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After a couple of dozen I hope I can offer some insights
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Yes,  compatibility is paramount.  Even if you want the ladies to concentrate totally on you and not each other you don't want discomfort and tension in the room.  Insist if you can that they at least talk before and meet a little while before the appointment.  Best case is that they have done duos together and are into each other.  

Make sure you're clear about what you want.  For me a duo session is a waste of time if the ladies don't spend at least half the time playing with each other,  preferably including toys. But whatever it is you want don't be afraid to make your wishes clear.  Most providers are not psychic.  For providers with whom I have a good relationship I have become comfortable being pretty specific about what I want in a duo session.  

Take a deep breath,  open your mind and be in the moment.  If the women are hot and into the session you're going to have a blast and you want to enjoy every moment

I'll be seeing two lovely ladies for 90 mins on an upcoming Vegas trip. This is my first duo. Any tips?

Especially since you are new at this. You also don't want the girls to be "pay for gay" if you can help it. You want really bisexual girls. You get this from reviews and by pm.  

Keep an eye on the clock. Things can get pretty chatty Kathy with two broads so its up to YOU to keep track of time.

I would also suggest doing a longer session than 90 mins, if you want two rounds. I usually go for 3 hour sessions and that works out perfect.

Drink in moderation. Get plenty of sleep the night before.

If they do a good job does it matter? I mean there are hookers that are straight for pay here and 1 or 2 are actually in the top few. They seem to be able to pull it off that the guys they see don't know or don't care. So why not the other way round

It is whether or not the girls are NOTICEABLY pay for gay, or even gay for pay if you prefer, that it becomes an issue for me. That's what I mean when I use that expression.

Many girls claim they will do doubles, but in my experience, many of them are not really into girls and the guy can pick up on this very quickly into the session and kill the fantasy. They wont do cunnilingus long, if at all, they wont do DFK with the another girl, wont do a double blow job, etc.

The "good job" part, as you put it, will be evident in the guys research (hopefully) and you are correct, it is ALL that really matters in all of p4p, not just threesomes.

But I think your point is, are they good actresses or not, irregardless of their sexual orientation.

Yeah, I could care less if they are "factually" bi or not, as it only matters how I perceive them to be with each other. Threesomes, imo, are a complete waste of time if there isn't heavy interaction between the two girls.

Having done so many of them, I have gotten to the point where I trust my research and instincts. I don't need to follow the "the girls need to know each other rule" but for newbies in this area, I strongly recommend it

I've had quite a few doubles experiences over the years and only once (thus far) were the two gals "really bi".  

However in my arena I had a definite interest when having a doubles session, and being gay or bi was/is not important to me whatsoever.

But to other dudes they like to be voyeurs and watch GG action.  Sadly many doubles scenes are not GG action, or nothing more than a closed mouth peck on her lips (or a lick of a tit).

And many reviews don't discuss that aspect of the session.

So Jack's advice to the OP to do some checking with dudes who may have had a duo is very good advice.  Many guys will tell the "truth" via PM/email.

Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
If they do a good job does it matter? I mean there are hookers that are straight for pay here and 1 or 2 are actually in the top few. They seem to be able to pull it off that the guys they see don't know or don't care. So why not the other way round?  
   
 

great advice from our Resident Pig..

Posted By: Dr Who revived
I've had quite a few doubles experiences over the years and only once (thus far) were the two gals "really bi".    
   
 However in my arena I had a definite interest when having a doubles session, and being gay or bi was/is not important to me whatsoever.  
   
 But to other dudes they like to be voyeurs and watch GG action.  Sadly many doubles scenes are not GG action, or nothing more than a closed mouth peck on her lips (or a lick of a tit).  
   
 And many reviews don't discuss that aspect of the session.  
   
 So Jack's advice to the OP to do some checking with dudes who may have had a duo is very good advice.  Many guys will tell the "truth" via PM/email.  
   
Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
If they do a good job does it matter? I mean there are hookers that are straight for pay here and 1 or 2 are actually in the top few. They seem to be able to pull it off that the guys they see don't know or don't care. So why not the other way round?  
     
 

And it seems you've caught the ROGM disease...a prelude to Ebola?

Seems that random capitalization is common amongst you "older gents".  

LR says to try and stay awake old fart...yeah, she used the "f" word  LOL  (She didn't laugh too long when you fell asleep on her....she said it was sort of "cute"....except for the drooling and snoring...that was gross)

Posted By: macdaddy1944
great advice from our Resident Pig..  
   
Posted By: Dr Who revived
I've had quite a few doubles experiences over the years and only once (thus far) were the two gals "really bi".    
     
  However in my arena I had a definite interest when having a doubles session, and being gay or bi was/is not important to me whatsoever.  
     
  But to other dudes they like to be voyeurs and watch GG action.  Sadly many doubles scenes are not GG action, or nothing more than a closed mouth peck on her lips (or a lick of a tit).  
     
  And many reviews don't discuss that aspect of the session.  
     
  So Jack's advice to the OP to do some checking with dudes who may have had a duo is very good advice.  Many guys will tell the "truth" via PM/email.  
     
Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
If they do a good job does it matter? I mean there are hookers that are straight for pay here and 1 or 2 are actually in the top few. They seem to be able to pull it off that the guys they see don't know or don't care. So why not the other way round?    
       
