that was exactly what I was going to say.
Ok, you know I am lying, you said it MUCH more politely than I would have put it. Especially given the "superior air" our Little Lord Fauntleroy was trying to put on.
and yes, it is "all about me" when it comes to who I choose to spend my money on. It might be "all about her" when she makes the decision, and obviously it's "her life, her choice" but that doesn't have a fucking thing to do with my decision making process in selecting a hooker to spend my money on. Then MY TASTE is the only one that counts, which I believe was exactly your question for the board.
I have two "favorites-so-far". I use that term because I haven't dated enough providers to be able to say ATF.
Anyway, one of them just changed from silky, shiny black hair to blond. I haven't seen her yet, but I wish she hadn't done that. I've always preferred dark hair to light. Just me. I'm sure she'll do just fine.
My other "favorite-so-far" had a boob reduction job, from DDD to D. Don't know why. She still looks good, but the bigger ones were more fun to play with.
There's a provider from a respected agency who's new, and has just one review. Her photos look good: beautiful hair, nice legs, nice butt, all around tight body, and what appears to be a nice face, although it's slightly obscured in photos. Her draw for me was that she was a 36F on a slim frame. I've never experienced big ones like that, and have always wanted to. Well, she had them deflated to DD recently, so I guess I'll wait to see if her reviews indicate unusually good looks and/or performance.
I'm sure the ladies had good reason to do what they did, and maybe their changes will help business. For me, though, it's "why mess with perfection?"
Flame away. 
You liked certain attributes of your favorite gal. She changed her attributes, so you don't find her sexy anymore.. If you still want to see her despite that. Its your choice and your money. If you don't want to see her, that is still OK in my books. As long as you don't make stupid comments like the "girls should have certain hair color" or "girls should have boobs of certain size" you are playing fair and square in my books..
I used to see an agency gal who had hair up to her butt when I first met her and had B size boobs. Perfect for me to play with. I don't like them too big either. She cut her hair about 6 inches, and got a boob job.. I not only kept seeing her through out her agency days, but also saw her as an independent. She later on went ahead and started an agency. I saw couple of her girls too.. We had great chemistry and considered her as a friend. In some cases my decision would be strictly based on physical attributes and in some cases not.
Please post something really stupid, so we can really flame you...lol..
If you can't because you are genetically not inclined to post stupid stuff, I will get you in touch with some members. Their company should rub on you and you will change like never before..lol
and I flame EVERYBODY at some time or another.
Well at least I don't think I have ever flamed him, I don't think I would bet a lot of money on it though, but if I ever did flame him, at least one of us must have been drunk at the time. lol
and yes, I have seen a few ladies change themselves so much that I lost all desire to ever see them again. Come to think of it, I've had civvie GF's do the same, and shallow pig that I am, I dumped them for it too.
Maybe you didn't, but I've posted some pretty bad trainwreck threads where plenty of others did. Now I try to be more careful about my posting.
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A gal with hair up to her butt? Was she a hobbit and she let the hair on her feet grow and she combed it up to her butt? I am trying to get a mental image of this.
I used to see an agency gal who had hair up to her butt when I first met her and had B size boobs. Perfect for me to play with. I don't like them too big either. She cut her hair about 6 inches, and got a boob job.. I not only kept seeing her through out her agency days, but also saw her as an independent. She later on went ahead and started an agency. I saw couple of her girls too.. We had great chemistry and considered her as a friend. In some cases my decision would be strictly based on physical attributes and in some cases not.
Please post something really stupid, so we can really flame you...lol..
If you can't because you are genetically not inclined to post stupid stuff, I will get you in touch with some members. Their company should rub on you and you will change like never before..lol
was coming from her butt hole, and hence the hair from the feet didn't needed to be combed upwards. When gelled, it gave it a nice shiny look.. Quite a lady she was...
I later found out she was Crazy Hairy Rob Lowe's sister...
back and be more flexable. if she not a turn any more find a new provider.
