But she who has the pussy makes the rules.
I would never deny a client for age (as long as he or she is of legal connecting age), race, weight, sexual proclivity or religion. No reason. We all bleed red and we all deserve an equal chance at fun times be they sexual or day to day. To suggest younger clients are problematic is ridiculous. I have a handful of "young" clients and they are nothing but respectful.Maybe it's the person they are with that results in "bad or undesirable" behaviors.
I have never had an issue so maybe it's me and my charms keeping the baddies away. Clients of every age have the potential to be a problem. Ageism is NOT ok in my book.
What stirred this post up is that this morning I requested an appointment at 10:00 which was one of two options given to me for the morning. The communication was fine back and forth on Wednesday until I requested the time yesterday morning and after that I have received nothing. I sent two messages this morning requesting confirmation as I had not received anything and subsequently acknowledging in my second post just a few minutes ago that I must apparently not be penciled in for an appointment and I will not be driving to the location (paraphrasing). I will not name the individual out of respect for her. I do not wish to tarnish a reputation by any means by possibly being presumptuous.
I understand this must happen to providers and clients alike for different reasons and it is unfortunate as any person's time is quite valuable, but it does bring up the issue in my case as to whether providers simply do not care for younger clientele and that could be an issue in some of these cases. I only do weekday mornings and early afternoons on some occasions as that is the most convenient time for not only my schedule, but also physically. Considering it is Friday, I had really hoped to have my first appointment in months, particularly with how stressful things have been of late. Now I just feel even more stressed out and the next realistic option for me is Tuesday barring some crazy happenstance that this morning or early afternoon is still doable which I certainly doubt.
I'll stop rambling, but I am curious what anyone has to say about that whether clients or providers. Thank you! -- Modified on 9/5/2014 9:06:28 AM
Just curious as I am unfortunately an upper 20 something widower (nearly 2 years now) having no desire to pursue serious relationships anymore while also being too busy with my career to be into the whole casual dating scene anymore. I occasionally arrange an appointment via P411 as of last year and for the most part it seems that things go smoothly, but occasionally I get the ice cold ignore rather than a provider simply saying she would prefer not to deal with me for whatever reason, presumably my age.
What stirred this post up is that this morning I requested an appointment at 10:00 which was one of two options given to me for the morning. The communication was fine back and forth on Wednesday until I requested the time yesterday morning and after that I have received nothing. I sent two messages this morning requesting confirmation as I had not received anything and subsequently acknowledging in my second post just a few minutes ago that I must apparently not be penciled in for an appointment and I will not be driving to the location (paraphrasing). I will not name the individual out of respect for her. I do not wish to tarnish a reputation by any means by possibly being presumptuous.
I understand this must happen to providers and clients alike for different reasons and it is unfortunate as any person's time is quite valuable, but it does bring up the issue in my case as to whether providers simply do not care for younger clientele and that could be an issue in some of these cases. I only do weekday mornings and early afternoons on some occasions as that is the most convenient time for not only my schedule, but also physically. Considering it is Friday, I had really hoped to have my first appointment in months, particularly with how stressful things have been of late. Now I just feel even more stressed out and the next realistic option for me is Tuesday barring some crazy happenstance that this morning or early afternoon is still doable which I certainly doubt.
I'll stop rambling, but I am curious what anyone has to say about that whether clients or providers. Thank you!
-- Modified on 9/5/2014 9:06:28 AM
I'm sorry about your experiences, but being in my upper 20s myself, I can say I haven't received any sort of age discrimination. In fact, I've been told by multiple providers, both old and young, that they prefer younger clients. Unfortunately, you were probably just unlucky and booked an appointment with a flake. It happens to all of us. Just move on to the next.
Thank you everyone for your replies. I reflected upon each post and took every criticism and observation well. I understand that providers can pick and choose and that is fully their right with my full support. That was never an issue of mine, but one should always remember that. I still expect a certain level of consideration though and that was my biggest issue. I guess the age thing was really secondary to the bigger issue of flaking or ignoring after already making contact and everything seeming fine. I have shrugged it off at this point and I will be on my way as far as looking for a Tuesday or possibly Thursday morning appointment.
Best wishes to everyone and have a fantastic rest of your weekend!
Stressed out over being a widower in your 20's: understandable.
Stressed out over not being able to hire a provider: indicative of immaturity, in my opinion.
Some providers have told me they get a lot of written communications and with experience can tell which ones will lead to nothing but wasted time.
Alternatively, it may simply be that the lady had a problem arise and could not communicate with you.
Fair enough, but the stress I was feeling was not because I was having an issue getting an appointment as I could have gone with a provider I had seen before no problem, but more so because time is money and taking time out of my day for a flake appointment is bothersome when I have already been dealing with a lot of stress of late as is with work and other personal nuances. The last thing I needed as a sort of cherry on top was a flake which was exactly what I got.
Thanks for your criticism though; I really mean it. It's always good to get a little bit of that rather than to be consoled.
Have a good rest of your weekend or week of you catch this afterwards.
I have yet to be discriminated against in my experience but I too always worries about it when touching base for the first time. You have to understand providers can ignore you for a lot of reasons so I wouldn't be so sure it's because of that. Just do your research, be polite and discreet, and learn to move on.
