TER General Board

I like your approach
hbyist+truth=;( 681 reads
posted

And there are many hookers who come during sessions. I am thinking that there are more that do than not according to what I read here if it is to be believed.

I have no reason not to be honest, and there is no cynicism here, just exactly how it is for me. If I was attracted to even some of my johns it might happen. I have a very specific type that I am attracted to, which makes sexual gratification for me almost impossible in this world. Hell it makes dating tough.  

Just because I fake to give my guys what they crave does not make me or any other hooker that does any less professional or caring...I fake because I do care. I could just as easily say "you might as well quit as it won't get me there" and ruin his illusion...HIS illusion.  

I know the type of guys who need to satisfy their partner in order to be fully satisfied themselves. I, like any actress, want my audience of one to be happy and so produce what it is he needs.  

With others, I have no need to fake as their impetus is self gratification and my sexual satisfaction is of little consequence.  

The cynics are those that feel all hookers fake and what ever comes out of a hookers mouth is a lie. Sure we do lie but in there sometimes there is truth.  And lying to preserve a johns feelings to me seems humane, especially if he places a hooker in an untenable position by asking a loaded question that does require a sensitive answer. After all, she has her business to protect first and foremost (at least that's how I see it) and his feelings.  

As a hooker, I don't know where each john lands on the scope of truth versus fabrication to compete the illusion.

EternalStudent2901 reads

Ladies,

I've read numerous reviews how "I gave her 5 screaming O with DATY and then some more during intercourse":) We all understand that it is pure fiction. As a student of life I would like to get a provider perspective on that matter.
1. Do you  try to achieve O when you are with a hobbyist? How high is it in your priorities during session?  
2. How often do you fake it?
3. What is your average number of O per customer?  Like number of O's you have in a day/week divided by the number of customers for that period.
4. How would you compare your O  with a hobbyist and with a civie?  

I realize that it is can be too public to answer these questions using your real handle, but I hope you can do it under alias.  And please feel free to add any of your thoughts and comments

I can only get "o"s with gspot penetration.  I let the guy know I had a good time but many providers tell me that clients pay for the show so you had better fake one.

Hell...some of these reviewers (as the OP suggested) report that gals will have at least 5 Big O's.  

There have been reports that some gals can cum as the door is opening.

That Ben Franklin...he is quite the stud!

Posted By: joannamarch.net
I can only get "o"s with gspot penetration.  I let the guy know I had a good time but many providers tell me that clients pay for the show so you had better fake one.

In my travels I've only had ONE gal truly squirt...and we were teens when that happened  LOL

Since then many gals will ooze (as you posted below) creating that puddle of ladies goo....well hopefully most of it was yours and less of it was the dudes saliva.

Even the gals who post publicly about squirting will admit privately that they don't....and just pee on the dude (where is Robbin?).

As well the gals who profess to agree with the drinking pineapple juice dudes...well, they lie publicly as well (just don't tell the dudes....they think that it's real).

Posted By: Courtney.Ova
To drink a bunch of water and pee on them. Lol. Ummmm, no

VOO-doo797 reads

Thanks for saying that out loud. I received the same advice when I was new. 'Pee a little, honey. It makes you wet, and they'll think you squirted.'

My clients should thank the Lord...or someone...that I cannot pee in front of another person. The same person who gave me that advice, once had me try to give a GS. I drank 5 full cans of Dr Pepper before the appointment, and my bladder actually HURT. But when it came time to pee...I stood over the guy...and nothing. Just couldn't do it. Even ran my hand under hot water, and I still couldn't pee. I held it till I was alone in my own bathroom...then peed for about 3 minutes straight. It was the last time I ever got asked to give a GS.  

Disclaimer: I don't doubt that there are genuine squirters. A lady I trust implicitly once told me she was genuinely shocked when a client made her squirt. She had no reason to lie to me. But some girls (probably a lot of them) do fake it with pee.