When short, I think brown looks better on me. But I've had guys (some very big spenders) choose me because of the blonde hair. Then I fried it and had to cut it all off... All of a sudden I resembled Ellyn Degeneres. Had fun with it for a while, but not quite the look I was going for.
I also had TER update to my real age after a few months because I kept saying it anyway lol. (An old agency put me as mid 20's). Lol.
The length doesn't really make a huge difference though, but while escorting, it hasn't been longer than chin length. It's back at chin length, so it will be past my shoulders by spring /early summer. I'm curious about clientele by that time, if it will change or not?
A gal who has a haircut that makes her look like a dude isn't sexy to me. Short but sexy is fine, I prefer a gal with at least chin length or longer though.
Now breasts on the other hand are nice in a wide variety of sizes. As long as they aren't flopping around her belly or knees a pair of soft natural tits are always nice to play with from A to DD.
I only know one gal who changes her hair color regularly, from natural brunette, to blonde, and then back again.
Honestly, it makes very little difference to me. If anything, the length if a more important factor, though certainly not a big one.
... as long the performance part is the same regardless of hair color.
if those "big spenders" aren't comfortable with your natural hair color, that's their problem, not yours.
in my opinion, ladies who change their hair often, gives me the impression that they have low self-esteem.
on of my favorite quotes...
“To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.” ~Thich Nhat Hanh
I'm always changing up my hair. It's not as drastic as the blonde, I've only done that once in my life lol. But with style, I have a face shape that pretty much can handle almost any hair style. As an artsy fartsy type, (who can still generally stay with the current trends,) I feel the need to create something new and different. What better canvas to create than your own body?
Changing the hair style and color requires different make up (color, and/or technique,) so that's another fun thing to play with. Kind of like getting a new puzzle or a new sketch book. (Or a new equipment in my case, lol.)
So yah, back in the day I did switch it up a lot, and over my life I don't have any time period within six months where my hair looked alike. Ever. But I am also a very artistic/creative person in my real life, and also somewhat of a stage hog, and party crasher, so I gotta' keep it fresh lol.
Point being: I can't speak for anyone else, low self esteem may not be every (or even most) cases, some women recognize their own potential beauty(s) and are continually changing it up to enhance their personal 'canvas' so to speak.
It is, in fact, part of the job description to look and feel sexy. 
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"if those "big spenders" aren't comfortable with your natural hair color, that's their problem, not yours."
Unless it means a lady can't pay her bills. Then it would be her problem.
“To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.” ~Thich Nhat Hanh
Do you know where you are posting this? Have you met a provider who was just being herself, no artifice, no performance, not working to please you? You may think so, but you have not. It is their job. To suggest that changing her look is somehow evidence of low self esteem is absurd; to suggest providers should just be themselves and not worry about how they are accepted by others (you know, the others who pay them, support them, determine whether or not they can make this work) is detached from reality.
Ladies, just be yourselves. No need to worry about whether or not you have any clients...
Sounds good, though, particularly when you throw the quotes around.
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Not all changes are done with tricks in mind. Secondly, they are your favorite, you are one guy, maybe they will pick up 5 more guys to replace you should you walk.
They were perfection in your eyes but they might have felt uncomfortable carrying around what amount to as udders., hence the reduction.
Not everything a hooker does is for this part of her life...she has another very large portion that is more real and quite possibly that is why those changes were made.
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That's why I said "I'm sure the ladies had good reason to do what they did." And that it may have helped business.
The provider who went blond has done that before. When she goes back to brunette, I'll see her again.
As for big boobs, it's very difficult to find an attractive and slim provider with them. I know chances are 95% or higher that they're fake, but I don't care. Right now if I wanted to see a provider with giant boobs, I'd have to drive 800 miles to Fort Lauderdale
If big boobs are your thing, have at it. The reason ladies get a reduction is really because they are a literal pain to carry round.
