If I were a male client looking for a provider, I would certainly pay my rate for the girl. But, I would book for an overnight or a multi-day appt. (It's a much better value). She would have to be beautiful and we would have to click or get along. She would have to have class, style, and be a lady in public. I wouldn't want people talking, except to say what a lucky guy I was. But, not a stick-in-the-mud, she would have to be fun and we would travel or explore together laughing it up having the time of our lives...Then BCD, once we were alone, she would have to be incredible in bed. She would rock my world and we would have wild, untamed sex. That would be what I would look for in a provider in my price range. Jessica Knightly
Posted By: bigguy30
We just had a earlier thread on haggling and the money question always comes up from time to time on this site. So some people mention how high the rates are in major cities and we always see comments from providers or hobbyists telling those people, it's their right to charge what they want for their business.
I agree with that too and my own personal view is, spend what your pockets can handle!
Okay so let's flip that question around and have some fun now.
How many providers, if you were the client/hobbyist yourself would pay the same rates or gifts to someone else that you charge other hobbyists?
Also what would you look for in a provider yourself, for it to be worth your own rates?
Let's see how many providers are really good at role reversal. LOL
So this question is meant to be fun and not for people who get defensive.
We just had a earlier thread on haggling and the money question always comes up from time to time on this site. So some people mention how high the rates are in major cities and we always see comments from providers or hobbyists telling those people, it's their right to charge what they want for their business.
I agree with that too and my own personal view is, spend what your pockets can handle!
Okay so let's flip that question around and have some fun now.
How many providers, if you were the client/hobbyist yourself would pay the same rates or gifts to someone else that you charge other hobbyists?
Also what would you look for in a provider yourself, for it to be worth your own rates?
Let's see how many providers are really good at role reversal. LOL
So this question is meant to be fun and not for people who get defensive.
Most women get dick thrown at them all the time, so I imagine that they would rather spend their money on a massage therapist rather than a boy toy. The female hobbyists probably have the most insight to your questions.
As a female, could you make any generalizations as to how your search and play criteria may differ from the generic male hobbyist? Example (typical guy): "damn she looks hawt! I wanna stick that and cum all over her face!." You feel the same way?
Kinda. I definitely can relate to the ""damn she looks hawt!" part, but I think in the female equivalent in what things I'd like to do to her & have her do to me. I envision running my tongue over every inch of her body and how good she would DATY me. You know - standard horny lez stuff
I need to clarify...am I seeing a male hooker or a female hookers?
Well I can answer if I was going to see a female hooker because I can get the guy for free.
She would have to offer the same services I do and she would have to befit and I mean figure competitor fit. I want to see a six pack. Long hair, not concerned about the color. I would gladly pay her what I ask.
I'm a girl, and I can't imagine myself paying even $100 for sex. I'd never go out and by a monster truck, either.
To turn your question around, if you were a girl, would you charge $60/hour and cram in as many clients per day as possible, or would you charge $1k and be selective? Or would you price yourself somewhere in between?
I think that sex for money is something that shouldn't be taken lightly. The inherent risks, the possibility for pain and trauma, the vulnerability. How much money makes it worth it, to have sex with someone you might not like, and who might not respect you? What value should we put on even ONE very bad appointment? There is no amount that will really 'compensate' someone adequately for that, IMO.
I'm sure if I were a dude, I'd consider myself one of the nice ones. And hopefully, that's how the girl would think of me. I wouldn't think that the girl needed to charge one million dollars to compensate for the unpleasant experience of seeing me. But I'd be fine with whatever she charged, so long as it enabled her to run her business in such a way that she was was HAPPY, valued her clients, and ran her business with pride. That's how I feel about my hairdresser. She's more expensive than most, but she really does a superior job (I cheated on her a few times with cheaper girls....NEVER again). She seems to enjoy what she does. I don't get the feeling that she resents me the entire time I'm sitting in the chair. If she's happy, feels well-compensated, and does a great job - well, then I am happy.
I'd never pay any amount for a service from someone who seems not to take pride in her work; who does not value her clients, whose presentation is not dignified or wholesome.
My rates are a little bit (some would say a lot) above average...for shorter dates. Longer dates are priced very attractively. Those are pretty much squarely average for my market. So to answer your questions - that is EXACTLY what I'd pay, if I were looking for a service provider. It's exactly in line with the philosophy I described above. I'd probably actually pay a bit more, if I had the $ to do so.
So no, Im not going to pay anyone else what I charge unless it's for something that I can't live without. Ex: rent/mortgage, medical treatment, an investment, etc
Remember, men who patronize escorts often make wayyyy more than the escort, so this isn't even really a fair question!
