed. I wouldn't want the vagina to get the wrong idea now LOL.
My goodness, you are a hoot.
Hmmm, which one are you anyway???? Remorphed that is (is that even a word lol)
Even at my advanced age I can still read, and comprehend quite well.
I simply stated that this is not a place where most men come seeking companionship. That's found at our church.
I wouldn't dream of complicating this whatsoever. I find a woman I want to meet, and I do. Then when our meeting is over, I leave. Or she does.
It's a win-win for all.
When I want to listen to Martha talk about her kids, or her boyfriend, or her mother...I can do so without money. I usually insist that she also buy me lunch (but I still pay, that's just how I tend to roll). There are some really hot looking gals out there who aren't asking for, nor expecting payment to be a companion.
you are a fine gentleman at any age (but you still missed my point lol). That's ok, I totally understand yours and that's why this is a forum of discussion. To 'discuss' things, right Senator??? I would think you'd like a good debate afterall lol.
But I would tend to disagree about your statement of "most men" are not seeking companionship here. "Most men" is a rather large statement to me. Especially with regard to the kind of dates I typically entertain which are typically 4 hours or more on the average. I would suspect gentlemen who seek these kind of dates are looking for much more than a vagina to "speak" to for 4 hours, in however you define "speaking". I don't know, just my thoughts afterall. What do I know LOL.
In summary, I'm simply thinking our definitions of "companionship" here may just be a bit different than how the other sees it. In any event, you are certainly correct, that this world is certainly a win-win for all involved, in however that is defined if 9 times out of 10 everyone leaves smiling, companionship or not.
If, by "companionship", anyone means sitting and watching TV, that's not why I seek out women to pay. My idea of "companionship" is the pillow talk, cuddling, and touching the beautiful young women during downtime, and when the sex is over. It means almost as much to me as the sex.
I'm sure I can find a woman whose companionship I could enjoy for free, but I don't think I'd want to see her naked.
But not too many senators do pay attention to very much... other than ensuring their reelection, that is. Lol!
Here's what she said- again:
Posted By: StevieStyles
are you telling me a 'life story' comes out in 2 hours including Play?????? No way Jose lol, not in my book. You boys aren't playing right lol. If you take this SLLLOOOWWW no matter what age you are, then 2 hours should be fine for play only lol. I have a 90 minute tomorrow cause that's all I have time for and he'll get a 'hello' and if he's lucky a 'how are ya' LOL, let's get to it mister LOL. And I bet, he'll want to go over
What am I missing here lol
xx kisses
And I tend to agree. While I always offer my 90-minute friends refreshments, they barely get touched. Is that too subtle for you? Maybe this helps: She's saying that she likes to fuck for that long AT LEAST. And with her 90 minutes, she can't imagine much more than "hello" and "goodbye" being exchanged, let alone a life story.
I take offense at your statement that Senator's "do not pay attention to very much"... I'll have you know I paid a lot of attention to this young lady. You'll have to excuse my colleague from Ohio, he is getting up there in years...
I take offense at your statement that Senator's "do not pay attention to very much"... I'll have you know I paid a lot of attention to this young lady. You'll have to excuse my colleague from Ohio, he is getting up there in years...
the image of fucking Stevie for that long or you simply saying the word "fuck." Damn, I am so easy! Crap, now I have to do some work with some serious images in my mind
I guess sometimes my words get a lil too wordy (ok, most of the time lol) and I lose focus lol. Geezk, what was I thinking LOL.
If you're doing it 'right', the action makes the time fly right on by boys..............................whew, there just went 90 minutos
Enjoy your day and daydreams.....Ciao!!! Always live it to the fullest....
xx kisses
Posted By: SoftlySarah
But not too many senators do pay attention to very much... other than ensuring their reelection, that is. Lol!
Here's what she said- again:
Posted By: StevieStyles
are you telling me a 'life story' comes out in 2 hours including Play?????? No way Jose lol, not in my book. You boys aren't playing right lol. If you take this SLLLOOOWWW no matter what age you are, then 2 hours should be fine for play only lol. I have a 90 minute tomorrow cause that's all I have time for and he'll get a 'hello' and if he's lucky a 'how are ya' LOL, let's get to it mister LOL. And I bet, he'll want to go over
What am I missing here lol
xx kisses
And I tend to agree. While I always offer my 90-minute friends refreshments, they barely get touched. Is that too subtle for you? Maybe this helps: She's saying that she likes to fuck for that long AT LEAST. And with her 90 minutes, she can't imagine much more than "hello" and "goodbye" being exchanged, let alone a life story.
