here on this board. One problem is you have no reviews to your name and are therefore an unknown quantity. Yes, its true that some providers do screen according to race (and not just African Americans are excluded - I've seen things like "no Vietnamese" or "no Middle Eastern"), and indeed also according to age. There are a variety of reasons for this that I won't go into here. Ultimately, individual providers are the ones who must make their choices in this. One truism frequently found on this board is "her body, her rules". If you're a decent guy, I'm sure its frustrating and hurtful to be excluded like this. On the other hand, at least they are being up front with you, and you know where you stand. To get informed, I'd suggest you do a search on this board, looking at replies dating back 1000 days, with the search term "African" or something similar. You'll discover that this question has been dealt with before, and find the names of ladies who are theoretically interested in seeing you.
TER Responders,
I'm a newbie to "Provider" services and I'm African/Black American with $$$ to donate for various services and maybe HOT companionship but I've noticed MULTIPLE providers with the NO African/Black American request. Mostly from some HOT and desirable white, Latina and Asian women.
I've not read a provider exclusion for other ethnicity.
Why??
Please be clear, respectful and gentle with your responses.
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here on this board. One problem is you have no reviews to your name and are therefore an unknown quantity. Yes, its true that some providers do screen according to race (and not just African Americans are excluded - I've seen things like "no Vietnamese" or "no Middle Eastern"), and indeed also according to age. There are a variety of reasons for this that I won't go into here. Ultimately, individual providers are the ones who must make their choices in this. One truism frequently found on this board is "her body, her rules". If you're a decent guy, I'm sure its frustrating and hurtful to be excluded like this. On the other hand, at least they are being up front with you, and you know where you stand. To get informed, I'd suggest you do a search on this board, looking at replies dating back 1000 days, with the search term "African" or something similar. You'll discover that this question has been dealt with before, and find the names of ladies who are theoretically interested in seeing you.
Their body, their rules. End of conversation. As GJ said, just move on to the next one who will see you.
I know there is little comparison. Some ladies refuse to see guys over 50 or who dont meet thier body type qualifications. It does sting a bit but as has been said, thier playground, they set the rules. Lots of fish in the sea my friend, dont fret...enjoy the ladies who appreciate you. And may I add, I've found the "nbm" disclaimer usualy on the low end bp ladies. on P411 and TER it is a rare statement.
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