What can you do?  You didn't take it so you can't give it back.

If you are concerned about her repeatedly calling you to demand you return it then you may want to make a pre-emptive call and say you were just calling to see if she located her missing item.  You could say you feel bad it was missing, double checked your belongings (car, clothes, whatever) and didn't find it.  Tell her you enjoyed your time together and hope it doesn't prevent you from seeing her in the future.

If she is sane, then I would think she would cool off and realize you are sincere and didn't take anything. (Besides she may well have already found the missing item.  If she's like the rest of us you'll swear you put something somewhere only to have it turn up at an entirely different location.)

Anyway, beyond the concern of her outing you, I don't think you should lose any sleep over it.  It's a misunderstanding, you didn't do it, move on.

I would just not worry about it.

It sounds to me, she is trying to make an extra buck from you.

She will not do anything crazy, like call the police, because she will then reveal herself to them.

Don't worry...just do not see her again.

Shaye

I had a similar situation.

Incall at her apartment where she actually lived, not a temp shared place like some providers do. This was with a provider I had seen several times ...5 or 6 times. I always set the donation on her bureau next to the television as I am walking out. I never hand currency to a provider. It is rude IMHO.

As I drove home, she called me and started to come back and pay her. I told her I had already paid her and put the currency in the regular place. She started yelling and screaming at me about ripping her off and stuff.

Well, it turns out she was in an alcoholic blackout, (I knew she was a little drunk when I went over, but she wasn't stumbling down drunk) and had hidden the currency. she then immediately forgot where she put it and blamed me when she couldn't find it a short while later.

She finally found it months later, but suffice it to say, I never partake of her company after this episode. Alcoholics do not make good companions or friends.

I believe from my own anecdotal experience (20 years or more as a client), that there appears to be an inordinate amount of drug, alcohol, and personailty disorders within BOTH sides of this occupation. And BTW, yes I have made all the mistakes, getting ripped off, falling in love, being assaulted. Though I am lucky enough to never have been arrested or gotten a disease. I consider the money on those bad experience as tuition and chalk it up to a learning experience.  

TANSTAAFL!  

TET

Never underestimate the power of denial.

move to a bigger town.

There is genuine concern in the tone of your post-you sound as if you are very sensitive to the fact that the provider thinks you are capable of theft. If a more seasoned, or callous, provider perceives that same sensitivity, then you could be leaving yourself vulnerable to becoming a victim.

  One would think that a reasonable person, upon finding something missing, would not immediately fling accusations without more substantive proof of theft. From what you have said it must be a small item, ie, ring, earing, necklace, etc. that could easily be lost. Since her initial conversation with you after you saw her was "give it back, I know you took it" it's pretty apparent that she thinks she can get something from you. She doesn't know for sure that you took it, but she immediately wants you to do something about it.

  Bottome line is that if you didn't take it then you can't return it, and that's all you can tell her. Unless she's threatening to call your family or work then tell her to look harder or find another victim.

  Good luck.

This must be a very uncomfortable situation for anyone. First thought that came to my head was, if this provider is bringing strangers to her incall place, why in the world would she keep valuable items there? This smacks of scam or worse..."Risky business" kind of thing. In the end, I wouldn't lose any sleep over the situation. She knew the risk of her loss or if she didn't, she knows now. I am not saying your a dishonest person by any means. You get the point.

I feel your pain about someone thinking your a crooked dirtbag when your not.  I recently had a semi similar where I accidentally shortchanged a provider on an overnighter  by about 10% of the fee. I had a mountain of 20 dollar bills from the ATM (wish I was in Vegas where they give you hundreds at the ATM!) and counted it more than once, but somewhere, somehow, I messed up.  

I tried to rebook with her when she came back to town and she flat out refused to see me since I shortchanged her last time.  I was shocked to hear this, I explained it was a total accident and that I would send her the money right away (with interest!) but she wanted no part of hearing the explanation.

I guess she just had her mind set that I was a low life crook and my explanation was falling on deaf ears at that point. I was crushed, I had a blast with her, she was amazing and the last thing I wanted to do was wreck a great thing. I had hoped to be a regular for years to come with her.  But instead I was on her dirt bag list over what was really just an accident on my part.

So......my advice to you is, it really does suck when someone thinks your a dirt bag when your not, but if the other person doesn't want to believe you there is very little you can do.  Maybe your girl will find her item and you'll be vindicated. But if that doesn't happen, just move on my friend, life aint fair some (most?) of the time!