I work in a legal brothel and I can tell you that men NEVER come here for sex. They come here for female companionship and adventure, even though we sell sex
And tell me that you have never had a date when time passed soooooo slowly that you thought the date would never end? Maybe even more than one date, say a lot more?
Personally, I prefer to avoid the latter knowing that if time flies by so fast that I wish I had more of it, I can come back for a longer date next time. Let's call it "Getting to know you, and then letting it grow from there."
As for longer dates and taking it slow, as I posted elsewhere in this thread, I am more than happy to do that with someone that I truly like and we enjoy visiting, spending time together. Why pay extra to someone I do not know, and history tells me the odds are quite high I will not enjoy hanging out with? And if that is the case, the odds are we also have not connected enough to be able to spend an enjoyable 2 hours in sensual (and I do mean sensual, because the sexual stuff is not going to last anywhere near 2 hours) fun, either.
I can't recall, at least for me. But I can't speak for any of my dates either if they felt that way and were waiting to give me the boot lol. But, I'd like to think I develop such a rapport (by choice) beforehand with 95% of my dates. So much so that it is literally like meeting an old friend by the time we lock eyes for the first time. That is what makes me more comfortable in being a part of this world (at least for me).
I mean sure, some connections were stronger than others, but overall, I have no complaints and yet each experience was unique, different, and fun in and of itself. Plus, I don't meet with everyone who contacts me either. I'll put it to you that way. I choose to be selective, that's just how I play. I believe in enjoying my time as well here. I don't date in the real world, so this is as close to 'companionship' as I'll ever get as long as I'm here. So better make the best of it I say while I devote my bod to you boys and a lil part of my heart lol. Nothing like giving a lil love to others in the world I say. But in all seriousness, I have been lucky to have been invited on some truly wonderful encounters with hopefully, many more to come. And for that, this chica certainly ain't complaining.
But.........I have been told 'I play differently here' than I'm 'supposed' to I guess. That's my take on it at least. Nothing new to me. God knows I'm good with it and it's good to see you're happy with the way you play too. That's all it's about. Different strokes for different folks
xx kisses
Posted By: ziggy440
And tell me that you have never had a date when time passed soooooo slowly that you thought the date would never end? Maybe even more than one date, say a lot more?
Personally, I prefer to avoid the latter knowing that if time flies by so fast that I wish I had more of it, I can come back for a longer date next time. Let's call it "Getting to know you, and then letting it grow from there."
As for longer dates and taking it slow, as I posted elsewhere in this thread, I am more than happy to do that with someone that I truly like and we enjoy visiting, spending time together. Why pay extra to someone I do not know, and history tells me the odds are quite high I will not enjoy hanging out with? And if that is the case, the odds are we also have not connected enough to be able to spend an enjoyable 2 hours in sensual (and I do mean sensual, because the sexual stuff is not going to last anywhere near 2 hours) fun, either.
does not mean you have to stay the entire 2 hours. Sometimes when I order a steak at a restaurant I cannot finish the entire steak but I don't ask the waiter to just sell me half the steak. Instead I pay for the full steak and leave the uneaten part behind. No one is forcing you to clean your plate. Pay the minimum fee and leave whenever your appetite is satisfied.
Your point is absolutely correct. I think the two hour minimum is designed to avoid rushing. In reality, what happens is that standards for both sides are up when it is a two hour time frame. As a result time will not be an issue because the parties involved are not the types who really think in "time". I personally do two hours once in while if I am away from the home area and know that I am not pressed to get home by a certain time. I think it is more of a quality filter. If the parties click, I guarantee that more than two hours will be spent together.
First, if I pay for 2 hours and want to leave as soon as I am finished, I am basically calculating from the beginning how long I have to stay before I can leave without being rude. Okay, maybe that is not a big thing for a lot of ladies, but I try to be considerate, and even if I have no interest at all in a lady, I try to avoid leaving her with that impression. I do not want to reject anyone, or hurt their feelings. This is my burden. Like the steak - if it is too much I may not finish it, but if the chef is there I will do my best to make sure he/she thinks I enjoyed it.