   

Then the OP needs to be very clear that he wants the ladies to interact and not just attend to him, Even if he says that, the onus is on the ladies to deliver, whether real or a very good act

I've read too many profiles where the lady is described as "really bi" but not a single review involves a duo session.  Or where the duo session includes the ladies never touching each other.  As far as I'm concerned if I don't see the two ladies DFK and DATY then I'm not putting that in their profile.  And if they do do those things but their demeanor is the same as a small child being forced to take bitter medicine that's going in the profile and the review.

If the two ladies do all the debauched things I want them to do to each other and are good enough actresses to make me believe they're enjoying every moment I don't care if they go to Church every Sunday and rail against the evils of girl-girl DATY.

I know that many of the providers that I see are 'gay for pay' but they do such a damn good acting job that I would otherwise never have known the difference.

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I have had a good share of amazing encounters with self-identified bi and lesbian providers, and there is something almost  intangible about the genuine love they have and show for the female body. And I have also had a handful of sessions with "bi-curious" ladies who appeared to be very quick learners. And so far to date I have had 2 ladies that confessed after a sweaty, thumping session that they identified as extremely straight, but put on a helluva show to the point that I found myself scratching my head and wondering where I could submit their names for an Academy Award. And while their skills were spot on, there was a lack of passion that was palpable. Great sessions overall, but that 'spark' was absent.

By far a woman who is really into women (and shows it) will be the best experience that someone like myself or guys looking for a girl/girl experience could ever hope for.

Back in the Stone Age I remember a handful of ladies who had all kinds of ruses. Instead of real DATY one lady would put her hand over the other's kitty and kiss the back of her hand; others would use their hair,  hands and even clothing to hide the fact that no real DATY was going on;  and some would kiss a spot somewhere on the other lady's abdomen or inner thighs and wave her tongue about 3 inches above the other's clit. Annoyed as I was I also found it amusing.  Did they not realize I was sitting 2 feet away and could see clearly that they were faking it?  Oh well, live and learn.

I like to put together twosies where I know both ladies well enough to consider them a good fit.  I like to mix races and types.   I especially like it when one of the ladies is not or not very experienced with another woman and it is a fantasy for her.   I prefer when the experienced gal is a bit more dominant.   I have enjoyed many smashing duos by following this formula.  Every time I've done a duo where the gals "worked" together before it's been less than stellar - more of a rote performance and just not intriguing at all....

Hope it goes well for you  I'm taking the duo plunge myself on my Vegas trip.

Yes,  compatibility is paramount.  Even if you want the ladies to concentrate totally on you and not each other you don't want discomfort and tension in the room.  Insist if you can that they at least talk before and meet a little while before the appointment.  Best case is that they have done duos together and are into each other.  

Make sure you're clear about what you want.  For me a duo session is a waste of time if the ladies don't spend at least half the time playing with each other,  preferably including toys. But whatever it is you want don't be afraid to make your wishes clear.  Most providers are not psychic.  For providers with whom I have a good relationship I have become comfortable being pretty specific about what I want in a duo session.  

Take a deep breath,  open your mind and be in the moment.  If the women are hot and into the session you're going to have a blast and you want to enjoy every moment

Thanks to everyone for the replies. Budget constrains my time but I have seen both separately and they have one review together. I've dropped hints during email that I'd like them to enjoy one another  and I hope that was sufficient. I'll keep doing that up until the appointment to make sure they get the point.  

Thanks again!

Well I guess it can't hurt....but maybe he should consider asking his playmates to use the banana rather than ingesting it?

It still amazes me how so many here think that this is some sort of unusual occurrence that they need to plan for.  It's sex...nothing more.

Should he also plan on putting in an IV to stay hydrated?

True! Thank you for the perspective.

Some of these dudes overthink all of this and create so much angst for themselves they don't have fun.

The best 3 ways are when all of "us" are just doing whatever our thing is....and laughing the whole time.

Offer them a nice lunch/dinner after the game is over....I'm sure they'll be happy to accompany you.  And nope...it doesn't cost you a dime (except for paying for the meals)...at least it shouldn't.

Have fun  ;)

Posted By: wnkyeah
True! Thank you for the perspective.

Why do you suppose those little critters are so horny?  They eat bananas, you know.  It's the potassium that does it.  Avacados have even more potassium, so some guacamole would be good except if you do it with chips and salsa, you'll be blowing smelly love songs out your ass, and that's not good.  Bananas are slightly constipating which is not bad before sex.

As for water, our collective aversion to drinking it is cause for more organ damage (not necessarily THAT organ) than anything else.  When our insides are lubed up with water, they function better.  When they function better, sex is better.  Just have a couple of quarts a few hours before the main event, and you'll be good to go.

I should also mention that vitamin D deficiency is very common, and having a 1,000 IUs/day has really helped charge me up.

(still not a doctor)

Here's a little tune about potassium...

Just a very quick response.

I love threesomes. They can be awesome. They can also be tedious.  

For me, the rule is to remember that every threesome is some kind of party. Even if it is a small one. You need to remember that *you* have to bring the party atmosphere, too. Not just the providers.  

It's a team effort. You have to quickly suss out who they are and how they can be fun in the context of the group. And then you want to play to their - and your - strengths. The degree that you can do that will determine just how much fun you have.

Have fun

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