There are plenty of guys who see gals that don't need all the services on the menu that are offered. Only as long as what they are seeking is being offered, its good enough.
For e.g. I have very little interest in Greek. Last time I went down that road was probably Dec 2013. But I don't consider it as waste of my time if a gal is offering it on the menu. I also am sure that she doesn't consider it waste of her time providing me her services. Lets review the question together as its rather short, and will only take two minutes of our collective time. "How important is kissing to you. I personally have it as a requirement. " I can't fathom any lady saying that it's a requirement for her that the client sticks his tongue in her mouth..LMAO. Again, not a weatherman, but I don't need to be one to tell which way the wind is blowing... There is something to be said about how its rather smart to stop digging when one finds themselves in the hole.
I personally have it as a requirement.
But if there is enough hot fudge sauce, I could see my way around it if needs be.
But I haven't often felt the need to give/get a tonsilectomy on a first date. I do feel it affirms I am on the right track on follow-up dates.
I desire an intimate experience and what's more intimate than kissing? Especially DFK?
Now I just had a wonderful time with a really sweet, really beautiful woman the other day and it bordered on LFK (very light). But she liked me and was about as comfortable with me a she was going to get and she was really into it. Every other aspect of the session was so incredibly pleasant that I didn't mind not being able to DFK her. At least there was something there.
No kissing in a session? That's tough. She's gotta be super hot and ready, willing and able to do BAD things to me!
I've learned that a good kisser is the most important thing to me. Kissing, as it happens, is the most intimate exchange.
... is not a requirement simply because most women I see, both pro and civie, are poor kissers. At least according to my taste. Some are lame and dont kiss back but the majority just ram their tongue down my throat and swiggle it around which is actually worse. Telling someone they dont know how to kiss and then instructing them is not wise so I just opt out of kissing these women. They probably are relieved.
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For me, good kissing takes it to the next level and I'll definitely indulge if the sparks are there. If the kissing is bad or disinterested, then there are plenty of other activities we can engage in.
You're dead right. That type of kissing is revolting to say the least.
A good/great kisser can make you "forget it's a service" a woman that turns her head when you try to kiss her just reinforces the fact that she probably would rather be anywhere else than with you.
Yes, It is a definite requirement for me, I will NEVER knowingly book with a woman who wont' kiss.
but it's unlikely that she will be getting a repeat visit from me either.
As for whether or not I will keep trying is all a matter of degree just how bad she is at it.
Ehhh. Shitty kissing is dangerous. Ever had a chick bite your tongue or lip? If she's not good at it, then keep it light. Shitty kissing is NOT an option.
I had one of those, in a sense, she turned her head when I tried to kiss her right after I finished going down on her. Minutes before she had been kissing me just fine.The head turn made me feel like shit and reinforced the fact that not only was I paying for a service, but there would be no 'female snowballing' allowed. (I just made that term up) Kissing is also a definite requirement for me, to include kissing me after I try to "lick them silly."
Yes, It is a definite requirement for me, I will NEVER knowingly book with a woman who wont' kiss.
do you enjoy the taste of your own spunk?
Take my point?
ouldn't have said it better myself . I can make do with a lot of "items" missing from the menu , I can even make due with a CBJ but no kissing a deal breaker .
Recently I was about to book a certain UTR porn star thru an agency that is one of my ATF on screen but when the booker let me know all actives where to be covered I said no problem , when she added no kissing as well that killed it for me. I respect people's boundaries but that's the one requirement I won't make due with out in a session . Especially for what porn stars charge
Its very important. It can make or break the date, at least for me. All of the better dates Ive had usually involve kissing. Its just what I like. I can think of a few that were still good without kissing but wouldve been over the top if kissing would have been available. My 2 cents.
I luv to kiss. Can't kiss enough. There is more of a connection for me if we can share a kiss. I think I crave the more innocent physical touches more than just straight sex acts, but I take it all how I can get it with no complaints. I try not to meet with gentlemen I won't connect with because I would hate to be rejected for a dfk or even light playful kisses while we are together, I wouldn't be able to continue with the session.
I am a very passionate kisser in the real world. I can get lost and breathless in a kiss. Does everyone bring this out in me, not so much. Hygiene and approach is very important and I think a lot of people don't take this in to account when their kisses aren't reciprocated. This is more of the "oh no! it's definitely you, not me" deal breaker! I've caught myself yelling "just stick it in already"! Sometimes you have one job, don't screw that up by trying to do something you've been told you suck at.
Sorry, I'm feisty and need to get laid again...
BBBJ. If either of these is not on her menu, based on my research of her, then I will look elsewhere.
Swim
But I thought this was post for guys.. You are more than welcome to post, but your answer confuses me more than anything, since you don't clearly book appointment with paid providers, or do you? 
...and i'm certainly not the only one with lady parts that replied. 