First off, let's distinguish that there's a spectrum of providers, ranging from the strictly paycheck players to the ones who are "really into it." But if you're into generalizations, here goes:

1. Do you try to achieve O when you are with a hobbyist? If I have to "try" then it's not happening.  
How high is it in your priorities during session? Pretty low. I'd be happier with a nice foot rub and tip.    
2. How often do you fake it? All the time, especially if the client is determined to make me O.  
3. What is your average number of O per customer (# of O divided by # of customers)? 0.2  
4. How would you compare your O with a hobbyist and with a civie? I wouldn't be fucking a civie I'm not attracted to, duh! I will admit, some of the guys in this realm are pretty good.    

Ladies, how did I do?

And every gal I have paid to see simply love me...lots!

I take a long time - always have since I was a teen - even doing it myself. If we only have an hour to play, I have trouble not worrying that I won't have enough time to play with him.

The mind stuff gets you sometimes,

If a trick asks me what I like, I do actually mentions back and foot rubs...well he asked,...

-- Modified on 10/7/2014 1:49:30 PM

Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
If a trick asks me what I like, I do actually mentions back and foots rub...well he asked,...
And I am often willing to provide them. I want my dates to enjoy their time with me. I get not all of them will be turned on by a small dick on a obese body and not all of them are going to get theirs. A good back rub is at least pleasurable.

If someone were to stand outside the door when I get a stellar foot rub, they would think I was having the best and longest orgasm. Those moans of pleasure are for real. I guess I have a clit on both feet...LOL

-- Modified on 10/7/2014 2:39:07 PM

I get my feet fondled and I do have a hard time not just letting out a very satisfied moan.

Getting a professional massage is also an amazing time for me...I guess my skin, being the largest of all our organs just loves the right type of touch and it literally can make me swoon with the release of chemicals it provokes.

It was an interesting sensation. Actually, no sensation, I just got really turned on by something, and then he said, "oh wow. I'm soaked." I felt it all over myself too.  

Maybe I gush, not squirt, during intercourse. I'm learning a lot about my kitty lately, that's for sure lol

JackDunphy1054 reads

In fact, it sounds like they already got to you. lol

I even put a rush on the request.  The likelihood that it's pee is slim...more like girly cum mixed with the dudes saliva.

When you squirt that fountain...yeah, that'll be pee.  Unless....you're one of those that really does squirt  LOL

JackDunphy1034 reads

The squirters here know fact certain it is NOT pee. How do they know? Very simple. They would NEVER piss on a client.

Does that clear it up for you, Doctor?

Posted By: EternalStudent
Ladies,  
   
 I've read numerous reviews how "I gave her 5 screaming O with DATY and then some more during intercourse":) We all understand that it is pure fiction. As a student of life I would like to get a provider perspective on that matter.  
 1. Do you  try to achieve O when you are with a hobbyist? How high is it in your priorities during session?  
***No, not attracted to 99% so no worries about that one. Never a priority.
 2. How often do you fake it?  
***All the time.
 3. What is your average number of O per customer?  Like number of O's you have in a day/week divided by the number of customers for that period.  
***Zero
 4. How would you compare your O  with a hobbyist and with a civie?  
***Can't because I don;t with johns.
   
 I realize that it is can be too public to answer these questions using your real handle, but I hope you can do it under alias.  And please feel free to add any of your thoughts and comments.  
 

Are we still going out this weekend to fly that kite?  Sorry about the last time...The Weather Channel wasn't forecasting storms.

JackDunphy1105 reads

are you sure no john ever rang your bell? Not even once? Ever? By sheer luck it should have happened once. lol

And you must hang out with some real ugly ones if you are only attracted to 1% of them.

Let me give you this opportunity to "extend and revise" your remarks.

Cut the crap HT. Gimme the REAL answers. lol

What I like in real life is sculpted and hard bodied. That rings my bell. Flab, cellulite, bad teeth, grabby, rough and other crap is not a turn on for me. No they are not all ugly, just not what I need as far as stimulation goes.  

Shit I have a couple that give awesome massage and that is as "turned on" as I get, but not in a sexual way. I love being touched but if being touched in a sexual way by someone I am not attracted to, well that just does nothing for me.  

Out comes the lube and the oohs and ahhs start. Hey I give great fake and even if the guys are aware I fake, they still come back so no harm done.

No need to extend or change my remarks, no need to lie either, I am anonymous.

Seriously could you get a boner with some old fat chick who flops down on you?

-- Modified on 10/7/2014 1:54:26 PM

JackDunphy1129 reads

I could proly come up with a bone for a fat chick if needed. Rosie O'Donnell excluded, of course.  

