but my definition of that "getting to know you time" is the minute or two that most K girls spend with their tongue half way down your throat while still standing just inside the front door. lol
I too am completely spoiled by Asian women. I usually take a shower right before heading out for an appointment, but I NEVER say no to a mutual shower with an Asian women. Some of these guys have NO IDEA what they are missing.
and yes, you black, white and brown girls should take notice. It's a great service that keeps many of us coming back for more.
One of the simplest joys in life is sharing a bath or shower with a lady. Washing the other and being washed. I would think ladies would want to offer this. Yet, the last few ladies I have seen don't.
After all how many posts about how we don't always wash have we read? This way they know we are freshly showered as the helped make sure of it. Also it gives them time to inspect the goods so to speak for visible signs of STDs. All pluses I would think.
I get the hair thing. But most hotels provide shower caps if you request them. I also get the makeup thing bat I ask her not to wear any makeup. I have had reactions as I am allergic to some makeups.
I don't like asking if certain activities are offered. I just really like taking showers or bathes with my partner. It is what it is. But why is this such a common no go. Not a deal breaker but, still it is something I enjoy.
Don't mind me I am just wining.
Since most gals take showers between clients they probably don't want to shower with you. Although many do offer to do this with their clients it's not for everyone.
I mean seriously. If you see 2 - 4 clients (or more) in a day, that's upwards of 8 showers before and after. Maybe more if you shower with them. (You still would have to clean up afterwards if he rubbed his junk on you in the shower. No?)
The towel logistics alone are staggering.
Also, in a shower you can't wear a rubber without danger of it coming off or breaking. Gals are (rightly so!) leery of that kind of thing I would think. A lot of guys would try to do something beyond washing in the shower and have to be handled differently. Soap burns in delicate places yet I'm sure some douchebag will try to insert a soapy FIV. The more I am writing this, the more reasons I am thinking of as to why they don't.
Be thankful for the ones who do and leave it at that
I do oiled body to body work, which most of the session is me in contact with your body for a good 30 to 40 minutes. I do wash thoroughly before and after each session. If I have been running around and need to freshen up I have no issue with you joining. I draw the line at insertion because I'm highly sensitive to soaps and it can cause an alergic reaction within minutes, which pretty much ends the session there. I would have to take Benadryl and rest most likely for the remainder of the day. So thanks for the courtesy in recognizing this.
Towels I only use a wash cloth if you have one available, if you prefer incall I always have fresh linens.
I mean seriously. If you see 2 - 4 clients (or more) in a day, that's upwards of 8 showers before and after. Maybe more if you shower with them. (You still would have to clean up afterwards if he rubbed his junk on you in the shower. No?)
The towel logistics alone are staggering.
Also, in a shower you can't wear a rubber without danger of it coming off or breaking. Gals are (rightly so!) leery of that kind of thing I would think. A lot of guys would try to do something beyond washing in the shower and have to be handled differently. Soap burns in delicate places yet I'm sure some douchebag will try to insert a soapy FIV. The more I am writing this, the more reasons I am thinking of as to why they don't.
Be thankful for the ones who do and leave it at that.
... to include B2B massage, especially nuru, in the session. You'll both need a shower after that, and can help each other get all the oil or nuru gel off.
egardless of our sesion I don't mind washing you before or after. I typically won't get in the shower or enjoy the washing aspect if I just hopped out myself, but I have no issue getting those hard to reach spaces. Now if what you're looking for runs longer than the typical soap down you'll want to seek out someone who offers "water ceremonies" we bring the essentials for the bath or shower. This typically runs 25-30 minutes depending on your preference and generally is an add on for a fee.
After all how many posts about how we don't always wash have we read? This way they know we are freshly showered as the helped make sure of it. Also it gives them time to inspect the goods so to speak for visible signs of STDs. All pluses I would think.
I get the hair thing. But most hotels provide shower caps if you request them. I also get the makeup thing bat I ask her not to wear any makeup. I have had reactions as I am allergic to some makeups.
I don't like asking if certain activities are offered. I just really like taking showers or bathes with my partner. It is what it is. But why is this such a common no go. Not a deal breaker but, still it is something I enjoy.
Don't mind me I am just wining.
