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Damaged goods? Probably...
JohnyComeAlready 969 reads
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After having been proposed to by all the fools they see while on the clock.

Posted By: Lord_of_the_Board
Sure seems like they are...given they will see smelly ass dudes for money.  
   
 I don't get it...what normal guy would ever consider seeing an escort other than for P4P.  
   
 Can't you guys get someone to fuck you for free?

Lord_of_the_Board2929 reads

Sure seems like they are...given they will see smelly ass dudes for money.

I don't get it...what normal guy would ever consider seeing an escort other than for P4P.

Can't you guys get someone to fuck you for free?

What you've got are two sets of people willing to take risks and give society the finger if need be with the intention of enhancing their lives while harming no one.  Normal is the guy who jumps through all of society's hoops and after getting repeatedly getting kicked in the butt (often without knowing it until it's too late) wakes up each morning and says 'thank you sir, may I have another?'  That's more damaged to me.

And besides, I think even normal guys know

Posted By: Lord_of_the_Board
 Can't you guys get someone to fuck you for free?
... there ain't no such thing as a free fuck.

How's TS doing? :)

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Lord_of_the_Board1117 reads

Posted By: perfectstorm
How's TS doing? :)

And I've gotten to know some very well - they're people too (duh)! Get over it.

But, if I had any desire to be in a civie relationship I'd be happy and proud to be in a relationship with a provider or a retired provider.  

First, they wouldn't be a prude sexually, in fact they are likely to be sexually liberated. Second, they've been with a lot of different kind of guys, and they've picked me. I imagine that most providers are way more mature and appreciative of normalcy in a SO relationship role and wouldn't take it for granted.  

So if, I were looking for a SO I would look for someone in this world.

1. An escort vs the bar slut all well used there not virgins It make no different if she sold had sex for cash or she was horny and had sex with the thug at bar. Many other thing Escort do make them not worth while dating like If she does Drugs, Has a kid or kids,keep on escorting then she could get std prego lack of her need for sex, Some have debts that high than hi.

2.A guy will date a escort if he one two things respectful or give up on find miss perfect a little pass may seem ok.  

3.There is no free sex so call free sex means taking a chick out on dates paying and paying much more than what we will pay a provider

Would you at least try to put together a coherent sentence?

After I read, and re read your posts I tend to agree with what you are saying, I think.

As for your reference to an escort or bar slut, I'd much rather be with an escort who plays safe, than some bar hag who may intend on using a condom but when things go down she's either too drunk or doesn't care to "toe the line". And then you have to think about the guys she's banging. It would be nearly the same as picking up a street walker.

should people be able to delete their stupid posts, particularly when they start a thread?

Lord_of_the_Board1021 reads

I also think you have me confused with some other poster.

Check that...I guarantee you have me confused with some other poster  ;)

Posted By: lbll
should people be able to delete their stupid posts, particularly when they start a thread?  

Seems like Skelator deleted his/her thread yeaterday. Deleting a post within 4 hours after you post it is easy. Just hit edit, physically delete the body text and subject line, and replace the subject line with "delete." after the four hour window, hit report a post. Posters do it all the time. Not necessarily because their post was stupid, but many do it when the start a thread and don't like the answers they get.

As far as aliases, see the link.

GaGambler1208 reads

A lawyer might object that you are "assuming facts not in evidence" lol

Lord_of_the_Board907 reads

I agree...I doubt that Skeletor deleted his own OP.

I still maintain it is He-Man that has a "hard on" for Skeletor.

Posted By: GaGambler
A lawyer might object that you are "assuming facts not in evidence" lol

I said, "Seems like Skelator deleted his/her post..."
I didn't say, "Skelator deleted..."
I think my use of the phrase "seems like" covers me if my assumption proves incorrect, but maybe I should defer to our "still not a lawyer" friend. :)

Thanks for replying in a constructive way, it just seems to me that people have aliases simply to be a pain in the ass.   As for deleting threads, I know it happens all the time but it just seems to me to be a waste of time other than when it is done by Admin for sensitive/safety reasons.

Lord_of_the_Board1131 reads

And I can absolutely guarantee you that it wasn't deleted by the poster(s) here  ;)

Posted By: lbll
Thanks for replying in a constructive way, it just seems to me that people have aliases simply to be a pain in the ass.   As for deleting threads, I know it happens all the time but it just seems to me to be a waste of time other than when it is done by Admin for sensitive/safety reasons.

djddla966 reads

google search among others will save these threads forever. So if your normal handle becomes known or a former provider friend becomes a foe, you're fucked. Furthermore I use this alias which some know anyway to stir the pot and receive reprimands from that oriental gambler and some fatass pros who have never seen this planet outside their little frozen tundra cities

GaGambler949 reads

I am not one of those people of course, lol and I do agree that the internet is forever, current friends may not always be friends and I am living proof that people, cowardly people especially, will use any information that they have on you to try and get "revenge" for the pettiest of reasons.

