Our looks are gonna fade. We ant always gonna have that.
Better off you dont rely on em too much any how. Last thing you want is to lose your looks and grow old and relize you have no toher skills harnessed to survive on, I had an x boyfriend say that to me i lived with him when i did hair dressing school. That all e wuld say , you are not gonn a always have your looks, Any way you chaoulk it up this isnt a career choice to be countin on as a life long sure thing.
all the more reason to just suck it up now, if you can pay off your loans do what cha gotta do and get yo ass back in school and learn yourself a trade of some kind, Two carreers that will always be in demand for you, Nursing and hair dressing,
pick one. hair dressin is inexpensive compared to university educations. If you never had a loan basically any one can aproved for one for hair dressin school , Just go meet with thier financial advisor, I got approved for student loan {bac then } over 7 years ago. In tw secs.
people will always need nurses and peoples hair will always need a hair cut, those 2 careers you will always have food ont he table if you pick one of them careers. people are never gonna stop needin thier hair cut, No matter hwat economy is those 2 are pretty reliable choices to have as your fall backs.
just feel sorry for people who are relyin on thier looks 100 percent, It is not ablessing to many of them i am sure we look at them and wish we got tens in look sor maybe we wonder why we get our all 7. but just think they may fnd themselve all suddent helooks fade n tey ddnt do anything but use thier looks to rely oin thier entire life, thats not really something to envy or admire, be glad your an 8, When your not born with perfect looks it helps yu have to build a personality to make up for it,
Being perfectly pretty i dont wish for second i was that girl , I have a romanesque italian nose, ad i am proud of that, i have also had to use things other than looks my etire life for my survival, It aint a bad thing!!!!!!!
hope this cheers yu up i am the queen of gettin upset over reviews so i am hopefully able to cheer you up................................................................................................
I feel my reviews are made by guys who want me to fall in love with them when I first see them. For me chemistry has to be established for the session to be "GFE"
I am friendly and energetic and know how to hold a conversation so when a man is boring as hell and there is no sexual chemistry I get nervous and can't really help myself from cracking jokes or trying to find some sort of common ground... I feel like I should just take a break to collect myself but I want a little advice from hobbyists and other providers...
Why are the reviews so harsh as far as looks and appearance? Why even write a review if you know you contributed to the negative energy? Do you really need 2 free weeks that bad? To be honest I am a normal girl and a lot of the things my reviewers have said hurts my feelings. Do you have to be a mute sex kitten to get a friendly review? Why am I given a low score because of my personality? If you got what you came for what else matters?
Time for me to take a break... Any and all feedback is appreciated...
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but it also struck me as a teachable moment regarding how providers should think about reviews, and how we should be using them. Not that I'm necessarily right or that my view is the only one. GaG makes fair points as well.
Honestly your whining about your last review will most likely be a bigger turn off than the review itself.
and for the record, the reviews are supposed to be an honest account of the reviewers experience and NOT simply free advertising for the hooker.
I think you really need to learn what guys are paying you for and then decide if you are comfortable providing it. Either that, or quit pretending to be a GFE.
I can't tell about your actual looks from the pics you have chosen to share in your ads, but It appears that you are cute enough, it's your attitude that seems to need adjusting. Maybe a break is in order for you?
and if you think this is harsh, all I can say is "you asked". You should probably be happy that this is on the GD board, and not your local board, I doubt this thread is going to make anyone rush to get into the long line to see you.
Thanks for the break suggestion even though I already stated I would be doing so... Letting you have your rant hopefully added excitement to your day!!!
As I said, it's not your reviews that are really the problem. You seem to have a very common disease that you even admitted to in your last post. You simply take this and more importantly yourself MUCH too seriously.
Whining about a bad review is one of the best ways to be labeled a drama queen and ruin your reputation. If you doubt me, just check out any regional board and check out the many rants by hookers that come here and whine about what they consider a substandard review.
