most providers I seen are not worth seeing twice but of the few that wore one quit one did out call only for a much higher price.
Do you enjoy seeing a new provider each time or do you like to stick to what you know and see someone you've seen in the past? Please take a second to place a vote on the straw poll I made
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most providers I seen are not worth seeing twice but of the few that wore one quit one did out call only for a much higher price.
Perhaps because I can't hobby as often as I'd like, I'm really particular about my choices. Still, I wind up making some bad choices. When I find someone I like, though, I'll repeat. A bird in the hand and all that.
Having said that, I've decided that if a repeat provider starts behaving as though she's taking things for granted, I'm just going to look elsewhere. I've spent far too much on getting frustrated.
Once you find a lady, or ladies, who take care of your specific needs as a gentleman, repeating has brought me the greatest joy. In fact, sessions get better and better. Case in point. I just saw a lady I've seen many many times, and the session was our best of all time. We rocked it! To top it off, she even fed me, and gave me a Christmas gift. Why wouldn't I repeat? Of course, nothing lasts forever, especially here. So you still have to see a new lady from time to time, searching for a new fit.
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REpeating is nice but too often they take you for granted... plus there are variations in services & I match to my desires of the moment. Last there are conflicts of availability & a gal you've seen will not need to screen you again.
But usually they get complacent on service and then its over. IMO after 3-6 times then they tak you for granted.
While I do enjoy finding new and exiting women who share my passion for love making, I won't hesitate to repeat with a lady whom I've already made a connection with. If I hit it off nicely with someone, then why wouldn't I repeat when our schedules mesh at a later date? There are providers that I might only get to see once a month or once every couple of months. And if we truly enjoy each others' company, than I'm gonna go out of my way to see her again the first opportunity I get because she really makes me feel good.
I LOVE the variety. But I also adore a couple certain providers. The problem I run into is schedules and being able to SEE the favorites. Probably best for my bank account I guess….
I guess I'm 50/50 on this vote.
pretty much one repeat and a little bit of looking for diamonds in the rough. Got a couple of lumps of coal this holiday season so may stay in ATF territory for awhile.
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...far and away.
The hassles of screening, the process of finding someone who pushes the right buttons, yada yada, make me the type who'd rather repeat amongst a much smaller group of favorites.
I agree that the "taken for granted" scenario is something to be mindful of, though. Sometimes, you just gotta stand your ground, and risk losing a good thing.
I try new ones until I find two I like and then switch back and forth between them regularly. Occasionally I'll try a new one if there is a highly rated one I'm interested in available to me.
I have to say it just gets better once u find the right one !
Variety and someone new can be exciting
Someone u connect with ..... Nothing better
I don't hobby so frequently that I get tired of my favorite(s). There are some who seem new each time I see them. Really. They have a gift. And there is one who fascinates me as a person, and sometimes I feel that the only way to get her to myself for a few hours is to book a session.
But here's the thing about variety. It sometimes feels like each new adventure is a pig in poke because I'm never sure about the pics being real, the reviews being inflated, etc. So when the door opens and I meet the woman I saw on the site I'm already at 9/? and if the experience is totally favorable it's at least an 8. So getting to know someone new is very exciting, unless it turns out to be someone I wish I hadn't taken the time and spent the money to know. Hasn't happened in a long, long time, but the uncertainty is always there, and it's less and less part of the excitement.
Besides. Finding a parking spot near a new incall can be a hassle.
I like variety, plus I travel a lot. I usually, have one local provider that I circle back and see.
a new provider each time or do you like to stick to what you know and see someone you've seen in the past? Please take a second to place a vote on the straw poll I made
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They always get preference...
That said, I always rely on my intuitive feel when playing with someone for the first time. I am usually right..
I'm pretty new at this so still experimenting: variety is key to figuring out what you like.
I rotate among my favorites. I know what I like and they know what I like 8o)
I like repeat visits. If I click with someone then our visits together get better over time - comfort levels established and more opportunity to try new things.
I like variety too but will usually seek someone new to me if I think there's more of a possibility of repeat visits. I like familiarity.
Smaller number of providers with more repeat visits is more of my goal than multiple random encounters
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repeat has to be to be really outstanding. like to try the different races of provider
Over my 8+ years in the hobby, my first visits with providers have been uniformly terrific. Then, when I repeat with some it gets better each time. Much better. While with a few others I've found I definitely get taken for granted after a couple of months - it feels less like how can I make this special and more like how can I get this over with quickly.
I always book multi hour appointments and on my last visit with someone I have seen many times, where a second cup had always been offered previously this time after cup number one and before I could turn around the clothes went on and were were sitting and chatting, playing out the string (which strangely went for an OTC hour plus beyond the two hrs we agreed to). Things had been drifting this way as she had stopped turning her phone off, and gave a lot less attention to preparation. It was more like we have been married for several years. We enjoyed each other's company but I felt more like a paycheck (which is actually a familiar feeling as that's what my marriage was like).
So, 2015 will be my year for moving on from any stale repeat arrangements and finding some new people to enjoy time with.
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that is, 90% of the time I only see the same lady twice.
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But haven't found many locals that inspire me to repeat (until just this week - may have finally found my ATF/UTR - and although she's a newbie, we click on a lot of levels). So wind up seeing travelers but again, seem to have found a few of these lately that I'd like to repeat if they (hopefully) come back to town.
Would like to be and am working on becoming a repeater but have to admit that until now, I've pretty much been a once and done hobbiest for the most part (though it looks like that may change).
I started off with variety as my top priority. But I find this world to be seriously unreliable, with cancellations and NCNS's. Even with following the rules with well reviewed providers. A while back I had the good fortune of meeting someone on this site, who has since gone completely UTR. Not only that, she has a circle of friends who only meet via referral. White lists and P411 are not good enough. She has introduced me into this small community, where traditional screening and the hassles that go with it are eliminated. So now I find myself repeating with a small group of ladies, who are reliable and professional. Maybe being UTR means a smaller groups of clients, as it seems they really appreciate the business, and go out of their way to make sure I have a good time.
When I book, I know the meeting is on, and if not, then I get plenty of warning. I find the process so much more enjoyable and stress-free with this arrangement, that I have almost stopped seeing new providers. Maybe that will change, but for now I am a happy repeater.