Posted By: Lord_of_the_Board
Sure seems like they are...given they will see smelly ass dudes for money.
it's just a job. Doctors, nurses, firemen/women, coos, sewage plant workers, vets, and many other workers also have to deal with disgusting, dirty, smelly people and things.
   
I don't get it...what normal guy would ever consider seeing an escort other than for P4P.
I don't know. Maybe I'm not normal.
   
Can't you guys get someone to fuck you for free?
Probably not the type of lady I would want to fuck.

I would ask either of them on how to take care of a sick person. There just use drugs and like to cut. I have a good friend that work in a sewage plant but would ask him if had a drain problem. I have another little older friend that service under Hitler I would as him to fight a battle for me he has enough of his own problems. A I hope you not saying that us johns are dirty smelly like the trash you put out front or the sewage city. I think most john try to make it as nice as possible for the lady but like the said a woman has to eat.

sweet_potatoe_pie985 reads

Lord_of_the_Board? more like Lord_of_the_Bored. Go fuck women for free and leave us alone.

Lord_of_the_Board1032 reads

I guess it's you...just another one of the guys that I was referring to on the OP.

Sorry that you have no self-esteem.  Do you also do the comb over?

Posted By: sweet_potatoe_pie
Lord_of_the_Board? more like Lord_of_the_Bored. Go fuck women for free and leave us alone.

sweet_potatoe_pie1012 reads

Yes, we do exist. I'm happily a she, not a he. Anger is much too cumbersome for some.

RokkKrinn997 reads

1988 just called.  They want you back....

other than Quayle, or aliaspie?

Posted By: RokkKrinn
1988 just called.  They want you back....

Lord_of_the_Board1147 reads

Yeah I know you're the one escort that isn't damaged.

That's what the damaged escorts all say  ;)

And if you're going to use some ad hominem here...you need to add that in addition to angry, I'm also bald, fat old and smelly.

That way I won't mistake your post for being just another ad hominem attack.

Posted By: sweet_potatoe_pie
Yes, we do exist. I'm happily a she, not a he. Anger is much too cumbersome for some.

I'd say the ladies I've met in P4P are a lot more fun and open minded than civvie. They know men are sex addicts and most of them are as well. So they decided to profit from both.

After having been proposed to by all the fools they see while on the clock.

Posted By: Lord_of_the_Board
Sure seems like they are...given they will see smelly ass dudes for money.  
   
 I don't get it...what normal guy would ever consider seeing an escort other than for P4P.  
   
 Can't you guys get someone to fuck you for free?

you said it yourself, "smelly ass".

Lord_of_the_Board1109 reads

I guess you're the poster that complained to TER?

No...not you.

still not a lawyer  :)

Posted By: mrfisher
you said it yourself, "smelly ass".

but I don't do it anyways.  What's the point after all?

Panthera121193 reads

although I wouldn't throw a blanket and say they are all damaged goods, just a good percentage of them. I also wouldn't want to be married again at all.  

To answer your other question, I can and do get fucked for free but my two latest GF's are a little older then I like and quite boring. I prefer the low maintenance 20 something hooker to fuck and then exit.

Panthera121137 reads

if I want more offspring and I don't need anyone to cook and clean for me. I can outsource the dirty work.

To me, good escorts are more "real" than many average civvie girls I've dated.

Good escorts are entrepreneurs who work for themselves and their brand.  I respect women who are decisive, capable, and independent, and good escorts share these qualities.

Compared to some civvie girls who don't get out much, I would rather talk to an escort who recently returned from oversea trips to learn a thing or two from her.

Also, I think the guys who can afford $1k/hr escorts are generally not smelly.

Count yourself in with those other smelly ass dudes.

I don't know where you're picking your escorts up from but the ladies I've met are nice and they're real people with real feelings. You're asking us why we can't get someone to fuck us for free but yet you're here too. Why are you here, can't you find someone to fuck you for free?

All shapes, colors and sizes - either way you put it, there is always an exchange.
Just my dos kilos.
xo

ROGM1003 reads

Posted By: Lord_of_the_Board
Can't you guys get someone to fuck you for free?
Even Civvie Girls charge for Sex in one form or another.

Lord_of_the_Board1070 reads

Had to have the standard loser line from loser guys who have NO game.

Maybe buy her some diapers, food and cigarettes?

