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Not the happy ending kind, but the kind just like you described. The atmosphere was odd (one big room with curtains separating all of us), but the experience was wonderful and unlike anything.

Hello everyone!
I recently spent 4 months in Chengdu, China (because I'm a Chinese major) and overall it was a fun, enlightening experience,  but I did encounter some bizarre things, if I'm putting it lightly. I would love to hear about some notable experiences any of you have had in foreign countries (or in the U.S if this is a foreign country to you). People, food, locations...tell all!

I'll start!

Context- I'm African American, and I had really long braids done before I left, just to make doing my hair more manageable. So I was getting some cash out of an ATM on campus and I happen to look behind me and notice there are 2 Tibetan women standing there. They were whispering to themselves and looking at me pointing. After I'd finished at the ATM, they motioned for me to come over, and so I do. As soon as I am within arm's reach, they both proceed to stroke my hair and tell me "Ni de tou fa fei chang piao liang" which means "Your hair is very pretty". I tell them thank you, but I had to stand there for about 5 minutes while they examined my hair and skin, which they rubbed to make sure I wasn't wearing some kind of tanning make-up, commented on how big my eyes and lips are, and how I'm not exactly skinny by Chinese standards (which I think they thought was a good thing). Then they said thank you and I was free to go!

Later in the semester I had taken my braids down and was left with my Afro. I was in a cab in the front seat and the cab driver (female) asked me if my hair was real. I told her yes, so just to make sure I wasn't lying she tugs at my curls really hard, and just laughs and laughs, saying it feels like (direct translation here) "the inside of a pillow".  

Another day, I was walking down the street, and a car screeches to a halt beside me and the person in the passenger seat rolls down their window, points and hisses "Hei ren. Hei ren!" at me and they drive off. Hei ren means black person lol.  

So I suppose they don't see very many foreigners in the flesh over in Chengdu! I can't tell you how many times my friends and I were stopped on the street for people to take selfies with. You'd figure we got used to it after 4 months, but it was still surprising every time.  

Your turn!

Kisses,
Marley Blair

Thanks for sharing, Marley. I'm always interested to hear stories like that.

Mine isn't quite as bizarre. I went to rural Australia a few months ago, and it was a wonderful trip. But, I did get asked some unusual questions. I can't remember all of them, but the one that stood out most was if we all carry guns, even in the big cities. And, if gun safety classes are offered in public schools since it seems to be such a part of our culture. Really? lol

You are very welcome! And your post makes me laugh. They may as well have asked if we all wear cowboy hats and full denim outfits all the time! I'd love to go to Australia, but I hear those kangaroos are the worst animals ever. One of my really good friends' boyfriend is Australian, and he's got some pretty shocking stories about them. Kangaroos, and koalas too.

The blonde and I took a year off to travel the world, 4-13 through 4-14. 38 countries all seven continents. The world is an amazing place.

I have a million but here are two. We were in Antarctica when the sun, average of 2.5 days a month,  came out. So did the animals, whales, penguins swimming by, variety of seals sunning themselves on ice flows. It was amazing. The ultimate beauty of nature.

We were outside a WW I battlefield at Verdun France. An older couple pulled up driving a 1921 Rolls Royce Silver Ghost. What made it fun was they were wearing period clothing from the time of the car. The googles, puffy hat, driving gloves, etc.  

They had been driving for 7,000 kilometers from Rostock. We only spoke to them for a few minutes. They were the definition of class and sophistication. A true gentleman and his lovely wife, from Australia.

Since this is a sex board we went to L'EXTASIA, which is regarded as the best Swingers, Lifestyle club in the world. Located in a château in an old vineyard in the south of France near Cap D'Agde. Oh my lord. What a time

Veeeery interesting! That couple you mentioned...I don't even know who they are and they have my undying respect lol. L'EXTASIA...what's that like? Any specific criteria for entry?

It's couples or single women only. Attractive and fun people. We hooked up with two other couples, who we were surprised were interested in us. A six sum can get confusing. Who belongs to what ;) Fun dancing area, good music, drinks a little expensive. Had an outside area, that was fun.  

Posted By: ANaturalBeauty
Veeeery interesting! That couple you mentioned...I don't even know who they are and they have my undying respect lol. L'EXTASIA...what's that like? Any specific criteria for entry?

Of course such behavior in the US would be met with offense and even legal action, yet you accepted it all with the same spirit with which the people involved had.  Good for you.

I have not traveled afar very much, and what travels I have had have been mostly limited to the usual tourist sites.

One experience does stand out in my mind.  Shortly after Beverly Fisher and I began to date, we took a trip to Bali in Indonesia.  I am a big fan of massage and Bali is the Mecca for massage, so we sought out the nicest MP in the area.  The prices were so cheap by US standards we decided to just go for the deluxe treatment for both of us.  Well, I guess we both must have missed this in the description, but part of the deluxe couple's experience is that they dress you up in ceremonial Balinese wedding attire and perform an actual wedding ceremony, which they did, makeup and all.  (I have the photos to prove it.)

So, 8 years prior to our actual wedding, we were officially wed in Bali, at least by the standards of the Balinese Massage Parlor Authority.