Take my advice, or don't. Either way it's no skin off my nose (or dick I suppose) but remember YOU are the one asking for opinions, so don't whine even louder when you don't get the answers that you want.
Reviews will always be subjective and should be used by us with that in mind. For example, your most recent review screams bad chemistry and physical incompatibility. But were I to see you the it would be quite valuable, giving me three key pieces of information: 1) you're legit, 2) you're photos are accurate, at least in the opinion of that reviewer, and 3) going a bit slowly with you will result in a better experience. The rest I would discount as being unique to that particular session and not really relevant to me. Now, 20 reviews in a row like that would be a different story, then it looks like you're not able to please anyone, but that's hardly the case for you. So I imagine it's hard sometimes but try to let it roll off you back and keep on truckin'
Especially for having been with an agency for some of them. Agency guys, especially if you're a stand in, are a different breed.
Honestly, don't look at your reviews as anything other than a progress report. For example, apparently for some you talk too much. So, how do you judge who wants to get to know each other and who doesn't? Pretend you already know them! There doesn't need to be any "hi, how are you? Let's get to know each other" unless that's what they want. They are paying for you to be their girlfriend, so act like it! Jump them on the way in, and if THEY show you things need to go slower, then go for a little slower intro. This method works especially well if you ever link back up with an agency for touring.
I've been seeing one guy for going on three years using this method, and I for the life of me couldn't tell you anything about him. They're not hard to please 
Sorry about the guys on your thread. Some don't even know how to make themselves happy, so don't have much advice to give
I'm certain the entire class would like to know
You're soooooooosmarttttt
Honestly, don't look at your reviews as anything other than a progress report. For example, apparently for some you talk too much. So, how do you judge who wants to get to know each other and who doesn't? Pretend you already know them! There doesn't need to be any "hi, how are you? Let's get to know each other" unless that's what they want. They are paying for you to be their girlfriend, so act like it! Jump them on the way in, and if THEY show you things need to go slower, then go for a little slower intro. This method works especially well if you ever link back up with an agency for touring.
I've been seeing one guy for going on three years using this method, and I for the life of me couldn't tell you anything about him. They're not hard to please
Sorry about the guys on your thread. Some don't even know how to make themselves happy, so don't have much advice to give
But she's my newest stalker pal...soooo she has to make sure she tosses out some ad hominem for effect.
I think she is OK with getting deposits as well. Now returning them when she bails is a whole 'nother issue.
Seems like that problem is East coast based.
deposits for 1 or 2-hour encounters.
I think you need to look up the word stalking. Unless you're the OP, which would be surprising, you replied to me.
Care to retort?
You do seem enamored with me...I guess I can see why.
My wit, wisdom and charm exude with each post I make LOL
Your link doesn't work.
Now can you please explain to the class how I'm stalking you through your pointless commenting on my posts?
Grow up and stop acting like such a little bitch and maybe we won't treat you like one.
Not surprising...that seems to be the tactic some gals use to not have to be accountable for their words.
And who is this "we" you speak of. Seems like only YOU are stalking me.
I also didn't realize that you honestly think that you were treating me in any particular manner. It's a board...nothing more. Now isn't it time for you to take a nap?
Sheesh...for someone who isn't on these boards a lot...you sure do post a lot.
Now can you please explain to the class how I'm stalking you through your pointless commenting on my posts?
Grow up and stop acting like such a little bitch and maybe we won't treat you like one.
You get your own posts deleted honey, cause clearly TER thinks you're a little bitch too.
Either way, this is still you commenting on my post, so...........
Then posts wouldn't get moved, or deleted.
I thought you had something important to do...guess you'd rather post here however.
It must really upset you that the other gals tell you I'm a good guy. That's OK...I've asked them to let you just wallow in your delusions.
Have a nice night.
Either way, this is still you commenting on my post, so...........
Do you know what today is? Or even what site we are on? I think clearing some of that up might reduce your paranoia. Even if I didn't like watching you flail, I don't make decisions on which posts stay or go, and today is a new day with plenty of opportunities to act like you aren't some crazy old guy on a computer.
