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mojojo 1 Reviews 865 reads
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The fantasy is what goes on in your mind prior to your arrival. You get to fulfill that fantasy, or turn it into reality, when you visit her. Fantasies are totally different for each gentleman. They may include a certain hair color, body type, body part, article of clothing, age, preference, number of women, sexual act, and on and on. The fantasy might also include roll playing certain scenarios. Most ladies will play the roll you want them to play, if that's what interests you. She might even pull out a whip.

For example, one of my big fantasies is a hairy pussy. Love them to death. So I would seek out someone like Zoey Zacquery if I wanted that fantasy fulfilled, if she traveled to a city nearby. As you may be well aware, my little fantasy is one that isn't easily fulfilled with the advent of the shaved pussy. But I have indeed found a lady to fulfill that fantasy in my area. That's not my only fantasy, and I don't seek it out every time. Your fantasy is pretty straightforward. You want to f*ck, cum, then go home. That's what's going through your mind when searching for a lady. That's why you don't do fbsm, because that's massage and cum.  

Sometimes, I think some of the guys around these parts, fantasize about taking p4p beyond. Some have even gotten married to a provider, which, in some minds, is the ultimate hobby fantasy. The provider who has f*cked and cummed thousands of guys picked you to marry. That makes you quite the stud, and fulfills that fantasy in you. That's never been a fantasy of mine. I'm more of the mind set of what Minnie said. We have a situation here, where a man and a woman can be their very best selves with each other, 99% of the time. That's a huge fantasy because that just doesn't happen in most real life relationships. Especially after they've progressed

HarryWotton2146 reads

This issue has been on my mind for a while because everybody refers to the fantasy and I do not get it.    Yes, I am relatively new to TER but certainly not new to fucking around in P4P.   I am also not the sharpest knife in the drawer, but I am not a complete dimwit, at least I don't think I am :)

It seems pretty simple to me: I pick out a lady because there is something I find appealing about the lady -  it could be simply physical (sometimes a pair of good tits alone will do it, once in a while, I can objectify a woman with the best of them), it may have to do with personality and it could be both.   I then ask,  I pay, I get to spend some naked time admiring the lady, there is a bit of chit-chat, I get to paw her like a horny teenager, we play, I cum, I cum, I cum - no wait, THAT IS a fantasy!   I am getting older, I simply cum (knock on wood).    Seriously, where was the fantasy?    I got to spend time with the lady, I fucked her and I came.  

I don't care why it happened or how it happened.   Hell, when you pick-up a civvy, it is not necessarily because she found they guy attractive in any shape or form, it may simply be that she was horny and the guy was the best in the crap pile to choose from at that particular place and time (incidentally, most of the time, it is the woman who picks the guy up, not the other way around, because therein lies the real fantasy, guys thinking they did the picking up and women letting them think so to stroke their egos).  

In P4P I am there for my pleasure.   Would I like it if the lady enjoyed herself physically?    Of course, but in my mind, the odds of that happening are not good and it is not simply because I am a lousy lover - perhaps that is where I have an advantage, I know I am lousy in the sack. Lol!  Quite frankly, the fact that the lady does not O or does not find me attractive does not detract from my experience in the least bit.   Now, would I like it rubbed in my face that she does not find me attractive?  Well no, that would be pretty rude in any setting.

Talk about paying, one of my favorite things to say when I see a guy flirting with my wife at a bar is this:  "go right on ahead, don't mind me, but please understand that you will also be taking all the payments that go along with her."

Fire away, what am I missing?

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Skinny_Minnie:-)892 reads

As you know, both men and women get pretty complacent in a lot of areas once they get married, so the hobby is about getting a young woman in matching underwear, and makeup, who is excited and motivated to get down and dirty with you.  And the provider gets a guy with shaved balls, who smells good, is a gentleman, and treats her like one of the most beautiful women in the world!

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Dr Who revived697 reads

I'm sure that you may have done that at some point?

I know I have  ;)

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HarryWotton752 reads

usually takes a while before they start picking their nose and farting in front of you (ok, ok, I admit it, the farting comes from me).   Now about the makeup, please, not too much, I hate it when I think that the person I am seeing is auditioning for clown school.

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HangingwithBears930 reads

Even in the hobby, things slide the more you see each other. Remember that girl who greeted you at the door in sexy see-thru lingerie and planted a big kiss on you the first time you met? Fast forward a dozen appointments and now she's greeting you in sweats and sometimes no makeup while finishing up her food and complaining about previous clients who wanted weird shit. Then she needs to pee before sex, lol.

