but let's be clear that you are paying for it with your wife and not getting it. And, now you're paying for it with providers.
I just left, divorce is a lot cheaper than the alternative, monetarily and emotionally. I've never looked back.
A guy was complaining about a boring home sex life that has now become dormant. he suggested roleplay and his wife replied "i'm your wife, not a hooker". A few months later she surprised him and did it and they had a lot of fun.
Dear Abby commented that if more housewives became more adventurous in the bedroom there would be a lot less professionals out there.
Not sure about that part but it was funny.
... She might be right on this one. I kind of believe (based on what I hear from the gentlemen I meet) that many wouldn't be seeking escorts out if things in the bedroom at home were better. I have a handful of friends I'm thinking of right now as I write this post and each of them love and are 100% devoted to their partners so believe them when they say it's just the sex part that's missing.
As for how it would affect the business I imagine it wouldn't because like everything there's an ebb and flow. The second one couple figures themselves out and how to spice it up behind closed doors another couple hits a roadblock and then – once again – we escorts might become the detour.
xo Laney
I came right back to the hobby.
How's that old saw go:
Be a lady in the living room, and a whore in the bedroom.
many wives loss interest in taking good care of their bodies as well. They either exercise way less or not at all and overeat thus gaining significant weight.
Abby provided some sound advice... that housewives will surely ignore.
In my case, a lack of interest / effort from my wife led to a lack of interest / effort from me led to no sex (and subsequent hobbying)
same path for me; I put forth a lot of effort for a long time and tried everything I could think of to get things rekindled but how many times can one be rebuffed? I love her and she's a great mom but I'm done. As I've said before, I'm at the point now where I don't cheat on providers with my wife, it just wouldn't be right. 
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without the risk of disease or arrest. I thought long and hard before getting into the hobby and didn't just do it because Ahm A Guy.
I thought for almost two years
but let's be clear that you are paying for it with your wife and not getting it. And, now you're paying for it with providers.
I just left, divorce is a lot cheaper than the alternative, monetarily and emotionally. I've never looked back.
I've seen a lot of divorces. Seems like financial armegeddon.
I doubt my wife initiated sex more than 10 times. It could be 0. She's got that good catholic girl thing going that sex is kind of dirty.
my ex hated the Church and the knuckle-rapping nuns. Maybe that's why she was so good in bed. 
In my younger years in Boys boarding school, there were a few young hot Nuns I fantasized about every single night .
Black clothes can hide a lot of things but Big Bosoms always stand out under any color clear as day.
None of the young twenties Nuns ever hit me with sticks or fists like mean older Nuns and big shot bully boys did on a daily basis.
I don't know if it was Karma or fate but every bully boy from grade school at our reunion, turned out to be fat and short adults , just like the mean old Nuns.
One thing I learned at our reunion, I was never taught in class , Mother Time can also inflict vengeance on big bully brats and mean old hags.
http://media.photobucket.com/user/taco_24/media/cute_girls/suorina.jpg.html?filters[term]=hot%jpeg
The sex slowly ground to a halt after menopause. I went two years with nothing. There were other major issues, too.
It was fun while it lasted, though
and when it went from once a year to zero... refused every advance... I could be celibate or find it elsewhere. Looking back over the years incidents make much more sense now. Had I KNOWN, I'd have never remarried.
I'm not a guy who needes variety or the thrill of the chase... I'd be happy with any sort of a sex life.
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My wife did have one then after menopause, nothing. We had toys, outdoors at the river, fun stuff. Now I can't even get a HJ.
Similar story for me. Until her early 50s, she had as much of a sex drive as I did; oral, anal, pretty much open to everything, then had to have a hysterectomy and it was all downhill from there. Still get it on once a week or so, but her heart's just not in it.
+1
This is so common as to be funny. Guys who are successful always want it. Women who are successful, don't. And it gets more pronounced the older you both get. Once she stops, there is no recovery physically possible, even if she wanted to (which they don't) as the atrophy is irreversible. You stay for the kids, then they are gone and you are stuck with each other. Nobody is happy, but only one of you is functional. Just a question of finances at that point.
Hey it's right next to the comics in a real paper. EZ reading whilst dumping.
Will be married 30 years this summer.
She still gives a good hummer
We are renewing our vows, at Desire, in Mexico in a few weeks. If history repeats the five couples in the renewal party will have quite the group swing celebration.
Yes, I got lucky
Dear Abby commented that if more housewives became more adventurous in the bedroom there would be a lot less professionals out there.
Not sure about that part but it was funny.
We do except with one couple. Very close to them so it is a matter of trust between us. STD rate among swingers is a bit less than the general population
as long as I was paying the bills. She had a schedule... give it up once right a month after her period... just enough to give a guy hope & string me along. When the monety ran out, she stopped pretending & wanted me gone. Never said so, just acted out until it became intollerable. I left. It took a long time to get my head together after that.
