I was married to someone that did not believe in giving oral to completion so the only time I was able to enjoy that pleasure other than my birthday every year was to win a wager which we did monthly for over 20 years.
One of the wages we actually tied on so she brought me to completion but then my part was to have to passionately kiss immediately afterwards. She admittedly did not swallow a drop prior to the kiss. I have to admit and I know I am opening myself up for a barrage of comments here but the first few times I tolerated it and did not enjoy it. I later discovered it was far more mental than the actual taste. After 5 or 6 times I told myself I would not think about it and go from having an orgasm to kissing to intercourse. Once I got my emotional side involved making it erotic and passionate the taste was nothing but part of erotic love. Was it salty? yes. Was it nasty? no. The first handful of times it was extremely salty and uncomfortable but once I changed my mindset it was part of eroticism and it did not bother me at all. In fact it became just part of the sex, any time she brought me to completion through oral we would either kiss immediately after or soon after and it was fine. The beauty of it was she would never kiss passionately after I spent time between her thighs but once I started to do as I described above I was able to incorporate role reversal in our wagers and she eventually loved it as well once she got her mind around it. If I ever step out into this world and I am having a true erotic experience and she wanted to kiss me immediately afterwards and we kept things erotic...... bring it on. It is all about the mindset gentlemen. Believe that.A girl was giving me a bbbj once, and said that she needed some lube. I was a bit puzzled at why she would need lube, since her mouth was wet. Anyway, she got up to get some lube out of her bag, but I asked her instead if she minded the taste of her own pussy. She said "I can handle that" and then I just dipped my cock into her pussy, (once), not all the way, and then she began sucking me again, apparently satisfied that it had done the job.
I also saw a fetish provider once who told me to come see her soon after I fucked my GF, cuz she wanted to suck me off, and taste my GF.
My GF is sort of particular and, unlike the 2 girls above, will not suck me after we have fucked, nor fuck me after she has sucked. But one time, We fucked and then I went to work. Later that day, after I got home from work, she gave me a bbbj. Now I had not showered since we fucked in the morning. But she never said anything.
So my question is, can you taste pussy on a cock? I know that I have done my share of daty, and I taste the girl. But I have never had dried pussy juice and just wondering if it tastes at all.
Another question, do most girls mind tasting their own pussy?
Why is it some like to kiss during/after she gives a bbbj or bbbjnqnssw and why is it some do not want to kiss at all after she does that? Some will even encourage some snowballing and some would cringe on the thought of a peck. The thing I find annoyingly hilarious, are the ones who don't kiss afterwards caz OMG cooties! The phuck outta here with that shit dude, its hard to contain the laughter.
I freshen my breath with mouthwash post bbbj always and I get paid not to care if he kisses me afterward or not so I'm just saying. No complaints. Just my .02 and observations.
Oh and I find the worst offenders to this, no kissing rule are not even in the hobby they are typical civvie dudes. I have only met about 4-5 dudes that were like this in the hobby so kudos to you boys.
I kiss after, but I'll pass on the snowballing. I've only had civvie girls do the "head turn" after I tried to kiss them post DATY. Makes me laugh and never go back for seconds.
so boring sometimes... I love to kiss after DATY. Sex can be funny sometimes but one must hold it because then it would be rude and people get butt hurt. Yup don't go for seconds!
If a civvie dude pulls that on me its kinda like deal breaker and I won't go down, ever again.
Phuck it's not like I'm getting paid anyway LOL
The "finger sniff" test. I'm soooo stealing that one.
I hate to be a hypocrite and since I don't expect to be told that I have "pussy breath" when going for a DFK with the ladies juices still running down my chin (ok, most of the time I will at least wipe my chin) I can't imagine not kissing the mouth that just gave me so much pleasure.
As I said to begin with though. I do draw the line at snowballing, I have no desire to drink my own cum.
My first civie girlfriend was a real freaky gal, and she turned me on to it, by surprise even.
