we are simple creatures - after about 3 seconds of thinking, "Hmm, I guess she needs the money"...

...all other thoughts after that are X-rated (assuming your photos are hot - and hell, maybe even if they're not!).  

The real question is... what are YOUR concerns?
What are your expectations, etc.?

I did just that- went away from the business after I finished college and explored other job interests.  Some girls get exclusive with a client or get into a relationship, have a child, etc. then come back.  

Most guys probably assume you met a sugardaddy, but then again I'm just assuming

It's Wednesday??

It's still Monday here which would make it Tuesday there. You lost a day somewhere. Better go find it!

as to why "hobbyists" (darn I resent that term!) leave this lifestyle whether short-term or for longer periods:

- Burn-out
- Alternative forms of short term relationships, i.e, SD/SB, within the same continuum
- in pursuit of civilian relationships
- Marriage / raising family  
- Providing care for loved ones in need
- Concentrating on more pressing matters such as alternate career path (for the younger participants)

Of course, you can not mirror a reason such as running out of funds as a reason, but quite the opposite and the other end of the financial spectrum such as having gained some financial independence through providing, or in pursuit of gaining financial independence whereby the seed capital stemming from providing. The other reason which you do not want to use, even if it were the case would be something like having been exposed and outed!  

Whatever the reasons may be just be genuine and forthcoming if asked and if you desire to offer any explanation at all. I have a simple rule which I ALWAYS apply to any kind of relationship which I tend to engage in and that is, if the other parties stories do not make sense and leave gaping holes beyond a 6 months stretch, I am just simply going to be walking away! This maxim has often saved me from potential headaches!


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Although Providers I've seen in the past never reappeared, I would think that most guys have moved on to other Providers. You may get some previous clients to see you again and maybe even some new ones. It would depend on how long you've been out of the business. If it's been a year or two, you should be able to get back into the groove of things. If it's been a bit longer, you may have trouble getting clients. This business has a lot of new Providers entering this line of work almost on a daily basis. Not being critical of you in any way. Just answering your question from a Hobbyist's point of view.

Hobbyists are infatuated by providers. May be some are but most are not.

Last time I tried count the fish in the see, I lost count.

Personally, I am in P4P for sex and fun so, provider come they go.  
 

When a woman leaves this world, it always seems sudden to me because I only notice it when she's delisted from TER. Of course SHE probably had been planning it for months, but to me it SEEMS sudden.

So I picture something like her taking a road trip, stopping for lunch at some quaint, provincial farm town or fishing community, falling in love with the slow-paced, serene lifestyle (and maybe one of the local lads), and deciding to go no further and start a new life there. Obviously, this seldom works out as imagined, so after a while she returns to the enchanted life she knew in the city.

Either that or she got busted for something heavier than P4P and spent some time in prison. Depends on what kind of personality I picture her having.

...then gone once you came back I'd briefly wonder what changed, immediately think I'll never know, and think : glad she's back.

BTW: the fact your post is here shows you are a member of TER. If you went completely away including deleting your account then TER's data base considers you a newbie. All newbies are moderated.  

Did you have your profile and reviews removed when you left? If not you could check with admin (use contact us) and get that connected to this handle. I'm aware you may already know but thought I'd mention it.

... and in reality, you don't need to explain yourself to anyone.  

I don't know when you "disappeared", but I would hope that you had let your regulars know that you were going to be away for some time, so that those regulars don't bother you all the time.

I have ran across a few ladies who have taken time away from the business and their reasons vary, but I don't question them. I am happy that they are back in business.

Don't over think this and enjoy your time back in the business.

BTW... I'm reading this on Tuesday... I'm not sure how you got to be one day ahead.

I have left this hobby a couple times.  The problem I have now is getting reviews again.  I came back 8 months ago and seem to get every guy who hates doing reviews. They confide with me that the other providers blackmail them with their personal info into doing them.  I make decent money and would make more it I was more organized but I have had 4 deaths this year and suffer from depression at times.

Here's what comes to mind for me: There are plenty of legit reasons to disappear, and I always hope that she left on good terms and not in distress. Upon return, if she was the disorganized/flighty/flaky type, then I assume that she NEEDS the money (no judgment here). If she's the focused, shit-together type, then I assume that she WANTS the money (and has fun earning it!).  

I'm sure guys will ask where you've been/what you've been up to - are you trying to decide what to tell them?

interested in seeing you, meaning I have either seen you in the past or have had you on my to do list, then I would probably inquire about a general reason(s) as to why you have been away.  Depending on the response, then I would try to set up a time and place to meet.

Hope your return to this world is everything you are hoping for.

I took a year off and now I feel like I'm rebuilding my business from the ground up.  But, even though it's a slow growth, I've met some wonderful new men that makes me glad I came back.  Don't worry, it will be off and running like before, it just may take some time and extra marketing.

Could be that whatever direction you took after disappearing didn't work out. Maybe it worked out, but you need more money. Maybe you just missed being a provider. Maybe you just needed to take a break, and now you're back.

I haven't been around long enough to see a lot of of this, but I have seen it, and don't try to over think it.

Damn I was hoping it was LR/HTG!

I would LOVE to see her back here and I know a lot of others feel the same way.

 To answer your question, ladies reemerge to a lot of reasons ranging from missing the action to getting out of a relationship that they left the biz to concentrate on, to trying a different career path that didn't pan out and everything in between. If you left on good terms with many hating to see you go then I can't imagine you coming back having any negative reactions...except for maybe some catty, nasty  female or two-trust me I know all about that! And you can just do your thing here and flip your hair at them and be successful as all get out!

C'mon in...

Steph xoxo