Second, if about 20% of the new ladies I see are actually ladies I would enjoy visiting with for two hours (probably a bit high, but let's go with that), and I see an average of two new ladies a month, I am paying for a minimum of an hour a month, probably more like two, that I do not want, will not use and will actually be challenged to figure out a way to get out of using. Let's say that is 90 minutes a month - so I have paid for 18 hours a year of time that I am not using. (Again, probably understating the reality).
Call me cheap if you want, but assuming I keep on a budget for my hobby (not exactly, but I try to be disciplined about it), then that is 18 hours of paid time that could and should have gone to those ladies I like and see repeatedly, of which there are currently two or three, all of whom have complained that I do not see them more (no, I do not believe that is because I am lovable or a fabulous fuck, but they know I spend money and time elsewhere and apparently I am a good enough client that they would all prefer to capture more of that money and time).
So, no, it makes no sense to me to spend extra money on time with a lady that the odds are (at least 4:1) that I will not want, just in case I might really like her and enjoy all that time. If I see you, and I like you, I will come back and see you again, and again, for a longer time.
Having said that, I think that if you can set a 2 hour, 3 hour, or 4 hour minimum and make it work, you absolutely should. Just do not tell me that is somehow good for me. I have been told that before more than once, and history tells me it is wrong. No matter the price point for the lady, the odds seem pretty consistent - about 4:1 that I will be ready to go after 60 minutes, and when that is not the case, what have I lost? I have to go back, and see her again. Damn, that is terrible!
Remember the old show biz cliché - always leave 'em wanting more.
You may be a truly enchanting woman, Heather, a charming conversationalist, able to converse amusingly about anything that interests me at that moment, so the loss is mine. But if so, you are definitely not representative of the majority of providers I have met. But your type does exist in this world, I know that, too.
Every guy seeks out a provider based on her hotness, price point, and amount of good gossip about how well she can suck and fuck and omg what will she do with my cock that probably hasn't already been done before, fine. But every guy's goal is different and many guys don't want a true GFE- tell me about you, let's cuddle, and make sweet luv til time is up session. OK cool. IF you want to just focus on getting yours and leaving, then yes, 2 hours is too much. I agree.
BUT don't request a shorter length appointment or refuse a lady's minimum or preferred date length because you read a review and the dude clearly says in his "fantasy" 2 plus hour account he fucked, went to Greece, the lady came and squirted all over the room while he got rimmed him and his load was swallowed and she begged for more. Ummm, that was 2 plus hours and NO that won't happen in an hour or shorter appointment. Sorry Charlie.
Get yours and leave it at that. If the chemistry is off then you know why. If you don't need the fantasy connection or friendly conversation and just need a hole to plug then fine. Just keep in mind, providers are people too and business minded, but we will take your money and happily give you a good show without the extra song and dance, but don't complain when it's just business.
But hopefully you at least TRY to engage the 1 hour guy with the same attitude, and aren't thinking right from the start that he is somehow an inferior client. If both lady and gent bring good positive energy, you can still have a great time - even on a short date!
I can understand 2 hour is probably fun for both parties but for someone who doesn't have a lot of disposable income it takes a long time to safe up just for 1 hour. Most providers are very nice and fun to talk with but at the end of the day our relationship is just business based. If I don't have money for the next trip that relationship ends the second I walk out the door. I only do 1 hour sessions and I never bang for the whole hour. Most providers are beautiful and skillful so I can only last like 15min at most lol, don't laugh. I find 1 hour is plenty of time to get what I need and I can visit more often.
Older, younger, married, single, limited funds, extremely wealthy. And I think sometimes disposable income gets waved around on here in kind of a sideways brag, much in the same manner of the infamous big dick bragging threads. And the reality is, for most people, the kind of money the AVERAGE hobbyist spends is really a hell of a lot for just an hour or two of fun. But of course, this is precisely WHY we have so many lovely ladies willing to take care of our needs and put a smile on our faces...
From a value perspective, I don't get a lot of value from a two hour session personally. I can easily cum in a one hour session, and two hours doesn't always mean two pops for me. Some guys pay for "time and companionship" others like me pay for "NSA sex" I have no need or desire to pay for companionship. I would actually prefer to have two one hour sessions scheduled a few hours apart, with a football game or two scheduled in between. lol
Funny, that is exactly what I do much of the time, and back a few years ago when my sexual appetite was larger, when in Costa Rica I would pretty regularly take a different chica upstairs every few hours for an hour or so with each. Instead of seeing one woman for the entire day, I would see four or five different women, with a bunch of time drinking at the bar in between sessions. Each to their own I suppose.
