Gals have lots of toys to play with:
There is Russian (between tits), Italian (ass crack), stomach (I wonder why no one has named that after a country yet. I'd vote for Hungary for obvious reasons.), and recently I had the great pleasure of fucking someone's armpits. It was quite divine. Facials are always fun too for some gals.
Another favorite some gals will allow is between their thighs with their legs tight together. Only warning on that one is for her to have her hand down there so that the penis doesn't inadvertently pop into a place it shouldn't go, at least not without the cover.
For all of these I'd advise some massage oil for lubing up the areas.
I am a an older guy who loves sex and likes to hobby. I'm in very good shape for my age, exercise regularly, am not overweight, stay hydrated, do kegels, etc. I take low doses of ED pills prior to sex, probably just as a precaution, because I am able to masturbate fine and to completion without them. (Higher doses do not make any appreciable difference.) I have no problem getting an erection or maintaining one or ejaculating during a blowjob or a handjob, but once I get the condom on, I tend to lose my hardon after a few minutes. Condoms have never been great for me, but now it's just getting worse, almost to the point of causing performance anxiety. I have used different brands of condoms without any noticeable improvement.
Any advice would be appreciated.
The condom goes in her pussy and you just fuck her like you would bareback a woman. Nothing goes on your dick. I used it couple of months ago, and although the sensation, for me at least, was not too different from using a regular condom, it could prevent losing erection.
It has same benefits of a regular condom as far as preventing STDs and pregnancy is concerned.
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Kimodo Micro Thin (red box).
Excellent brand, very thin... it's almost like wearing nothing at all. In fact, the first time I tried it, I had to look down on my penis to make sure the condom was still on... I was able to feel the sensations of the vagina. Pretty cool.
Give it a try.
Any advice would be appreciated.
do they come in big sizes? I use Magnum XL want to try something new.
Excellent brand, very thin... it's almost like wearing nothing at all. In fact, the first time I tried it, I had to look down on my penis to make sure the condom was still on... I was able to feel the sensations of the vagina. Pretty cool.
Give it a try.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Says Google. But of course using Google to access such information would rob you of the opportunity to ever so subtly let providers know you're huge...they'll be so thrilled, better watch out you don't run out of space for all those PMs!
I'd blush for real but my blood is busy elsewhere....bwahaha!
yes have been told that lots of times with providers, they have told me I should do porn.Actually have done some video's with some well know providers and have one in the works as we speak.
don't know for certain...
Google Kimodo condoms and go to their website. that should answer your question if they sell the size you are looking for.
do they come in big sizes? I use Magnum XL want to try something new.
Excellent brand, very thin... it's almost like wearing nothing at all. In fact, the first time I tried it, I had to look down on my penis to make sure the condom was still on... I was able to feel the sensations of the vagina. Pretty cool.
Give it a try.
I searched and found nothing, I'll go to Walgreens out here and ask.
Google Kimodo condoms and go to their website. that should answer your question if they sell the size you are looking for.
do they come in big sizes? I use Magnum XL want to try something new.
Excellent brand, very thin... it's almost like wearing nothing at all. In fact, the first time I tried it, I had to look down on my penis to make sure the condom was still on... I was able to feel the sensations of the vagina. Pretty cool.
Give it a try.
thanks for the info,my order is on the way!
ED issues, have you thought about seeing a Tantrika yet?
Sorry, others have given you good advice. I'm just in a silly mood. 
Swim laps 2 to days a week. Also walk on treadmill after weight workouts for about 15 minutes. Make sure you take whey protein.
the latex, but since he will not have an erection, he will move a lot better. However, steering may not be as good.
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Probably he has a blood flow issues. Swimming laps in the pool will help with circulation.
Gals have lots of toys to play with:
There is Russian (between tits), Italian (ass crack), stomach (I wonder why no one has named that after a country yet. I'd vote for Hungary for obvious reasons.), and recently I had the great pleasure of fucking someone's armpits. It was quite divine. Facials are always fun too for some gals.
Another favorite some gals will allow is between their thighs with their legs tight together. Only warning on that one is for her to have her hand down there so that the penis doesn't inadvertently pop into a place it shouldn't go, at least not without the cover.
For all of these I'd advise some massage oil for lubing up the areas.
I do all this during my Nuru session sans the facial. Nothing like a lubed arm pit! 