She even had me suck the stuff out of her pussy and then snowball.
Those were innocent pre-AIDS days.
Good times.
I was married to someone that did not believe in giving oral to completion so the only time I was able to enjoy that pleasure other than my birthday every year was to win a wager which we did monthly for over 20 years.
One of the wages we actually tied on so she brought me to completion but then my part was to have to passionately kiss immediately afterwards. She admittedly did not swallow a drop prior to the kiss. I have to admit and I know I am opening myself up for a barrage of comments here but the first few times I tolerated it and did not enjoy it. I later discovered it was far more mental than the actual taste. After 5 or 6 times I told myself I would not think about it and go from having an orgasm to kissing to intercourse. Once I got my emotional side involved making it erotic and passionate the taste was nothing but part of erotic love.
Was it salty? yes. Was it nasty? no. The first handful of times it was extremely salty and uncomfortable but once I changed my mindset it was part of eroticism and it did not bother me at all. In fact it became just part of the sex, any time she brought me to completion through oral we would either kiss immediately after or soon after and it was fine.
The beauty of it was she would never kiss passionately after I spent time between her thighs but once I started to do as I described above I was able to incorporate role reversal in our wagers and she eventually loved it as well once she got her mind around it.
If I ever step out into this world and I am having a true erotic experience and she wanted to kiss me immediately afterwards and we kept things erotic...... bring it on. It is all about the mindset gentlemen. Believe that.
Why was kissing her with your sperm in her mouth a requirement? It almost sounds as if she was trying to be dominant. Like cuckold? Sorry if I'm way off base. It just sounds kindof disrespectful.
Not off base at all. It was a requirement because she never enjoyed the act of swallowing and thought spitting out ruined the mood as giving oral to completion was never done in the relationship without it being part of sex. So since she never enjoyed it she felt by requiring me to kiss her afterwards would deter me from wanting her to swallow. Nothing more, nothing less.
If she was trying to be dominant then that was fine but I did not take as disrespectful as I knew giving oral was never at the top of her list and swallowing or CIM was definitely near the bottom.
You sound like someone who NEEDS the hobby. Time for sex to be about "you" for a change. It might seem selfish after all those years of having to satisfy a wife with issues about the things that you find enjoyable, but trust me, after a while (a very short while, I might add) you will wonder why you ever stayed married so long.
What works for one is weird or disgusting to another. I personally am very turned on by being submissive. I like to do what a man tells me/wants me to do. That is a turn on. I also like men taking charge in general. Making our plans, driving, generally being the decision maker. I cant imagine telling my husband what I will and won't do, and I'll only do XYZ if you do ____ . I think that would be a bit disrespectful to my husband but I'm an escort for Christ's sake! so clearly my viewpoint is a little out of the norm.
If she was essentially forcing you to taste your semen in return for a BJ it sounds as though she was penalizing you rather than trading for something that brought her pleasure. Of course maybe forcing you to do this did bring her pleasure in a power dynamics way.
Most ladies would be ok with the taste of their own pussy. I often stick my finger in my pussy after I come and it goes straight to my mouth lol
Now the thing about other pussy juice is this... Every one is different! Some taste good, some have NO taste to me. I usually do a sniff test with my finger n if all is good with that then the taste is usually fine if it doesn't pass the finger sniff test then I won't even consider tasting it.
Hugs and kisses
TL
Not that it really matters, I am just being nosy to see if you've had more pussy than me. lmao
and yes pussies taste quite different, If there is the slightest hint of odor, or a funky taste, I come up for air immediately and don't even consider going back down there.
But, I also like to eat pussy. I can say though, that there have been times (with partners) that I've wiped them down before putting it back in my mouth. Seems like the juices that come from DEEP inside, can be a bit stronger.
As far as in this world, I have no problem with BJ after some sex, but I hate the taste of condoms. So again, I'd do a wipe down.
As far as kissing after DATY- YUM.