for me it's always issues with condoms. i'm 6x4 inches so most normal condoms are too loose and they'll scrunch up and then fall off pretty quick. i'm fine with my length but it's my pathetic, below average girth that hurts me. most providers have smaller condoms on hand but i still carry a box of unopened kimonos or lifestyles snugger fits just in case. the problem is i don't like saying anything about it during a session so i just hope she'll realize right away that a regular condom won't work right. unfortunately some think a normal condom will be fine and this ends up with me being humiliated and ashamed of myself as we change condoms, even if she doesn't say anything. it's just awkward.
average girth is apparently 4.8-5.2 inches or something like that. i was gifted with other great physical attributes but when it came to my package i got screwed over due to genetics or whatever. sucks knowing i can never truly please a girl with my dick alone...
I have heard this line of talk from guys who pay to be humiliated for their "small" and "pathetic" (their words!) penises. If this arouses you, you are far from freakish! Just please recognize that this is YOUR self-talk, not your partners.
In reality, it is totally normal to (a) have a condom size/brand preference, and (b) to bring your own condoms. Your feelings of "humiliation" and "shame" are just, well...your feelings! Maybe you could explore them with a skilled domme
In reality, it is totally normal to (a) have a condom size/brand preference, and (b) to bring your own condoms. Your feelings of "humiliation" and "shame" are just, well...your feelings! Maybe you could explore them with a skilled domme?
Although we do enjoy ourselves; it's about you! Yes bring your own covers and just lay back and forget the rest.
I'm sure you've heard that "it's the motion of the ocean," right? Try adding a swirl to your repertoire (and a cock ring). On the bright side, she's probably happy that you've saved her a few kegels.
Would it make you feel better to see how you stack up with the rest of the world (see link)?
Would it make you feel better to see how you stack up with the rest of the world (see link)?
I've never used a cock ring, but one provider told me that she keeps some on hand to secure condoms on the small peens she encounters. I doubt that practice is FDA approved, so beware
anyway do any of you guys have experience with jelqing or other PE exercises?
You're better off focusing your energy on your sex skills and technique (such as kissing, licking, eating, lot's of variation in stroke, awareness of your partner's reactions...). P4P is good practice, which leads me to my next point: Women like confidence (and money) in a man, so work on that. She *will* worship your small penis if you just happen to be a cool ass muthafucka.
(BTW, "cool ass muthafucka" = decent, courteous, comfortable in one's own skin, good sense of humor)
First of all, WTF does your 6'4" (sez you) height have to do with the pathetic girth of your cock? Nothing. So why did you have to tell us? Can you also bench 400 lbs, like a certain temporarily banned member here? Is there anything else you'd like to tell us about yourself?
...knowing that there's no surprise hiding under his shorts.
re-read the OP. 6x4 is my dick stats lol. i've never even mentioned my height on here before (afaik) but i'm 6'1", which isn't exactly "tall". it's an inch or two above the average height for a white male. i'm not skinny or underweight either. 175 pounds is a perfectly normal/healthy weight for my build. anyway none of that matters but i just wanted to clear things up since you guys brought it up.
He never said he was 6'-4" tall.
Anyway, if his gay models are happy with him, why should it matter?
my little MacBook has a tiny screen and I didn't blow up Andy's post. Sorry
but it's not like you got a "real" post by a "real" poster all wrong. When responding to an obvious troll, who really cares if you get it wrong?
Laughing My Massively Thick Cock Compared To Yours Off!!
of the universe is composed of dark matter, which does not interact with condoms AT ALL. This is common knowledge, and not to rub it in or anything but it's predicted by String Theory. Does your dork rise when you are excited? If so, that is the anti-gravity manifestation of the dark matter anti-protons. Be proud when you are proud! Tell providers that you need special condoms to contain your matter.
All you can do is make the best of what you have and if you have a pencil dick well write poetry with that ish man. Motions/Oceans.
All any of us can do is accept our shortcomings and enhance our strong suits. I'm 5 1' (height not girth). Sure it would be awesome to have another 6 inches of gams but I just think of it as I'm bite size, petite, easy to lift and maneuver blah blah blah.
Lemons/Lemonade. If you're relatively attractive (not a 10/10 perhaps but decent enough), smell good and behave as normal as you possibly can the lady will like you just fine.
This honey pot get's it and even if she's not my type I will forever love grilled cheese just that much more.
Dat's a lot of cheese!
But she is rockin it!!! LOL!
If Andrew isn't happy with his penis, I am sure no other lady will be either.
You have to learn to love yourself, before anyone else will.
And when you learn that...
Rock that shit!!!!
Just like 'ol cheese-tits
;
...absolutely perfect!
Is that CPA's new handle?
We're supposed to honor and show respect to his god male model... LOL
It's an actual quote from psalm 81:10 ROFL 
It's in the book!
I don't believe this. I've never had a problem with any condom. (Though I'm sure magnums would be too large.) I have no idea what my length or girth is. I've probably used every brand/type of condom there is.
I consider this a troll post as well as all the others I can recall by you.
I consider this a troll post as well as all the others I can recall by you.
Still nothing to be embarrassed about. Women like men who own their junk. Trust me on this. And most will use yours if you tell them why. Trust me I know.
If he is smaller than average and has brought an unopened box of his brand I will use them. I would rather do that than one fall off inside me. scoed, you strike me as one confident dude who does in fact own his junk. Well done!
Andrew, Skyn latex free condoms work. Do the box of 12 with the red label. They are studded for the girl's pleasure, but I've noticed they stay on nice and snug for the long and lean. They're an interesting sensation for me and can be used on many sizes, but the studded ones hold on pretty nicely.
It is on the thin side but still. I am shorter and thinner. I still get the ladies off. It all about the most important sex organ any person has their mind. Be fun, creative, open to exploration, observant, confident, and listen and regardless of dick size you will satisfy your lover. Sex is more about what is up stairs than down there. For gods sake lesbians get each other off and they don't even have dicks. You worry to much about not being perfect. That isn't sexy. No one is perfect, so be the best lover you can be and happy and creative with what you have and you will have success, Be embarrassed of what you got and think crap like "I can never truly please a girl with my dick alone" and suck at love. I learned this the hard way. Now get out of your head and learn to fuck like a champ and own what you got. There is no reason to be embarrassed.
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Someone who has gotten to the root of the problem.
And the lesbian line.... classic gold there.
For many who do not orgasm by having a penis doing the old "in and out" , good oral skills are what matters the most. It might feel nice but "nice" doesn't cut it.
Basically, about 70% of women don't come vaginally or at least that is the number I have read about...if wrong please correct.
I think Andy should think himself lucky. Too big and those poor guys have trouble getting laid or at the very least putting it all in. With a small penis you get great oral ... to the base with no choking, plenty of PV action (less chance of the lady getting sore) and even Greek if she is into that.
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I think women with smaller breasts look terrific. I am sure many other guys think the same thing. Your size is probably a preference of many women too, like who don't want to walk like Chester from the old Gunsmoke for a week when they are done with you. We are who we are and that's all that we are- now go have some spinach, find a condom that fits, and have fun.
When someone glances at an erect penis, their mind's-eye responds to its DIAMETER rather than its girth (circumference). So, to put things into perspective, let's divide by pi: the diameter of Andy's cock is 1.27 inches, while the diameter of an average cock is 1.59 inches. That 5/16 inch difference is no doubt discernible to the eye, but it's not earthshaking.
Can a woman typically feel that difference? Providers please chime in.