And I won't get started on your one "gals" out of respect. Something you could learn before trotting her out like a show pony for your rants.
You did have one...didn't you?
Or just a little insomnia? Ask your Doc to change your meds around and you should be able to get a nice nights sleep. At your age it's important.
And of course YOU have asked TER to delete certain posts. Frankly it is what it is...but tells me more about you.
Have a nice day
And I won't get started on your one "gals" out of respect. Something you could learn before trotting her out like a show pony for your rants.
Riddle me this: are you TER admin? Are you deleting these posts I'm "asking to have removed"? No? Then you're just a crazy old man who's making it obvious why he's being moderated.
Your paranoia, while entertaining, is out of control. Sucks to know we know so much about you, while you are still multiple levels of nothing, doesn't it? Better go get on your other computer for this round...
And being compared to TERAdmin is quite the insult.
Did you think that up all by yourself?
Why continue posting to me if I'm simply Mr. Irrelevant? Seems odd how fixated you are on my handle LOL
And now you think I have multiple handles here? Oh my...take some xanax and chill.
You can't handle my one handle....I wouldn't want to see how you would handle life if I unleashed all of my handles LOL
Your paranoia, while entertaining, is out of control. Sucks to know we know so much about you, while you are still multiple levels of nothing, doesn't it? Better go get on your other computer for this round...
I asked if you were Admin, didn't compare you.
We are still on my post, so you are still the one fixating on me.
And in the same post you laugh that I think you have multiple handles, then tell me I couldn't HANDLE YOUR MULTIPLE HANDLES!!!
Oh ho ho! You really got me!
Corrine might have multiple personalities, but at least she makes some money off them, not just laughs.
Hey GaG....I won LOL
Oh...and since you're friends with JLS ask her if she ever gave the dude his money back when she bailed.
Nah..."we" know she doesn't ever get a deposit. Who's (hey...there's that pun again) kidding Who?
Are you sure I don't make money? Really sure? LOL
Thank you for actually giving some advice that may help.... I want to make people happy so I was looking for suggestions for things that may help both parties be satisfied after a session. Still going to take this much needed break but hopefully will come back refreshed and confident in myself.
You can't be at your best for anyone if you don't start with yourself
Time to regroup and get myself together... Sorry my post got you in an argument but I think you seem secure enough to not let it shake you down
What if I really don't like kissing until I know someone? I know it sounds stupid but I like to peck or give gentle kisses All over I don't really enjoy making out so I try to do other things... Are any other girls or guys here like this? And if so what can make up for what I lack here?
I'm the same way. I need to be comfortable before I slide into Frenching. You have to find your own comfort level. As fun as this business can be, it can also be crushing if you make yourself everybody's blank slate. So there's nothing wrong with being the kind of lady who offers more as she gets more comfortable with a guy - if that's what keeps you from getting the willies five minutes into every session.
If you don't want to put a guy off, don't just give the guy pecks. Give him the longest, most sensual, tongueless kisses you can bear. Kisses on the face can feel intimate without giving up too much.
Another way you can compensate? Give his Alter Ego the makeout session you can't give his tongue. I've never read a review where a guy said a woman gave him a blowjob that made him see stars but he won't go back because she won't French kiss. But you probably already do that, though.
One last thing, you said something about being more of a GFE than a companion in the future. (Forgive me, I'm too sleepy to find that part of the tree.) Some people see that as part of the fantasy, but be careful with that. If your game is too good, you better have a judge on speed dial for restraining orders because some guys can lose the plot on this one. (Arizona's concealed carry, right?)
If "companion" is where you're comfortable, stay there. It sounds like you give enough of yourself already anyway.
Besides, a lot of people see GFE more as a set of acts than an approach anyway and you've already got that covered.
I apologize if I'm talking to you like a newbie, I know you're not.