Why thank you! That's such a nice thing to say...I am certainly very flattered. But your experience in Bali sounds so beautiful! I got massages all the time when I was in China, nothing like that you've just told us about, but they were also too cheap not to go; 100 kuai for 2 hours (about $30 USD). I went with a few friends, and first they soaked our feet in scalding hot water, I would imagine as some sort of detox routine. Then they spent about 30 minutes on feet alone, which was heavenly. When my masseuse got to my back and legs though, I was laughing the entire time it just tickled so much for some reason. It was kind of awkward, but still a fun experience she got a laugh out of it too :)

They raise it to an art form.  

Our Balinese experience was 3 hours and cost $150 for the both of us.

We kept being transferred to different baths full of scented waters and in between would get thorough work out from scalp to toes.

A few procedures were a bit tough, but nothing really painful.  I do recall having the soles of my feet scrubbed with very rough stones.

Some day I hope Bev and I can go back for a reconfirmation ceremony.

And I thank you for your post and it's uplifting message.

Well first of all, thank you for reading and responding! I truly am fascinated by this world we live in, and everything that goes along with living in it. That you'd like to go back to Bali for a reconfirmation ceremony is just so beautiful. I can just imagine, being wreathed in all sorts of exotic flowers a wearing some of that exquisitely colored clothing the natives of the island wear. How breathtaking it must have been.  

And the pricing for that massage merits a comment, so I will say this: that is good stuff, and I envy you both!

 

Posted By: mrfisher
They raise it to an art form.  

Our Balinese experience was 3 hours and cost $150 for the both of us.

We kept being transferred to different baths full of scented waters and in between would get thorough work out from scalp to toes.

A few procedures were a bit tough, but nothing really painful.  I do recall having the soles of my feet scrubbed with very rough stones.

Some day I hope Bev and I can go back for a reconfirmation ceremony.

And I thank you for your post and it's uplifting message.

Not the happy ending kind, but the kind just like you described. The atmosphere was odd (one big room with curtains separating all of us), but the experience was wonderful and unlike anything.

And a fab cultural education for you. I'm excited to read that you're majoring in Chinese! I studied Asian art for a couple of years and loved it.  

Travel is my favorite thing in the world next to sex with strangers. Lol! I have a lot of similar stories. One time in South America, I was in a non-touristy city and one of my travel mates and I were waiting for our other travel mate who was buying something, and a group of people collected around us. They asked us all kinds of questions, and somehow we understood and answered most of them. They touched our skin and hair, took photos, asked us to sign their autograph books (several were little schoolgirls), all kinds of stuff. At one point we got pretty nervous because the crowd had grown very large- maybe 70 people or so.  

Another time I was on an island off of Africa, and took a public bus to one of the sites I wanted to see. It was one of my first trips out of the US and I was very young and inexperienced. I wore a top that showed my midriff, and while riding the bus had about three teen boys touch my abdomen. It was really weird! Lol!  

Oh and many many others. :)

Posted By: ANaturalBeauty
Hello everyone!  
 I recently spent 4 months in Chengdu, China (because I'm a Chinese major) and overall it was a fun, enlightening experience,  but I did encounter some bizarre things, if I'm putting it lightly. I would love to hear about some notable experiences any of you have had in foreign countries (or in the U.S if this is a foreign country to you). People, food, locations...tell all!  
   
 I'll start!  
   
 Context- I'm African American, and I had really long braids done before I left, just to make doing my hair more manageable. So I was getting some cash out of an ATM on campus and I happen to look behind me and notice there are 2 Tibetan women standing there. They were whispering to themselves and looking at me pointing. After I'd finished at the ATM, they motioned for me to come over, and so I do. As soon as I am within arm's reach, they both proceed to stroke my hair and tell me "Ni de tou fa fei chang piao liang" which means "Your hair is very pretty". I tell them thank you, but I had to stand there for about 5 minutes while they examined my hair and skin, which they rubbed to make sure I wasn't wearing some kind of tanning make-up, commented on how big my eyes and lips are, and how I'm not exactly skinny by Chinese standards (which I think they thought was a good thing). Then they said thank you and I was free to go!  
   
 Later in the semester I had taken my braids down and was left with my Afro. I was in a cab in the front seat and the cab driver (female) asked me if my hair was real. I told her yes, so just to make sure I wasn't lying she tugs at my curls really hard, and just laughs and laughs, saying it feels like (direct translation here) "the inside of a pillow".  
   
 Another day, I was walking down the street, and a car screeches to a halt beside me and the person in the passenger seat rolls down their window, points and hisses "Hei ren. Hei ren!" at me and they drive off. Hei ren means black person lol.  
   
 So I suppose they don't see very many foreigners in the flesh over in Chengdu! I can't tell you how many times my friends and I were stopped on the street for people to take selfies with. You'd figure we got used to it after 4 months, but it was still surprising every time.  
   
 Your turn!  
   
 Kisses,  
 Marley Blair

Haha your "travel is my favorite thing in the world next to sex with strangers" remark had me actually rolling around on my bed laughing. South America and Africa though...both places I would love to visit. My trip to China was actually my first outside the U.S, and I've been told time and time again that if you can survive that, you're ready to travel pretty much anywhere. I have more than a sneaking suspicion that is not the case though.

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