Any intense oiled body to body will typically get most people worked up to where they can't help but release. It's great because you don't see it coming, unlike most acts where you're tense and expecting it. Multiple pops are my speciality when this happens!
To the OP, I've tried cock rings in my early 20's and had success. Now I use my hands, your partner can reach down to regain your hardon if they know what they're doing. Take the base between the thumb and forefinger and your manhood should stand at attention. This is something you can try while masturbating with the condom, try to retrain your brain to accept the cover.
There is Russian (between tits), Italian (ass crack), stomach (I wonder why no one has named that after a country yet. I'd vote for Hungary for obvious reasons.), and recently I had the great pleasure of fucking someone's armpits. It was quite divine. Facials are always fun too for some gals.
Another favorite some gals will allow is between their thighs with their legs tight together. Only warning on that one is for her to have her hand down there so that the penis doesn't inadvertently pop into a place it shouldn't go, at least not without the cover.
For all of these I'd advise some massage oil for lubing up the areas.
I'm convinced it's a mental thing, I've been wanting to try FC, but haven't found a lady yet that uses them.
Just as you said, I can maintain an erection bbbj, hj and when I masturbate, but put a condom on me and within 2-3 minutes I lose it.
Me tooand I want to scream. I know it's mental. I seem to have the problem when I get emotionally attached. Tell me that's not mental....
Just as you said, I can maintain an erection bbbj, hj and when I masturbate, but put a condom on me and within 2-3 minutes I lose it.
Anyone have experience with them? Think they would help?
They work great and they are pretty cool. Took one to a 3-way and it was a total blast (2 hours & spilled 3 times)
I'd hate to waste a hard on; especially fond of the over 50 hard ons... Mmmmmm...
Primarily luv FC's because I hate the lag time from BBBJ to penetration- just to put the condom on! After DATY, pop in a FC, blow some more and roll right in. Finish with CIP or CIM. No latex smell, easier clean up, less chance of popping or slippage, virtually no fluid exchanges and simulated BBFS, very close to it. Win- Win.
Experiment and find what works for you; a more relaxed mature provider will def help in your exploration. Good luck!
It's weird as shit, but it worked for me.
I fucking hated condoms. I just wasn't used to them.
Great idea! I'm going to try it.
I have found the same to be true masturbating with a condom. You are conditioning yourself to the slightly decreased sensation of a condom before hand and it seems to work. I have also found that condom size/material makes a difference. With latex, I seem to get better sensation with a larger condom like Magnum with lube inside so that there is a little sliding as I thrust. Other latex condoms just seem to choke you off. But with non-latex Skyns, the regular size seems to provide more sensation than the large ones. Maybe because non-latex transmits body heat better and when it is stretched thin it transmits even more body heat. Experiment.
I'm honestly not a fan. The whole insertion process, both of the FC and me, is such a buzz kill. they're ok once you get going and I will admit they're great for alternative finishes like CIM, but I do just fine with Trojan thins, I've tried many and they seem to provide the most sensation...that's my perception anyway. But there is always a limit what I can do wrapped vs. not, most notably I can go twice in a relativeliy short period of time uncovered (not an option with providers of course) but when wrapped my second needs to be from other activities..and I'm not complaining! Good luck...
Maybe it isn't just the condom but a either a biological or psychological reason to avoid vaginal sex - both possibly very valid.
Personally, I don't care a whit about vaginal sex and don't feel I have to "perform" for the ladies. And that's one thing I love about most providers. They don't expect you to perform - just enjoy yourself.
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Beside the numerous suggestions for FC above... well you can try seeking out BBFS providers!
Oops, never mind... forget what I just said... that's a politically INcorrect no-no!
OK, how about seeking out providers who provide very good BBBJ then just when you're real close to cumming quickly put on the condom and do it before you lose your "focus"
Oops, never mind... forget what I just said... that's a politically INcorrect no-no!
Funny that you mentioned BBFS. Then you corrected yourself? You sure you're not looking for BBFS?
Nothing brings you out from under your rock faster than the mere mention of BBFS, does it?
I have a similar problem and I fit your age and shape demographic. I mentioned to a provider once that once the cover goes on and penetration starts that it is hard for me to stay hard. She put some lube on the outside of the condom and bingo that did the trick. I'm just curious if lube and latex are safe as far as the cover is concerned, i.e. Keeping its integrity.
Would Lovng to try one out. Except the Provider I'm seeing likes me to go BBFS. If I suggested using a FC or regular Condom she'll think there's something wrong.