... the lingering scent of perfume in the laundry hamper and in the closet. Lasts for days and days. Women have a very keen olfactory sense. Providers would do well to go cold turkey on fragrance.
Do you hear from clients that often that their SO has figured out what they are up to?
Infrequently, but yes, it happens. It depends on how good the guy is at covering his tracks and how often he sees providers. I have found that the more nervous a man feels about it, the more likely he is to make a mistake. I once had a guy accidently forward an email from me to his mistress. Not his wife, but his mistress. He was getting deeper and deeper into a web he wove and it was bound to catch up to him at some point as he spread himself thinner and thinner. I have often thought about whether forwarding that email was a freudian slip on his part.
I won't say exactly what he did, but an ATF once did something so careless that I believe he unconsciously wanted to be caught. ( He was successful.)
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That happened to me when I was living in Vegas. Only I didn't hear from him - I heard from her. That was oh so awkward.
Neither, she was freaking out that her husband was a seeing escorts. He called me first to warn me the wife was on a rampage and asked me to lie and say that I had originally contacted him to buy a car they had listed for sale. He was practically begging me because of the fear of losing half his law practice/marriage/kids to her if she decided to file for divorce. She had already googled my number though and knew everything. I don't know how it ultimately ended but was sad about losing a good regular.
Hannah
... the lingering scent of perfume in the laundry hamper and in the closet. Lasts for days and days. Women have a very keen olfactory sense. Providers would do well to go cold turkey on fragrance.
Dry cleaner may be a good idea in that case.
Pheromones may be an underlying scent that she's picking up, but not knowing it. Something to think about too...
In case I get a phone call from a wifie I'm prepared : " I'm with my husband now I believe you have the wrong number who are you trying to reach?"
recently seen.
I use google voice as well and never give out any personal information. Things can only be traced back to my provider email and google number. It is easy enough to block them from contacting me again. I would hate for someone's marriage to be over with because of it but it isn't my responsiblity to make sure it doesn't. They wouldn't be seeking us out if their relationships were good, right? That is between them and not me!
Only one of them got caught once, by a lady he used to see before me. But that was because the lady called him! Then I guess he told his wife that he would never do it again and of course he did but was more careful after that.
That's why I'm always shocked when I hear that some ladies call their clients out of the blue when it's slow and ask them to visit...most of these guys are married and I feel that's really unprofessional...anyways as long as providers know (either because the hobbyist makes sure to warn them, which I don't think he should have to; or because they are respectful enough to just know) not to call.
Some gentlemen also tell me to not wear any lipstick or perfume to an appointment.
Surprisingly, I've never had anyone tell me he got caught, aside from that one guy.