I know I am not GFE I don't understand where people get that I have never claimed that... On TER it seems my overall stats are just made for me I wish I could edit that because a lot of my reviews have lies of me doing things I don't do... To set the record straight I am not GFE... To experience that I have to know you I'm not as great an actress as I wish I could be if I'm not into you it will be obvious...
Is HIS impression that you were stalling. A lot of gals use this ploy to waste the client's time. Perhaps he was touchy... or perhaps you were nervious & talked more than normal. Frequently the "TRUTH" is somewhere in the middle.
It is true that reviews are subjective & can be harsh. This is a review site... it's to be expected. The client is entitled to his opinion & you (and I) have to respect that. Sorry it hurt your feelings.
The most recent review is lower than you usually get yet it's not terrible. Experienced hobbiests EXPECT some variation... each individual pairing is unique... not every one will "click". When that happens, it's up to you how you handle it. I've read of providers offering a partial refund & just calling it a day. Or doing the best possible under the circumstances.
The number ratings is not very accurate & experienced hobbiests look at the full review. I would not stay away based on this review... because 1 review doesn't exist in a vacume... It's a small part of a whole page of reviews.
You'll be fine. I don't see a (Negative) pattern. If you continue to provide good service, your business will thrive.
Thank you very much... I will not be offering a refund though I know the end result was the expected climax... I am taking a break not just because of the review but just because I feel I need to regroup and get over myself I can't be a 10 to everybody even though I strive to be.
I certainty wouldn't suggest a refund, but I would suggest looking at things differently. I had a session semi-recently where I did an experiment. The girl provides FS but advertises under body rubs. I showed up and got a decent massage and told her I just wanted to kiss and cuddle, no cum. She was like "really? Can I at least give a BJ for a while?" To which I said yes. So she gives me a BJ, get's me close, I stop her. We spend some time kissing talking and cuddling and off I went. It was a GREAT session judging by how I felt when I left. I mean, I was a bit horny but the mutual touch, the kissing, the decent massage, it all added up to a really good feeling. OTOH I've had experiences with attractive girls who weren't into it felt like a waste of money despite cuming.
I'll also mention that one of those experiences I got the same line when I asked her about positions "I don't like to work hard". If I'm paying a girl 2-300 an hour and they mention working I want to hear "I want to work as hard as I need to for you baby"... even if their next line is "My favorite positions are mish and lazy dog"... you see what I'm saying?
I'm not going to subject a girl to a 30 minute BJ while I'm laying on the bed, but I want to feel like the girl is up for anything in that regard. If something does become a problem then at that point it can be mentioned and if the guy is a gentleman he will switch things up. As far as the rest of the review, sounds like he wanted you to initiate some action. Guys differ in this regard and you can't always read someone perfectly. If you're a bit submissive that's a plus for a lot of guys. I wouldn't let it bother you much but you might want to consider adjusting here a little bit as well. Naked on the bed ideally means touching and rapid progression, especially with a first visit. If you like to talk and get acquainted a little, then add in some light touch while doing so. I think for a more submissive guy that immediate kino will help them be a bit more bold themselves. If not then you can quickly progress the touch into something stronger.
After the initial sex act my general expectation is for the girl to be close, hopefully even wrapping her legs around mine while we relax and recover. This is a great point for some pillow talk. As far as a girl going to the bathroom to spit, It doesn't make me feel like things are scripted. It's a special feeling to see a girl swallow and smile but I don't hold it against them for not doing it. I think he was either not entirely on his game, had unreasonable expectations in that regard, or the earlier problems had already colored his opinion. Unfortunately, guys aren't always as simple as their dick. We have emotional need too you know
Well in this case I find it funny he claimed I was chatty because I got the impression he wanted a therapist and got the wrong stand in... I listened to his life story but I rather suck you off then kiss a man complaining about his past girl issues
in that review that's bugging you? If so, that's probably not a component of a textbook business model for getting good reviews. But you know that.
And your other reviews are pretty damn good. And I think you know that too.