Whatever condition allows me to get my bone, I think Rosie holds the antidote for it.

Do you ever come to Utah?

I would love to exchange back and foot rubs, maybe a bath, and a happy ending for me. Honesty is sexy.

-- Modified on 10/7/2014 3:05:31 PM

I would love a bath, foot rubs, a massage (for us both...I give good massage) and a BBBJ for you

And I had to ask him to get off of me so I could breath...or at the very least prop his bulk up so my lungs could expand.

Skyfyre1384 reads

The way I see it the more a dude pay for pussy the more he needs to read this very honest and real answer.  

Just so he knows that the more he pays the better "acting" job he should expect to be entitled to (ROFL)

1. Do you try to achieve O when you are with a hobbyist? How high is it in your priorities during session?  Yes. I want to O
2. How often do you fake it? Never
3. What is your average number of O per customer?  Like number of O's you have in a day/week divided by the number of customers for that period.  Secret.
4. How would you compare your O with a hobbyist and with a civie?  Not into civis right now.

Side note*If a Hobbyist refuses to go down- I will try to avoid seeing him or refer him out
Also, if he’s not doing a good job I sit on his face  
If he’s saying silly annoying things the above works well, to

HandleWithCare963 reads

Pretty please?  :)

How does a guy know that a provider isn't faking it? IMO it's when she doesn't always O. 'course you need to have a few sessions with a provider to tell. Then it's not hard. Examples:

> ProviderA Os every single time, and not just once but several times during the session. Whatever I do, she has shuddering Os. FAAAAAAKE. (I'd like to think I'm that good, but I don't think so.)

> ProviderB Os nearly every time, but usually only once, sometimes twice in an hour, and in different ways. She'll give me hints if I'm not on-target. And usually she squirts when she does O (if she's a squirter). And when she doesn't O, she doesn't seem to mind and focuses on my O.  

I prefer the ProviderB type.

I love this response. I honestly just looked at the flight schedule to get to LA on the chance I could get a session with Alyssa. I know. What a sap.

I don't fully understand why, but many of you (with wonderful exceptions such as Alyssa) are very obsessed with your idea that if you pay for it, everything is fake. Those who disagree with you - or heaven forbid, a provider who doesn't fake it - are deluded losers.  

My problem is that I believe just about everything to do with interactions with people is on a bell curve. There are people like H&T. There are people like Alyssa. There are probably many even more cynical (excuse me, H&T would - I'm sure - say that she is simply realistic) than H&T and many even more sensual and free spirited than Alyssa. Some prefer one over the other. Some like the variety of it all.  

I have one favorite provider who is truly masterful at the fake O. The first time I sorta bought it. Maybe even the second. But then I realized what she was doing and I saw that there was a little twinkle of humor in her eyes as she played this game. So, then I started playing the "Escalated O" game with her. It was wild and fun. We shared many a laugh over it. But she didn't give me one sincere O. Maybe one of these times she will. Maybe she won't. But we've found a way to have a pretty wild, fun time together. Why should I obsess over whether she O's or not?

I have another favorite who I knew never O'd with me. About our 5th appointment when I went down on her she held my face in her hands and told me she'd teach me how to make her come. So now, *most* of the time she comes when I see her.

Note: My experience with O's may or may not be slightly different than that of some others. I always book 90 or 120 minute or longer sessions.

My point is that it's a wild, wonderful varied world out there. Grab your pleasure where you can as long as you don't hurt anybody in the process. But don't limit yourself or insist others do the same just to fit your view of what the world is like.

Still, this is just my opinion. You are all, of course, entitled to disagree to your heart's content.

Posted By: AlyssaHille
1. Do you try to achieve O when you are with a hobbyist? How high is it in your priorities during session?  Yes. I want to O  
 2. How often do you fake it? Never  
 3. What is your average number of O per customer?  Like number of O's you have in a day/week divided by the number of customers for that period.  Secret.  
 4. How would you compare your O with a hobbyist and with a civie?  Not into civis right now.  
   
