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At least most of the time. I will give most of the escorts I see my TER handle, in fact I offer  pm them an intro note. I try not to discuss reviews much. But if they look at my profile it's obvious I write reviews.  
I've been fortunate that I have had mostly good experiences so I haven't really go against the groupthink mentality.  
You might consider using your alias to write reviews. You also have 90 days to submit the review.  
Also, if you think a provider might go BSC, keep all the correspondance, it will be proof you saw her  

Posted By: tungOfun4U
What is the my responsibility to advise a provider that I write reviews, glowing, mediocre, and bad?  I am effusive with praise, as with Bunny, etc., and honest with my observations, as with _______ (fill in the blank).  
   
 I readily divulge my handle and often suggest that a prospective provider check my reviews to see if she wants to schedule me.  So I'm scheduled and when I arrive at the rendezvous she's way late blowing 30 minutes or more of on the clock time, is not the body seen in her on-line photos and described in her profiles, she's drinking, doesn't come through with the services previously contracted and paid for, and blows off the discussion of a partial refund.  
   
 Yes, the review is accurate and rates the experience as a failure.  So now the provider is angry but she either never should have scheduled me or she should take her personal service business seriously.  Some simple suggestions are, know your clientele, advertise honestly, be on time, no alcohol or drugs unless previously agreed on, provide services as "contracted", and take the request for a refund seriously.  
   
 Now back to the original question.  How can a hobbyist impress on a lady that she may want to pass on him/me because her appearance and performance will be judged in light of the encounter not on her reputation?  Thank you, gamers and ladies, for your thoughts.  
   
 

What is the my responsibility to advise a provider that I write reviews, glowing, mediocre, and bad?  I am effusive with praise, as with Bunny, etc., and honest with my observations, as with _______ (fill in the blank).

I readily divulge my handle and often suggest that a prospective provider check my reviews to see if she wants to schedule me.  So I'm scheduled and when I arrive at the rendezvous she's way late blowing 30 minutes or more of on the clock time, is not the body seen in her on-line photos and described in her profiles, she's drinking, doesn't come through with the services previously contracted and paid for, and blows off the discussion of a partial refund.

Yes, the review is accurate and rates the experience as a failure.  So now the provider is angry but she either never should have scheduled me or she should take her personal service business seriously.  Some simple suggestions are, know your clientele, advertise honestly, be on time, no alcohol or drugs unless previously agreed on, provide services as "contracted", and take the request for a refund seriously.

Now back to the original question.  How can a hobbyist impress on a lady that she may want to pass on him/me because her appearance and performance will be judged in light of the encounter not on her reputation?  Thank you, gamers and ladies, for your thoughts

When booking a playdate share your TER handle, so she the provider has the opportunity to do her own research.  A good provider will always read your reviews prior to booking a date to see if you may have chemistry.  I have declined appointments plenty of times due to the reviews continued interests in services that I do not provide.  For example: BBBJ, CIM, Greek.  No need to waste anyones time, or $.

If they choose not to, do their own homework & you have no chemistry it is their fault for not reading your reviews first.  Sometimes providers are greedy & only want the quick cash, so if they do not care to check on you why should you care if you write an honest review reflecting the facts?

I have less, than best reviews years ago when I was unaware of TER & the whole review system, but it shows how much I have evolved as a provider in the last few years.  Life is our greatest teacher.  
Smile 4 me!

Thank you for the provider's slant, Madame Patricia.  Do you think I should indicate to a prospective lady specific reviews highlighting my yin and yang?  That seems heavy handed but my current approach isn't working well.  Maybe if she had been directed to read about Holly Love she would not have taken a page out of HL's play book.  Great, mediocre, or awful experience the review will be honest.

I know several of the ladies you have reviewed and I trust your reviews.  Thanks for being honest.

Prego!  De nada! No hay de que! You're welcome!
I call 'em as I see 'em

At least most of the time. I will give most of the escorts I see my TER handle, in fact I offer  pm them an intro note. I try not to discuss reviews much. But if they look at my profile it's obvious I write reviews.  
I've been fortunate that I have had mostly good experiences so I haven't really go against the groupthink mentality.  
You might consider using your alias to write reviews. You also have 90 days to submit the review.  
Also, if you think a provider might go BSC, keep all the correspondance, it will be proof you saw her  

Posted By: tungOfun4U
What is the my responsibility to advise a provider that I write reviews, glowing, mediocre, and bad?  I am effusive with praise, as with Bunny, etc., and honest with my observations, as with _______ (fill in the blank).  
   