A disappointment for you, but I wish you well in finding a lady that is okay with hauling those jugs around. BTW, was not slamming you...just wanted to point out that some choices are not made with johns in mind..have an awesome Sunday and go pray at the church of the holy mattress...
I know (from reading) that they cause back problems, and are uncomfortable. Maybe that's why the providers who have them often charge more.
The only time I've seen EE or bigger is at strip clubs. Playing with a pair has always been on my bucket list. Women don't look balanced with them that large (even D's on a thin frame can look weird), but it would be fun just once
as a matter of fact she is the one I had the FFMF with a couple of years ago, and to tell the truth her overly big tits were kind of a turn off for me when we were actually in the sack. They looked great, and she certainly was a head turner being about 5' 5" maybe 125 lbs at the most and these huge fucking knockers, but I dated her inspite of her huge boobs, not because of them.
For the record, I didn't dump her because of her boobs, I dumped her because she was waaayyy more expensive than a hooker, and I decided that I preferred fucking hookers to fucking her. She of course was only seeing me because I was a "rich gringo" so it was more like I was getting rid of an ATF than a "novia" no real emotions involved on either side.
but I can honestly understand why a slim woman with huge knockers would want a change. Huge boobs on a small woman often leads to back problems, and it's a matter of their health over big boobs.
That said, I am not going to try to change your preferences, like I said. "We like what we like" and it's not like we can make a conscious decision to change our tastes. In my case, I would love to be attracted to "old broads" as there are so many of them and they are so willing without even a hint of having to pay, I could probably hook up with a different "age appropriate" woman every night of the week, but I just can't bring myself to fuck the average "age appropriate" womanm, no matter how much I consciously try to talk myself into it. So goes it with you and big titted, slender women.
...and ridicule other hobbyists' preferences - does OTHFBC sound familiar?
If a hobbyist wants to see an older woman, you deem her to be Over The Hill. If she's heavy, she's a Fat Broad (or Fat Bitch) according to you. You've made it abundantly clear in your posts that you think no one should see members of the OTHFBC.
It's pretty fucking obvious by reading these boards for over a decade that MOST men prefer the OTHFBs, and that is just fine with me. It means less competition in trying to book with the young hotties.
Welcome back asshole, I see you have picked up right where you left off. I hope you didn't gain too much weight during your hiatus, Did you run into Priapussy at any of those buffets?
...cirrhosis. Please notice I said "please."
I have no proof that your liver is cirrhotic, I am just guessing about that, as you so often do (see link). However, my guess is much more educated than yours because of your many years of admitting what a boozehound you are.
but at least he doesn't go whining to admin every time someone says something "mean" to him.
and booze or not, I will put my overall health up against yours anytime. Not to mention my ability to have a "discussion" without running to mommy the moment I start losing a "discussion"
So how long is it going to be before the arborists have to break out their pruning shears to make you look less foolish?
...do you have that I go "whining to Admin" or "running to mommy?" Sober up, you're not a moderator anymore.
And declaring I look foolish is simply another GaGoebbels move. You sound like Yul Brynner playing Rameses in "The Ten Commandments." Just because you say something does not make it so.
but just for the record, when a thread is pulled no evidence remains for the casual poster to refer to. Which of course is why you do it.
Have a nice night. I hope you find someone else to stalk. I find it preferable to talk "about you" and not to you. I am sure you will dig yourself another hole that you can't dig out of sometime soon, and get yourself gagged once again.
Do you plan on visiting your "friends" on the Kgirl board again anytime soon, or was not doing so a condition of your parole?
I do find it highly ironic that two of the biggest crybabies ever to come onto TER both have gotten themselves thrown off the board recently. Isn't that a yuck?
However I get a lions share of the johns out there so I don;t see how it has ever hurt me.
I am just as bad at poking the dog through the gate so I take it in stride and it's not personal. I look at like this anyone over 25 is over the hill for him. Anyone that is not slim is fat to him.
