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jim3543 18 Reviews 5063 reads
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I agree. I have met many ladies who give fantastic CBJ. I have never had a problem with it. And no one has ever had a problem with my request. I won't hold it against a lady if I want it that way. Using the right type of condom for a BJ is key.

denverdon27574065 reads

just read a review where a lady was given an "went extra mile" rating, but only offered covered french. In my opinion covered french is not worthy of a second visit, let alone a real good rating. Your opinions are welcome.

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CindySpice4115 reads

Well that is YOUR opinion !! Many guys want to be safe and prefer covered .
A guy has a right to rate a session how HE feels it was for him .

You can just read it and decided for yourself if you want to see that lady or not . It is like beauty is in the eye of the beholder . ;-)

BTW if a covered French isn't worth a SECOND visit .........does this mean it is worth  a first visit  ??

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scampr5428 reads

The rules are the rules. Its asinine to debate scoring without a clear understanding of the rules.  There are certain services which the owners of this site (which the have the right to do) deem as worth extra points on a grading scale. Greek, bbbj, kissing w/tongue, really bi, or more than one guy.
Therefor failing the availability of those activities the highest score a girl can get is 7 period, end of discussion. So if in the review mentioned by the original poster, none of those extra items were available she should not get higher than a 7.  The reviewer can intimate just how fantastic a lover she may have been and just how amazing the CBJ was but if he gave an unwarranted 8, then staff should have kicked it out.

Now to the discussion that Cindy wants to have: should those extras earn higher points, maybe. Maybe if we started over from scratch we could change the dynamics and find a way that is fair for everyone but how do we go back and adjust the scores for the thousands of reviews now? We can't. What we can do and what Cindy and friends should do is encourage her customers to write better reviews. Not inflate the scores but write better reviews. Most of us are guilty of turning in 4-6 sentence reviews and that really doesn't do the girls justice.  I just read a ton of GCINLA's top scoring reviews last night (all his 9s and 10s) and I actually think I know how those sessions went.  But I read my own reviews and I'm not sure even I know how they went. So I'll do better. We all should. But we should also accept the rules as they are or put our money where are mouths are and invest in a site that scores things differently.

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Number 62879 reads

Cindy, we will forever disagree on this issue, but you otherwise have my respect and admiration.

This is a business of pleasure, nothing more or less, and to my mind performance of such a service in this manner is not intellectually honest. The CBJ issue usually has nothing to do with the health of the provider or client. It is usually merely a convenient mechanism for the provider to separate her personal sex life (usually with her SO) from her professional one. While I appreciate many women need to separate themselves in such a manner to run their businesses professionally, it still does not mean the policy is an honest one.

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CindySpice2360 reads

Sorry but with me it is an issue of health !!

I don't have a SO or BF. I have no need to separate myself for my personal sex life . My job is my sex life . A sex life I very much enjoy while being safe , as my clients do too .
If I met a guy in a club and wanted to have a one night stand with him I would also use protection .

I don't think less of anyone who wants to do bare back , that is thier  choice , thier  risk ............. just not mine .
Just as when I drive my car I use a seat belt ;-)

Yes this is a business of pleasure , pleasure you can have and be safe .

We don't have to agree on this issue .......thank god there are enough men who do think like me .

I just wonder if by next year BBFS will be offered ..........well hey it doesn't feel good covered !;-) ;-)

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GreekGoddess3592 reads

Wow, an 8 for just covered French...  

The Wow wasn't to put down CBJ, To me it sounded like that's all the Session was...GG

-- Modified on 1/27/2004 6:31:14 PM

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Devin Taylor2255 reads

feeling safe from(some) STDS. Sometimes a girl can give an even better cbj because she has no fear of giving or recieving STDS or having the worry off getting "one in the eye". There are plently of ladies that do bbj ,so those who "have" to have that have a huge selection :)

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jim35435064 reads

I agree. I have met many ladies who give fantastic CBJ. I have never had a problem with it. And no one has ever had a problem with my request. I won't hold it against a lady if I want it that way. Using the right type of condom for a BJ is key.

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EWADS3301 reads

What is the right kind of condome for CBJ?

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1woody2182 reads

The one most likely to break!!

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Rickbethel2413 reads

According to the TER guidelines, a provider who is excellent in everything she does, offers DFK (for example), but insists on CBJ, can be rated with an 8 for performance.

I have been there, and I would go back. Are we looking for specific acts, or unforgettable evenings with incredible ladies?

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tell it like it is3186 reads

who gives a **@ about bbbj...  not every guy cares about that stuff.  the performance should be how the provider makes you feel at the session...in the end, isn't that what it's all about?  I don't like this cap at 7, with the listed items as extra points.  the girl could offer those things and still have a bad attitude or be a lousy lay, while a girl that doesn't might be fantastic.

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STUMPY2535 reads

If she gives you a BBBJ but her performance is poor and her attitude is bad you can rate her as low as a 2.  The ratings guidelines say that you may only rate her as high as a 7 if she does not perform any of those acts and are allowed to add 1 point for each of those items she offers.  You are never required to give a lady a 7 or more no matter what she does.

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tba3446 reads

If you feel covered French doesn't warrant a second visit, that is your opinion and not open to debate.

A lady who only gives covered not worthy of a "real good rating"?  Bull.  There is so much more to a memorable session than covered vs. uncovered.  In my opinion.

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Big Vein2379 reads

is most definitely worth a 2nd visit, not to mention a 3rd, 4th, 5th, etc IMHO.  She's the only one who offers covered that I can honestly say that about. And BTW, try the Tantra!!!  You'll never experience anything like it again -- unless you see Cindy for a return visit.

-- Modified on 1/27/2004 7:46:43 PM

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bond0074370 reads

Ok, great that this only your opinion.

Here is mine:

First off, and maybe I am in the minority on this, if and when I do a review (I don' do many), I review the entire session.  Did I enjoy the session?  Was it what I expected?  Am I still smiling?  If I can say yes to those questions, then the lady is damn well going to get a good review from me.  Because bottom line, I am paying money to have a great time with a beautiful lady (or 2, lol).  IMHO, those are the questions every reviewer should answer when doing a review.

Obviously, we all look for certain activities.  And, I am not disputing that.  If a BBBJ is something you must have, then fine.  Don't see a lady that doesn't do one.  But to say a lady is not worth a return visit because she doesn't do one??  To be quite honest, that is absolutely ridiculus.  Who are you to say?  As Cindy says, it might not be worth a first visit to you.  And Cindy would be the first to admit that.

Bond

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1woody2848 reads

Covered or uncovered: I dont care.  Just keep me/them cumming.

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