 Side note*If a Hobbyist refuses to go down- I will try to avoid seeing him or refer him out  
 Also, if he’s not doing a good job I sit on his face  
 If he’s saying silly annoying things the above works well, too  
   
 
-- Modified on 10/8/2014 9:50:46 AM

-- Modified on 10/8/2014 9:51:27 AM

And there are many hookers who come during sessions. I am thinking that there are more that do than not according to what I read here if it is to be believed.

I have no reason not to be honest, and there is no cynicism here, just exactly how it is for me. If I was attracted to even some of my johns it might happen. I have a very specific type that I am attracted to, which makes sexual gratification for me almost impossible in this world. Hell it makes dating tough.  

Just because I fake to give my guys what they crave does not make me or any other hooker that does any less professional or caring...I fake because I do care. I could just as easily say "you might as well quit as it won't get me there" and ruin his illusion...HIS illusion.  

I know the type of guys who need to satisfy their partner in order to be fully satisfied themselves. I, like any actress, want my audience of one to be happy and so produce what it is he needs.  

With others, I have no need to fake as their impetus is self gratification and my sexual satisfaction is of little consequence.  

The cynics are those that feel all hookers fake and what ever comes out of a hookers mouth is a lie. Sure we do lie but in there sometimes there is truth.  And lying to preserve a johns feelings to me seems humane, especially if he places a hooker in an untenable position by asking a loaded question that does require a sensitive answer. After all, she has her business to protect first and foremost (at least that's how I see it) and his feelings.  

As a hooker, I don't know where each john lands on the scope of truth versus fabrication to compete the illusion.

EternalStudent1162 reads

Such honest and lovely discussion!!!

Now back to work,  I need to master my foot massage technique.

I make no apologies for loving what I do and for my general gift of the 'gasm. I come very easily and can come a zillion times if someone is willing to spend that much time down there. Believe me- they all tire out well before I'm done. But that's fine with me because I enjoy everything else about being together too. I can't honestly remember the last time I didn't O with a sexual partner! And the Os feel different with every human- no matter how we've come to be together.

I had an amazing encounter recently with someone and my knees are still weak. I love this world!! :)

I live in Florida and you are definitely on my list of attractions but your honesty is quite scary.   If I were to see you and you don't O, that would be absolutely demoralizing.  I would have to retire and concentrate on my hairy palm :)

Posted By: SoftlySarah
I make no apologies for loving what I do and for my general gift of the 'gasm. I come very easily and can come a zillion times if someone is willing to spend that much time down there. Believe me- they all tire out well before I'm done. But that's fine with me because I enjoy everything else about being together too. I can't honestly remember the last time I didn't O with a sexual partner! And the Os feel different with every human- no matter how we've come to be together.  
   
 I had an amazing encounter recently with someone and my knees are still weak. I love this world!! :)

She seems a very responsive lady and I am sure she will let you know what she needs.

VOO-doo832 reads

1. Do you  try to achieve O when you are with a hobbyist? How high is it in your priorities during session?  

Yes, I try. If it's possible for me to come, I will. There are two reasons for that: 1) If I 'get off' my client will enjoy the session more, and 2) Providing comprises my entire sex life right now, unless you count my vibrator. LOL. So I might as well try to enjoy myself, if possible.

2. How often do you fake it?  

Roughly about 50% of the time. Sometimes, it's just not gonna happen. Sandpaper chin (rubbed against clit), and getting fingers rammed up my ass are two guaranteed O-killers. FIP can be as well, if technique is bad.

3. What is your average number of O per customer?  Like number of O's you have in a day/week divided by the number of customers for that period.  

If I do O, between 1-3. After 3, it doesn't feel good anymore. Too much sensitivity. After #3, I'll fake it so that he leaves me alone down there and lets me focus on him.  

4. How would you compare your O  with a hobbyist and with a civie?  

In the hobby, there is no emotional component. And of course, the motivation is different.

1. Do you  try to achieve O when you are with a hobbyist? How high is it in your priorities during session?  
I've gotten pretty spoiled, so it's pretty high on the list now. I'll admit I do feel slight disappointment when he doesn't make an attempt. That's only happened a couple times, and I never saw them again.

2. How often do you fake it?  
Very rarely. If he likes to DATY, I can almost always get off that way. If he doesn't DATY but likes standing mish, I can reach down and get my own self off that way. If he's trying really hard, I'm taking a long time and it's just not going to happen, then I'll fake it. I don't want him to feel disappointed in himself.