 I readily divulge my handle and often suggest that a prospective provider check my reviews to see if she wants to schedule me.  So I'm scheduled and when I arrive at the rendezvous she's way late blowing 30 minutes or more of on the clock time, is not the body seen in her on-line photos and described in her profiles, she's drinking, doesn't come through with the services previously contracted and paid for, and blows off the discussion of a partial refund.  
   
 Yes, the review is accurate and rates the experience as a failure.  So now the provider is angry but she either never should have scheduled me or she should take her personal service business seriously.  Some simple suggestions are, know your clientele, advertise honestly, be on time, no alcohol or drugs unless previously agreed on, provide services as "contracted", and take the request for a refund seriously.  
   
 Now back to the original question.  How can a hobbyist impress on a lady that she may want to pass on him/me because her appearance and performance will be judged in light of the encounter not on her reputation?  Thank you, gamers and ladies, for your thoughts.  
   
 

Good to hear from the valley of the sun.  Yes, the ones who merit the 2 to 5s go BSC with messaging.  I appreciate the perspective on the use of an alias but I use my handle so that in the future another lady can take me seriously, screen me thoroughly including my paper trail and decide to schedule or pass.   The low score reviews tend to be posted quickest in order to exorcise the bad juju and get the word out forthwith.  The high score reviews take time as I search for the best format to convey the experience to the audience and, hopefully, piqué somebody's interest to see the lady.

Yes, the provider is responsible for any review she gets if the reviewer let her know up front he uses review sites (such as supplying a TER handle). So, yep, she earned it if you let her know to check out her reviews.

 
Here are the concerns I have abut booking with her (in general):
- did not ask for screening info (major red flag)
- google her email (only 4 sites come up) and one is a review page with totally different photos
- different phone number but same email
- only 1 prior review on TER
- your review mentioned waiting 40 min (but you only had time for the set date duration) well, I know it's hard when you're horny but that was the moment to bail out.  

 
Now you should:
- contact p411 and let Gina know this user is using fake photos (link the google search)
- also let P411 know they have a potential "rob" or "bait and switch" on their hands
- inform the site owner of the site you found her on of the fake photos (and the mens area also)
- submit a review on the site you found her on as well to assist the users there

Thank you for the provider perspective, Goldie.  Yes, I was thinking with my gonads and got burned.  The combo of lack of reviews and the tardiness should have driven me back north of the San Diego River.
I hate the post review posting vitriol.  How can I impress on a provider that if you are not who you pretend to be, are hugely late, do not deliver on the contract, etc. it will show up here and possibly elsewhere.  I've done it before and I'll do it again.  Should I reference specifics when making the initial contact with the provider?  Unfortunately, I've been toasted by ladies who have had numerous glowing reviews, too, KR and SM come to mind-both have delisted themselves.
Thank you for the general and specific suggestions.  I'm still learning the ropes as a newbie.  You have a lot you can teach this rookie.

Looking at your body of work (pun intended) your have rated certain ladies higher than I would have and a few lower. Why? Your experienc, expectation, and feelings. Now, the fact that you gives reviews regardless of the ladies feelings is your prerogative (that means his right). Conversely, if you get a reputation as being a schmuck,  that is her right to not see you again. Pretty simple math to me.

Hey dude I entirely agree.  But, I am not concerned here about not being seen a second time.  I'm talking about a lady screening me adequately so that she can look in her mirror and confirm that her sales pitch is reasonably accurate, she will be on time, will be respectful vis a vis messaging, alcohol, etc., will deliver on the contract.  If she can't do that, don't schedule me.  Do otherwise, it will be reported and not favorably.  Why is anyone surprised when this happens?

Agree tung, just generalizing. Your desire for deliverance will probably fall on deaf ears.  
Also a correction I my last post, there are no "rights" on any of these boards, only what is permitted may be spoken. LoL

P.S. thanks for the review, she was on my tdl.

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I would not have been anywhere near as generous as you.

Speaking from personal experience.. You really need to be careful when giving honest reviews that are less than glowing. I find unless the provider is total crap it is sometimes better not to say anything at all. Yes you are serving the community but then again you are also incurring risk to yourself.  There are many things that go on back channel that you may not be aware of. Here is a link to my personal story

She was 40 minutes late and 100 pounds over her pics? Why the fuck would you even stay??? Should have walked and wrote a B&S review.

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