I would love to attend whatever the venue/size - the big pool party followed by a ball proposed earlier in the summer sounds fantastic, but it would be costly.  A more private event would definitely be more affordable - it sounds like bond007 has had lots of success with big events in LA, and charged a healthy admission (up to $100).  I would be fine with that, but a smaller, well-screened event (to assure Goldie that people would show up) could be cheaper per guy (maybe $50?) and still a lot of fun.  Or maybe bond007 could help sponsor a SD event?