On behalf of the ladies that might get offended, I am sure they see your post as coming to their defense and I am sure they are grateful.
...100 people have a POV, I'll take the opposite position for the intellectual challenge.
As you see by GaG's reply, he doesn't have the capability to argue intelligently so he falls back to his default pattern of hurling insults.
as you are even less tolerant than I am where it comes to "fat folks"
and for the record I can't really comment on whether or not BPS is fat IRL. The last time I made a joke about his ethnicity he got me moderated for "posting personal info about him" I would state exactly what I said, but he would most likely at least attempt to get me moderated again. Which is just one of the many reasons I rarely engage him in conversation.
... you rarely engage in intellectual conversation.
majority of the time, you prefer to type away and let the venom fly. consequences be damned!
you need to man up and take responsibility of your constant moderation by TER.
your weak arguments against BigPapasan clearly shows your lack of intelligence.
trying to shift blame onto others is laughable.
and for the record I can't really comment on whether or not BPS is fat IRL. The last time I made a joke about his ethnicity he got me moderated for "posting personal info about him" I would state exactly what I said, but he would most likely at least attempt to get me moderated again. Which is just one of the many reasons I rarely engage him in conversation.
Okay I mentioned the fat thing...Not as a slight, more to elucidate your preferences. I had no idea you two had a feud going on. Oh well I am going to bow out of this one gracefully.
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a very annoying, bloviating stalker, but really that's about all there is to it. He's been following me around the various boards for years.
You really haven't made it on the internet if you don't have your own stalker. I have had several over the years. This one seems to be the most persistent. He also likes to cry to admin when I am not "nice" to his rude posts. You know, one of those "can dish it out, but can't take it kind of guys" He just got out of the "penalty box" he lost his posting privileges here for about 90 days, so I suppose just like someone getting out of the pokey, he feels he needs to make up for lost time. lol
with the provider who eventually became my ATF. When I first met her a few years ago, she had a great figure, what I'd call "athletic" but not muscular. Nicely toned, fantastic legs and butt, and Bs that I thought looked perfect on her. With great nipples, too. The next time I saw her, she had Ds. They looked great, one of the best boob jobs I've ever seen, but I made the mistake of commenting that I liked her old boobs just fine. She gave me an icy glare (with just a flicker of a smile in her eyes) and said, "I didn't do this for you guys--I did it for myself."
Lesson learned!
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Did you ever think that the gals have a self-image they would like? That maybe they didn't see themselves now like they did in the past and wanted a new look, a change? I guess they should have asked you first
I stopped seeing one provider because she shaved off 1/2 half her hair to be bald on one side. Not attractive at all. Another one did cheap breast surgery, the tits became like hard baseballs.
If I'm spending money on me, then how I spend it is all about me. The women can do whatever they want, but my reaction is my own.
Do you pay providers you don't find attractive because you want to do something for them?
that was exactly what I was going to say.
Ok, you know I am lying, you said it MUCH more politely than I would have put it. Especially given the "superior air" our Little Lord Fauntleroy was trying to put on.
and yes, it is "all about me" when it comes to who I choose to spend my money on. It might be "all about her" when she makes the decision, and obviously it's "her life, her choice" but that doesn't have a fucking thing to do with my decision making process in selecting a hooker to spend my money on. Then MY TASTE is the only one that counts, which I believe was exactly your question for the board.
I have recently changed my hair from brown to a dark red. I am curious to see how my regulars react to it. It's always a gamble changing your look.
a nice natural B to a firm C cup. She was attractive before and also afterwards. Didn't much matter to me.
Now, if a provider goes and changes her hair color, I would like to know ahead of time. If I make an appointment on Sunday with a black haired lady for a date on Tuesday, that is what I will be expecting. If she shows up as a blonde, then I will be surprised, may like or not like the change.
I recently saw a favorite lady friend and this past visit, her hair was up in a bun. Once I got used to the visual immage, I was fine with it.
