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GaGambler 957 reads
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She wouldn't be busy at all, and there would be no need to "fit yourself" in between dates.

Who knows? You might be her only date for the day/trip and be the difference between a total bust on her end, or at least breaking even.

and yes, it's probably a good idea that you didn't post this in response to her ad as it most likely would be considered "shitting on her ad" and by doing so you might have gotten yourself moderated.

I should have probably posted this as a reply to the ad I just saw over on my local board placed by a provider who says she's only going to be in town for one day but I didn't want to insult her.

So, my fellow hobbyists, just how appealing do you find such an ad?

As for me, not very. Assuming she's really hot, which the lady in the ad appears to me, I'd have to be feeling really horny and really attracted to her to be willing to get in line and try to fit myself into her busy schedule between dates.

No thanks (there might be a couple ladies on here I'd make an exception for but I doubt it)

Unless you are going to see her every single day of her stay, however long it might be (say 3 or 4 days), what added benefit you have from her having in your town more than one day?

Maybe she is just stopping by your city on her way to some place else, and thought she would pick a client or two.. Why do you even care..? If you find her hot, and can afford her, go see her...

I have a hard enough time scheduling to see ladies who live in town so the idea of trying to fit into a very short window of a lady who is probably going to be in demand sounds like way too much of a hassle to me. But I could always be wrong about the demand part.  

Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan
Unless you are going to see her every single day of her stay, however long it might be (say 3 or 4 days), what added benefit you have from her having in your town more than one day?  
   
 Maybe she is just stopping by your city on her way to some place else, and thought she would pick a client or two.. Why do you even care..? If you find her hot, and can afford her, go see her...

You answered your own question.. Holidays can be tricky. Demand subsides around holidays and also around summer..

If you don't shoot her an email to schedule something, I can "guarantee" you that no one else is going to do it for you and that appointment will never happen. lol..

I've had some appointments where I was exactly in same situation as yours (time being of essence), and looking back I wonder how the hell did I pull that off.. But I did..

So schedule with the hundreds and hundreds of other ladies lol!

You know when we visit places, unless we're at dirt cheap prices, the emails don't blow up, especially on tour, and especially at higher rates & minimums. I bet if you emailed her, didn't ask for a discount, gave her the info she needs for screening, she'll see you. You never know, if it's her first time there, you very well be one of the one, two or three who do inquire with whatever she needs to get you verified.

Make it easy for her, and she'll most likely make it easier for you.

 

Posted By: hljockey
I have a hard enough time scheduling to see ladies who live in town so the idea of trying to fit into a very short window of a lady who is probably going to be in demand sounds like way too much of a hassle to me. But I could always be wrong about the demand part.  
   
Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan
Unless you are going to see her every single day of her stay, however long it might be (say 3 or 4 days), what added benefit you have from her having in your town more than one day?  
     
  Maybe she is just stopping by your city on her way to some place else, and thought she would pick a client or two.. Why do you even care..? If you find her hot, and can afford her, go see her...
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GaGambler958 reads

She wouldn't be busy at all, and there would be no need to "fit yourself" in between dates.

Who knows? You might be her only date for the day/trip and be the difference between a total bust on her end, or at least breaking even.

and yes, it's probably a good idea that you didn't post this in response to her ad as it most likely would be considered "shitting on her ad" and by doing so you might have gotten yourself moderated.

And this scenario does happen...

Steph xoxo

.... (went from 1p-5:30p) and actually had no intentions of advertising at first but decided around 7 to do so on a few sites. I almost never do literally last minute advertising like that but it was a UTR visit at first and figured if a friend comes along by midnight great and if not ... oh well. :)

I had a day and a half advertised on TER & P411, pulled in two more clients for a total of four in four days. (With one cancellation, so three.) I toured for four, but only had to advertise a day and a half.

I have also advertised for a day when I did a weekend date with special arrangements with the guy. Saw him for 2 1/2 days, booked my flight for the day after he left, pre booked a room for the next night and made an extra 600-800 bucks. He was cool with it, and actually was impressed with the fact that I had common sense. Yet another plus for his weekend that his hooker has a brain.


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Also sometimes a lady has a multi multi hour the day before or after and is just trying to have some fun and cover some expenses. It doesn't always mean a revolving door will be the case.

