and you are far from the only guy who never whore mongered while married. I never cheated on my wife either, but 30 seconds after she moved out, "it was on like Donkey Kong" lmao
Good luck and have fun.
Time to make a confession that will open me up as a sitting duck target but here goes. I went on a date last night with an amazing lady (non professional), it was our fourth date and the first three never went past lots of kissing and outside the clothes caressing. Keeping in mind we are both late 40's and these 4 dates have taken place in 9 days.
I will not go into great detail so let me just say that after a great dinner at her place and an hour in front of the fire drinking wine the movements accelerated and the sex was hot, wet, and loud. I had not had an orgasm in almost two weeks (keep that in mind).
After she went down on me for an extended period of time every time I was close I pulled her away to kiss her to not only prolong it but personally when I come that close and delay repeatedly my orgasm is much more intense. I did this 3 times. When I went to do it for the 4th time, she simply pushed me back down and shook her head side to side.
Bottom line is after my orgasm which was what I would say one of high volume I thought she swallowed it all......................... Well to my surprise she did not. She slowly moved back up, laid on top of me and went in for the passionate kiss and lo and behold there it was...............
She did not spit it in my mouth, she did not drip it in my mouth, she simply had a mouthful and when my mouth opened to kiss her.................. I have no way to know but I am guessing I ended up swallowing half and she ended up swallowing half.
As for the confession, I will not tell you I loved the taste nor can I tell you what it tasted like other than a tad salty. It was indeed the first time I tasted myself with the exception of a drop here and there many many years ago as a teenager curious of the taste. But I will admit I was so into kissing her and felt so amazing after what she just did to my body and mind that I did not flinch. I did not gag, I did not pull away, I simply kissed her passionately like it was just lots of saliva.
We continued having sex, cuddling, and drinking wine for another 90 minutes or so, then fell asleep. This morning I got up, took a shower and made her breakfast. I served her in bed, we ate and I cleaned up while she showered. I kissed her goodbye and we made a date for tomorrow night. I never asked about the kiss and I don't know if the next time things repeat, go in a different wild direction, or go mild and as much as the night was amazing, I sure hope that kiss doesn't become a habit as I know I will have trouble as a man swallowing it if this continues to happen often (no pun intended).
Ladies, any thoughts on how you would want your man to feel if you were to introduce that into your relationship?
Guys, I am not sure I want to hear the barrage of attacks but go for it.
After I'd come in her mouth, she'd come up to kiss. She'd hide it under her tongue, and then slip it to me as we kissed.
She had a good sense of humor.
If you're grossed out by it, can't you tell her?
It's not a trollish, stupid, or misplaced post. A lot of folks out here have a lot of experience with this so you pose legit questions in the right place. I myself am not into snowballing but there's really only one piece of advice you need here, and it's something I suspect you already know: be honest. Tell her exactly what you expressed here, that it was hot in the moment but you'd really rather not have it be part of your ongoing activities. You might find that it encourages her to be open with you about her likes and dislikes, and things get better all the way around. Good luck!
Sex is an adventure that must be thoroughly explored to be thoroughly appreciated. Be honest with yourself and with your gal about likes and dislikes; it's certainly normal for them to change over time or even from session to session.
No two people are exactly alike, and what you described sounded like playful, impromptu experimentation. If you don't care for a repeat, I believe most gals would appreciate knowing. If she's the type of gal who doesn't care what you like and don't like, be cautious how you proceed.
You might think about reversing roles with her. If you can harvest a mouthful of her squirt, she might like sharing it in a kiss if you do. (If it were me, I'd discuss it with her first though.)
Regardless, sounds like you've got a tiger - so have fun and treat her right
I am not one of them, but it's not anything that I see you getting attacked for.
Keep in mind that if you make a big deal out of it with her, you open the door for her to refuse to DFK after DATY, with the reason that you have "pussy breath" lol
She'll love you for it....jus sayin, ya know.
...and am a little envious. Not sure I would like it every time, but as GaGambler noted... turn around is fair play... if you expect DFK after going down on her, then it seems perfectly fair that she would expect the same.