Oh, yeah, come to find out... she'd been a busy girl, just not with me.
but it's few and far between. Granted she's also a Mom of 2 and has been overweight since I met her. She is a wonderful person and despite her body's looks is a wildcat in bed and can suck a dick like nobody's business. She's my best friend in the world and despite holding down a full time job and being a Mom we are still "in love". Unfortunately she is also asthmatic, allergy ridden and has irregular periods which strike at odd times, never on a schedule. She doesn't' like sex on her period, or when she is tired, or has breathing problems, or has a sinus headache, or if the kids haven't been asleep at least 2 hours, etc. etc. etc. we have sex maybe once a month.
Once or twice a year we take a vacation from the kids by leaving them with grandma and grandpa and we fuck and suck and simply go full hedonistic on each other for 3 or 4 days. Just last week we had 3 nights at a hotel in a neighboring city and I got no less than 3 multihour blowjobs per day not to mention full bareback sex two to four times per day. She is multi-orgasmic when she is in the mood. The DATY sends her through the moon and she literally has counted 50-60 orgasms per day. When I can't perform after the 5th or 6th or 7th pop in the day (we are talking 24 hour periods) we lune up and she asks for the toy. We have a small vibrating dildo that I love to use on her and she enjoys immensely. It's awesome on these vacations. I overlook her imperfections due to the feelings we have for each other and how much we enjoy each other's bodies when we finally get down and dirty. But when we go home we go from feast to famine and it's back to once a month!
Once a month!!! It's not enough for me and I am sick of jerking off. As a monger from before marriage, it didn't take long for me to return to the arms of P4P. I try to time it so within a week or two of the wife I get to see a provider, then I wait a week or two for the wife and the cycle of twice a month is (barely) tolerable. I'd go once a week, but I could never be able to hide the disappearance of that much cash out of the household budget. It's not that I can't afford it, I just can't afford to get caught. So I "cheat" once a month.
What sucks is I had a tryst set up with a provider for this Friday and I had to cancel due to the damn flu that I picked up while shoveling snow the other day. I feel like crap with a fever and have called sick to work today and tomorrow. Luckily I was able to reschedule. The only good thing about a fever is my balls look huge! All loose and hot. Fever junk, lol. Damn, I'm rambling. I gotta go to bed. Night all...
How the fuck do you get the flu by shoveling snow?
You do realize that the flu is a virus that I seriously doubt is transmitted by snow, don't you?
Aside from that, I guess fucking hookers for you is a lot better choice than jerking off or having an affair. If you are happy with your life, then who I am I to judge?
but I have to confess, if I go longer than 2-3 days without sex, I get rather grumpy, I can't imagine going to sleep every night next to the woman I love, but still having to take matters in my own hands. I honestly can't imagine living life that way, but that's just me. Dammit, I could have sworn I just said something about not being judgmental, sorry. lol
Well, I have children who bring home illnesses from school and then due to over exertion in a cold and wet environment where I am sweating while in subfreezing temperatures thus lowering my body's core temperature/nasal passage temperature or whatever the flu does to take root when your resistance is at its lowest due to exhaustion, cold, etc. the flu takes root in your body. At least that's how I understand how you can catch the flu. My son has it too.
...and yes I get rather grumpy. Don't want to deal with a messy divorce. As I said, despite her chilliness in the sack, I love her, and I love my kids, so I don't want to break up the family unit. I've seen what it did to my brother and his kids... Train wreck.
So I fuck hookers. What she don't know don't hurt me and it's cheaper to keep her
You didn't really catch the flu from shoveling snow, you caught it from your kids.
As for you fucking hookers and it being "cheaper to keep her" yours is a very common theme here, and I am certainly not trying to be anyone's moral compass here. It's well known I have no morals, I do have standards, but I am a bit short in the morals department.
lowered my resistance due to the exhaustion and weaker immune system brought about by the cold and the snow shoveling perhaps I may not have caught the flu from my kid. Thus I blame the snow shoveling for wearing my resistance hence "catching the flu while shoveling snow".
I stand by my statement
You "caught the flu AFTER shoveling snow"
You have to agree that you could not have caught the flu while outside shoveling snow by yourself as I doubt you were exposed to the virus while out there in the snow, but the act of shoveling snow did put your immune system at risk and was a contributing factor. lol
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Should have spent your hooker money on hiring someone to shovel snow.
But then again so is she (the hobby not the site), and we each knows the other are fucking others for money or paying money. Of course I would quit if she asked me to, but she is having to much fun herself to want to do that. I know I am lucky, and insane, What else is new?