And whether you tried or not, you got us to look at your reviews and that's a pretty good 'giving you the benefit of the doubt', unintended consequence of your post. But no one like to read bad things written about them, so seriously, remember that even Gandhi couldn't please everyone - so why should any of us mere mortals expect to do any better. Good words to live by.
I agree with the last poster.....IF you did say that (and my guess is you didn't) that would have easily sent a negative vibe. One bad out of many wouldn't necessarily turn me away. I'd most likely
ask you about it while pre arranging a meeting. If you answered it logically and coherently it wouldn't necessarily affect me . Actually, it would probably motivate you to prove him wrong...ALL to my advantage! 
check you pm
Also If a guy just wanted two weeks he will give you a 8 to 10 and not say "I will not repeat" when a guy give below average feedback he puts his name on line part of what we pay for is to cover the ad / interview cost.
To get the ball moving I asked him which way he liked it... Most guys suggest doggy or I do because I know the view is motivating... I said that I liked doggie because it was less work for me... I didn't mean it to be negative more like a joke like I said I was really nervous and uncomfortable which is no excuse but I meant it to ease the tension not to create a bad feeling! Bad choice of words on my part...
even your positive reviews (which you have many) mention that you are a bit "chatty" but many guys like chatty, so no biggie.
A LOT of people talk to release nervous energy, it's just something that many people do. I really wouldn't get too hung up on it. It's just like being tall or short, neither in itself is good or bad. It just "is"
What you should be taking away from this is that you can't please everyone, and this last reviewer did you a favor by letting those who don't like "chatty" to possibly find another provider and letting those who like a woman to be able to carry on a conversation that you are the gal for them.
Now quit being so defensive, take your little break and come back refreshed and ready for all the little ups and downs that come with this business.
Thank you Ga... This is exactly what I needed... I honestly want to better myself and the experience I give...
Lots of gals come on here claiming to want advice, but in reality only wanting validation or a bit of handholding. I am not the person to ask if all you want is coddling, but I am more than willing to offer useful advice when I can. I just am not one to sugarcoat it. lol
Just remember, despite the hookers with nothing but 10-10 reviews, it really is virtually impossible to be all things to all people. I strongly suggest you concentrate on your strengths and try to attract those clients that will appreciate what you have to offer and fuck the rest, or I guess more accurately, don't fuck them as the case may be. lol
I have tried to mention in my ads that I am really friendly and outgoing... Sometimes when I write too much in an ad I get no responses... Will guys read it as wow she does talk too much? Or will they understand I just want to make you happy so I'm giving the best description of myself I can?...
The market will always tell you when you are doing something right, and it will also tell you when you are doing something wrong. If you are getting no responses from a certain type of ad, the market is not "talking" to you, it's screaming at you that whatever that ad was, STOP doing it.
Remember the ads are not to make you happy about what you are trying to say, they are designed to fill your dance card. My advice is to run several different types of ads, code them or ask the guys who respond which ad they read, and whatever works, keep doing, and what ever doesn't, stop doing. There is absolutely nothing wrong with trial and error as long as you learn from it.
In fact, plenty of guys will book you BECAUSE you're a conversationalist. If making a connection by engaging on an intellectual level is going to bring out the best of you, then use that to your advantage! Market yourself in a way that reflects who you are and what an experience with you is like. If you convey your personality in your marketing, you'll attract the kinds of clients who will be compatible with you.
Also, it may be in your best interest to drop the "GFE" acronym. There's no clear-cut definition of what that term even means. Personally, I avoid using "GFE" in my ad copy solely because it's too subjective. An experience can't be defined with a 3-letter acronym if you ask me.
How'm I doin' so far?
I actually do not even know how guys assume I am GFE I don't think I have ever described myself that way... I hate making out unless i know the person and am attracted to them... How can I jump on you when I first meet you if you have bad breath? Let's take a minute to get to know each other... Thank you for your response Im glad I know I'm not the only chatty girl in this hobby
doing the cowgirl position. She has never said anything directly to me but I notice she "gives up " quickly. it's like she doesn't want to do the work.lol
If she suggested doggie because it was "less work" it wouldn't bother me because I know she doesn't prefer being on top.
