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Re: A word about M&Gs for Newbies and Naysayers............
jdriggs 5557 reads
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I'll be there tomorrow night, for my first M & G, and I'm concerned about discretion.  In my line of "work," I know many men who I never see with girlfriends, but who could afford "the hobby."  I'm definitely "in the closet" and would be sorry to see anyone who knows me at a M & G.  Is there anything, besides not going, wearing a mask, or hiding in the corner, that I can do about it?

anon76588496434 reads

While I have NEVER been involved with the financial/money collecting part of any M&G equation (I avoid that), I can say unequivocally that NO ONE runs a M&G to make money OR for a profit. M&Gs are a huge   headache to run, and carry a certain amount of risk ( both infiltration wise & financial) . Screening is paramount & is very time consuming & is a pain in the sphincter. Lots of legwork goes into these events. Ladies go free at virtually all M&Gs while the guys absorb costs, planning set backs, headaches etc.  

If you see me at a M&G, and your are a lady, just say hello, and point us to the nearest hotel , or drag me away & relieve me of my cum !   ;-)

I'm a bad boy & have a lot of fuckin' fun ! Cheers!
Fuzzy

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astra6708 reads

good post!!

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vadhaman5129 reads

What he said. Spot on.

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nycad5784 reads

Fuzzy, I'm sure it's true. I've yet to attend a M&G, But I hope that will change.

The public M&G events are probably a little less of a headache. By nature it's a group of men and women gathering together and they were made aware of the gathering by TER. Whatever happens between individuals, on their own, after the event, is their own business.

The private events are a different story, No need to discuss that further.

Just curious about being invited to the public or private M&G's..... My status in the TER community here is that I have been posting for quite a few years. I don't have a VIP membership but I've made my presence known from the NYC boards to the Los Angeles boards for a very long time. I do have some good contacts from a few of the ladies. will those credentials enable me to attend (at least) the public events?

nycad

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bond0075702 reads

For my purposes, if 1 or 2 reputable ladies verify you, that would be sufficient for any M and G that I host.

Bond

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nycad4970 reads

Bond,

Thanks for the intell.

Do you host any M&G events in the NorthEast, NYC perhaps?

nycad

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nycad6203 reads

Duhhhhh on me, I just realized from the thread below, you're doing LA M&G, so I guess NorthEast and NYC don't apply to you.

nycad

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vadhaman6744 reads

If a reputable provider verifies you then you are good to go. It's ususally enough for most private events too.

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romeogolf4807 reads

I would imagine that the National M&G in Vegas this weekend would be considered a private event.

So what event might be considered a public event ?

I didn't know that there was a difference.

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DoctorGonzo5189 reads

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anon902104612 reads

I will have a special email address set up.
We can discuss your status privately at that time.

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nycad5590 reads

But keep in mind, I don't have a VIP membership, so I can't PM you. But if you set up an email and remember my TER handle, I'll look forward to communication with you. BTW maybe if there's some graphic design thing that can be done with and for the event, I can help you out for that NYC mixer.

nycad

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anon902106136 reads

Well said, Fuzzy. All true.
Each NYC Mixer that I do takes countless hours to set up. It has to be done right. The screening is thorough and complete. There are hundreds of emails and phone calls each time.
This does not include the time invested by my co-hosts.
There is also the travel to get the right venue, negotiations and security.

I am sure the same is true for the other M&G hosts across the Country. My hats off to them.

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27cigar5556 reads

.....enough said, and a class act!

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jdriggs5558 reads

I'll be there tomorrow night, for my first M & G, and I'm concerned about discretion.  In my line of "work," I know many men who I never see with girlfriends, but who could afford "the hobby."  I'm definitely "in the closet" and would be sorry to see anyone who knows me at a M & G.  Is there anything, besides not going, wearing a mask, or hiding in the corner, that I can do about it?

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hiddenhills5491 reads

If you meet some guy you know at a m&g, I'm guessing you didn't know that he hobbied. That puts the two of you in the same boat. BTW the way, while it's always nice to meet fellow hobbyist, the main girl is to meet some fantastic escorts!

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