Why?
It is nothing more than a cocktail party for a bunch of friends....Nothing illegal happens.
Swim
Some gals organize orgies so maybe you are confusing the two.
M&G are usually no charge (except that it is good form to bring something to the party or make a donation), and sexual activity is taboo just so that it remains a safe environment.
It is a good place to meet people you might be interested in getting to know better and even making arangements if you are so inclined.
But a few hugs and squeezes is about all you are likely to see, as far as the ones I've been too.
The agency got sloppy towards the end, no one was ever busted at a DD's m&g, but it sure wasn't pretty when the bust went down. No offense to any agency owners, but you might be careful if you attend a m&g held by an agency.
Screening is just as important for a m&g as seeing an escort. IMHO
When there is one meet and greet which costs $3000.00 to attend and another that is $40.00.
Both are advertised as meet and greets.
Perhaps wed need a new board.
Orgies/Gangbangs
At a true M & G , nothing illegal happens.
Private M&G's are just that...private. We have them sometimes in NY. And we also have mixers, which are more open to the general hobby community...
As for the EWS gatherings you rail against...big bucks, exclusive list of the best providers. Sorry you didn't make the cut...if you can get a client who is willing to take you... 
All parties are not Meet & Greets.
If it costs $3000 to get in, it is not a M&G.
XOXO
-- Modified on 12/21/2009 7:17:57 PM
There is no reason for LE to EVER raid a well organized meet-n-greet social. I have been to a few socials in Vegas and Tampa. The whole "idea" of a MNG is to match up screen names with faces. No business is ever discussed period.
Organized socials with rules are always fun. Have hotel room booked for after the party. Hey, you may find a date!! Take a cab if you had too much to drink. Follow the rules and have fun. I will personally piss on the third rail of a subway track if I ever hear of anyone being convicted of the crime of socializing at a public establishment...
EOM
SR
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