years that is...........coming up on #24 it has been a hell of a ride, and i wouldnt give it up for the world. this is the second for both of us, i left the first wife on our first anniversarry, she was a crazy bitch!!!!
Or how many never been married? 2times. 3 times? Interesting to see how the numbers would work out.
recently I asked her what she wanted and well, she told me and Im feeling the same way lol I gotta say that YOU I OWE a lot to. I mean it and I will say it here , you gave me good and true advice and you were dead on . see girls today are emotional and their hearts have been hurt at times so it is a whole different ballgame and what im saying is I always think of what you wrote , your words and I owe you thanks . your a good man curly !! so the best thanksgiving to you my friend and I do hope my situation ends with a stroll down an aisle sometime in the near future but im not naming my first born curly ..lol lol
sorry hotpants im not gay and rod she aint always right ..lol
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I think it's funny if a man is divorced by 30 it is a "Red Flag" but if he has never married by 40 that is also a "Red Flag" and regarding multiple marriages, Kim Kardashian has nothing on Elizabeth Taylor!!
Got married at 30 and the divorce was final before I was 35, and like you "once bitten, twice shy" I doubt that I will ever go down that road again.
I "jumped over the broom" twice
by the time I was 40.
and I doubt I'll do it again
I enjoy being single too much
and I doubt a wife would condone
my hobby, but I'm not about to give
that up yet. Some compromises are just
out of the question and not on the table
.. Third time's the charm!
years that is...........coming up on #24 it has been a hell of a ride, and i wouldnt give it up for the world. this is the second for both of us, i left the first wife on our first anniversarry, she was a crazy bitch!!!!
When I read your subject line I thought maybe you were Arab....they sign a divorce document before seeing a provider and then get remarried when they come out. A gal who used to travel to Dubai told me that. Religion is so much fun!!!!
I want to marry Kristy and since that's not possible every other 10/10 I met and one unreviewed non professional too. Oh the reason the next 30 are doubtful is because the spouse won't have me broke, I guarantee it. Maybe she allows my "indiscretions" because she loves her lifestyle. ?!
14 years and counting, but it stopped being fun about 7 years ago. Fortunately, I can meet most of my needs with civvie GFs and regular visits to kinky providers who will do all the things the other ladies won't do. One of these days I will get divorced and stop having to sneak around . . .
and I just turned 50... Have not even had a g/f since 1999 and not a civie date since then too...
And it depends on what you consider constitutes marriage.
In terms of who can visit me visit me when I'm hospitalized and terminal, never, no one. I'm on my own. The way I like it.
46 years married and we have done it all...
It has its good aspects, sex just ain't one of them. Fatten the wallets of at least two divorce lawyers just so I can be free to make a second mistake? No thank you, I can think of a much more pleasurable and therapeutic way to spend that money!
She's a nicer person but really never liked sex, intamacy, kissing, cuddling.... She denies it but still refuses. It took me too long to figure this out.
I'm pretty lucky, a lot of friends call me the "Trophy Husband." She has oil and mineral rights that come in quite handy for a fun lifestyle. Very liberal with the horizontal activities. She likes to spend time with other girls so we hook up with other couples and the rare unicorn. I get to enjoy an occasional FMF without any transfer of cash.
Plus she's my bud. I really did luck out with her. She was a broke grad student when we met .The oil came 20 years into our marriage. Praise the lord for fracking
She asked me out junior year in high school 37 years ago. We have been together ever since. We are great friends and sometime lovers. I question my own motives but believe without the hobby I would be involved in much more destructive affairs. Its impossible for me to hide love for another women. Lust I can hide.
symptoms: absence of sex, abundance of nagging
diagnosis: married man
prognosis: unhappiiy married old man
treatment options: deal or divorce
conclusion: it's cheaper to keep'er
'health care' provider reccomendation: "If you get in a rut, hire a slut."
When we got together she said monogamy was a deal-breaker for her: she'd just end up cheating and she didn't want to do that. For the first 20 years we played together a lot, had separate and shared girlfriends and play partners, hired pros to help us celebrate anniversaries. She slowed down when menopause hit - just kept one other bf on the side. We've never had secrets, though we don't tend to use our outside adventures as turn-ons the way we used to.
Since then I have a sex-crazed gf, a few fwbs, and see the occasional pro - sometimes with the gf and sometimes alone (it's way easier and less stressful to hire a third than to find a unicorn). The gf and wife get along great (as do the gf's husband and I).
So marriage is great.
9 years almost 10 and counting. Love her more now then the day I said "I do." I am a lucky men.
1st serious girlfriend - both virgins (25 & 21 yo) when married - common back the in the Bible Belt. How things have changed in 50 years.