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SexyJaye7 See my TER Reviews 825 reads
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My underwear has never come off. His choice, he just wanted to do other stuff. I wouldn't take it personally if someone didn't want to go down on me, trust me, I have a long list that only want to go down on me. LOL! So it all balances out I guess. I don't understand the providers that follow a script or require certain activities, it's his time that he paid for, use it how he wants. But if you just want to stick it in without any foreplay, not even touching, kissing, and rubbing, then ouch, need the lube. LOL

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I have seen a provider semi-regularly who offers me DATY. Although I find the offer extremely enticing & I enjoy DATY immensely, I prefer to abstain in the provider/hobby relationship.

How do you say "no thanks" without coming off rude? I don't want to appear unappreciative or give her the impression I find her or the act unappealing -- finding the right words is  just a bit awkward for me.

Thanks

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sfpearldiver867 reads

Yes, she is asking me--it was not me initiating :)

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Jacque_Jenesais852 reads

Even if the guy is good at it, I kind of like a break from it too at times, so to me it's nice because it mixes it up.

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earthshined822 reads

I've never had a provider ask or  hint she wanted DATY.  

 i usually don’t even try it.

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Jstgttnstrtd620 reads

...is it that you tend to let ladies lead the sessions?
(I love it, and always ask)

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Posted By: sfpearldiver
I have seen a provider semi-regularly who offers me DATY. Although I find the offer extremely enticing & I enjoy DATY immensely, I prefer to abstain in the provider/hobby relationship.  
   
 How do you say "no thanks" without coming off rude? I don't want to appear unappreciative or give her the impression I find her or the act unappealing -- finding the right words is  just a bit awkward for me.  
   
 Thanks!  
   
 

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bigguy30762 reads

Also let her know this is nothing against her personally.

This is something you won't do with any provider.



-- Modified on 12/8/2014 1:31:58 AM

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sfpearldiver580 reads

Quite the contrary--as I wrote in my original post, I love it--but for a variety of reasons, I like to keep it out of the hobby :)

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harborview735 reads

suggest where you want it to go.  Yes, "I can't wait to be in you!" is one way or suggest a possition...  "I love it when you are on top!"

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adrianamonet740 reads

As long as you do not say anything about it, she will not know -- and that will be an obstacle to you receiving the best experience you can from her. Remember, we are here to make sure that happens! :-)

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SexyJaye7826 reads

My underwear has never come off. His choice, he just wanted to do other stuff. I wouldn't take it personally if someone didn't want to go down on me, trust me, I have a long list that only want to go down on me. LOL! So it all balances out I guess. I don't understand the providers that follow a script or require certain activities, it's his time that he paid for, use it how he wants. But if you just want to stick it in without any foreplay, not even touching, kissing, and rubbing, then ouch, need the lube. LOL

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Durhamdrew801 reads

Saw a George Clooney movie The American that had a similar scene with him and an Italian prostitute who wanted him to DATY. He said something like, "I pay to get pleasure, not to give it." Of course they fall in love and the movie kinda sucked, but ...

Posted By: sfpearldiver
I have seen a provider semi-regularly who offers me DATY. Although I find the offer extremely enticing & I enjoy DATY immensely, I prefer to abstain in the provider/hobby relationship.  
   
 How do you say "no thanks" without coming off rude? I don't want to appear unappreciative or give her the impression I find her or the act unappealing -- finding the right words is  just a bit awkward for me.  
   
 Thanks!  
   
 

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Skyfyre637 reads

No thanks sweetie!

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TrulyMsMocha500 reads

....well even though I love good DATY if the guy doesn't want to do it I won't bug him about it and respect his wishes. Just like even though I prefer to give bbbj I will give a cbj if he requests it. I won't fuss about his preferences.

-- Modified on 12/9/2014 12:37:49 AM

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asianampman824 reads

She works for you and will most likely do or not do anything you wish.   You simply say I don't eat pussy.

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hey mikey609 reads

"Sorry, but I plan on swimming later and can't wait the suggested 2 hours after eating.

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