Dear Non-whitedude,
You've also missed one nuance - I do not meet with men younger than 40.
Yes, I do have my rules.
There are a lot of nice women. Good luck!
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What happens if someone who is not Anglo wants to see you. Obviously we're speaking hypothetically! But let's indulge eachother in this exercise? By "Anglo" you mean white - right? Obviously, you can choose to see whom you like but to categorically exclude every non-white client is both ignorant and probably not a good business practice given that you do not provide any photographs as to what you look like.
Given that many gorgeous providers have not had such restrictions, I don't understand the logic of your restrictive policy except to conclude that your upbringing, environment and inability to let go of certain beliefs instilled into you by your parents, peers and community prevent you from growing as a person.
-- Modified on 2/9/2004 9:30:47 PM
I held my tongue then but, for what it's worth, here's my opinion.
This is not exactly the same as refusal of service at a lunch counter in the South in the 1950s. The service that these ladies offer is extremely intimate. I know a provider who is uncomfortable and therefore, refuses to see black men. She had been gang raped by a group of black men before entering the business. Does this mean that she thinks all black men are rapists? Probably not but, knowing her history, I can understand why intimacy with a black man would be difficult for her. As ThePatriot pointed out, what is the difference between a customer choosing the race/ethnicity of his provider? Should we now call for politically correct escort agencies where PC would require that the customer accept the next lady available regardless of preference?
I can't blame you for assuming that there may be racist motives here. In a perfect world, people wouldn't make decisions based on shallow reasoning. I am not a person of color but I do use a wheelchair. I have never experienced a situation where a lady admitted to me that the chair was a problem for her. Would I be surprised if I did experience such a situation? ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!
The lady is not refusing to sell you a sandwich. She is sharing a very intimate act with you. In order to share this intimacy with others, ladies all have certain rules. We accept these rules when imposed in the name of safety. We don’t often talk about the OTHER RULES; the rules which help the ladies get past inhibitions which might otherwise prevent them from providing this service.
Whether it is, “I don’t see…
Black men
Old men
Young men
Fat men
Dirty men
Disabled men
Or
I don’t see ANYBODY unless I’m high!”
The lady has the right to impose these restrictions. After all, it is HER BODY!
Just MHO
thirsty
Dear Non-whitedude,
You've also missed one nuance - I do not meet with men younger than 40.
Yes, I do have my rules.
There are a lot of nice women. Good luck!
sorry to say this, but i think your in the wrong line of work.
your in an industry based on pleasure. guess what ALL MEN want pleasure. straight/gay/black/white/indian/incest baby/whatever.
if you want to see only white males, above the age of 40 .. i suggest you put on a white hood, burn a cross. youll get the attention of the kind of clientel your after.
You must assume that most of us in this industry are desperate for clients.
I am very picky in who I see, and do not HAVE to see anyone if I don't want to.
It wasn't until very recently I, a black female, started seeing black hobbists again. I've had several negative experiences with them trying to hustle me (hey sista, can you hook a brother up?) and not being particularly gentleman-like to me. Sad, but true, I do ask when screening if they think I'm going to give preferential treatment because we are the same race.
Am I racist? Nope.
Just like thirsty said, if the hobbists can choose what type of lady they enjoy to share their company with, why isn't a provider able to have a preference? Everyone has their reasons for not doing certian acts or seeing certian people. Not everyone who is a provider is a cracked out streetwalker who is so desperate that she has no limits.
We don't have to understand her choice, just respect it.
`Tiara