I don't know if the guys degrade over time but I try very hard not to. All it takes is one bad appearance and the word would spread quickly. It's on the woman to be at her best in both the hobby and in real life but neither is a long-term outcome. We become familiar with each other and tolerate less sexiness and embrace more realness. To a point... lo

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GaGambler825 reads

You are missing all the make believe romance that the BSU crowd loves to pretend exists in their encounters.

Aside from that, you have summed it up rather nicely. Sex, all by itself is a great thing, and most likely my favorite pastime. To me "fantasy" would be jerking off to porn with a real girl in sight, and quite frankly I prefer the real thing to fantasy every time. No offense to you guys that jack off to pornography, but that is something I haven't done in decades. I guess that is just one of the many benefits of finding out that women will fuck you for money at a very early age.  

So yeah, I am with you on this one. Fuck fantasy, I am quite happy with the real thing, and I don't need "fake love" to enjoy my sex. Sex all by itself works just fine for me TYVM

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PhilAnderz663 reads

While I enjoy GaGambler's brash posts, I'm mystified by the following:
 - BSU
 - TYVM

As someone once said, WTF?

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mrfisher710 reads

I think the first definition is the one intended.

Related Link: BSU for you

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PhilAnderz697 reads

LOL! TYVM, MF —EOM

*I Hate Internet Acronyms

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perfectstorm808 reads

BSU = Biggest Suck Up

Next thing you'll be looking for in UD is SPOTY or OTHFB

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inicky46396 reads

= FuckYouAndTheWhoreYouRodeInOn.

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Posted By: GaGambler
No offense to you guys that jack off to pornography, but that is something I haven't done in decades. I guess that is just one of the many benefits of finding out that women will fuck you for money at a very early age.  
It is also a benefit of having lots of money. :)
 Not all us can afford to participate in P4P as much as you. For me, jacking off to porn in between P4P sessions is very pleasurable. :)

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89Springer916 reads

The fantasy is that she's a girlfriend who has some feelings for the guy, likes him, and enjoys having sex with him. Maybe that happens sometimes, but the danger is that the acting that the provider does convinces guys that it's real. It's just the money. As so many have said here before, see what happens if you don't pay.  

It's difficult to have good sex without some degree of emotion. The emotions have to be kept in check, though.

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mrfisher856 reads

(Unless you go for gang bangs, that is.)

When you see an actor play Macbeth on stage, do you think to yourself:  Hey, that guy isn't really Macbeth, he's just an actor!

Or do you let yourself relax and imagine you are in ancient Scotland, etc.?

If you do the former, what's the point in going to the play?

So, is the hobby like that play.  Join in the fun and you'll find it a lot more interesting.  Just remember that when you leave the theater, you are back in reality lest Birnham woods to Dunsinane come*.

(And believe me, you really don't want that.)

Related Link: *For those wanting to know...

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HarryWotton684 reads

my true self at work, but alas, I would probably end up living back at the folks' basement (to my little brother, if you are reading this, please, don't take offense to that).      

Yes, the ultimate fantasy, at the end of the session she says:  "Oh paappi, I really like you, I want to have your children, when are we going to tell your wife?"

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89Springer847 reads

More often than not, that would be the beginning of the ultimate nightmare. ;)

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HarryWotton732 reads

was being sarcastic.  May be sarcastic is not what I mean, Tobi, if you are around, am I using the proper terminology?

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russbbj597 reads

I get to have my world rocked for 2-3 hours with women that I'd be invisible to IRL. And, I don't have to work for it or listen to any bullshit to get what I want. I have absolutely no "game" and I'm not a good looking man, so if it weren't for my buddy Ben and the hobby I'd be up shits creek with no paddle and I'd have to settle. And when the time is up, I or she leaves. Fucking great fantasy if you ask me.

Also, with a select few ladies you can engage in role play, and that's fantasy above and beyond. Don't question or fuck with a good thing. This sport is perfect just the way it is.

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cspatz658 reads

..there is no fantasy. Rather there is the reality that thanks to several hundred dollars I can have incredible sex with someone less than half my age who would never give me the time of day in the civie world. Not only that. No drama. No work on my part. Just sex.