Amazing that so many guys have NSA sex with women and never venture into this world.  Not guys like you ROGM...hence my OP!

Posted By: ROGM
 
   
Posted By: Lord_of_the_Board
Can't you guys get someone to fuck you for free?
   
 Even Civvie Girls charge for Sex in one form or another.

ROGM1144 reads

Posted By: Lord_of_the_Board
Had to have the standard loser line from loser guys who have NO game.  
   
 Maybe buy her some diapers, food and cigarettes?  
   
 Amazing that so many guys have NSA sex with women and never venture into this world.  Not guys like you ROGM...hence my OP!  
   
Posted By: ROGM
 
     
Posted By: Lord_of_the_Board
Can't you guys get someone to fuck you for free?
 
     
  Even Civvie Girls charge for Sex in one form or another.
 
You must be a Legend in your own Mind.  

There's no way a Lady is going to be with a Guy that has no Money. Game or no Game.

Lord_of_the_Board1172 reads

Which is why I posted the OP in the first place.

I'm still not sure why you randomly capitalize words...but perhaps that is another reason you have to pay for sex.

Maybe get a second job so you can afford to hire an escort?  Or are you just going to keep on claiming to see some poor woman who is so pathetically damaged that her level of self-esteem thinks that you're the guy to save her from poverty?

Yes...you are clearly a legend in your own mind.  Didn't mean to steal that...but I did just for you.

Posted By: ROGM
 
   
Posted By: Lord_of_the_Board
Had to have the standard loser line from loser guys who have NO game.  
     
  Maybe buy her some diapers, food and cigarettes?  
     
  Amazing that so many guys have NSA sex with women and never venture into this world.  Not guys like you ROGM...hence my OP!  
     
Posted By: ROGM
   
       
   
Posted By: Lord_of_the_Board
Can't you guys get someone to fuck you for free?
   
       
   Even Civvie Girls charge for Sex in one form or another.
   
   
 You must be a Legend in your own Mind.  
   
 There's no way a Lady is going to be with a Guy that has no Money. Game or no Game.

He alternates between claiming his undying affection for his "sweet and adorable" and bragging about paying half her normal rate, followed by discourses on how he takes her to buy groceries to "help her out." I've long held that's it's all fiction and ROGM is 12 years old...whether that's an emotional or chronological age makes no difference.

Why would anyone marry someone who visits escorts?

OP fucking moron. The only damaged good is your brain.

ROGM1240 reads

Posted By: ktp123
Why would anyone marry someone who visits escorts?  
   
 OP fucking moron. The only damaged good is your brain.
 
A lot of Married Guys see Escorts. Of course most wives have no idea yet. It's just a matter of time before they get caught.

Those in the hobby, those outside.
The question for any two people is "what do you want out of life going forward?"
If they both are aligned for future desires and possible plans, then anything is possible.
The problem is, the initial basis of the current provider/hobbiest relationship is sex, and money for sex - so it makes it harder to determine compatability on all the other things that really matter more.  That said, anything is possible if two people really want it and are willing to work at it and sacrifice/compromise to make it work.

It depends on what you like!
A former classmate of mine from the middle east, was raised with the mental suggestion that women should be chaste, and only be with one man-their husband- their entire life.  He doesn't want his future wife to be "ran through".  I'm sure lots of guys share his views.
But some guys I've met actually think that escorts are super sexy and it's a huge turn-on for them if a girl is hot enough and slutty enough and smart enough to do this work...for some guys it's their "type".

As long as whomever I commits to respects my need to be found attractive to others and my need for other cocks every once in a while we should be OK. I still intend on being respectful and clean with my trysts and I would allow him to be the same. Marriage would be complicated but who's isn't?  

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I dare anyone to tell me honestly and with a straight face that they have ZERO baggage.  If you do, I'll probably laugh at you and assume that you are lying.

Life isn't some sedate little walk, from birth to death, through a field of flowers filled with frolicking puppies.  Every single one of us has been hurt by someone at some point in our lives.  We carry it with us, and sometimes it colors the way we interact with others.  Mature people find a way to process it, accept it, and move on; but nobody is ever perfect, and that's okay too.  I have yet to meet a single person on the planet who hasn't been damaged in some way by life.  So what?  Life isn't SUPPOSED to be a bubble.  It's more of an extreme sport.

Of course, this wasn't a serious question.  Just an excuse to flaunt the resentment you obviously harbor towards professional companions.

Oh, and one more thing.  Maybe YOU stink, but my suitors always have impeccable hygiene.  Quit projecting your issues onto other hobbyists.

i strongly disagree with your assessment. I have met some wonderful, wonderful ladies that I just adore (and one lovely lady in particular). They are very caring people.

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