If I were a male client looking for a provider, I would certainly pay my rate for the girl. But, I would book for an overnight or a multi-day appt. (It's a much better value). She would have to be beautiful and we would have to click or get along. She would have to have class, style, and be a lady in public. I wouldn't want people talking, except to say what a lucky guy I was. But, not a stick-in-the-mud, she would have to be fun and we would travel or explore together laughing it up having the time of our lives...Then BCD, once we were alone, she would have to be incredible in bed. She would rock my world and we would have wild, untamed sex. That would be what I would look for in a provider in my price range. Jessica Knightly
Posted By: bigguy30
We just had a earlier thread on haggling and the money question always comes up from time to time on this site. So some people mention how high the rates are in major cities and we always see comments from providers or hobbyists telling those people, it's their right to charge what they want for their business.
I agree with that too and my own personal view is, spend what your pockets can handle!
Okay so let's flip that question around and have some fun now.
How many providers, if you were the client/hobbyist yourself would pay the same rates or gifts to someone else that you charge other hobbyists?
Also what would you look for in a provider yourself, for it to be worth your own rates?
Let's see how many providers are really good at role reversal. LOL
So this question is meant to be fun and not for people who get defensive.
As some have said, it's difficult since women aren't in the same position to pay for sex since 1) they've been taught to withhold it and 2) they are more likely to be frugal. However, if we had an even playing field I imagine I would pay the same rate I ask for, but then again, they're not very high rates, just reasonable enough to make an impact on my finances.
Despite not believing monogamy is a sustainable concept for a lifetime, I do tend to develop crushes and like exploring monogamy, so I would opt for someone whom I can afford to see regularly, enjoy more things besides sex, and develop a friendship. They would keep my attention by being quirky, down to earth, not high maintenance, genuinely sweet, cute, and interesting. In terms of types, I like busty, small, and more on the darker skin spectrum.
If i were the consumer instead of the provider I would find the guy that I wanted to spend time with and pay whatever his rate was based on if I had the funds to do it. Everybody says that women have dicks thrown at them for free so why would they pay. But I would not be paying to have dicks thrown at me. I would be paying for the entire service of making me feel the way that I want to feel. I would want a professional who knew how to make the transaction feel beautiful and respectable. I don't want to pick up some predator in a bar. I would be buying the fantasy. So yes, I would pay my rate for the type of service I provide if I had enough discretionary income to justify it.
Ad men (and women) are fond of emphasizing the point that they sell the sizzle, not the steak.
Hobbying is no exception. The overall service and the experience that one gets from the other is what is really important. This includes above all the fantasy that gals are so able to weave for us guys.
I wonder if we guys have the ability to do likewise. I have my doubts.
Perhaps this is the crux of the reason why guys pay for sex but gals don't have to
The women I have been with, yeah, from the kiss to the touching...everything. I find men can be very heavy handed and too aggressive. If I want to be made love to I will pick a woman, if I want to be "handled" I will choose a guy.
So I would see a woman provider for the erotic and sensual components, I can get grabby and aggressive any day of the week.
Sex sells and no one sells it beter than a woman. Sure a man can get paid to get laid, but look at what's buying. Every man that has told me my work was easy was shut down as soon as I broke it down for them. Saying things like "oh, I could never fuck a fat chick"... My response "I do massage, I don't screw" giving them the WTH face! The look on their face is still utter confusion. When I danced it was the same thing, all my extremely sexy jobs (I've had many ) have been bashed by men because of the income it brings yet not one man could bring himself to the idea of engaging someone they found unattractive. I'm attracted to people who treat me well, it doesn't matter what you look like. I've been this way since I was 19 and that was many years ago. It's a mindset not afforded to many men and many men realize the potential for clientele is heavily male based. So if you swing both ways you're golden, if not you must be one smooth talker and know how to finesse a woman.
Posted By: mrfisher
Ad men (and women) are fond of emphasizing the point that they sell the sizzle, not the steak.
Hobbying is no exception. The overall service and the experience that one gets from the other is what is really important. This includes above all the fantasy that gals are so able to weave for us guys.
I wonder if we guys have the ability to do likewise. I have my doubts.
Perhaps this is the crux of the reason why guys pay for sex but gals don't have to.
Or lol find a reason to travel to her area. And like with anything else if I can't afford it right away I'll save up for it...if I want it bad enough. A lot of fly me to you's can cost a nice bit o' coin . I'm very happy though that if I do decide to go for hobbying that I have no shortage of local or visiting women in my area that'd i'd do good bad things (also I don't have just one type and many seem genuinely bi).
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) have been bashed by men because of the income it brings yet not one man could bring himself to the idea of engaging someone they found unattractive. I'm attracted to people who treat me well, it doesn't matter what you look like. I've been this way since I was 19 and that was many years ago. It's a mindset not afforded to many men and many men realize the potential for clientele is heavily male based. So if you swing both ways you're golden, if not you must be one smooth talker and know how to finesse a woman. 
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