When a lady asks, in the middle of a two hour date, "Do you want to go for another hour?", is that additional hour's donation negotiable? We have seen each other a few times and I have asked for an additional hour in the past. At times, my request has been accepted and I have donated at the usual rate. After all it was my request. How does the dynamic change when she makes the request? We did have a lovely time with the extra hour and she experienced some very special moments that validated our decision to extend the date. Thank you Sweet for sharing that with me.
Of course it is. It is just hard to switch gears to business mode in the middle of an otherwise good session. One of my pet peeves is that girls need to recognize that multiple hours should be discounted. I don't want to be cynical but I would be feeling the girl was taking advantage of me if she didn't imply or offer some consideration. I might try "would an extra xxx keep us going?" Where xxx was 70% of the normal hourly rate. All she could say is no and get huffy and get cold. Then you would know.
I once had a girl say to me midway through a two hour date "Don't worry about the time. I don't have anything else afterward. And I can do dinner if you want." I fell in love. We actually only went over by 20 minutes, I did take her out to dinner (otc), and I saw her many, many times after that. You have got to read the girl. She has to read you.
You pay one way or another, and on the clock is probably the cheapest.
Lets face it, if she doesn't say those magic words "off the clock" or something similar, to make sure you know the lay of the land, then my friend, she is expecting to be compensated. I think its as simple as that. Providers don't just "forget" to tell you in the heat of the moment, just as hobbyists don't just "forget" to leave the envelope.
70% off that is very generous. I think some of you assume providers should offer super discounts, but forget the fact that this in fact is a business. OTC is rare & a free dinner is awesome too if she agrees. I think most providers can afford to buy their own dinner it is your time your donating for. Any true gent would realize these 2 facts & always still supply a tribute for the ladies time. I am under the impression 70% off would not be a reality if negotiated prior to by both parties.
Happy Friday S.D.!
NO, 70% of the total. i.e. 30% discount. If I have paid 600 for two hours. (300 per hour), getting a third hour for 200 extra seems imminently fair. Angel saw it correctly and it was just given as an example. It is always best to have a clear cut understanding. If a regular doesn't get that she will not stay a regular. You girls always interpret things in the worse light. Take care of your regulars and they will take care of you. One of my regulars once said "reliable regulars are wonderful". An older girl. Words of wisdom.
Later after many meetings I offered to put the dinner girl on a monthly retainer. She was so happy she started bouncing. Nothing like an annuity. All because of one "free" dinner. She initiated it. I would never have suggested it and was surprised and pleased when she unilaterally offered it. I refer to this period of my life as the "500 days of Laurie." I once told a very close older civvie female friend who knew all about it, that I was "dating a 37 year old blonde h@@ker." Good things do happen in the hobby.
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Regular, or not I never cared for the term hooker. Sounds, like a cheap prostitute. To each their own. All the best to you.
But I believe he said 70% OF (her rate) which means he only took off 30%. Ultimately it is up to the lady to decide if a discount is agreeable to her but if you're having a good time I say it's always polite to ask.
I'm going to take a guess and say that she figured she'd ask if you'd like more time since you have asked a few times in the past. Regardless of who asks first you should still pay for the time unless she says "I'd love you to stay an addition hour NO charge." This is something that should be discussed between you and the provider in question. It doesn't matter what we think, it's her time/rules/body.
I was flattered beyond words by her request and there wasn't any negotiation. Time is our most valuable resource and she was offering me some of hers. That is priceless.