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AZCalvin69833 reads

The fantasy part of this hobby is the best part. I have a new ATF who is a real submissive and the fun and anticipation of our next session is a big part of the whole experience. I'm not into heavy BDSM but the fact that I can suggest a scenario and give her instructions as to what to wear, how to present herself to me upon arrival and to only say Yes sir, please sir and thank you sir during the entire time is fun and a real turn on for me. She is great about it all and after we laugh and have fun with it. The anticipation, however, just adds to the whole experience and makes it so much more enjoyable. Anyway it works for me. I also just enjoy the company of a beautiful woman who likes to receive as well as give.

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mtdewking2015746 reads

in my case slow it to real life  look and last for a minute.

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earthshined614 reads

of GFE service which allows escorts to charge more for their service. Once you meet them it's over and you have to deal with reality

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hbyist+truth=;(563 reads

Got to pay for what you want. Or the hookers could all go back to one and done and out. So, don't complain about paying for something the guys wanted and hookers have had to provide...if you want msog, you got to pay for that.

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earthshined563 reads

Dinner or over night to achieve that.

No reason to complain. I just don't oblige.

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mojojo866 reads

The fantasy is what goes on in your mind prior to your arrival. You get to fulfill that fantasy, or turn it into reality, when you visit her. Fantasies are totally different for each gentleman. They may include a certain hair color, body type, body part, article of clothing, age, preference, number of women, sexual act, and on and on. The fantasy might also include roll playing certain scenarios. Most ladies will play the roll you want them to play, if that's what interests you. She might even pull out a whip.

For example, one of my big fantasies is a hairy pussy. Love them to death. So I would seek out someone like Zoey Zacquery if I wanted that fantasy fulfilled, if she traveled to a city nearby. As you may be well aware, my little fantasy is one that isn't easily fulfilled with the advent of the shaved pussy. But I have indeed found a lady to fulfill that fantasy in my area. That's not my only fantasy, and I don't seek it out every time. Your fantasy is pretty straightforward. You want to f*ck, cum, then go home. That's what's going through your mind when searching for a lady. That's why you don't do fbsm, because that's massage and cum.  

Sometimes, I think some of the guys around these parts, fantasize about taking p4p beyond. Some have even gotten married to a provider, which, in some minds, is the ultimate hobby fantasy. The provider who has f*cked and cummed thousands of guys picked you to marry. That makes you quite the stud, and fulfills that fantasy in you. That's never been a fantasy of mine. I'm more of the mind set of what Minnie said. We have a situation here, where a man and a woman can be their very best selves with each other, 99% of the time. That's a huge fantasy because that just doesn't happen in most real life relationships. Especially after they've progressed

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Crazy Diamond633 reads

Play the game the way you want, and if it comes up short of your expectations, it's your fault.

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Posted By: lbll
This issue has been on my mind for a while because everybody refers to the fantasy and I do not get it.    Yes, I am relatively new to TER but certainly not new to fucking around in P4P.   I am also not the sharpest knife in the drawer, but I am not a complete dimwit, at least I don't think I am :)  
   
 It seems pretty simple to me: I pick out a lady because there is something I find appealing about the lady -  it could be simply physical (sometimes a pair of good tits alone will do it, once in a while, I can objectify a woman with the best of them), it may have to do with personality and it could be both.   I then ask,  I pay, I get to spend some naked time admiring the lady, there is a bit of chit-chat, I get to paw her like a horny teenager, we play, I cum, I cum, I cum - no wait, THAT IS a fantasy!   I am getting older, I simply cum (knock on wood).    Seriously, where was the fantasy?    I got to spend time with the lady, I fucked her and I came.    
   
 I don't care why it happened or how it happened.   Hell, when you pick-up a civvy, it is not necessarily because she found they guy attractive in any shape or form, it may simply be that she was horny and the guy was the best in the crap pile to choose from at that particular place and time (incidentally, most of the time, it is the woman who picks the guy up, not the other way around, because therein lies the real fantasy, guys thinking they did the picking up and women letting them think so to stroke their egos).  
   
 In P4P I am there for my pleasure.   Would I like it if the lady enjoyed herself physically?    Of course, but in my mind, the odds of that happening are not good and it is not simply because I am a lousy lover - perhaps that is where I have an advantage, I know I am lousy in the sack. Lol!  Quite frankly, the fact that the lady does not O or does not find me attractive does not detract from my experience in the least bit.   Now, would I like it rubbed in my face that she does not find me attractive?  Well no, that would be pretty rude in any setting.  
   
 Talk about paying, one of my favorite things to say when I see a guy flirting with my wife at a bar is this:  "go right on ahead, don't mind me, but please understand that you will also be taking all the payments that go along with her."  
   
 Fire away, what am I missing?

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