"After all how many posts about how we don't always wash have we read?” This sentence MUST MEAN, you, the mice in your pocket and the monkey in your shoulder.
What makes you think others have poor hygiene as you?
I believe he's touching more on the pampering aspect and not so much the smelly part. That's why more and more are seeking out tantrikas and the like.
"After all how many posts about how we don't always wash have we read?” This sentence MUST MEAN, you, the mice in your pocket and the monkey in your shoulder.
What makes you think others have poor hygiene as you?
Note the question was about POSTS about unclean john's not about anyone person not being clean. I know I have read hundreds of posts about unclean guys. Hell I seen photos of shit stained sheets from guys posted on this very board. My wife complains about guys not freshly showered showing up and wanting her to blow them. Offering free shower time is how she handles it. I shower right before going to her incall and am clean to start. For me it isn't about getting clean, it is bring pampered but for the ladies knowing it is clean before she puts her mouth on it is a huge deal.
I am sure you will agree he is well qualified.
As we are getting into the home stretch, I don't want to take any chances of him not winning. lmao
Everyone else knew exactly what you were talking about, Fungy simply lives on another planet, called "Planet Grumpy" Honestly I don't think I have ever seen him in a good mood.
It's just too restrictive of an environment for me - most of the time the stalls are too small for two to comfortably fit. Then, someone is left to shiver while waiting to get under the spray. There's also the danger of slipping and falling, and the loud slapping of shower sex is too distracting for me. I'm all for chillin' in a big ol' whirlpool tub, though.
they don't waste a lot of time on 'getting to know you' conversation, but put the time to use getting mutually clean for the action to follow - and they usually make the shower time a lot of fun :p goddess help you if you have to suggest to a lot of other gals that they might want to freshen up...
but my definition of that "getting to know you time" is the minute or two that most K girls spend with their tongue half way down your throat while still standing just inside the front door. lol
I too am completely spoiled by Asian women. I usually take a shower right before heading out for an appointment, but I NEVER say no to a mutual shower with an Asian women. Some of these guys have NO IDEA what they are missing.
and yes, you black, white and brown girls should take notice. It's a great service that keeps many of us coming back for more.
I enjoy the soapy washing of each other. But, I don't normally do this before sex because we should both be clean. I guess if we went dancing after dinner and worked up a sweat, then I might ask if he would like to join me in the shower before sex.
I also like spending time in the larger tubs that some hotels have with my gentleman. I have done that both before and after sex. And sometimes we have sex while in the tub or shower.
After all how many posts about how we don't always wash have we read? This way they know we are freshly showered as the helped make sure of it. Also it gives them time to inspect the goods so to speak for visible signs of STDs. All pluses I would think.
I get the hair thing. But most hotels provide shower caps if you request them. I also get the makeup thing bat I ask her not to wear any makeup. I have had reactions as I am allergic to some makeups.
I don't like asking if certain activities are offered. I just really like taking showers or bathes with my partner. It is what it is. But why is this such a common no go. Not a deal breaker but, still it is something I enjoy.
Don't mind me I am just wining.
A woman's natural juices often get washed away by the water and so a silicon lube on hand works best.
It is real relaxing. I like the feeling of being pampered. It helps me unwind. Condom not needed as there isn't any penetration. I get sex at home but sometimes the pampering is lacking. Isn't the hobby at least in part about getting wants met that aren't getting met?
but just like in the AMPs where not much sexual usually happens during the table shower, except for a very thorough cleaning for what lies ahead of course, I like the pampering as well. That said, there is no reason to not go a little (or a lot) further in the shower if the lady is up to it.
Full service is an issue because water washing away both natural and man made lube, thus increasing condom breakage rate. That is an issue, but if lube is reapplied often enough that isn't an issue ether, so your right.
Although you might find some opposition from a small faction who feel it has to be sex from the time one walks in to the time one leaves. Sadly they seem way too short sighted to even consider that others might have needs that are not like that.
You are the type I cater to...sex plus intimacy. I do baths and massage and lots of stuff that my guys miss at home.
Just sayin lol
Let's face it. Many people don't look great with running makeup. Especially with damp, frizzy hair. And whether guys like it or not, we're thinking about that scoring system when we come and go. It's our livelihood.