I don't mind seeing younger gentlemen. Sometimes it's weird to see a guy in my age bracket as it just feels a tiny bit awkward on my part that I am a provider. I love what I do but sometimes it's embarrassing to admit I am a provider, and seeing a guy my age just sort of puts the reality out in the open. Lol
You said you were in your upper 20's, so that isn't too young exactly, but with the clients that are let's say... Like 23, I worry a bit that they wouldn't have the money for a donation. When I was 21, 22, 23, I was totally broke going to college. I didn't have 300, 400, or more to just blow.
-- Modified on 9/5/2014 5:45:13 PM
And about the money issue, I would never assume he can't pay because of his age, especially on San Diego. I work with a lot of extremely wealthy people and trust me, they all look different. As a quick example, a client of mine just turned 22 and inherited his family's fortune after his parents unexpectedly passed away. You would think the kid hasn't showered in years. He's now worth over a hundred of million.
I'll bathe him 
Hahaha I'd have to ask him. But come to think of it . . . I might need a bath 😊
Natasha, I've totally felt the same, but from the other side. Without getting too deep, I understand how this is socially unacceptable. Being with a provider my age makes me realize I probably should just go out and meet "normal" women (but they're so boring). Maybe that's why I tend to see MILFS, but that's a topic for a different thread.
Boys. They are more likely to flake, be inconsiderate, talk about themselves, be bad or selfish lovers, etc.
Screening out the under 30 set allows a woman to know that the gentleman is statistically more likely serious, knows how this all works, won't fall in love in the middle of the first session, won't become a creeper, stalker, or other sociopath like tendencies. He also more than likely has the means to pay, won't haggle, won't short, won't overstay.
Is it based upon a stereotype - yup, and it sucks for younger guys. But like the sign on any establishment in this town;
"The Owner Reserves the Right to Refuse Service to Anyone."
You appear to be much more mature for your age & it comes accross here in your post. I do not tend to see younger individuals, but would make an exception for you. Sorry, but with my experience older gents are more respectful.
As you can see with yourself their is always someone who does not fit the bill.
What stirred this post up is that this morning I requested an appointment at 10:00 which was one of two options given to me for the morning. The communication was fine back and forth on Wednesday until I requested the time yesterday morning and after that I have received nothing. I sent two messages this morning requesting confirmation as I had not received anything and subsequently acknowledging in my second post just a few minutes ago that I must apparently not be penciled in for an appointment and I will not be driving to the location (paraphrasing). I will not name the individual out of respect for her. I do not wish to tarnish a reputation by any means by possibly being presumptuous.
I understand this must happen to providers and clients alike for different reasons and it is unfortunate as any person's time is quite valuable, but it does bring up the issue in my case as to whether providers simply do not care for younger clientele and that could be an issue in some of these cases. I only do weekday mornings and early afternoons on some occasions as that is the most convenient time for not only my schedule, but also physically. Considering it is Friday, I had really hoped to have my first appointment in months, particularly with how stressful things have been of late. Now I just feel even more stressed out and the next realistic option for me is Tuesday barring some crazy happenstance that this morning or early afternoon is still doable which I certainly doubt.
I'll stop rambling, but I am curious what anyone has to say about that whether clients or providers. Thank you!
-- Modified on 9/5/2014 9:06:28 AM
But she who has the pussy makes the rules.
I would never deny a client for age (as long as he or she is of legal connecting age), race, weight, sexual proclivity or religion. No reason. We all bleed red and we all deserve an equal chance at fun times be they sexual or day to day.
To suggest younger clients are problematic is ridiculous.
I have a handful of "young" clients and they are nothing but respectful.
Maybe it's the person they are with that results in "bad or undesirable" behaviors.
I have never had an issue so maybe it's me and my charms keeping the baddies away.
Clients of every age have the potential to be a problem. Ageism is NOT ok in my book.
What stirred this post up is that this morning I requested an appointment at 10:00 which was one of two options given to me for the morning. The communication was fine back and forth on Wednesday until I requested the time yesterday morning and after that I have received nothing. I sent two messages this morning requesting confirmation as I had not received anything and subsequently acknowledging in my second post just a few minutes ago that I must apparently not be penciled in for an appointment and I will not be driving to the location (paraphrasing). I will not name the individual out of respect for her. I do not wish to tarnish a reputation by any means by possibly being presumptuous.
I understand this must happen to providers and clients alike for different reasons and it is unfortunate as any person's time is quite valuable, but it does bring up the issue in my case as to whether providers simply do not care for younger clientele and that could be an issue in some of these cases. I only do weekday mornings and early afternoons on some occasions as that is the most convenient time for not only my schedule, but also physically. Considering it is Friday, I had really hoped to have my first appointment in months, particularly with how stressful things have been of late. Now I just feel even more stressed out and the next realistic option for me is Tuesday barring some crazy happenstance that this morning or early afternoon is still doable which I certainly doubt.
I'll stop rambling, but I am curious what anyone has to say about that whether clients or providers. Thank you!
-- Modified on 9/5/2014 9:06:28 AM
Personally I don't mind. To me is more the way you come across rather than age, colour ect. I don't discriminate, I evaluate the individual
Serena x