I think it's something like that the two of us have similar interests, matching personalities, and are in tune with each other sexually. Having similar sexual interests is key as well. She's into what I like and is sexually attractive to me as well. Plus the trust factor is a big thing too. I know that there's not going to be any issues or drama. That and being friends after everything helps.
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I had a very good appointment yesterday. Very, very good...super cute face, amazing body, really got into it and she hit all my favorite notes. But it wasn't even close to the raw intensity of sex with my ATF, which always leaves me exhausted and in absolute wonder as to how it can possibly be that good. So that got me thinking, what is it about her? And I think, in addition to being drop dead gorgeous in my eyes, it is simply that she is unfailingly exactly who I need her to be in the moment - if I'm feeling silly and joking around, she's right there with me. If I show up in a state of pure lust, she's an animal. If I'm feeling mellow and just want to cuddle then that's her desire as well (an assumption, hasn't happened yet - God forbid!). In short she matches my emotional state perfectly every time, and I can't tell on any level that she's acting.
So if you have an ATF, why her?
She was my first when I returned to this game and has still not been outdone in terms of sheer inventive sexuality. She was a horny sex addict whose pretty blue eyes twinkled with lust and had the body of a gymnast. And she was smart. A real bookworm who had a room in her house that was strictly her library.
She was married to a corporate exec, drove a high-end BMW and blew all her hooker money on cruises for her family. She once blew her entire bundle from a NYC tour to book a suite in a top NY hotel overlooking Central Park and threw a party for her friends to which I was invited.
She's totally special. I miss her.
I admire most of the women I've seen, but she is the most memorable.
I think I'd be pretty damned happy. Maybe someday. 
She was married to a corporate exec, drove a high-end BMW and blew all her hooker money on cruises for her family. She once blew her entire bundle from a NYC tour to book a suite in a top NY hotel overlooking Central Park and threw a party for her friends to which I was invited.
She's totally special. I miss her.
I admire most of the women I've seen, but she is the most memorable.
great question. Believe me, I've thought about it a lot. I have had the privilege of seeing a lot of truly wonderful ladies (many more than i have reviewed here). With but a scant few exceptions, each appointment was great fun and satisfying. But with my ATF, whom I have seen innumerable times, it's just different, and frankly has been from the first time we met. I never had any intention of having "an ATF" - I just wanted to play - but it just happened. It's an indefinable feeling and emotion. When i am in her presence, i just feel different. The sex is incredible, absolutely. But just hanging out and drinking beer or scotch and shooting the breeze is also incredible, or walking down the street at Christmas window shopping, or sitting at a bar gossiping together, or her listening to me talk about real things in my life, or me listening to her. I decided to stop micro-analyzing it and just accept that she makes me feel great, and be thankful for that.
this is why I also don't get the guys who want to "take it further." Taking it further means making it real, and making it real almost certainly (I'll allow that there may be a rare exception or two) throws everything I love about my ATF and the time we spend together out the window. I'd have to care about what's going on in her life, talk about where our relationship is headed, yadda, yadda, yadda. No spank you, I like things just as they are...while I love people in generally, believe in the basic goodness of most humans and in treating people well (hence my rather awkward TER moniker), in some ways there is really no depth to my shallowness.
In many ways, real chemistry between 2 people is much more art than science... and similarly hard to describe.
they know exactly what you like and how you like it..
Sometimes you just meet someone who's on the same wavelength and it's spectacular. I've also committed a substantial amount of time in deepening our "connection," and it's only gotten better as we know just what buttons to push for each other.
I think it's something like that the two of us have similar interests, matching personalities, and are in tune with each other sexually. Having similar sexual interests is key as well. She's into what I like and is sexually attractive to me as well. Plus the trust factor is a big thing too. I know that there's not going to be any issues or drama. That and being friends after everything helps.
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pretty face, great tits, nice firm ass and tight pussy. plus she knows how to use them
In my estimation, my ATF is very GND with a very pretty face, beautiful long hair, great legs, perfect boobs and butt. She's got a very sweet personality and is pretty smart. Also important, she really gets off on what I do to her. I even have her exploring new boundaries and delightfully, she's all in.