... for a first-time visit. So many posters have said they prefer 2 or more hours. Actually, so do I, but with someone with whom I'm comfortable. For me, I want a one-hour option to use initially. If that goes well, I'll come back next time for 2 hrs or sometimes 3 hrs. If that 1-hr option isn't available, I move on.
I understand what you are saying. Round two can take a long time, and it doesn't always happen. Has made me consider trying some 1 hour dates, and going with some short-but-sweet experiences (actually, it would be more like my fun little visits with my AMP friends in that case). Haven't done that yet though with providers, because part of this experience is relaxing with a lady, caresses her body, slowly building-back up for round two.
But I completely get your point, and have thought about this myself...
We all know that there are men and women from all walks of life here. In the real world, people are often looking for different things in a relationship. Why would that be any different in HobbyLand?
If you are looking for some pay for play and that be that, then you're right- a 2 hour minimum is or could be a deal breaker. In which case, simply don't book the ladies with a longer minimum. If you want a quick meal, don't go into the michelin starred restaurant and order the 6 course price fixe. That's not what you're needing/looking for and therefore your "cost/enjoyment" question is case in point.
There is a phenomena in the world where despite logically knowing everyone's life, wants, needs, opinions, beliefs, desires, situation, etc are different, we all (at some point or another) think that since we're going through it, others are too. (Yes, this happens often the other way around as well!)
The "majority" of men here may not be looking for more than a quick meal, but some are.... and as many different desires there are, there are women for each and every menu- be the menu offering solely physical items, or emotional, mental and spiritual as well. I like to offer the flu gamut- and damn it, that takes more than an hour.
We are so fortunate that so much is lumped together here on TER. Yes, it makes searching for specifically what you want a little more time consuming as you have to go through the profiles that DON'T provide what you want. Yes it can occasionally result in desire for someone who offers something that you're not interested in and you just wish they would! The beautiful thing is that we still get the chance to open our eyes and see everything that this world has to offer. You don't have to buy the Picasso to appreciate it.
Kate, you have a stellar reputation. I'm sure you offer the full gamut of services and experiences. But it makes me laugh to see that you wrote that you offer the "flu gamut," especially this time of year. Like most guys, I know what you meant, but I thought the typo was hilarious.
One hour sessions are perfect. Of course I've tried two hour sessions with magical ladies, but they haven't worked out as well for a variety of reasons. So it's always back to an hour. Now it's sort of a hard and fast rule. Except for this month, I'm planning two hours with a favorite lady. One hour Saturday, and one hour Sunday. And therein lies my philosophy. I'd much rather have two parties, than one.
I have another old friend with whom I get along magnificently, under the covers as well. Two years ago she changed her policy to two hour minimums for weekends only. Since I can usually only party on weekends, her new policy left me, a so called friend, out in the cold. There were no exceptions, old friends or otherwise. She still offers one hours during the week, but those are rare for me. So for the last two years I haven't booked her. I always wish her well. I'm not at all mad. A lady should always find her maximum to get fully booked. However, if maximums don't match, I'm happy moving on, even away from favorites. And that goes for other maximums as well
It takes me a while and I hate being rushed. Besides I can think of worse ways to waste am hour than cuddling with a hot intelleget nude lady while shooting the breeze and enjoying the glow and scents of sex. After all most of the ladies I met though this are interesting and fun people to talk with. But then again I am a mangina. Maybe I have too much estrogen to be typical. I would book longer dates but my wife will not let me. She correctly thinks two hours is long enough to get some strang.
There are plenty of providers/clients to go around. For many ladies who are working as escorts, they are not interested in nor have time for high volume which is why they have 2 hour minimums. They are separating themselves from the 15 minute Backpage girls. Good for them!
Just find what suits you. If you want to see someone bad enough, then pay her 2 hour fee and leave when you are ready
I agree with you. I would only do 2 hours if there was a deal/discount for the 2 hours and if it was a lady I REALLY loved to see. There would be a lot of downtime for me. Maybe a shower show or strip show or toy show in the downtime but most of the time it doesn't seem worth it to me.
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2 hours flies by........ xx kisse