It doesn't sound as if you were totally repulsed by it, so maybe it will grow on you. As you continue to progress in this relationship, I think it best to be open and honest about your feelings and encourage her to do the same.
Good luck and enjoy the journey.
Say goodbye to the hobby, and do all you can to keep her!!
I will not go into great detail so let me just say that after a great dinner at her place and an hour in front of the fire drinking wine the movements accelerated and the sex was hot, wet, and loud. I had not had an orgasm in almost two weeks (keep that in mind).
After she went down on me for an extended period of time every time I was close I pulled her away to kiss her to not only prolong it but personally when I come that close and delay repeatedly my orgasm is much more intense. I did this 3 times. When I went to do it for the 4th time, she simply pushed me back down and shook her head side to side.
Bottom line is after my orgasm which was what I would say one of high volume I thought she swallowed it all......................... Well to my surprise she did not. She slowly moved back up, laid on top of me and went in for the passionate kiss and lo and behold there it was...............
She did not spit it in my mouth, she did not drip it in my mouth, she simply had a mouthful and when my mouth opened to kiss her.................. I have no way to know but I am guessing I ended up swallowing half and she ended up swallowing half.
As for the confession, I will not tell you I loved the taste nor can I tell you what it tasted like other than a tad salty. It was indeed the first time I tasted myself with the exception of a drop here and there many many years ago as a teenager curious of the taste. But I will admit I was so into kissing her and felt so amazing after what she just did to my body and mind that I did not flinch. I did not gag, I did not pull away, I simply kissed her passionately like it was just lots of saliva.
We continued having sex, cuddling, and drinking wine for another 90 minutes or so, then fell asleep. This morning I got up, took a shower and made her breakfast. I served her in bed, we ate and I cleaned up while she showered. I kissed her goodbye and we made a date for tomorrow night. I never asked about the kiss and I don't know if the next time things repeat, go in a different wild direction, or go mild and as much as the night was amazing, I sure hope that kiss doesn't become a habit as I know I will have trouble as a man swallowing it if this continues to happen often (no pun intended).
Ladies, any thoughts on how you would want your man to feel if you were to introduce that into your relationship?
Guys, I am not sure I want to hear the barrage of attacks but go for it.
4 dates and 1 filled with a great time and awesome sex is a great start but that is why I said I do not look past tomorrow's date.
A quick FYI, I have been part of the background on here for many years but only went on my first date within the last few months as I am recently legally separated. While I was married I would not partake in the hobby and if this young lady and I decide to be exclusive I will not partake but as great of a start as I am off to that thinking is not in my mind at the moment.
and you are far from the only guy who never whore mongered while married. I never cheated on my wife either, but 30 seconds after she moved out, "it was on like Donkey Kong" lmao
Good luck and have fun.
OTOH, I love and adore my wife, and yet, here I am.
I don't claim to succeed all the time, but I do try. lol
People have their own reasons for what they do, who am I to tell a grown man (woman) what to do in matters like this?
Well unless they ask of course. lol
It doesn't do anything for me but it is mine after all. I enjoy when a woman takes my load, and enjoy kissing with her fluids all over my face, so it would be a bit hypocritical if I pitched a fit about tasting myself from time to time. Besides if she gets her kinks you're more likely to get yours. It sounds like you and your lady friend had fun. Just roll with it, or if it is a real turn off let her know it is a no go. If you do just know she might not take the load next time ether.
My first girl friend did this with me on our second date.
I was pretty damned surprised by it but must say I love it, and still do.
She was horny as a bastard too after she did took my load in her mouth and plopped herself upon my dick and had an atomic orgasm, about a 9.5 on the Richter Scale.
Ah, those were the days.
not even if she paid ME!
... snowballing is THE most erotic thing in sex! she is a keeper- extremely intimate move- total sharing thing.....
... involved me coming on the provider- tits, belly, and then cleaning it up myself by sucking it all up- and the provider motioning for me to 'give it to her' orally- like I said, very, very sexy- taste is a bit salty and sweet- not unpleasant- just way more sexy than getting a cloth and wiping it up!
