San Diego

Tricky question
osssieboy 51 Reviews 351 reads
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and I'm not sure I'd have the cajones to walk out.  I don't think I've ever seen a provider who used false pics.  Research is key to this, and my fundamental piece of advice would be to stick to tried and true providers who have a history of genuine reviews, and pics that are consistent over time.  Now I've learnt to "read" the pics too, and I realize that some providers may like to hide certain physical attributes.  Their stomachs are always casually draped, hiding possible stretch marks or flab.  Their pics are heavily photoshopped, or their faces obscured for a variety of reasons - sometimes because they're not that hot, sometimes because they need to be discreet.  Searching across sites often reveals old pics that give you a more accurate understanding of who you will meet behind that door.  And there are ways of digging out false pics online too.  
I believe either party has the right to end a session at any time, if they feel uncomfortable for reasonable grounds.  Let's use the analogy of going to a restaurant where you have made a reservation.  When you walk in, if the management doesn't like your state of sobriety, or mode of dress, or your demeanor, they have the right to refuse service.  If they don't have your reserved seating, or you have requested and been promised that yes, there will be certain items on the menu, then I think you have the right to cancel on the spot and walk away.  On the other hand, if you've been seated, served something to drink, and used some of the waiter's time, and then you decide to bail, you need to leave some compensation.  
In short, I think you had the right to walk out when you found that you were the victim of false advertising.  And I would have no problem with you writing a review and warning other potential victims of what amounts to fraud.

-- Modified on 6/11/2014 10:35:30 AM

Should one review a provider that is not up front on what's advertised?

Especially ones using fake photos or stealing other's likenesses.

I would like to know what I'm getting into before proceeding.

This one provider I saw was not who she was and when I decided to leave, wanted to charge a cancellation fee (which again was not advertised). She was blocking the door and had her hand on the lock. So I had to negotiate to some level of time and money for me to get out.

Would like your thoughts.

and I'm not sure I'd have the cajones to walk out.  I don't think I've ever seen a provider who used false pics.  Research is key to this, and my fundamental piece of advice would be to stick to tried and true providers who have a history of genuine reviews, and pics that are consistent over time.  Now I've learnt to "read" the pics too, and I realize that some providers may like to hide certain physical attributes.  Their stomachs are always casually draped, hiding possible stretch marks or flab.  Their pics are heavily photoshopped, or their faces obscured for a variety of reasons - sometimes because they're not that hot, sometimes because they need to be discreet.  Searching across sites often reveals old pics that give you a more accurate understanding of who you will meet behind that door.  And there are ways of digging out false pics online too.  
I believe either party has the right to end a session at any time, if they feel uncomfortable for reasonable grounds.  Let's use the analogy of going to a restaurant where you have made a reservation.  When you walk in, if the management doesn't like your state of sobriety, or mode of dress, or your demeanor, they have the right to refuse service.  If they don't have your reserved seating, or you have requested and been promised that yes, there will be certain items on the menu, then I think you have the right to cancel on the spot and walk away.  On the other hand, if you've been seated, served something to drink, and used some of the waiter's time, and then you decide to bail, you need to leave some compensation.  
In short, I think you had the right to walk out when you found that you were the victim of false advertising.  And I would have no problem with you writing a review and warning other potential victims of what amounts to fraud.

-- Modified on 6/11/2014 10:35:30 AM

State the facts she is using fake photos & when you declined from seeing her you were basically forced to pay a cancelation fee, which is bs.  I know of poor providers who used to advertise with real photos & after receiving several bad reviews fir hustling guys they steal photos to post instead.  Terrible.

Posted By: geronimotorq
Should one review a provider that is not up front on what's advertised?  
   
 Especially ones using fake photos or stealing other's likenesses.  
   
 I would like to know what I'm getting into before proceeding.  
   
 This one provider I saw was not who she was and when I decided to leave, wanted to charge a cancellation fee (which again was not advertised). She was blocking the door and had her hand on the lock. So I had to negotiate to some level of time and money for me to get out.  
   
 Would like your thoughts.

Great Idea, I did that before to warn  others, but it was declined by TER since there was no service performed.  Oh well, wish there was a blacklist service, but providers change numbers and cities all the time.

PabloNeruda418 reads

But left the full donation. Different situation. What you described is almost a rob; blocking the door with her hand on the handle?  Provider wrath is an ugly thing though - maybe not worth the review. Now if you wanted to out her via PM lol.

if you're concerned there might be some blow back by this individual. She's counting on hobbyists not to write reviews, so she can continue with her deception.  

Posted By: geronimotorq
Should one review a provider that is not up front on what's advertised?  
   
 Especially ones using fake photos or stealing other's likenesses.  
   
 I would like to know what I'm getting into before proceeding.  
   
 This one provider I saw was not who she was and when I decided to leave, wanted to charge a cancellation fee (which again was not advertised). She was blocking the door and had her hand on the lock. So I had to negotiate to some level of time and money for me to get out.  
   
 Would like your thoughts.

Any real contact with a provider is a legitimate basis for a review. Reviews are both positive and negative; often a combination of the two. There is a place on the form to indicate the accuracy of the photos you should use. We often disagree on whether pics are simply old or a different person. And sometimes the actual provider looks better than the snots used in the ads. Not reviewing based on an inconsistent pic seems a but restrictive.

how many ladies use fake photos there?  

I could never do that!

Sxx

so many it's almost funny. If you see professional pics on Backpage, probably 3/4 are fake.
far less on the TER Ad Board. Too many smart shoppers here.

It's good to know yours are real Serena. Now all I need is a plane ticket!

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