I thank the lovely ladies who have taught me the valuable lesson that sex is light years better when sober.  I'm sure I had sex when I was younger but the memories have been diminished or lost because so much of it was done under the influence of alcohol, pot, cocaine, and/or acid.  When I woke up, there was a primer coat of excretions on my face, hands, and genitals and on my brain.  The chemicals were used to reduce inhibitions; they also reduced memories.  Thank you for showing me how to release my inhibitions the natural way, with you!  This past year has been an awakening.  Fond(ling) memories are ripe for the harvest.  The places, the faces, the caresses, the voices, the scents, the shadows, the tastes, the braiding of bodies are right there on the surface of my cortex, accessible in the blink of an eye and can impose recalled pleasure and elation seemingly at will.  I understand the lady's perspective concerning drugs and alcohol, safety and behavior issues, but from the consumer's perspective, my view point, your insistence frees me to plunge into the ocean of enjoyment you offer and 'burn a DVD' of the experience inside my head.  Thank you for another of your many gifts.  
 What about rock and roll?  Bouncing to the beat of the Rolling Stones "Beast of Burden" with many of the TER women is fantastic.