A few things to consider as obstacles with outcalls and showering:
We walk out with make up everywhere, (which is extremely difficult to fix in the few minutes we have to leave,) and our hair is wet.
A quick blow dry, even with short hair, isn't the answer. I have very thick, wavy hair. It takes a while to dry and set. Some guys book an hour, and even if they want to cut the meeting short, (say they only need a half hour and your minimum is an hour,) they stand you up, turn you around, and just open the door for you to leave before even having the chance to check the mirror.
My suggestion for you: if you want outcall to you, book and pay for an extra half hour and give that time for her to dry up and primp up. Many would never pay for that, but if you want it that bad, I'm sure it would bump up your chances of it happening. Paying a little extra to have your fantasy fulfilled - as I say - money makes everyone happy. Just make sure you actually give her that time to get ready to leave the same as she came for her comfort. It can be very humiliating and frustrating walking out looking like a rat out of the rain.
All in all, being accommodating financially will make her choose you and your extra request over the guy who is easy and takes less preparation. You have to make it worth her while. Even booking a longer date may help.
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One of my first water ceremonies was in a smaller shower with a shower head that desperately needed some cleaning. No matter where I went the spray found me. I was soaked and as I came up from scrubbing his feet I made the statement "sexy huh?!?" He giggled and hugged me and said it was endearing. After toweling him off I wiped my eyes and continued the body rub portion. He repeated. I don't think too many men care what you look like as long as you're providing a quality session. Plenty of times I am dripping sweat from really getting the client relaxed. I joke about needing to make myself look as I did when I walked in and am offered time to bathe and freshen up the makeup. I can definitely understand the hair, which is why I now carry a terry cloth/ vinyl shower cap.
A few things to consider as obstacles with outcalls and showering:
We walk out with make up everywhere, (which is extremely difficult to fix in the few minutes we have to leave,) and our hair is wet.
A quick blow dry, even with short hair, isn't the answer. I have very thick, wavy hair. It takes a while to dry and set. Some guys book an hour, and even if they want to cut the meeting short, (say they only need a half hour and your minimum is an hour,) they stand you up, turn you around, and just open the door for you to leave before even having the chance to check the mirror.
My suggestion for you: if you want outcall to you, book and pay for an extra half hour and give that time for her to dry up and primp up. Many would never pay for that, but if you want it that bad, I'm sure it would bump up your chances of it happening. Paying a little extra to have your fantasy fulfilled - as I say - money makes everyone happy. Just make sure you actually give her that time to get ready to leave the same as she came for her comfort. It can be very humiliating and frustrating walking out looking like a rat out of the rain.
All in all, being accommodating financially will make her choose you and your extra request over the guy who is easy and takes less preparation. You have to make it worth her while. Even booking a longer date may help.
-- Modified on 9/29/2014 1:23:37 PM
I shower with the Provider I'm seeing when time allows. It's Great. We've had Sex in the shower a few times.
This was a modified water ceremony, but there's just something about being washed that's more intimate than sex -- yeah, a psychologist would have a field day!
Most of the replies up to now have focused on sex in the shower, but your post leads me to think you'd want full sex afterwards, and I'd agree. The shower is foreplay in a way that many may have not experienced.
There's a blog post by SexyCarolina that really captures what I think the woman's side might be like: http://sexyeroticablog.com/a-shower-for-two/
Yes, it ends with sex in the shower, but that's not a requirement from my side. I'd gladly take a lady to that point and let her decide where it goes.
Ceremonial baths with massage (she doesn't actually get in the tub usually) can usually be requested. One woman who really enjoys taking a bubble bath with me, unfortunately has only a small size tub, 4.5' x 2.5', so it's a little cramped to fully enjoy.
After all how many posts about how we don't always wash have we read? This way they know we are freshly showered as the helped make sure of it. Also it gives them time to inspect the goods so to speak for visible signs of STDs. All pluses I would think.
I get the hair thing. But most hotels provide shower caps if you request them. I also get the makeup thing bat I ask her not to wear any makeup. I have had reactions as I am allergic to some makeups.
I don't like asking if certain activities are offered. I just really like taking showers or bathes with my partner. It is what it is. But why is this such a common no go. Not a deal breaker but, still it is something I enjoy.
Don't mind me I am just wining.