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Believe me, I did a double take also. I thought it was in response to my post. Learning trees still, slowly getting the hang of it all. Especially on the long threads.
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Yes kissing is very important to me. A lack of it, or a very poor performance will result in no more sessions being booked with that provider.
Its a requirement for you to provide? If a guy won't kiss you, you won't see him again? Doesn't make sense to me.. Again, I am not opposed to you responding, but I am of the opinion that the question was targeted towards us, the guys...
And you don't consider Robbin a legit poster, do you? lol
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I don't get guys that don't really like to kiss ... a guy that doesn't like to kiss trying to see would be wasting his time and mine. Among many things i'm a GFE provider by nature and I like foreplay. I'll put on my best game face if he doesn't but it'd make a date awkward as hell and it'd be all on him. You can only do so much to save a date. Because ya know .... trying to come to see a woman who really likes to kiss and you don't makes TOTAL sense.
Also ... again not sure why you felt this was a guys only question since it wasn't directed to any particular gender. He just asked about kissing (and it's importance) completely like an in general question not how important it is to you GUYS (or gents ... whatever) lol so with that I'll respond when I want if I decide it's relevant to me.
Over and out.
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There are plenty of guys who see gals that don't need all the services on the menu that are offered. Only as long as what they are seeking is being offered, its good enough.
For e.g. I have very little interest in Greek. Last time I went down that road was probably Dec 2013. But I don't consider it as waste of my time if a gal is offering it on the menu. I also am sure that she doesn't consider it waste of her time providing me her services.
Lets review the question together as its rather short, and will only take two minutes of our collective time. "How important is kissing to you. I personally have it as a requirement. " I can't fathom any lady saying that it's a requirement for her that the client sticks his tongue in her mouth..LMAO. Again, not a weatherman, but I don't need to be one to tell which way the wind is blowing...
There is something to be said about how its rather smart to stop digging when one finds themselves in the hole.
Since the OP didn't specify whether it was a requirement to have fun/chemisty or to book an appointment, it's an open question that allows open answers. Had he specified, his question may very well have been limited to the gents. I think Ms Mocha meant that it's (DFK) a requirement for her to have that special chemistry with someone, not a requirement to accept his money lol.
....if the OP was gearing this question towards hobbyists, then female hobbyists like myself would be included, not just "gents". So by that very assumption, it isn't gender based, but hobbyist based.
I rest my case. :
*wishing I were the fly on the wall..
answer. I agree. But there are like 2 of them here amongst 1000s of male mongers.
.....but we're tenacious
kissing is mandatory for me and Akiya can write the book!
until she makes it important. That is, if I find after a while she likes to do it and always initiates it.
i've seen ladies who don't seem to care for it and I don't push the issue.
There was a time when almost all Ladies of the Evening never kissed. My first experience with them was when I went into the Navy during the Korean war, Stateside prostitutes would never kiss but Japanese prostitutes would. Some were also proficient and happy to bbbj. Now, for me it's a deal-breaker without kissing.
Muahhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
Ps. You said Japanese prostitute would kiss, unlike the others. Now I know why I like kissing! It's in my genes baby! lol
Thanks, but somehow your cyber-smootch doesn't satisfy me like your in-person smooches LOL So, until next time--
XOXOXO
Ps. You said Japanese prostitute would kiss, unlike the others. Now I know why I like kissing! It's in my genes baby! lol
no go. On a level with "walk out the door" and don't look back.
There's a select few providers, including my ATF, with whom I could spend the whole session just kissing (ok, with our naked bodies pressed together and hands exploring each other all over too) and feel I got my money's worth.
They're that good at kissing. And I like kissing that much.
So, yeah... it's pretty damn important to me
but I just go with the flow, and if she's not into it then so be it.
But if I know a lady doesn't kiss then I wouldn't schedule with her in the first place, UNLESS her PRICE and photos/reviews are too enticing to pass on. And in that case, I'd approach the date differently, more like I do when I go to an AMP. I still have lots of fun with the friendly ladies there, even if they don't kiss or offer other menu items.
I think maybe kissing on the lips is kind of a romantic thing to some people and they prefer to do it with somebody "special". I kind of feel that way myself and it doesn't bother me at all if a provider feels the same way.
Having said that, kissing (and licking) is very important to me. I like doing it with ladies on more intimate places than the lips when it's not so "special" and we're just having a good fucking time.
In simple words: the more you hold, the more does the pressure build. And once you indulge, you'll get the taste and if there's a tiny tinge of corruption in your heart, you may want varieties.That's usually the sad truth.But eitherways,love is Paramount and marriage is overrated.And well,after marriage people can't breakup easily. The answer comes from a guy who has loved girls whom he hadn't even met in person.Point is,it all depends on the magnitude of your love,minus the carnal desires