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My brother was in a car accident and injured his lower back in the C5 / L1 area, just above the tailbone a few years back. The injury has healed ( mostly ) but left him with a side effect....He can't feel his own erection. He can get hard but can't feel it like before. He says it takes direct stimulation ( mouth / hand ) to get him hard. If he puts a rubber on its like a tourniquet and the hard on dies because he can't feel anything....the when he does feel the stimulation he pops right away...no control
Dr says its a result of where the nerves are connected and branch out in the lower back that was injured My brother takes Viagra, but his sex life with his wife is badly damaged. They both fear intimacy because he can't perform like before. He says the situation is in his head now and the pressure to please his wife thru intercourse is too much.....she says I don't want to force anything....so they don't So...long story short is.....back injuries can also keep a guy from getting hard or keeping an erection....how many people out there have hurt their backs along the way in life ?This is a question I have had come up(or not come up!) and experienced on several occasions, with young, old fat and in shape gentlemen…they can't get an erection. While hopefully the experience is still enjoyable I have no idea how others handle it, providers and hobbyists… Some guys acknowledge it, and a few don't and I don't know if I should keep sucking or riding after 10 minutes or so? What are guys thinking? I am sure it happens since there's so much pressure to perform in a given time that they want to work through it…but its like the elephant in the room at times, when no one is like,"Oh I am not getting hard, its not you its me." If they say something I have an idea of what they want to do about it, more this or that…but I don't ever say anything or acknowledge it... I just try harder And keep going..is the erection and subsequent release what drives the experience or can you enjoy your time and feel satisfied even if your little friend is not cooperating? And ladies, what do you do? If a guy wants to leave sooner I will offer a pert ion of the donation back but all the gentlemen I have encountered do not expect anything if they leave early due to ed… Thank you!
There is a pharmacy in Toronto that sells Viagra for cheap. It's the same as what you would get in the states only much less...less than the price of a condom. Maybe you can have some with you.
It's a difficult conversation with a client for sure. And I only use it occasionally, particularly for greek, because guys have to be ROCK HARD for that. It takes about 30 minutes to be effective.
I would avoid giving it to any guys that have medical conditions where it might be bad for them and ask any guy over 60 about it.
One of the most prescribed drugs in the nation. Guys don't have to be ashamed of the blue pill.
I took a blue pill before a client a few years ago in Vegas and I felt like I could fuck my belly button. The stuff works, you just need to have a maybe strange conversation.
BTW, do any girls is SD want to me to greek them? It's been a long time now and I am getting froggy.
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Have tried a couple prescription drugs for ED and still have problems on almost every date.
I just take a break if my cock isn't cooperating and have found that breaks usually help.
It's awkward when she's sucking or stroking my flaccid cock, so I just tell her to rest.
Some ladies give up too easily or think it's their fault, which adds to the pressure.
Just takes patience and her to be understanding and willing to please.
Very difficult to enjoy a date and leave satisfied without cumming.
The total amount I've donated to not cum is not a pretty number.
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I usually go 2-4 times during a session (usually book 4 hours one of which is a meal somewhere in that time), some of the later tries can be a little iffy. I don't know how to talk to him about it, but for me at least it's usually a result of trying to early, continuing to work at it almost never ends up with successful results but backing totally off and chatting for 10 minutes or so seems to reset the system and I can finish at least one more.
Biggest thing I wanted (and was fortunate enough to get) the first time it happened was a woman who didn't react strongly just said something along the lines of lets just give it a minute and we can try again soon. If you act like it's just no big deal then it's a lot easier for us to do the same. It can start off as just a physical hiccup, and a friendly smile can go a long ways to preventing it from becoming mental as well.
I never expect a discount for it, if offered one I would refuse as it implies in some way that the woman was at fault and unless that's true then she should get compensated for her time and effort.
i'd be real careful of offering any drugs of any kind to clients. as far as what to do? as many have said, the largest sex organ is between the ears. try talking, sexy and unhurried. might be all they need.
AS for myself I had cancer thus removal of my prostrate and
this effects my getting hard so do not worry we still enjoy
you very much.
I have fallen victim to this on more than one occasion I acknowledge it and apologize because I know it probably makes the provider feel kind of lousy as well. most of the time if it happens I will ask if I can DATY if I think that it can be saved... sometime ask if they wouldnt mind giving me a little massage, and if all else just talk to them for a while I have found every provider I have had the time to talk with have lots of good stories
My brother was in a car accident and injured his lower back in the C5 / L1 area, just above the tailbone a few years back. The injury has healed ( mostly ) but left him with a side effect....He can't feel his own erection. He can get hard but can't feel it like before. He says it takes direct stimulation ( mouth / hand ) to get him hard. If he puts a rubber on its like a tourniquet and the hard on dies because he can't feel anything....the when he does feel the stimulation he pops right away...no control
Dr says its a result of where the nerves are connected and branch out in the lower back that was injured
My brother takes Viagra, but his sex life with his wife is badly damaged. They both fear intimacy because he can't perform like before. He says the situation is in his head now and the pressure to please his wife thru intercourse is too much.....she says I don't want to force anything....so they don't
So...long story short is.....back injuries can also keep a guy from getting hard or keeping an erection....how many people out there have hurt their backs along the way in life ?