But... this is a review site, so you are going to have negative as well as positive. When there is something to be learned from the negative, then take that in, otherwise just mainly focus on the positive. The trick is to develop a thick skin, while still being true to yourself and not becoming hard and jaded.
So it's a necessary part of the review.
It’s like being at a restaurant. The service is part of the experience just like the food is. The food might be great, but if your waiter disappears for a half hour or won’t leave you the hell alone, it affects your experience.
In your case, I have to ask are they really rating your personality? Do they know you well enough to rate your personality? No. They don’t know you from Eve. All they can rate is a mask, what you present to them, or your persona. Or how well you bridge the awkwardness, in the case of this last review.
Based on what you said about chemistry and the review itself, clearly this guy left you dry. So what he’s really rating is the act you gave him to hide how disengaged you were. The rating might not be a function of your personality then, but of how bad a time you were having. Congrats, it means for that day, you were a bad liar. Being a bad liar's not always a bad thing.
Better to be too talkative than to make a guy feel like he just hit a drive-through. But most people love talking about themselves. So when/if you come back from your break, keep the guy talking. And if he bores the crap out of you… pray? Or do something to shut him up, even if he’s flaccid
Thank you everybody really making me feel maybe I am the one being too harsh on myself... i think I will practice in my weeks off is just learning to ask more open questions so people can tell me more about then and what they like so I know where to take things... I guess I act more like a companion than a girlfriend maybe that's my biggest flaw
Sometimes expectations don't match reality and he doesn't seem to know how to express his desires. If K9 wasn't working he should have said so. Must have been at least okay, sounded like he filled the bag quickly.
One thing, I've notice is that far to often providers are to deferential. There aren't to many situations that can't be resolved by you simply telling the guy you need him to fuck you. He's brutal at DATY or you don't want that, just say come here baby I need to feel you in me. Or tell the guy what you like. If a guy is dead set on licking you, you might as well try to enjoy it, give him some time and move to something else.
Guys are visiting you because they have a need and many WANT the allusion that they are needed as well.
For me the worst experience is where I feel like a John. I know that is what I am but it isn't hard to not make me feel like one.
From my point of view, every girl should start the date out with a big hug and some nice kissing. Not only because most guys like it, but it will put everyone at easy. Both parties can be nervous at first and its a great ice breaker. Many a flaw can be overcome with that simple plan. Once that happens, most guys will be putty in your hands.
I am friendly and energetic and know how to hold a conversation so when a man is boring as hell and there is no sexual chemistry I get nervous and can't really help myself from cracking jokes or trying to find some sort of common ground... I feel like I should just take a break to collect myself but I want a little advice from hobbyists and other providers...
Why are the reviews so harsh as far as looks and appearance? Why even write a review if you know you contributed to the negative energy? Do you really need 2 free weeks that bad? To be honest I am a normal girl and a lot of the things my reviewers have said hurts my feelings. Do you have to be a mute sex kitten to get a friendly review? Why am I given a low score because of my personality? If you got what you came for what else matters?
Time for me to take a break... Any and all feedback is appreciated...
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There aren't very many (if any at all) guys who don't react positively to a smile, a hug and a compliment. Even if you have to stretch it a little, a compliment right off the bat will work wonders with most guys. After reading through this thread, my guess is you might be a bit of a perfectionist or maybe an A type personality (that isn't a criticism), if so re read all your very good reviews and see them as the norm. You've gotten a lot of fair and honest advice on this thread.
Our looks are gonna fade. We ant always gonna have that.
