I know how to hobby...
When reading the bad reviews there's always the common denominator, "I was there already and so was she and I was horny so I took a chance..." from there on out its downhill. How easy is it for u guys to walk out a session if the provider looks shady or bad looking or something else?
Human nature! Most people are generally good hearted, so you don't want to say "Gawd,, you're fugly" and walk out
That ,, and ,, well,,,, we're guys!! We have a penis. There's someplace within two steps to place it. YOU do the math!
have done it alot, if they post pictures and don't look like them, fuck um! I walk, I always carry the phone and if have to pull up the ad/photos and show um.
Best advice I ever got was, "it's your money." Sounds simple, but I actually never looked at it from that angle before.
I won't let someone who is a "bait and switch" get through the door. I read about one guy who downloaded one of the providers ad photos to his phone. He would show it to the imposter at the door and say something to the effect, "I'm waiting for this lady to show up AND you look nothing like her! I haven't had to do that yet and since it's MY money, I don't think I'll ever have to. (knock on wood ... oh wait ... that's my dick!)
I've had it happen a couple of times, I guess I'm too nice. I tend to stick around because I don't want to hurt the providers feelings. The one time I did, I ended up getting robbed.
Dude that 's crazy! I thought BS at first and then I looked at your reviews, which we all SHOULD be doing. I saw the 1 rated review and using my powers of "deduction" and figured out that was it. Wow! That's some scary shit! I can see someone getting hurt by her BSCness. You described a "tweeker" right out of Breaking Bad, the real life version. I applaud you for writing that review. Just goes to show, that we should READ the reviews. I see a lot of people just looking at the numbers of reviews and that is not enough. I recently saw a guy that had 8 or 9 reviews and he was whitelisted about 5 times. The problem was the bulk of his reviews were 4 years old and the rest were all in one month. All of his whitelists were from the same month and surprise,surprise ... none of the whitelists were from ladies he reviewed. I'm sure someone will tell me that it's possible/happens all the time, I'm an asshole for not seeing it. etc. Great! I still don't trust it and if you want to go ahead .... Screw being "too nice"! Only you will look out for you in situations like that. Stay safe ...
Yeah, I'm a newbie so I haven't learned all the ins and outs yet on this side. I've had some bad experiences. I've had some good experiences too. I think it's just the law of averages.
Why some go visit a provider who has constant reviews here of 4's 3's 2's and 1's in both categories!!!!!!!! What makes one think that she found Jesus, cleaned up her act, will behave like a good little girl and be a 10/10?!?!?!?!?! Might as well flush the $ down the toilet! or at least get a rubbed lap dance at a strip club. Something...
I've walked out on Providers. If I get a bad vibe, something isn't right, or if she wants the Money upfront, I walk out without any discussion.
I know how to hobby...
Doing your homework right is the key. Sure I've been slightly disappointed a few times, generally when a girl is a bit heavier than her pix, but never to the point where I felt it necessary to walk.
Beyond reading reviews, which is obvious, going to M&Gs really helps, as does having a network of friends who'll make recommendations back channel, or confirm a review they wrote.
Most of the outright B&S girls are from BP.
Of course, judging by that behemoth you almost fucked that last day in Costa Rica, I shudder to think just how ugly a woman would need to be in order for you to turn around and walk out the door? lmao
As for me, I will walk in a NY minute if I think I have been deceived and I have done so on numerous occasions, I also don't have a bit of problems sending a woman home if she shows up at my doorstep forty pounds heavier and twenty years older than her pics.
You guys that stick around and go through with the session anyhow are the ones that are just as to blame as the ROB's that we are talking about. If you guys would simply grow a set of balls and quit "rewarding bad behavior" these women would quit this type of behavior as there would be no profit in it.
There was one chick I saw who upon seeing her face I was ready to run. Her performance reviews were all in the 8's and 9's and for the right price though. I was horny, I was there and she did have a kickingly hot MILF body with nice big natural shapely titties. I ended up being glad I stayed because physically it ended up being a great time. She was enthusiastic, she was clean, she smelled good, her body was to die for and in the end, I came and came buckets. In my review I told the truth about her face and even with that gave her a 7 due to her hot bod for looks. If her body had been any less hot she would have been a 4 or less for looks, but her performance was stellar!
Sometimes you can't judge a book by its cover or a gal by the mug she was born with
the door swings both ways..just like your dick..
that seemed a bait and switch. Closest situation was a lady who was using much older pictures... but still looked great.
I can imagine that walking away is very difficult for the reasons many have stated, but walk I would under the right circumstances. Perhaps the law of averages will catch up with me eventually.
Best to avoid the situation by doing at least a little homework. It's not that difficult, and trivial in terms of the $$ we are spending, the risk we are taking and the time we might be wasting otherwise. I'll take an educated or informed risk, but dumb risks are... dumb.
or simply a notably pissy demeanor and I have no problem "walking" or closing the door on them.
When they say no, and they will, especially any bait & switch, shrug and leave.