I have the opposite taste in breasts from you. I prefer them small and natural, and I have stopped seeing favorites because they got boob jobs.
If I cut my hair I would lose those that liked my long hair but gain those who like it short...when one door closes, another opens.
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A john can start seeing a hooker and be just what she likes and then over time he changes and she is like "crap he was such a cool guy before" and she then drops him. Happens all the time. With hookers it happens with appearance as well as attitude. With johns, as far as I see it is more attitude and hobbying style.
I don't have to worry about that one.
I know people change, both voluntarily and simply with time. When I find a good thing, I want it to stay the same. Life's not that way, though.
I think you forgot where "we" are at LOL
Johnny will be seen until the bucks stop....I suspect you meant in your post that she "drops" him because the john wants to not pay (as much) as he used to.
But she'll still see the dude...especially when rents are due.
This isn't match my dear...it's fuck for bucks.
I thought for sure that I would lose all my clients when I went from shaved bare to hairy all over (November 2013)! It's definitely part of why it took me so long to make the switch, because I wanted to for a long time before I finally went for it. I thought I would lose my entire client base that I had spend years building and would only get fetishists who were specifically only into hairy girls. Turns out it's a lot more normal for men to appreciate body hair on a woman than I thought, and I've been surprised how many of my favorite clients either didn't bat an eye or are even more into my now that I have the hair. I have a babyface so I kinda looked like a teenager before I let my body hair grow (even though I didn't start doing this until I was 21) and I did not think there would be much overlap between guys who were into that look and guys who are into women with natural body hair. But go figure, tons of my regulars still see me to this day and either enjoy the change or don't mind it and continue to see me.
My decision was about wanting to feel better about my body and I just like my body better with hair. I was afraid I was going to ruin my business, but it ultimately had to be about me and what I wanted for my own body because I'm the one who has to live in it and I wasn't happy to look in the mirror or go skinnydipping with friends and see my kitty shaved bare all the time. I missed my body hair. However, coincidentally, the change has been excellent for my business and I'm happier with my client base than I've ever been. Lucky me!
I'm sure a few guys were disappointed. I'm sure lots of guys don't see me because of the hair. But beauty/perfection is absolutely subjective. That's why it's great that we have so much variety to choose from in this world!
It's kind of like having multiple women in one.
I remember trying different things with my kitty hair. Over a couple months, I had a different status down there. Trimmed, landing strip, shaved lips, non shaved lips, etc etc. The guy I was banging at the time said it was like getting a different vagina every week.
Hehehe
One Halloween my ex wore a blond wig as part of her costume. She looked good in it.
When we got home, I suggested she keep the wig on while we had sex. She got really angry, and told me I should find a real blond to have an affair with if that's what I wanted.
She was odd.
I mean it was her idea after all, right?
No, I did not follow her advice. That sort of advice is always a trap, just as were her suggestions that I stop in one of the NV brothels the next time I passed on one of my motorcycle trips. "Oh, you should have gone to one." Yeah. Right.
Maybe 15 years ago she gave me a poster of my favorite woman of all time, Sophia Loren. I've copied the poster below. Remember, this was a gift from my wife to me. I put it on the wall in my office. Within a year, she was complaining about my pinup girl.
I removed it, and replaced it with a closeup photo of my wife's face that I did a year after we were married. I always loved that photo. At the time I put up the photo, we were both in our fifties. It wasn't long before she complained about my "25 year-old pinup girl" in my office. She was jealous of herself.
Women are weird. Providers market themselves for years as being Brazilian (usually to excuse large butts), then dye their hair blond. Others spend $$$$ on good boob jobs, promote the hell out of them, then spend $$$ to have them reduced. Maybe the only people more weird are the guys who see them.
For me it was five years from start to finish. A very valuable lesson IMO. I got it all out of my system in my thirties where it only cost me many hundreds of thousands. A bargain at twice the price. lol