3. What is your average number of O per customer?  Like number of O's you have in a day/week divided by the number of customers for that period. Usually 1 on a 1-hour and 1 or 2 on a 2-hour. I'll hold back on more than one if I have a few dates that day to save one for the next date. It seems important to a lot of gents, so I really do try to get one out for each one.

4. How would you compare your O  with a hobbyist and with a civie?  
A civie never gave me an O. My first orgasm that I didn't have to give myself was p4p. I embarrassed myself and cried right in front of him. I thought something was wrong with my body for all those years. LOL

Complete newbie here,

Is there any way to politely explain that I DON't want fake O's and an Oscar worthy performance?  I realize any visit will be a fantasy, but I like to give as much as receive and would much rather hear honest feedback. If DATY ain't working, I want to know so I can adjust my style. (Or move on to something else.) If a woman genuinely prefers one position or activity, I want to know. I enjoy just about everything, so why not focus on activities that are fun for everyone?

There are plenty of ways for two consenting adults to have fun so I see absolutely no reason to be bummed out if I can't provide a big "O".  I'll do my best to deliver, but for me it's about the journey, not ticking off items on a checklist.  

To be clear, I'm not looking for COMPLETE honesty. A few little white lies about my magnificent physique, legendary prowess and brilliant wit should suffice (grin).  I am, however, hoping to avoid any Oscar caliber performances.  

Again, I have zero experience, so please let me know if I'm off base. As you can tell, I'm open to feedback and suggestions.  

Many thanks!
Jack Sparrow
(Sailing into DC, Boston, or other ports once I find my compass.)

89Springer1523 reads

As I've said many times, there's two providers I've repeated with and will continue to do so. On the first "date", one was really overboard with the noise and chewing on the pillows. Hell, I'd only been in her for a minute or two.

I told her on the second date that I'd like to be able to make her feel good as well, but I can't tell if I'm succeeding if she's faking it. So she cut out the sound effects.

Now there's not a lot of noise, but I can get a better idea of when I'm making her feel good. I know I'm not going to send her into orbit, but giving her some pleasure helps me get off.

You might now know if it is an Oscar winning performance or the real thing

Once you know her you'll always be able to tell. Not with 100% certainty though. Also, if you're with her for more than an hour, you tend to get a pretty good feel for whether she's really lost it into an O or not. But I know one provider who had me guessing (I thought she probably was faking, but wasn't sure) for almost 90 minutes. Still, it was so damned much fun I didn't really care. And decided that paying too much attention to it was rather pointless. Especially since she was clearly having fun, too. Even if it wasn't orgasmic fun on her part.

Don't get me wrong. I love, I adore, I worship at the altar of the mutual O. But I learned back in the days the dinosaurs roamed the earth (there were dinosaurs at Woodstock weren't there?) that even the woman can't predict or control her own O (OK, for *most* women). If you try to apply "measurable goals" to lovemaking, you are going to seriously limit not only your fun. But you're not going to be a whole lot of fun for anybody else, either. [At least that is my philosophy] And I am all about maximizing the fun.

In case you are completely incredulous about the "able to tell" bit.. There are some clues that are impossible to fake. Dilated pupils. Sudden, major changes in secretion. Uncoordinated vs controlled movement (it doesn't take long to catalog a person's usual body language signals - most people don't have that many). Involuntary glottal stops. And so on.  

But no matter what I say, somebody will claim they can always fool you. And with that statement I will agree. For about an hour or so. And that isn't the point anyway. The only reason to be that hyper alert is to maximize the fun and be completely sure nobody is getting hurt. Not to out somebody for faking an O.

I was with a provider recently who had the "grower not a shower" type of clit.  Can't imagine she could fake that.  That would be like a guy faking a boner

I am lucky, I can cum with a little concentration and some muscle control.  Which means I never have to fake it even if the guy is very small or not very good.  Sure, most of the guys I see make it easy because I don't have to concentrate or try to cum, they work their magic and I'm over the moon.  So, I really do have 4 or 5 O's in a visit.  Of course I only see one man a day, sometimes one a week so I'm not spent before I get there.

Register Now!