When I was in my early 20s and clueless about everything, I was introduced to a circle of 10/10 girls, also in their 20s, by my pretty female friend-with-"just a tiny bit of benefits." I was "the reliable guy friend" (read: back burner loser) and soundboard to help her rebound. In exchange, I scored good sex for maybe once or twice a month. One thing that kept popping up in their conversations was this term - "upscale guy"
Upscale guy: it doesn't matter how much $ a guy makes, what matters is how much $ the guy is willing to spend (on the girls). The girls' goal was not get the richest guy (who can often be frugal), but get the most lavish spender. My time spent with them made me realize many things. I stopped revolving my life around girls and became 100% focused on my career and my continued learning. Nobody can love ourselves as much as we do, that is my lesson. Now I am a hobbyist..
roses=dollars gfe=more dollars mature=old classy=old and more dollars
Maybe the upscale gentleman is just a code for "don't question my rates". Yeah, I'm sure that's what it really must mean. I do see that a number of well respected posters here suggest that rates are always negotiable however.
Seems like a conundrum.
Posted By: GaGambler
regardless of how good or poor her service. lol
That should get you the accreditation you (and others) seem to crave.
What exactly defines upscale? And if I take a guess on what it means, I suspect its not likely that the guys who aren't upscale are going to admit to it, or that they'll say "well I'm not upscale so I guess I'll look elsewhere"
I always wear a cutaway coat to all my assignations with ladies of the evening. I always have my batman exfoliate and buff my entire body with particular attention to my "bits and pieces." When arranging an appointment with a "soiled dove" I give her all my personal information including credit card and checking account numbers. I make sure to present her the full donation plus a 25% tip in a subtly perfumed envelope. Even though I arrived squeaky clean I immediately take a shower so she knows I am dewy and fresh. I then indulge in light social banter after decanting the fine Bordeaux I brought in a velvet-lined leather case. After gently disrobing her, whilst kissing each piece of flesh I expose, I graze between her snowy thighs until she shudders with orgasm. Then I fall asleep, confident in a job well done. When she gently rouses me from slumber I quickly dress and leave, thanking her profusely for her indulgences. No wonder my return is always welcomed. Because I am the very definition of an "upscale gentleman." As you can plainly see
I didn't realize that passing that test, or exam as the Senator is suggesting would be so difficult.
Pardon me for asking, but I didn't see anywhere in your example that you actually get serviced.
Is that correct?
Or are you just there for the connection factor?
Posted By: inicky46
I always wear a cutaway coat to all my assignations with ladies of the evening. I always have my batman exfoliate and buff my entire body with particular attention to my "bits and pieces." When arranging an appointment with a "soiled dove" I give her all my personal information including credit card and checking account numbers. I make sure to present her the full donation plus a 25% tip in a subtly perfumed envelope. Even though I arrived squeaky clean I immediately take a shower so she knows I am dewy and fresh. I then indulge in light social banter after decanting the fine Bordeaux I brought in a velvet-lined leather case. After gently disrobing her, whilst kissing each piece of flesh I expose, I graze between her snowy thighs until she shudders with orgasm. Then I fall asleep, confident in a job well done. When she gently rouses me from slumber I quickly dress and leave, thanking her profusely for her indulgences. No wonder my return is always welcomed. Because I am the very definition of an "upscale gentleman." As you can plainly see.
my day job is waiting tables at an upscale restaurant. Sometimes I take my ladies there for a fine dinner, after they wake me up. But I always pay them for their time, as well as for their upscale meal. It's how I roll, so to speak
When I was in my early 20s and clueless about everything, I was introduced to a circle of 10/10 girls, also in their 20s, by my pretty female friend-with-"just a tiny bit of benefits." I was "the reliable guy friend" (read: back burner loser) and soundboard to help her rebound. In exchange, I scored good sex for maybe once or twice a month. One thing that kept popping up in their conversations was this term - "upscale guy"
Upscale guy: it doesn't matter how much $ a guy makes, what matters is how much $ the guy is willing to spend (on the girls). The girls' goal was not get the richest guy (who can often be frugal), but get the most lavish spender.
My time spent with them made me realize many things. I stopped revolving my life around girls and became 100% focused on my career and my continued learning. Nobody can love ourselves as much as we do, that is my lesson.
When you hear the William Tell Overture, if you think of Rossini’s last opera you are an upscale gentleman. If you think of the Lone Ranger you are not.
I'm a smart man, generous and extremely good looking.
I also don't make loud farting noises....and have excelled at making it look like it came from several seats away.
We could even talk about torts...tarts...farts...something like that.
Posted By: rrasha88
When you hear the William Tell Overture, if you think of Rossini’s last opera you are an upscale gentleman. If you think of the Lone Ranger you are not.
What does it mean if I don't know what the William Tell Overture is, or who Rossini is and there is no song or tune that makes me think of The Lone Ranger (although I know a pretty good joke about Tonto and the Lone Ranger)?
I suspect this puts me well below down scale, a cuss who has very little cultural sophistication, one who has the artistic ability of a door knob. I'm all "left brain" or "right brain" whichever is based upon math and logic. Although I'm a Scientist, I totally bypassed Biology, no desire to cut open a frog and examine its innards.
But now I know three things, I'm not upscale, my envelope is always correct and you Rrasha, you have an incredible ass. I'm a nerd, plain and simple.
An upscale gentleman is normally a gentleman that doesn't offend a girl talks considerately to her brings a small gift and dresses appropriately that would mean a suit or casual dress close. Mostly very thoughtful and mannerly on time and leaves when he sees its appropriate to do so without a problem and only saying positive things.
lol. sorry. in my opinion, an upscale gentleman is a fella who can behave like a gentleman. you know - not pick your nose, ass, or balls in public. they know how to act around a woman who has (hopefully) gone out of their way to impress (albeit for consideration at times) someone who has the potential of picking their nose/ass/balls anywhere they feel like it tee hee hee.
also... an upscale fella would prefer not to take their date to a seedy motel, a parking lot, ask for a car date, etc, etc, etc... or pick their nose ass or balls in a public place with the lady standing there. lol unless of course, that was a fetish or fantasy they would like to play out, in which case, either do your research & communicate with the lady upfront that you are upscale but desire to play out a fantasy of being a monkey man" ... or you could do the scary backpage thing .... lol
also, offering to get the room & booking a red roof type place is not all that great of a idea. at least on a first date....
It actually has nothing to do with "social class." Nothing to do with how expensive her clothes are and what she wears. Nothing to do with her knowlege of places and things in the world, degrees she has, or how many languages she speaks. And it has nothing to do with the quality of her incall and the wine she has waiting for me.
For me, a classy lady is one who doesn't look down on anyone, treats all the same, regardless of class or education - realizing you can learn as much about what is really important in life from the poorest schlub as you can from the jet-setting CEO. She's straight-forward and honest - but when correcting others for their errors, does so - when circumstances allow - with charm and gentleness, and not derision. She truly realizes that she doesn't know everything, and fully embraces life's journey and the new experiences and knowlege that each day can bring - often from unexpected places. And while not a door mat, she also tends to be a natural giver, concerned with the well-being of others. And lastly, she is confident, but not arrogant, takes pride in her appearance, and looks you in the eyes with a smile upon meeting you.
So to me, I approach being a gentleman in much the same way. If that - and bringing the right donation of course - is enough for a lady, then great. If she has some other idea of what being a true or "upscale" gentleman means, then that's fine, but perhaps we won't be the best fit.
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