Steph xoxo

Dear Steph:
As a companion and first and foremost as an independent woman you are always thinking that time is Money. With that said, if there is a vacant period of time away from your primary clients you are certainly not one to refuse some funds if there are candidates who past your stipulations for verification. Also you are always interested in finding good solid "friends" who are genuinely interested in being with you social and sensuous environment.  Thus to cover and exceed your financial goals why not put an ad out there especially since you are a member of various boards and verification sites where you would get a considerable amount of Nationwide traffic.  
 Also I am also wondering if certain women who happen to be colleagues in the business refer you to certain men when you come to a town?  Finally, would you also time certain trips predicated on the events that might transpire or do you tend to stay away from that because that tend to bring certain types of attention that might be considered undesirable? So although it might not change the way you conduct business, you are also trying to acquire new business.  That is why it is critical to advertise, because in this industry good referrals are rare.

In this vein only three things matter to me:

1) Can she make and keep the appointment?

2) Can she make it feel like someone didn't just leave?

3) Can she make it feel like the next guy isn't waiting in the lobby?

Beyond that I'm not interested...her business, not mine.

-- Modified on 11/27/2014 10:19:57 PM

Back_In_Black850 reads

she said so ? oh you guys are funny , she books online , maybe takes a deposit or ten has some cancellations and puts up an ad . cum and get it one day only , some walk some run you came here and asked . also your assuming that so many guys are going to jump at the opportunity . the question should be is the place nice , is she clean and is she professional if so go see her , If not pass . the criteria one should use to evaluate a woman is more important than how many , as one can be to much and several really doesn't matter . you either understand what I wrote or you don't .  

Posted By: hljockey
I should have probably posted this as a reply to the ad I just saw over on my local board placed by a provider who says she's only going to be in town for one day but I didn't want to insult her.  
   
 So, my fellow hobbyists, just how appealing do you find such an ad?  
   
 As for me, not very. Assuming she's really hot, which the lady in the ad appears to me, I'd have to be feeling really horny and really attracted to her to be willing to get in line and try to fit myself into her busy schedule between dates.  
   
 No thanks (there might be a couple ladies on here I'd make an exception for but I doubt it).  
   
   
   
 

...your thoughts as a reply to her ad.  That would have been beyond rude.
That said, from a purely psychological point of view, I agree, and have had this same thought when I've seen some visiting ads from real hotties who show a schedule with just one or two days in city after city after city.
Right? Wrong? - really isn't such a thing in the hobby.  It's all about the gut feel - and yep, when I see a lady visitor in town for just a day, I'm much less likely to try to book with her too.

Well, I wouldn't have posted it exactly the way I did in this forum so maybe it wouldn't have sound so rude.

Something like "wish you could stay longer, because....."

That doesn't sound so bad, does it?

Posted By: Jstgttnstrtd
...your thoughts as a reply to her ad.  That would have been beyond rude.  
 That said, from a purely psychological point of view, I agree, and have had this same thought when I've seen some visiting ads from real hotties who show a schedule with just one or two days in city after city after city.  
 Right? Wrong? - really isn't such a thing in the hobby.  It's all about the gut feel - and yep, when I see a lady visitor in town for just a day, I'm much less likely to try to book with her too.

One day only doesn't necessarily mean a revolving door. It might be a slow town for her. Or she might be passing through to see one regular, and would feel lucky getting a second session. A friend of mine does exactly that. A little circle tour of one day cities. She sees her reg in each town, and hopes pick up a semi reg, or newbie on occasion. She always tends to go way over, so I don't think she's running eight stallions through each day.  

I usually can't do last minute plans, but I've gone for the one day only ladies when I could. One never knows just how busy their schedule is. Plus, she may have had three no shows, and she's ecstatic someone showed up. Those sessions are wild. If you feel like you have to be the only one, then try to book her first time. But maybe she just did an all-nighter, and is on drugs to get through your morning session. See what I mean? How can you know?

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Personally, I can't make same day appointments work, so I just move on or say "damn it! I want that ass bad!" to myself.  

If I cared, I would think 1) she is trying to create demand and or 2) has booked a room with no appointments to pay for it and wants to at least break even..

I agree with both points one and two.

For me it's a "get it while it lasts, one time only" deal and neither my brain nor my pecker are up for it nowadays.

But as some others have said maybe she has some reason to be in town for a day and is just testing the waters to see what happens and it wouldn't hurt to drop her a note if you really wanted to see her.

Depends on the lady, her reviews, her pics and her donation. I see touring ladies when I'm off the road. The ad itself doesn't bother me at all

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