I recently had my first threeway with two absolutely gorgeous women, something I had fantasized about for a long time. A strange thing happened, however. Every time I started paying attention to one, a small voice in my head (the big one, not the little one, who was doing just fine) made me feel guilty about ignoring the other one. On top of that, from time to time I experienced what I can only describe as sensory overload, particularly when one was giving me bbbj while I was daty with the other. I'm not saying this wasn't one of the most unbelievably great experiences of my life, but I don't think I'll do it again. Has anyone else had an experience like this?
Give yourself some time to process the experience and then give it another go.
Practice makes perfect, after all.
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Sounds like you were trapped in a sexually fueled fit of mania.
Maybe you are not doing enough for your pleasure. For example, my fav position in a threesome is dogging one while she is eating out the other. That way, you get the pleasurable feeling while also watching the two girls interact.
The variation of the above position is to have girl #2, instead of receiving oral from girl 1, is for her to slide under girl 1 facing up so she can lick your balls while you fk girl 1 in doggie.
Both of those positions will make your concentration and enjoyment better because as you state, fking at the same time you are giving oral can be sensory overload.
I also like to finish at times with a double BJ, with both girls soley focusing on you.
Btw, lose the guilt. You are paying them. They are their to please you, not the other way around.
I wonder if one of his dates name was Trinity?
...the timing and choreography gets a bit easier, especially if 2 or more of the participants have done it before, or at least have a good chemistry together.
I had the same experience and felt I had paid more attention to one more than the other. One I had seem many times and I felt she was left out of the experience. Once her roommate left I stayed a bit and tried to make it up to her. The other woman was a last minute replacement so that may have been a little bit of the problem too. Not sure I'd do it again but maybe I should just to see if the chemistry would be better if the two women were more in tune with the experience and each other.
It's honestly up to the women to accommodate the man, not the other way around. They should always be accessible in some form. I've done doubles before and you just make sure the attention keeps flowing. I enjoy doubles because watching the intensity of the overload and bringing them back down is highly enjoyable to control. Seeing how many times they'll beg is awesome. But every man is different so you must be able to gauge that along with the other participant.
From what I can tell, you do massage only.
I think 4 hand massages are great, but doing the full monty with two escort doesn't appeal so much to me for reasons mentioned in this thread.
Had my first threesome with my wife and an awesome provider, i was more worried about how my wife was going to react as she had never been witha woman before, the main reason i was so nervous was i didnt want to upset her by doing anything she wasnt comfortable with, i didnt want to spend too much time on one or the other , but i also wanted to make sure i was pleasing the lady we were with, my wife finally told me to let go and get into it and NOT worry about her that she was doing great, after that it was amazing, i was able to enjoy myself and savor everything, so i would say try it again, im sure they ladies are very understanding of those situations, and know how to make it work, and you have nothing to worry about, just go with the flow., i cant wait until our next date!!! it was the best thing we have ever done, and one of the greatest times of my life.
I love 3somes largely because I love watching 2 hotties get it on as part of the session. And the rest of the session always involves everyone--think doggie with lady 1 while she's DATY with lady 2 and you'll get the idea. If the encounter was too much for you no biggie--plenty of other diversions to be enjoyed here
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I have to say I had no such thoughts in my first p4p MFF. I suppose I may have had such thoughts if it had been a civvie experience, but one of the things I'm paying for is to enjoy myself without having those nagging worries. And so you really think that a girl you paid to be in a threesome is going to be offended you didn't give her as much dick as you gave the other girl? Well, to each his own and if you want to believe that it's your business but I'd argue you'll have more fun after you accept that it ain't the case. And as for sensory overload, bring it!
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We have to mutlitask in nearly every other facet of our leaves. Deep erotic pleasure should be about focus and flow, not shuffling back and forth. I am getting ready to do an exotic vacation for a husband and wife duo from Hong King and I keep telling them--it is not about how many things we can do, all together, at once! We need to be patient, learn to fan the flames for our team, while we wait for our turn. But being the sexy witness is never to be underestimated--learn to have observational orgasms and transmit them!
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Your best bet in those situations is to just go with the flow. That's always been my approach... 
Manage, that is.
The only time you should feel like you "have" to do anything, is if there's a specific something you want done. Otherwise, your (properly vetted) lady friends have probably got an idea as to how to warm you up and cool you down. Especially if they've been together long enough to have a little bit of a routine together (and have gotten the accidental head butts out of the way).
My advice for your first few: sit back and watch what happens. It IS a lot to take in. I know my first few felt like I had been thrown in the middle of a three ring circus, and I'm the one who went in with a plan! But, I promise that it'll eventually flow smoothly, as soon as you learn to relax into the rhythm of things, rather than try to do ALL the things right this second. Once you get in the groove and your nerves subside, the fun will really start.
If you didn't like it, then there's nothing wrong with it not being your thing. But if the problem was more to the enjoying it too much to function side of things, it'll get better. Promise