Better off you dont rely on em too much any how. Last thing you want is to lose your looks and grow old and relize you have no toher skills harnessed to survive on, I had an x boyfriend say that to me i lived with him when i did hair dressing school. That all e wuld say , you are not gonn a always have your looks, Any way you chaoulk it up this isnt a career choice to be countin on as a life long sure thing.
all the more reason to just suck it up now, if you can pay off your loans do what cha gotta do and get yo ass back in school and learn yourself a trade of some kind, Two carreers that will always be in demand for you, Nursing and hair dressing,
pick one.
hair dressin is inexpensive compared to university educations. If you never had a loan basically any one can aproved for one for hair dressin school , Just go meet with thier financial advisor, I got approved for student loan {bac then } over 7 years ago. In tw secs.
people will always need nurses and peoples hair will always need a hair cut, those 2 careers you will always have food ont he table if you pick one of them careers.
people are never gonna stop needin thier hair cut, No matter hwat economy is those 2 are pretty reliable choices to have as your fall backs.
just feel sorry for people who are relyin on thier looks 100 percent, It is not ablessing to many of them i am sure we look at them and wish we got tens in look sor maybe we wonder why we get our all 7.
but just think they may fnd themselve all suddent helooks fade n tey ddnt do anything but use thier looks to rely oin thier entire life, thats not really something to envy or admire, be glad your an 8, When your not born with perfect looks it helps yu have to build a personality to make up for it,
Being perfectly pretty i dont wish for second i was that girl , I have a romanesque italian nose, ad i am proud of that, i have also had to use things other than looks my etire life for my survival, It aint a bad thing!!!!!!!
hope this cheers yu up i am the queen of gettin upset over reviews so i am hopefully able to cheer you up................................................................................................
Thank you I actually have a medical degree and it's not nursing... so this is actually me capitalizing on my looks while I can... Cash is king and I need some cash before all I have are paychecks... I am doing this for all the right reasons and I wish this reviewer could appreciate that but unfortunately he wanted a robot hooker who did what his "regular" did!!!
your website and you look hot to me!!
I am friendly and energetic and know how to hold a conversation so when a man is boring as hell and there is no sexual chemistry I get nervous and can't really help myself from cracking jokes or trying to find some sort of common ground... I feel like I should just take a break to collect myself but I want a little advice from hobbyists and other providers...
Why are the reviews so harsh as far as looks and appearance? Why even write a review if you know you contributed to the negative energy? Do you really need 2 free weeks that bad? To be honest I am a normal girl and a lot of the things my reviewers have said hurts my feelings. Do you have to be a mute sex kitten to get a friendly review? Why am I given a low score because of my personality? If you got what you came for what else matters?
Time for me to take a break... Any and all feedback is appreciated...
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For the most part, your reviews are pretty stellar. One mediocre one isn't going to be a big deal. Chalk it up to bad chemistry and shake it off.
reviews with the same vibe. Experienced hobbyists can expect 1 review out of 10 or 12 to not be stellar. If 2 or 3 out of about 5 reviews are less than stellar, then we have a problem.
With reviews of 8.21/8.21, I imagine that many women here would be happy to have those reviews. That said, you seem to have a few who rate you mediocre but many others who like you greatly. Perhaps you should focus on screening potential clients better to meet more of those who inspire you and less of those who make consistently good performance difficult?
An occasional blah one won't sink you. More important are trends, consistency and the aggregate. Same as any online reviews.
Providers go on a diatribe.
Go ahead and take break. Your attitude may change only if you keep in mind, everything that happens to you is not caused by someone else, it is you.
It was actually me trying to make things better in the future... it's guys like you who use this as a bitter verbal attack instead of giving good suggestions...
That I was complaining and not genuinely asking for some good advice... I thank the providers and hobbyists who have a heart and gave me insight into the different personalities here for those of you who used this just to get attention... Boo hoo to you sorry your life sucks so bad you have to put down providers to make yourself feel better
Kudos to the girls this shit ain't easy... Stay up and stay safe
I appreciate the gentlemen who responded with actual advice it means the world to me to know that some of you recognize us as humans
Toodles to the few bitter men hiding behind a computer screen who should've just stayed out of it-you know who you are